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  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
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    I try to be a MILF every day. It's the best compliment a women that's had kids could get. To be so sexy that when you tell people you got kids, shocks them... that's just awesome.
  • CarlaRG
    CarlaRG Posts: 264
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    I think it's highly derogatory.

    Being a mother and a woman merits more than being reduced to an object of sexual desire by people who would pretty much sleep with anyone...your redeeming feature to these people is that you are someone who they would like to have sex with DESPITE the fact that you have had children..

    How could that make you feel attractive or respected? That having children would somehow NOT make you attractive any more?

    Women deserve more respect than this, but those that treat it as a compliment, then enjoy it I guess.

    Maybe if more men felt this way-and showed women that they were attractive and respected-women wouldn't find being called a MILF a compliment
  • GorillaNJ
    GorillaNJ Posts: 4,051 Member
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    I think it's highly derogatory.

    Being a mother and a woman merits more than being reduced to an object of sexual desire by people who would pretty much sleep with anyone...your redeeming feature to these people is that you are someone who they would like to have sex with DESPITE the fact that you have had children..

    How could that make you feel attractive or respected? That having children would somehow NOT make you attractive any more?

    Women deserve more respect than this, but those that treat it as a compliment, then enjoy it I guess.

    She will still not show you her boobs...
  • milf_n_cookies
    milf_n_cookies Posts: 2,244 Member
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    I hear it a lot, I embrace it.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    How could that make you feel attractive or respected? That having children would somehow NOT make you attractive any more?

    I lived in the suburbs long enough to think for a lot of womem, becoming a mother means also becoming quite dowdy. And snotty.

    (NOTE: "A lot" and not "all.")
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
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    Ive been called a MILF a time or two....:heart::drinker: :wink:

    I'd hit it.

    Id destroy you.

    Gosh!! Will people just stop hitting things!! Violence is not the answer!

    You say that because I bet you never had violent animal sex..thats why..trust me,,,violence is always the answer

    FYI cats have the most violent sex the males have a barb at the end of their penis. Although in retrospect the elephant seal has a violent sex life the males have been known to rip chunks of flesh from the females or even crush them.
  • Some_Watery_Tart
    Some_Watery_Tart Posts: 2,250 Member
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    How could that make you feel attractive or respected? That having children would somehow NOT make you attractive any more?

    I lived in the suburbs long enough to think for a lot of womem, becoming a mother means also becoming quite dowdy. And snotty.

    (NOTE: "A lot" and not "all.")

    You must live in my neighborhood. :laugh:
  • Grlnxtdr0721
    Grlnxtdr0721 Posts: 597 Member
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    Ive been called a MILF a time or two....:heart::drinker: :wink:

    I'd hit it.

    Id destroy you.

    Violence is never the answer...but in this case, I will let it slide :laugh:

    How YOU doin?

    In for sliding... :drinker:

    :drinker: Better now with these :wink:
  • phatguerilla
    phatguerilla Posts: 188 Member
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    Flattering! If you can give birth and still inspire lust and attraction, how is that objectifying you?

    This is sarcasm right? If a person says they'd like to **** you (which is what milf literally means) how could it not be objectifying?
  • drog2323
    drog2323 Posts: 1,386 Member
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    Did have one guy say it while pelvic thrusting.....that was a bit much.

    :laugh:
  • RllyGudTweetr
    RllyGudTweetr Posts: 2,019 Member
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    I think it's highly derogatory.

    Being a mother and a woman merits more than being reduced to an object of sexual desire by people who would pretty much sleep with anyone...your redeeming feature to these people is that you are someone who they would like to have sex with DESPITE the fact that you have had children..

    How could that make you feel attractive or respected? That having children would somehow NOT make you attractive any more?

    Women deserve more respect than this, but those that treat it as a compliment, then enjoy it I guess.
    Remember, fellas: a woman works out to be healthier, to feel better about herself, and to look better, and wants you to notice NONE of it, at all, ever, because that would be sexist. . . or something.
  • drog2323
    drog2323 Posts: 1,386 Member
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    i love this thread
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,908 Member
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    Ive been called a MILF a time or two....:heart::drinker: :wink:

    I'd hit it.

    Id destroy you.

    Gosh!! Will people just stop hitting things!! Violence is not the answer!

    You say that because I bet you never had violent animal sex..thats why..trust me,,,violence is always the answer

    FYI cats have the most violent sex the males have a barb at the end of their penis. Although in retrospect the elephant seal has a violent sex life the males have been known to rip chunks of flesh from the females or even crush them.

    You just made violent animal sex sound like a lot less fun. :frown:
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,742 Member
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    I used to find it super insulting, because I thought it meant I looked A) like a mom (I have NEVER wanted children and never will have children) and B) old. I am 36, so not a spring chicken, and there are loads of moms 15 years younger than me but for some reason it still bugged me!

    Then one of my nutty, zany male friends said, "Look online at the category of MILF porn, and you will understand why people have called you that. It means a hot 30-something and older woman with a fully female figure, not a little girl "barely legal" type and not a BBW, either"

    So honestly now I view it as a compliment! I think he's right. haha
  • booncey
    booncey Posts: 75 Member
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    Some moms get so wrapped up in their kids lives that they forget to take care of themselves. They let themselves "go". I have been guilty of this in the past and gained some weight and wore "dowdy" clothes to hide it...becoming the opposite of MILF. So, after working my *kitten* off to get myself back in shape and trying to look my best, I don't have a problem with the occasional "tacky" compliment. Although it is not the most proper way to compliment a lady...still a compliment just the same.

    Still prefer the term "hot soccer mom" ;)
  • bluefox9er
    bluefox9er Posts: 2,917 Member
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    I think it's highly derogatory.

    Being a mother and a woman merits more than being reduced to an object of sexual desire by people who would pretty much sleep with anyone...your redeeming feature to these people is that you are someone who they would like to have sex with DESPITE the fact that you have had children..

    How could that make you feel attractive or respected? That having children would somehow NOT make you attractive any more?

    Women deserve more respect than this, but those that treat it as a compliment, then enjoy it I guess.
    Remember, fellas: a woman works out to be healthier, to feel better about herself, and to look better, and wants you to notice NONE of it, at all, ever, because that would be sexist. . . or something.

    Might come as a shock to YOU but there could be the faintest possibility that women really couldn't give a sun-dried turd about YOU if they look good? again, not to destroy your ego, but they might well work to get in shape for THEMSELVES and not for YOUR approval...

    just sayin'
  • booncey
    booncey Posts: 75 Member
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    I think it's highly derogatory.

    Being a mother and a woman merits more than being reduced to an object of sexual desire by people who would pretty much sleep with anyone...your redeeming feature to these people is that you are someone who they would like to have sex with DESPITE the fact that you have had children..

    How could that make you feel attractive or respected? That having children would somehow NOT make you attractive any more?

    Women deserve more respect than this, but those that treat it as a compliment, then enjoy it I guess.
    Remember, fellas: a woman works out to be healthier, to feel better about herself, and to look better, and wants you to notice NONE of it, at all, ever, because that would be sexist. . . or something.

    Might come as a shock to YOU but there could be the faintest possibility that women really couldn't give a sun-dried turd about YOU if they look good? again, not to destroy your ego, but they might well work to get in shape for THEMSELVES and not for YOUR approval...

    just sayin'

    I could definitely see why being called MILF would offend you since you are MALE? Why are you even arguing this point of the possibility that a woman could be offended. If the MAJORITY of the women on this thread are not offended, why are you?
  • catrinaHwechanged
    catrinaHwechanged Posts: 4,907 Member
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    I think it's highly derogatory.

    Being a mother and a woman merits more than being reduced to an object of sexual desire by people who would pretty much sleep with anyone...your redeeming feature to these people is that you are someone who they would like to have sex with DESPITE the fact that you have had children..

    How could that make you feel attractive or respected? That having children would somehow NOT make you attractive any more?

    Women deserve more respect than this, but those that treat it as a compliment, then enjoy it I guess.
    Remember, fellas: a woman works out to be healthier, to feel better about herself, and to look better, and wants you to notice NONE of it, at all, ever, because that would be sexist. . . or something.

    Might come as a shock to YOU but there could be the faintest possibility that women really couldn't give a sun-dried turd about YOU if they look good? again, not to destroy your ego, but they might well work to get in shape for THEMSELVES and not for YOUR approval...

    just sayin'

    Ummm.....I approve of male approval.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    You know the "frienemy" word. This situation needs a word like that too.

    Flattered + insulted

    OR

    Flattered + offended

    For MILF, Cougar, still-have-a-pretty-face and skinnyfat situations.
  • chunkydunk714
    chunkydunk714 Posts: 784 Member
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    some people are waaay to fkn uptight.

    Total compliment

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