question 4 ppl who understand what thick means

OP, forget all the people here who say to dump him. I don't know how people can think they have the right to tell you to make that big of a decision from the little that you told us about ur bf. For example, my bff in the whole wide world and I are always "dissing" each other, but in a good way. It depends on how things are said sometimes and the character of the person who said it.

On another note, to answer your original question, I think thick means not skinny, not fat, just nice muscular build with just enough body fat to not have well defined muscles. It's a look I like too, but like someone else mentioned, we're not all genetically disposed to have that look. If you are, then you probably just need to work on lifting heavy weights to get the muscle part down. That's what I'm currently in the process of doing.

I won't offer any advice on what to say to your bf (although a few things come to mind) because you didn't ask for that. Good luck!

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if you love him have a serious talk with him and don't listen to these people that say dump him. relationships take hard work if you run away every time you will never have time to make the relationship strong. just like bodybuilding if you put the weights down just cause it gets hard and hurts you will never grow


Si vis pacem, para bellum

Good point...

I would still dump him!

OP, forget all the people here who say to dump him. I don't know how people can think they have the right to tell you to make that big of a decision from the little that you told us about ur bf. For example, my bff in the whole wide world and I are always "dissing" each other, but in a good way. It depends on how things are said sometimes and the character of the person who said it.

On another note, to answer your original question, I think thick means not skinny, not fat, just nice muscular build with just enough body fat to not have well defined muscles. It's a look I like too, but like someone else mentioned, we're not all genetically disposed to have that look. If you are, then you probably just need to work on lifting heavy weights to get the muscle part down. That's what I'm currently in the process of doing.

I won't offer any advice on what to say to your bf (although a few things come to mind) because you didn't ask for that. Good luck!

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^this depending on the guy and the relationship it's just how you guys converse. Last time I had a fight with hubby and I said "what would you do if you were in my shoes?" and he answered "i would never be in your shoes" his usual answer meaning I have to learn to prevent problems a longstanding goal of mine and he says it to remind me, but this time he added "cause those shoes are ugly" since I'd just bought new shoes and he had kept quiet about them but i guess chose that moment to admit it, or just wanted to add a silly insult to win. IDK all I know is I found it nearly impossible to continue the argument to closure to figure out what needed to be done, due to that silly and haylarious additional "insult". we joke around here. we "play" when we fight and I cringe to think what an onlooker might think because both being from certain work backgrounds we are able to say it with such a straight face as to seem serious.

I"m looking for a pic of "thick" as that seems like the only way to get it across. it's like slender but not "athletic" but a little bit fuller without being fat.

this might be it

it even comes with instructions. squat. and just do it.

Eh, its one thing to joke around, dish and take it playfully. Its a whole other thing when the person who is supposed to love you says hurtful things and makes you feel bad about yourself / question your body. My ex did that...he made hurtful comments that took me years to get over even after our breakup. And I still have my moments.

Anyway, yeah thick generally means small waist, bigger butt / thighs. Not fat or flabby. I have disproportionately large butt and thighs compared to my upper body...even when I was down to a size 4 guys still described me as thick not cause I was big, I wasnt at all...but because of the way my body is shaped. A big ouch for people making derogatory remarks about that body type...cant be helped, and some of us with that body shape do like our bodies indeed.

On that note, its not something really that you can get...just like how I will never have a ruler body shape no matter how small I get, one cant hope to change into a pear / and move on towards having the small waist / disproportionately large butt and thighs no matter how much they gain. Its not about weight, its the shape of the body.

people vote on if you think this is "thick". what he might mean? and a bunch more to follow just vote so OP can see if this is what it means.

remember guys...NO BODY SHAMING. I'm really into this thread as a way to be accepting of different standards of beauty.

by the way this one had the caption of "some of the best bodies in showbiz". I think it might be ciara but I'm not sure.

He sounds thick enough for the both of you.

ooooooohhhhh.......

MCD, this one just made me whimper a little...

Dump him, he's an f'ing idiot.