What did they mean by this? Can't stop crying

By the sounds of it and your stats I think you may have either misheard or misunderstood what they have said.

However by getting so upset you have given them the power over you. The comment has come from two random strangers who are probably bored while driving around - they have since forgotten their remark and carried on with their life.

I know remarks can be upsetting especially if you have low self esteem but are they really worth it?

I hope you are feeling better. if that is your pic then you are beautiful and courageous for talking about it.

I will never understand why people care so much about what others think or say about others.

Looking at your pic I think you look great in fact you look as juicy as some bacon.

Bacon -

1.quite possibly the greatest thing ever conceived by mankind and is frequently called the tastiest thing around
it can be eaten (devoured) with everything
and in some cultures is used as a mating ritual

Those were just a couple idiots that have no idea how to communicate with a smokin hawt female ......

Anyways ..., Bacon is yummy, one of the best things on earth. I would think this is what they meant .... You looked yummy .....

y are you not in the kitchen making breakfast..get off the computer and go make.

Go measure your **** somewhere else mate!!

Looking at your pic and knowing your a size 6, you must have misheard them or they are idiots and didn't mean it like that. Men say stupid things all the time without thinking. Your so pretty, I cant imagine they would do that.

BTW I love bacon, who doesn't? :laugh:

It's a couple of *kitten* hats in a van who could have meant any number of things, none of which is relevant to who you are or how you look.

You do look great!

So work on bringing your confidence up in line with your appearance.

^^OH THIS!!^^

Don't forget that you can make a choice about your size, but they can't choose to get intelligent

Wow..I live in the UK too and have never head that sort of remark, but regardless, it has made you upset.

you are an attractive young woman and really..just ignore these sorts of comments.

Alternatively...take up running and bombard them with snot rockets. You'd be surprised how accurate you become the more you run.

Agree with this, especially the snot rockets!

I think that the issue you are really wanting us to help with is not that they shouted at you but that you heard what ever it was that they said as an insult and got very upset about it. Have you thought doing some kind of course in self esteem boosting? They do have some very good results and give you few tools by which you can build up your resilience. I know one very simple technique which will feel incredibly cheesey and 'like how can that work?' but if you look at yourself in the mirror each morning and say out loud something like 'look at me, I'm beautiful , I have a lovely figure and am a kind and friendly person. People really like me, I know they do' and slowly it will sink in and you will accept that it is true.

Another thing to try, which takes some practice too, is if something negative happens - like these blokes - you need to turn it around in your head (it's called reframing). So instead of saying 'oh they shoutined something at me, it's because I'm fat', you need to throw that thought away and say 'what stupid jerks, sexist pigs shouting stuff at people from the safety of their van' It's their problem not yours.

HTH
xx

OK, here's what happened (imho).

My husband was an *kitten* when he was younger (like high school. he's nicer now). He said he and his friends thought it was hilarious to yell things just like that to thin girls who were outside exercising. They would actually target thin girls--not heavy ones. They thought it was hilarious to "get in their heads."

What. Effing sociopaths. That's a step beyond ordinary brutality. Or maybe it's not. Jesus.