What's your 'Selfish Reason'?

I want to look good enough to where a woman would want me before I ever said anything. I think it would be awesome to catch someone checking me out.

From where I am sitting, you look pretty damn fine already.

Out of my siblings I've always been written off as the plain, chubby, bookish one.
And I refuse to be shoehorned into a stereotype.

I wanna prove to everyone that said I couldn't, that I CAN and AM! And feel great and sexy in clothes!

This is so vain...haha

Even though I am married I like to turn heads and to have people flirt with me. I have no intention of doing anything but its a great boost to the ego...haha

I really want to wear yoga shorts to show off my butt.

People that I haven't seen in a long time are shocked when they see me now, I can even imagine what they will do when I get to my goal weight.

I want to not only weight less but show my muscles and look like an athlete. Skinny is much easier than fit.

I want to be able to take my shirt off in public without being embarrassed.

.....oh, and to have the ladies flirt with me :-)

Don't judge, we all love being flirted with!!

I'm not gonna lie - I want to look HOT! I've always been the big one in my group of friends and have always been bigger than my sisters. It sucks to be walking somewhere with friends, and a man stops to talk to them, and you're completely ignored. I've never worn a 2-piece bathing suit, never wore leather pants, never been the cute one; just the nice, fat friend. Sounds vain, but I want all of that - to turn heads and look sexy!

I have this fantasy of not seeing my friends and family for maybe 6 months, then walking into the room with everyone gasping and barely being able to recognize me (and maybe a few people that made fun of me back in the day for being fat to look at me with complete envy, hahaha!). That would be so awesome.

I wanta look good naked

I'm always referred to as the pretty girlfriend. It's not a bad thing, but I'd like to be able to wear a bikini and shock people! I want the "dang!" appeal instead of the "oh, she's pretty" appeal.

And a lot of my family is pretty heavyset. I certainly wouldn't mind being that annoyingly skinny person.

MY SELFISH REASONS:


❤ to get MORE free money, favors, & stuff

❤ to get rid of my chubby face

❤ to walk in any room or place & have even MORE eyes on me

❤ to be married/takened mens' wet dream

❤ to get even MORE compliments & stares



I'm naturally beautiful & get told all the time (just being 100% bluntly honest).

But an attractive face can only get you so far. Plus being in L.A. doesn't help :laugh:

So i want a hotter body to match! :happy:

I want people to be shocked when I tell them I have 4 kids.... not because I have FOUR kids, but because I don't look like I've ever been pregnant.

Even though I am married I like to turn heads and to have people flirt with me. I have no intention of doing anything but its a great boost to the ego...haha

^ This. It gets my husband jealous and what it does to his libido is fantastic. So I guess my reason is to be flirted with by strangers and to have more fabulous sack sessions with my husband

To be able to tell people i can bench press and squat large amounts of weight. Also not to have to walk in to the plus size side of any store ever again!

I can't think of a selfless reason I'm losing weight. It's not for the starving children in Africa, that's for sure.

I like shopping. I LOVE shopping when I look good in lots of things

I like making whoopee with my husband. I LOVE it when I feel great about myself.

I prefer to look good in bikinis when I'm at the beach.

I like liking the way I look in photos, instead of refusing to even look at them.

When I'm healthy and strong, I am the epitome of confidence.

Scrubs are expensive and I don't want to buy a bigger size

i have to take the married guy side of this...

to have hot chicks wanna bang me.

This

Some people are only nice to good looking guys, I wan't to be treated nice and be acknowledged as a human being.