She's hotter than me?
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how you got so plumpy?
Your only 19 and it would seem you have been with this guy since you where 14, so are you comparing your weight to when you where 14?
I started gaining weight at 15 when I was put on different meds.
I wish you the best dear.
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Sorry. I am not in agreement with a lot of people here. I would not let this just roll of my back. No man should ever say ANYONE is hotter than the woman he is with, especially to that woman. You deserve to be respected by your man and no woman should ever allow a man to make her feel as though she isn't good enough for him.
You ARE gorgeous! Your eyes are amazing.0 -
...neither of us have done anything more than said hurtful things to eachother and I'm sure all couples do that...
Just to say no, not all couples do that.
This. I have never in my life said something intentionally hurtful to a boyfriend. I've never called one of them a *kitten* or an *kitten*. I've never called one of them stupid. I've never even told a boyfriend to shut up. I would not put up with him speaking to me like that, so I certainly wouldn't do it to him.
It really saddens me to see what girls view as perfectly normal relationship behavior these days.0 -
oh, his behavior is completely normal for someone who hasn't been told, in complete seriousness, to knock it the eff off. Guys would pull it on me until I told them to try to get those girls. I had a rather big ego when I met my bf, so he already figured out not to say anyone was better than me.
if this guy hasn't been told it bugs her, he's assuming it's fine to do.
Exactly this. My husband used to do that same thing all the time. I guess his ex's in the past weren't bothered by it, or didn't stand up for themselves to tell him it bothered them. I finally exploded on him one day and asked him to stop pointing out every single hot female on the planet. He was surprised it bothered me....it had never even crossed his mind that it might be a bad thing. But since I asked him to please stop, he hasn't done it since out of respect for me. So you might just need to tell him straight up.
Just an example: when we first started out, we were talking about various hot chics. I said I wwnted to try to doll myself up like one. His response was, "you dont have to. These girls look good, yes, but where natural beauty comes in, you win."
Sorry, but that's really something I feel every woman should be told.0 -
Don't ever try to compare yourself to others, you're beautiful, and don't get in shape for your boyfriend. Do it for you! Be the best you that you can be and love and respect yourself for it!0
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I honestly feel like I've put out the wrong vibe about my boyfriend. he's really not as bad as some of you may think now. he's really good to me despite the ocassional comment that may hurt my feelings...0
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I would honestly just swoon over all of your celebrity male crushes. Don't get mad, get even. What slightly irks me is when regular people don't understand... not even ~THEY~ look that way. It's all a lie.0
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Okay, so, my boyfriend has all these little crushes on these women on tv. We've been together for just about forever so it doesn't really bother me. What does bother me is hearing "sorry, but she's the hottest woman in the world." No girl wants to hear that right? Well, should I just let it roll off my back and let it be motivation to get in shape? Cuz I know I would be just as pretty as some of these women if I would just lose some weight. I have a nice face, and a nice shape(not trying to be stuck up by no means), but I'm just overweight... I carry my weight well but i have a lil too much of it. if I lose like 50 lbs, I feel like he wouldn't keep saying that to me. Maybe he's just trying to motivate me??
By the way, I have been having a tad bit of trouble staying on my new healthy life style change here lately. If you'd like to add me and help out with that, feel free
My husband and I say crap like that all the time. And I know that it isn't the popular opinion, but I think it is more disrespectful to lie to your partner by pretending that no one else in the world is remotely attractive.
He and I went through this exact same thing a few years ago when I gained about 75 pounds being pregnant. So when I noticed that my sensitivity had changed to his comments, I talked to him about it. Told him that I was feeling insecure, and so I needed him to tone it down a little for a while. He did, I lost the weight, and all was well.0 -
My husband and I say crap like that all the time. And I know that it isn't the popular opinion, but I think it is more disrespectful to lie to your partner by pretending that no one else in the world is remotely attractive.
So the only two choices are to constantly gush over others' appearances or pretend everyone else is ugly? Those are the only choices??0 -
Okay, so, my boyfriend has all these little crushes on these women on tv. We've been together for just about forever so it doesn't really bother me. What does bother me is hearing "sorry, but she's the hottest woman in the world." No girl wants to hear that right? Well, should I just let it roll off my back and let it be motivation to get in shape? Cuz I know I would be just as pretty as some of these women if I would just lose some weight. I have a nice face, and a nice shape(not trying to be stuck up by no means), but I'm just overweight... I carry my weight well but i have a lil too much of it. if I lose like 50 lbs, I feel like he wouldn't keep saying that to me. Maybe he's just trying to motivate me??
By the way, I have been having a tad bit of trouble staying on my new healthy life style change here lately. If you'd like to add me and help out with that, feel free
My husband and I say crap like that all the time. And I know that it isn't the popular opinion, but I think it is more disrespectful to lie to your partner by pretending that no one else in the world is remotely attractive.
He and I went through this exact same thing a few years ago when I gained about 75 pounds being pregnant. So when I noticed that my sensitivity had changed to his comments, I talked to him about it. Told him that I was feeling insecure, and so I needed him to tone it down a little for a while. He did, I lost the weight, and all was well.
see? thank you. it's nice to have advice from someone who's been through the same thing.0 -
Oh, Milla Jojovich is hot.0
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I honestly feel like I've put out the wrong vibe about my boyfriend. he's really not as bad as some of you may think now. he's really good to me despite the ocassional comment that may hurt my feelings...
The problem is, emotional abuse it worse than physical abuse. You say you have low self esteem, well, you are letting your boyfriend keep your esteem low by knocking you down instead of building you up. He is emotionally abusing you by telling you that you aren't hot enough for him, basically. And what exactly does this guy of YOURS look like??0 -
So the only two choices are to constantly gush over others' appearances or pretend everyone else is ugly? Those are the only choices??0
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I honestly feel like I've put out the wrong vibe about my boyfriend. he's really not as bad as some of you may think now. he's really good to me despite the ocassional comment that may hurt my feelings...
The problem is, emotional abuse it worse than physical abuse. You say you have low self esteem, well, you are letting your boyfriend keep your esteem low by knocking you down instead of building you up. He is emotionally abusing you by telling you that you aren't hot enough for him, basically. And what exactly does this guy of YOURS look like??
He's never said I'm not hot enough for him. he's always telling me that I'm beautfiul and sexy and what not.
and idk how to upload pics on here but he's really tall, buff in the arms, blue eyes blonde hair.. umm idk lol I think hes absolutely gorgeous.. I have apic of us on my account.0 -
I honestly feel like I've put out the wrong vibe about my boyfriend. he's really not as bad as some of you may think now. he's really good to me despite the ocassional comment that may hurt my feelings...
The problem is, emotional abuse it worse than physical abuse. You say you have low self esteem, well, you are letting your boyfriend keep your esteem low by knocking you down instead of building you up. He is emotionally abusing you by telling you that you aren't hot enough for him, basically. And what exactly does this guy of YOURS look like??
My SO finds Jenna Elfman very attractive. She's 5'10" (at least), athletic shape, blond. I'm 5'3", curly red hair, hourglass figure. The fact that I will never look like Jenna doesn't mean he doesn't also find me attractive.
He's also told me that if he had the chance to leave me for Salma Hayek, he would. But we both know he's not serious and especially because that opportunity is as likely to come as me looking like Jenna Elfman one day.
Also, despite his saying those things, he has also told me that I have the body shape that "all men" lust after. Now, I know that isn't true, but he's really speaking about himself, which is the only opinion that matters in this case (besides my own).0 -
I honestly feel like I've put out the wrong vibe about my boyfriend. he's really not as bad as some of you may think now. he's really good to me despite the ocassional comment that may hurt my feelings...
The problem is, emotional abuse it worse than physical abuse. You say you have low self esteem, well, you are letting your boyfriend keep your esteem low by knocking you down instead of building you up. He is emotionally abusing you by telling you that you aren't hot enough for him, basically. And what exactly does this guy of YOURS look like??
HOLY CRAP! Jumping to conclusions is great and leaping to the worst case scenarios always solves problems lol. No where in her statement did she say that he said sh is not hot enough for him. Men are capable of seeing all types on beauty and physical attributes are only a small portion of a healthy relationship. Honesty is another......0 -
Okay, so, my boyfriend has all these little crushes on these women on tv. We've been together for just about forever so it doesn't really bother me. What does bother me is hearing "sorry, but she's the hottest woman in the world." No girl wants to hear that right? Well, should I just let it roll off my back and let it be motivation to get in shape? Cuz I know I would be just as pretty as some of these women if I would just lose some weight. I have a nice face, and a nice shape(not trying to be stuck up by no means), but I'm just overweight... I carry my weight well but i have a lil too much of it. if I lose like 50 lbs, I feel like he wouldn't keep saying that to me. Maybe he's just trying to motivate me??
By the way, I have been having a tad bit of trouble staying on my new healthy life style change here lately. If you'd like to add me and help out with that, feel free
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SHE said she has low self esteem. He is feeding into it. She already that he apologizes afterwards when she says it hurts her to hear that. So, he knows it hurts her, yet he keeps on doing it?! He is a jerk, plain and simple. Someone with low self esteem isn't going to get better self esteem with a loved one saying such things. Saying "I'm sorry" then doing the same thing over and over again is NOT being sorry.
I have been in her shoes before. And YES, it is a form of emotional abuse to have someone you love put you down by constantly pointing out how others look better, especially when they know you have low self esteem.I honestly feel like I've put out the wrong vibe about my boyfriend. he's really not as bad as some of you may think now. he's really good to me despite the ocassional comment that may hurt my feelings...
The problem is, emotional abuse it worse than physical abuse. You say you have low self esteem, well, you are letting your boyfriend keep your esteem low by knocking you down instead of building you up. He is emotionally abusing you by telling you that you aren't hot enough for him, basically. And what exactly does this guy of YOURS look like??
HOLY CRAP! Jumping to conclusions is great and leaping to the worst case scenarios always solves problems lol. No where in her statement did she say that he said sh is not hot enough for him. Men are capable of seeing all types on beauty and physical attributes are only a small portion of a healthy relationship. Honesty is another......0 -
I think it's a little silly to assume that your spouse is going to find you the most attractive person in the world. What happens when you get old? I think it's better to be more realistic. Realize that he finds you attractive and more importantly he loves you for things beyond physical beauty.0
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