goal weight? 108-100?

Could she possibly mean he might not want her to weigh 99lbs?

I'm happy at 120, OP.

thank you for being the first person to look at that comment objectively, he simply cares for my health, more then i seem to sometimes

I'm translating this to mean there's a limit to how skinny she can get before he gets concerned for her health.

at least someone could translate it

I'm trying to imagine a life where someone else told me how much I could weigh.

Her husband might be her checks and balance to make sure she doesn't go overboard? I asked my husband to do this, since I tend to push things to the limit, and I wanted to make sure I was keeping a healthy perspective on my weight loss.

Yes that is basically what it is. he tells me everyday that it doesnt matter if i lose a little more weight, stay the same, or gain everything that ive lost back. he thinks i look great and always has but it me that isnt happy, he respects that i want to lose weight and is helping me to do it the healthy way although he knows i may take it too far so he is here to help me stay healthy

my goal weight is around 108-100 pounds (depending on what hubby lets me get away with) whats yours

Okay everyone im going to add to this and clear a few things up for everyone.... i said the above comment about my husband as a joke, however serious i may have been. Yes we have a disagreement with what i should and should not weigh. even though its not everyone's business to avoid any further bashing of my relationship ill tell you why we dont agree on this topic.

im 5'3" and there is a reason he is concerned about my weight. im recovering from years of an eating disorder, and he is worried that i may slip up if i start to become too thin. when we had met originally i was actually heavier then my current goal weight, i was about 114-115, and i was there by extremely unhealthy means, my stomach was con-caved in, you could count my ribs, and my hip bones were always bruised on account of the lack of fat that covered them.
THIS time im much healthier, i have clean eating habits, and a full 180 lifestyle change. im almost the same weight i was when we met but look so different you would never believe it in pictures.
My husband is here to keep me from going too far, and thats all i had ment by the above comment everyone is so concerned with.
and NO my relationship is not unhealthy it is actually extremely healthy filled with love, and care, and kindness. and just because im at a young age doesn't give you the right to judge something that you have no freaking clue about.

thank you to all the people that didnt assume the worst by my comment, and you actually cared to figure out if there was something else here, another reason that my comment would make more sense without assuming im in a horrid overly controlled relationship with someone who i have to ask if i can pee... i assure everyone who is "concerned" that is not the case.