Why men never get compliments?

SwitzEngine
SwitzEngine Posts: 3,418 Member
Hi

I noticed that women get a lot more compliments than men. Why is this?
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  • 43932452
    43932452 Posts: 7,246 Member
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  • AshleyM71
    AshleyM71 Posts: 3,029 Member
    I think you are a curry, if that helps. :)
  • BonnieandClyde29
    BonnieandClyde29 Posts: 1,026 Member
    not sure sexy, but uh before I got married I would straight up tell a strange guy hey i think you look great or hot or whatever!! I don't do it at clubs though that backfires usually lol, and now that I'm married i "joke" with my husband female or male and say "I want that one!!!, can we take them home?" LOL
  • SwitzEngine
    SwitzEngine Posts: 3,418 Member
    I just ate a curry. Do you mean the same?
  • karenertl
    karenertl Posts: 271 Member
    Hi

    I noticed that women get a lot more compliments than men. Why is this?

    I don't know. I think you look great in your pic.
  • TheRealOrson
    TheRealOrson Posts: 1,415 Member
    Whiteknights bro......whiteknights ruining it for all of us.
  • YaGigi
    YaGigi Posts: 817 Member
    Because its a gender stereotype that men should be giving compliments not the other way around.

    Try gay clubs. You might get enough compliments and admires there.
  • choijanro
    choijanro Posts: 754 Member
    Because men are mostly negative people or jerks or *kitten*,,

    like example im a men,, a very friendly,nice,cool & good guy compliment a *kitten* men,,

    Me: hey bro u look handsome today?
    *kitten*: are u gay? u stupid *kitten*,,


    but vice versa

    *kitten*: are u gay?
    ME: nope im not ,, wanna see my beautiful girlfriend or i will f**k ur mom or ur sister? u son of a f***king *kitten* haha,,,



    but when nice guys compliment each other or positive people

    Me: nice abs u got there bro?
    Nice guy: tnx bro,, but ur abs is nicer than me,, but i will catch up with u so that my abs are better than urs,,




    Hehe hope u guys understand this and hope this helps
  • SwitzEngine
    SwitzEngine Posts: 3,418 Member
    Because its a gender stereotype that men should be giving compliments not the other way around.

    Try gay clubs. You might get enough compliments and admires there.

    No way
  • lol way 2 fish man
  • TheRealOrson
    TheRealOrson Posts: 1,415 Member
    Because men are mostly negative people or jerks or *kitten*,,

    like example im a men,, a very friendly,nice,cool & good guy compliment a *kitten* men,,

    Me: hey bro u look handsome today?
    *kitten*: are u gay? u stupid *kitten*,,


    but vice versa

    *kitten*: are u gay?
    ME: nope im not ,, wanna see my beautiful girlfriend or i will f**k ur mom or ur sister? u son of a f***king *kitten* haha,,,



    but when nice guys compliment each other or positive people

    Me: nice abs u got there bro?
    Nice guy: tnx bro,, but ur abs is nicer than me,, but i will catch up with u so that my abs are better than urs,,




    Hehe hope u guys understand this and hope this helps


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  • choijanro
    choijanro Posts: 754 Member
    Because its a gender stereotype that men should be giving compliments not the other way around.

    Try gay clubs. You might get enough compliments and admires there.


    haha,, how about no,and thats escalated quickly,,, and u win the internet for today mam,,geez i just lol,,
  • choijanro
    choijanro Posts: 754 Member
    Because men are mostly negative people or jerks or *kitten*,,

    like example im a men,, a very friendly,nice,cool & good guy compliment a *kitten* men,,

    Me: hey bro u look handsome today?
    *kitten*: are u gay? u stupid *kitten*,,


    but vice versa

    *kitten*: are u gay?
    ME: nope im not ,, wanna see my beautiful girlfriend or i will f**k ur mom or ur sister? u son of a f***king *kitten* haha,,,



    but when nice guys compliment each other or positive people

    Me: nice abs u got there bro?
    Nice guy: tnx bro,, but ur abs is nicer than me,, but i will catch up with u so that my abs are better than urs,,




    Hehe hope u guys understand this and hope this helps


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    ok sir,, take ur time :) ,, and thats only an example thats why men never get compliments or compliments to other men,, than women,,, hope u understand and get my point,,
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  • TheRealOrson
    TheRealOrson Posts: 1,415 Member
    Because men are mostly negative people or jerks or *kitten*,,

    like example im a men,, a very friendly,nice,cool & good guy compliment a *kitten* men,,

    Me: hey bro u look handsome today?
    *kitten*: are u gay? u stupid *kitten*,,


    but vice versa

    *kitten*: are u gay?
    ME: nope im not ,, wanna see my beautiful girlfriend or i will f**k ur mom or ur sister? u son of a f***king *kitten* haha,,,



    but when nice guys compliment each other or positive people

    Me: nice abs u got there bro?
    Nice guy: tnx bro,, but ur abs is nicer than me,, but i will catch up with u so that my abs are better than urs,,




    Hehe hope u guys understand this and hope this helps


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    ok sir,, take ur time :) ,, and thats only an example thats why men never get compliments or compliments to other men,, than women,,, hope u understand and get my point,,


    Yeah man, I get it. It was just lol-worthy because of your dialogues. Gave me a chuckle.
  • Nicolee_2014
    Nicolee_2014 Posts: 1,572 Member
    I compliment men when compliments are required :smile:
  • choijanro
    choijanro Posts: 754 Member
    Because men are mostly negative people or jerks or *kitten*,,

    like example im a men,, a very friendly,nice,cool & good guy compliment a *kitten* men,,

    Me: hey bro u look handsome today?
    *kitten*: are u gay? u stupid *kitten*,,


    but vice versa

    *kitten*: are u gay?
    ME: nope im not ,, wanna see my beautiful girlfriend or i will f**k ur mom or ur sister? u son of a f***king *kitten* haha,,,



    but when nice guys compliment each other or positive people

    Me: nice abs u got there bro?
    Nice guy: tnx bro,, but ur abs is nicer than me,, but i will catch up with u so that my abs are better than urs,,




    Hehe hope u guys understand this and hope this helps


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    ok sir,, take ur time :) ,, and thats only an example thats why men never get compliments or compliments to other men,, than women,,, hope u understand and get my point,,


    Yeah man, I get it. It was just lol-worthy because of your dialogues. Gave me a chuckle.

    haha well im glad and happy that u are lol or laugh at my comment,, because some people out there mostly negative people,, will false judge my thread and comment,, bit**es be like,, are u a troll? ,, are u serious? ,, are u stupid? ,, are u *kitten*? ,, haha they make me laugh of there nonsense ,, rude and mean comment to me because they are hit by there own words or questions,, what a bunch of nonsense stupid *kitten* ,,
  • TheRealOrson
    TheRealOrson Posts: 1,415 Member
    I compliment men when compliments are required :smile:

    Like when they clean up after themselves or successfully tie their own shoelaces right?

    =P
  • SwitzEngine
    SwitzEngine Posts: 3,418 Member
    Because men are mostly negative people or jerks or *kitten*,,

    like example im a men,, a very friendly,nice,cool & good guy compliment a *kitten* men,,

    Me: hey bro u look handsome today?
    *kitten*: are u gay? u stupid *kitten*,,


    but vice versa

    *kitten*: are u gay?
    ME: nope im not ,, wanna see my beautiful girlfriend or i will f**k ur mom or ur sister? u son of a f***king *kitten* haha,,,



    but when nice guys compliment each other or positive people

    Me: nice abs u got there bro?
    Nice guy: tnx bro,, but ur abs is nicer than me,, but i will catch up with u so that my abs are better than urs,,




    Hehe hope u guys understand this and hope this helps


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    ok sir,, take ur time :) ,, and thats only an example thats why men never get compliments or compliments to other men,, than women,,, hope u understand and get my point,,

    Hey, with posts like this u don't make a lots of friends. Just be positive and enjoy the life. It's not our fault when yours is not so good at the time. You are the only one who can change it. It's best to have friends for the needed motivation and support . Don't bun the bridges!!!
  • choijanro
    choijanro Posts: 754 Member
    Because men are mostly negative people or jerks or *kitten*,,

    like example im a men,, a very friendly,nice,cool & good guy compliment a *kitten* men,,

    Me: hey bro u look handsome today?
    *kitten*: are u gay? u stupid *kitten*,,


    but vice versa

    *kitten*: are u gay?
    ME: nope im not ,, wanna see my beautiful girlfriend or i will f**k ur mom or ur sister? u son of a f***king *kitten* haha,,,



    but when nice guys compliment each other or positive people

    Me: nice abs u got there bro?
    Nice guy: tnx bro,, but ur abs is nicer than me,, but i will catch up with u so that my abs are better than urs,,




    Hehe hope u guys understand this and hope this helps


    brb printing and framing this post for future generations.


    ok sir,, take ur time :) ,, and thats only an example thats why men never get compliments or compliments to other men,, than women,,, hope u understand and get my point,,

    Hey, with posts like this u don't make a lots of friends. Just be positive and enjoy the life. It's not our fault when yours is not so good at the time. You are the only one who can change it. It's best to have friends for the needed motivation and support . Don't bun the bridges!!!


    are u kidding me?,,, are u serious? ,,, so whats ur point that i dont make a lots of friends and many people dont like my post? ,,and just be positive and enjoy life?,,well i am positive and i enjoy life,, its not ur fault when mine is not so good? maybe ur comment is not good and u just hate or envy my comment? ,, well maybe ur comment is true if they are negative people,, and do i offend u or something? sorry but this is me,, this is who i am and no one can change me,, atleast im a positive person,, and i dont know why u say that to me ,, i dont understand and i think u got misunderstood me sir,, or maybe u are a negative person? ,, well im just being true,, honest and frankly speaking,, and thats the reality,, and i have a lot of friends in real life and here in mfp,and other websites forum,, they are real and positive people just like me,, motivates me and support me and me also to them,we respect each other and help each other,,, me dont bun the bridges but i connect the bridges :) ,,

    and by the way even i admit im not correct all the time but atleast i learn from my mistakes and make things wrong to right,, because im just a human ,, not pefect ,, just like u ,, u are not perfect and no rights to say that to me,u are not a God that can judge me,,, because u dont know who i am and u misunderstood me or maybe u are trolling me?,,,

    well no hurts feeling sir,, me respect u,, and i hope u respect me too and nice to me,,,
  • YaGigi
    YaGigi Posts: 817 Member
    Because its a gender stereotype that men should be giving compliments not the other way around.

    Try gay clubs. You might get enough compliments and admires there.

    No way

    and that's your problem right there.
    You are limiting your chances.
    I would say go for it

    Exactly.

    Think outside the box. And feel too :)
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    I'm pretty sure they do.
  • LiftBigtoGetFit
    LiftBigtoGetFit Posts: 3,399 Member
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  • Nicolee_2014
    Nicolee_2014 Posts: 1,572 Member
    I compliment men when compliments are required :smile:

    Like when they clean up after themselves or successfully tie their own shoelaces right?

    =P

    EXACTLY :laugh:
  • SwitzEngine
    SwitzEngine Posts: 3,418 Member
    Because its a gender stereotype that men should be giving compliments not the other way around.

    Try gay clubs. You might get enough compliments and admires there.

    No way

    and that's your problem right there.
    You are limiting your chances.
    I would say go for it

    Exactly.

    Think outside the box. And feel too :)

    :-)
  • sjanejack
    sjanejack Posts: 158
    Well, I think its with guys just like they don't want to seem like they like a guy even if its just a little compliment. But with girls sometimes we're just complimenting eachother or one complimenting another, and its like "thanks!" and the person who said it's like "you're welcome"
  • In my experience, there were guys I've complimented who took it the wrong way and thought I was interested in them or flirting with them when i was just being nice. So I tend to be careful who I compliment.
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  • choijanro
    choijanro Posts: 754 Member
    Because men are mostly negative people or jerks or *kitten*,,

    like example im a men,, a very friendly,nice,cool & good guy compliment a *kitten* men,,

    Me: hey bro u look handsome today?
    *kitten*: are u gay? u stupid *kitten*,,


    but vice versa

    *kitten*: are u gay?
    ME: nope im not ,, wanna see my beautiful girlfriend or i will f**k ur mom or ur sister? u son of a f***king *kitten* haha,,,



    but when nice guys compliment each other or positive people

    Me: nice abs u got there bro?
    Nice guy: tnx bro,, but ur abs is nicer than me,, but i will catch up with u so that my abs are better than urs,,




    Hehe hope u guys understand this and hope this helps


    brb printing and framing this post for future generations.


    ok sir,, take ur time :) ,, and thats only an example thats why men never get compliments or compliments to other men,, than women,,, hope u understand and get my point,,

    Hey, with posts like this u don't make a lots of friends. Just be positive and enjoy the life. It's not our fault when yours is not so good at the time. You are the only one who can change it. It's best to have friends for the needed motivation and support . Don't bun the bridges!!!


    are u kidding me?,,, are u serious? ,,, so whats ur point that i dont make a lots of friends and many people dont like my post? ,,and just be positive and enjoy life?,,well i am positive and i enjoy life,, its not ur fault when mine is not so good? maybe ur comment is not good and u just hate or envy my comment? ,, well maybe ur comment is true if they are negative people,, and do i offend u or something? sorry but this is me,, this is who i am and no one can change me,, atleast im a positive person,, and i dont know why u say that to me ,, i dont understand and i think u got misunderstood me sir,, or maybe u are a negative person? ,, well im just being true,, honest and frankly speaking,, and thats the reality,, and i have a lot of friends in real life and here in mfp,and other websites forum,, they are real and positive people just like me,, motivates me and support me and me also to them,we respect each other and help each other,,, me dont bun the bridges but i connect the bridges :) ,,

    and by the way even i admit im not correct all the time but atleast i learn from my mistakes and make things wrong to right,, because im just a human ,, not pefect ,, just like u ,, u are not perfect and no rights to say that to me,u are not a God that can judge me,,, because u dont know who i am and u misunderstood me or maybe u are trolling me?,,,

    well no hurts feeling sir,, me respect u,, and i hope u respect me too and nice to me,,,


    Cool story bro.

    tnx bro i hope it make u laugh and understand what i mean,, and im not trying or didnt want to offend somebody,, i just telling the truth ,, nothing but the truth hehe,,, hope this helps