What was your "last straw"???

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  • My Dad's wife called me obese. Which I was close to, but not quite there (off by maybe 5 lbs.). This actually just made me really insecure for a while, but I didn't do anything about it. I was too depressed already by a series of events in my personal life. Then in the summer I saw a terrible picture of me jumping into a swimming pool that was posted horrifically on Facebook. This pushed me to get seriously back into exercising. I started getting into nutrition then too, but this wasn't enough. I was still sluggish. Just found MFP a couple weeks ago, and it has been such a help already!!! I didn't realize how much I was eating!
  • ArcyF
    ArcyF Posts: 23 Member
    I put on a corset, cinched it to as small I possibly could, and I still couldn't hit 30"
    I thought that if I could hit at least 30", then maybe I wasn't THAT fat, but "Oh, I won't deny that my (belly) doesn't lie, and I'm starting to feel it's (wrong)" --style of *Hips Don't Lie*
  • arlenem1974
    arlenem1974 Posts: 437 Member
    the only time I wasn't in pain was when I was sleeping. My blood pressure was hypertensive and it was getting hard just to walk.

    5'1
    hw=202
    sw=190
    pw=129.2
    gw=115-120
  • Reading through the many replies, I can agree with every "my favorite pants/shirt no longer fit" or "I saw a recent photo of myself" story. For me it was more than one event - although the one that stands out in my mind the most was a photo of myself with my daughter while hiking at our favorite spot. I had memories of "fit me" at the same hike just years earlier, and knew I was headed down the wrong road unless I made a lifestyle change.
  • ScarletShopaholic
    ScarletShopaholic Posts: 169 Member
    It was lots of things, the pain in my back when I stood for more than 2 minutes, the swelling in my leg, the pain in my feet or the fact that I had eventually realised I was massive! Talk about being deluded - I was wallowing in denial for years!
  • My last straw was being told, at 28, by my doc I gotta lose the weight. And being 5 months post partum and still wearing my maternity pants...yep, I'm done! So, I'm doing it. Slowly but surely. I'm not dieting, I'm trying to change my life. As well as my families' life. They're seeing an improvement overall with themselves and me.
  • My last straw was seeing my moms health worsening and not wanting to be in that position myself. Plus I didn't want my kids to be ashamed of me.
  • I was diagnosed last February with congestive heart failure and I didn't keep a close enough eye on my weight, so a few months ago I had a bad heart attack. I made it, which was a miracle, but I have to lose about 40 pounds before I can stop worrying. A little bit after the heart attack, my friend told me about MFP and I joined, figuring it'd probably help me along.
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
    I went on vacation last December and I thought I looked cute in some of the new clothes I bought for the cruise. Then, when I saw pictures, I didn't even recognize myself!
  • easto_79
    easto_79 Posts: 102 Member
    At well over 200 for over the last 5 year I knew I had to do something. I tried so many times, and just can't quite this time. I'm getting under 200 before 2014!!!! well before
  • I was on here only for a few days then let go. I had lost 30 pounds and was thinner than I was in high school. But then...I put it all back on. I had bought skinny clothes and then couldn't fit into them anymore. I was sick of being like this and even though I've made only tiny progress, I feel much better about myself and my future.

    Feel free to add me!
  • Just had it last night. I was on here a couple of years ago, lost some weight, was really fit and healthy and I loved it. But somehow I lost my way and drifted off again. Last night getting ready to go out for a friends birthday and none of my "pretty' clothes fit me, everything was stretched and pulled in some very unflattering ways! It was such a blow to my self confidence and I know I need to start again from scratch. Which is very depressing as I'd done so much work but at least I know I can do it! x
  • Seeing the scale at 213 lbs and told I was obese. At 24 yrs old. That and my size 15 jeans were so tight it hurt to wear them.
  • What a sad story, I really feel for you. No one should be sitting in the car crying alone like that. You're here now and will get back on track!
  • Tysonlovesweights
    Tysonlovesweights Posts: 139 Member
    i saw a pc of myself holding my then 8 month old son, and barely recognized myself. i thought the guy in the picture looked like he was ready for a heart attack!
  • evviamarshall
    evviamarshall Posts: 80 Member
    Totally honest? There are "things" I'd like to do with my man in bed that I need to be in shape in order to be confident enough to do.

    Also when someone told me that I look like Jill Scott a while ago. I think Jill Scott looks like a fat teddy bear. That was my last straw.
  • SummerLovesPhil
    SummerLovesPhil Posts: 242 Member
    I did my required biometric screening for my health insurance back in March. My numbers were acceptable, but pretty dismal for a 34-year-old who thought she was healthy. The most salient point was my A1C at 5.9; 6.0 is diagnostic of diabetes. My whole family is diabetic and in generally rotten health, so I was just waiting for my turn to be diagnosed. I had resigned myself to a life of stabbing fingers and injecting drugs.

    Now, when I say my family is in rotten health, I mean they're in ROTTEN health. My dad's baby sister, the only one who isn't diabetic, is working on her third heart attack at the age of 55. His older sister is so heavy and has lymphedema so bad that she can hardly walk. She wants to get bariatric surgery, but her health is too poor for her to be a good candidate. His brother uses a wheelchair for fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue and had prostate cancer not too long ago. And my dad has survived two bone marrow transplants and a stroke in addition to severe diabetes. All of them are old before their time, and I was resigned to being like that.

    So, we come to the last straw. The seed that it grew from, I suppose, was seeing Forks Over Knives. Before I watched that film, it had never occurred to me that diabetes was not my inevitable fate. But only a few weeks after I saw it, my dad told me that he'd broken his foot in two places. Since his diabetic neuropathy is so bad that he can't feel his feet at all, he didn't know it for two months and was now looking at an amputation. So there I was, obese and prediabetic, with a big decision to make. Fortunately, I knew of a solution.

    I don't know what my blood sugars look like, but I'm down 8 pounds since the 5th of August on a whole foods, plant-based diet. With the great support I get here and at work (the state health department), I plan to lose a total of 70 lbs.
  • vanillacoffee
    vanillacoffee Posts: 1,024 Member
    A guy at work saying that "everyone that works at my store" was fat. Which included me. The idea that someone I had never met saw "fat" before anything else made me cry for days... And then take action.
  • FindingAmy77
    FindingAmy77 Posts: 1,268 Member
    you can add your tracker from the profile page. Just follow the steps. My last straw was seeing myself in a recent picture taken at the beach in my swimsuit. Uggg. I kept thinking this cant be right. But my hubbie looked great in his pic. That and the fact that all my clothes were getting tighter and tighter.
  • Qskim
    Qskim Posts: 1,145 Member
    So many reasons ...final one was my mum kindly saying that perhaps I needed to just accept that genetically I had my grandmother's body. Woke up the next morning and it hit me that gran had died from advanced breast cancer. Started that day. It wasn't with just the thought either that I'd prevent it but with a realization that if that was a battle I'd have to face then I wanted to be in the best shape of my life.
  • meljoyc
    meljoyc Posts: 3 Member
    I work in a nursing home and almost all of the elderly people who are there have the same medical diagnosis' that I had. Overweight, high blood pressure, sleep apnea, gastroesophageal reflux. I knew my future would involve living in a care center if I didn't take better care of myself. I also knew that I had an addiction to sugar. I couldn't live without it and that really bothered me but I couldn't imagine never having another piece of birthday cake. After researching a lot I decided I needed to practice abstinence from flour and sugar much like an alcoholic abstains from alcohol. After about 2 weeks, I didn't even crave sweets anymore. I'm back on the whole food diet that I slipped off of this last year and after 6 days I'm already feeling so much better.
  • PlunderBunneh
    PlunderBunneh Posts: 1,705 Member
    My last pregnancy weigh-in, realizing that I was less than 20 pounds away from the weight my mother was when she had a gastric bypass. Pregnant or not, no excuse for letting myself get that out of shape. Happy to report I've lost more than 100 pounds since that weigh-in (even if the first 15 were via the c-section hehe).
  • TheLongRunner
    TheLongRunner Posts: 688 Member
    Tons of reasons! Losing my beautiful mom at the age of 63 to heart disease and diabetes was a big one! But my actual final straw was the picture on the bottom left of my profile/avatar <
    . I had NO IDEA I looked like that. It terrified and appalled me. Also, around that same time, I was co-teaching a college class and I tried to sit in a chair that swung out from the tables (was connected). I didn't fit. I couldn't even wedge myself in there. That day I had had ENOUGH! I started THAT day. I didn't wait to Monday. I didn't wait for morning.
  • Hmm, no one last straw. No clothing looked good on me. It was no secret to me that I was overweight. My girlfriend was worried I had a tumor LOL. My health care provider wrote on my chart that I needed to lose weight. Darn I hate that diagnosis: obese.
  • thighs rubbing together as i walk(uncomfy)

    back fat rolls

    pouchy belly

    hard to lean over to put on socks/shoes

    feeling lazy/lowered energy
  • candi_girl24
    candi_girl24 Posts: 19 Member
    My moment would be seeing pictures of myself and looking in the mirror and realizing how big I really am. First, I cried then I decided to do something about it! Now, I'm sticking to it no matter what!
  • I had just accepted that I was going to always be fat and that's how it was because I liked food WAY too much.
    Some friends and I started floating in tubes this summer down one of the local rivers that are known for that and kayaking. During the middle of the float I had gotten out of my tube and couldn't get back in it. It took 2 people pulling my arms and one guy putting his foot on my *kitten* to push me back in to my tube. I was mortified.
    Then I went out with a good looking fit guy and he told me something I had never heard before. Most guys didn't want to date me because I was too fat, but he said "I can't be with someone that doesn't care if they're healthy. I want to be able to grow old with someone." And that made me really start thinking....and that afternoon I started logging my food.
  • hearing from my kids.. Daddy are you having a baby.. Did it for me:cry:
  • AJett40
    AJett40 Posts: 3 Member
    Breaking out in a sweat just walking from my car to the front door at work :(
  • hamminit
    hamminit Posts: 184 Member
    my wedding pics and my hubby looking at me with a pity look when nothing fits me
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