Ms. New Booty

I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?

Men are so mean!

And controlling!

It's baffling as to why women put up with us . . .

Large bank accounts IMO

Wait, wait. What if I have my own large bank account?

I'm not going to entertain ridiculous scenarios.

That would mean that she had a job and we all know how ridiculous the idea of working women is . . .

Sure that's no different. Having bank balance at the top of your list is just as questionable as demanding that your S/O is worth showing off ...

What's wrong with showing off your SO?

How frigg'n "deep" does someone have to be for you all?

Apparently you can only be interested in someone intellectually and not care in the least about their physical appearance. Although, I don't know how a thread about someone's BF wanting them to be better at math or science would go over.

I guess its mean but I'm willing I just dont like the attention it'll bring he says if I wear heels more it'll look rounder

And you're with him because? Does he have redeeming qualities that make up for his shallow view of your body?

What is the shallow part?

He wants her to change her body when he should be happy with her regardless? There's having a preference, and then there's wanting your partner to adhere to that preference. I find it shallow.

Where did the OP state that he is not happy with her?

Um, if he wasn't unhappy with her bum, he wouldn't be demanding she change it, nor would he be demanding that she change her pelvic alignment to make her hips bigger.....Do I really have to explain this?

OP did not state that the was demanding that she change it, just that he always tells her she needs to get one, which could be playful ribbing. Especially since you can't just go "get" a bigger butt. And she didn't state that he said anything about her hips specifically.

I don't see the problem with the boyfriend. Is it wrong to wish that your S/O had physical attributes more in line with your personal tastes?

Men are so mean!

And controlling!

It's baffling as to why women put up with us . . .

Large bank accounts IMO

Wait, wait. What if I have my own large bank account?

I'm not going to entertain ridiculous scenarios.

That would mean that she had a job and we all know how ridiculous the idea of working women is . . .

Exactly.

Sure that's no different. Having bank balance at the top of your list is just as questionable as demanding that your S/O is worth showing off ...

What's wrong with showing off your SO?

How frigg'n "deep" does someone have to be for you all?

A LOT deeper than something transitory, like looks or bank balance. Call me fussy ...

I'm sure there are websites for people who are not concerned about physical appearance . . .

Sure that's no different. Having bank balance at the top of your list is just as questionable as demanding that your S/O is worth showing off ...

What's wrong with showing off your SO?

How frigg'n "deep" does someone have to be for you all?

Apparently you can only be interested in someone intellectually and not care in the least about their physical appearance. Although, I don't know how a thread about someone's BF wanting them to be better at math or science would go over.

probably the same. especially if the bf (like in the this example) knew that the girl he was dating wasnt good at math when they first met. i dont understand the logic of expecting some sort of alchemy to happen in people's bodies (or math or science abilities) once they become your SO.

there's a difference between caring about someone's physical appearance and knowing exactly what you're getting and then later saying the other person should change.

God forbid people should try and please each other with a little effort.

How many of you all are single?

If you're in a relationship, has it lasted longer than 5 years?

Just curious.

Sure that's no different. Having bank balance at the top of your list is just as questionable as demanding that your S/O is worth showing off ...

What's wrong with showing off your SO?

How frigg'n "deep" does someone have to be for you all?

Apparently you can only be interested in someone intellectually and not care in the least about their physical appearance. Although, I don't know how a thread about someone's BF wanting them to be better at math or science would go over.

probably the same. especially if the bf (like in the this example) knew that the girl he was dating wasnt good at math when they first met. i dont understand the logic of expecting some sort of alchemy to happen in people's bodies (or math or science abilities) once they become your SO.

there's a difference between caring about someone's physical appearance and knowing exactly what you're getting and then later saying the other person should change.

God forbid people should try and please each other with a little effort.

How many of you all are single?

If you're in a relationship, has it lasted longer than 5 years?

Just curious.

Over 6 years for what it's worth ...

Sorry but LMAO!
Try my butt bible!

Sure that's no different. Having bank balance at the top of your list is just as questionable as demanding that your S/O is worth showing off ...

What's wrong with showing off your SO?

How frigg'n "deep" does someone have to be for you all?

Apparently you can only be interested in someone intellectually and not care in the least about their physical appearance. Although, I don't know how a thread about someone's BF wanting them to be better at math or science would go over.

probably the same. especially if the bf (like in the this example) knew that the girl he was dating wasnt good at math when they first met. i dont understand the logic of expecting some sort of alchemy to happen in people's bodies (or math or science abilities) once they become your SO.

there's a difference between caring about someone's physical appearance and knowing exactly what you're getting and then later saying the other person should change.

Well, if he started dating her despite of her lack of curves, I think it would be safe to assume that he is into her as a person. And while him expressing his desire for her to have a certain physical attribute he finds attractive constantly isn't the most tactful way to approach it, I do think that romantic partners should be able to talk honestly with each other about that sort of thing.

Like if I was dating a girl and she told me she thinks it would be hot if I had nicer arms or shoulders. I would likely move that particular thing up on my priority list while in the gym.

I didn't say it wasn't a factor. If you -properly- read my post, I said it should not be top of your list.

I'd rather have someone intelligent, who could read, and who had a sense of humour, for example ...

Clearly this must be your first encounter with both BeachIron and myself. We're both two of the most intelligent guys on this website and pretty damn funny.

I didn't say it wasn't a factor. If you -properly- read my post, I said it should not be top of your list.

I'd rather have someone intelligent, who could read, and who had a sense of humour, for example ...

Iza bee soz unedukatid . . .

Not in THIS post, but perhaps a little in one of your earlier ones. It's all about actually reading what people have written, not jumping to a conclusion about what you THINK they have posted. Now I'm blatantly taking the piss so, signing out of this thread. Enjoy!

Um, everyone bashing the boyfriend is jumping to conclusions that aren't supported by what the OP wrote.

Sure that's no different. Having bank balance at the top of your list is just as questionable as demanding that your S/O is worth showing off ...

What's wrong with showing off your SO?

How frigg'n "deep" does someone have to be for you all?

Apparently you can only be interested in someone intellectually and not care in the least about their physical appearance. Although, I don't know how a thread about someone's BF wanting them to be better at math or science would go over.

probably the same. especially if the bf (like in the this example) knew that the girl he was dating wasnt good at math when they first met. i dont understand the logic of expecting some sort of alchemy to happen in people's bodies (or math or science abilities) once they become your SO.

there's a difference between caring about someone's physical appearance and knowing exactly what you're getting and then later saying the other person should change.

God forbid people should try and please each other with a little effort.

How many of you all are single?

If you're in a relationship, has it lasted longer than 5 years?

Just curious.

Not that it's any of your concern, but I am married. Got married on Halloween, so been married for one month, but have been with my husband for four years prior.

Well, congratulations!

I didn't say it wasn't a factor. If you -properly- read my post, I said it should not be top of your list.

I'd rather have someone intelligent, who could read, and who had a sense of humour, for example ...

Clearly this must be your first encounter with both BeachIron and myself. We're both two of the most intelligent guys on this website and pretty damn funny.

I slay me . . .

Sure that's no different. Having bank balance at the top of your list is just as questionable as demanding that your S/O is worth showing off ...

What's wrong with showing off your SO?

How frigg'n "deep" does someone have to be for you all?

Apparently you can only be interested in someone intellectually and not care in the least about their physical appearance. Although, I don't know how a thread about someone's BF wanting them to be better at math or science would go over.

probably the same. especially if the bf (like in the this example) knew that the girl he was dating wasnt good at math when they first met. i dont understand the logic of expecting some sort of alchemy to happen in people's bodies (or math or science abilities) once they become your SO.

there's a difference between caring about someone's physical appearance and knowing exactly what you're getting and then later saying the other person should change.

God forbid people should try and please each other with a little effort.

How many of you all are single?

If you're in a relationship, has it lasted longer than 5 years?

Just curious.

Not that it's any of your concern, but I am married. Got married on Halloween, so been married for one month, but have been with my husband for four years prior.

Well, congratulations!

Thanks. I think I might be cranky because I had work at 6 this morning, but I woke up at 3:30 AM, so I may just end this discussion due to being a crankypants.

I'm pretty busy here pushing buttons . . . :bigsmile:

OP, did your bf threaten to break up with you if you didn't achieve said physical look?

No way he's just idk.. Its not mandatory but it would be nice

Oh good, then he isn't the d-bag that others were trying to accuse him of being.

You have to ask yourself a few questions. Do you want a bigger/nicer butt? If no, are you willing to work on getting one solely for him?