Define cheating......

pawnstarNate
pawnstarNate Posts: 1,728 Member
in Chit-Chat
Since cheat posts seems to be the theme today....define it.

Harmless flirting?
Sexting?
Phone number exchange and communication?
Better conversatons than with your SO?

_______________ <--your opinion here

for the record, I only do the first!!
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  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    Sticking a p in someone elses v or a.


    or mouth too, I guess.
  • bloominheck
    bloominheck Posts: 869 Member
    His thingy in her thingy...?
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    Sticking a p in someone elses v or a.


    or mouth too, I guess.

    mmmmmm........v
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  • Mitzki5
    Mitzki5 Posts: 482 Member
    If you do it and you wouldn't want your significant other to find out, it is probably cheating or atleast borderline.
  • pawnstarNate
    pawnstarNate Posts: 1,728 Member
    His thingy in her thingy...?

    wet Pinky in her ear? That's a wet willy
  • knot_enough
    knot_enough Posts: 176 Member
    full penetration
  • gmthisfeller
    gmthisfeller Posts: 779 Member
    If I flirt, it is always with my wife present. She just rolls her eyes. :huh:

    The rest are off limits.
  • beekay70
    beekay70 Posts: 214 Member
    Cheating is a betrayal of trust. For some, that's penetration. For others, it's a kiss.
  • pawnstarNate
    pawnstarNate Posts: 1,728 Member
    If I flirt, it is always with my wife present. She just rolls her eyes. :huh:

    The rest are off limits.

    You're MAD!
  • walleyclan1
    walleyclan1 Posts: 2,784 Member
    Sexting, sex, foreplay...all things sexual
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    Cheating is a betrayal of trust. For some, that's penetration. For others, it's a kiss.

    For me, it's taking the last pop tart.
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    Anything you have to hide from a significant other. Anywhere from texting, emailing, to sex. If you have to hide it or lie about it, it's cheating. The definition will be individual to every relationship. Some couples are ok with things that others would not be ok with.
  • Followingsea
    Followingsea Posts: 407 Member
    Cheating is anything that crosses a boundary in a relationship.

    I regularly go out to dinner (and sometimes out drinking) with my best friend, who's a dude. That would be out of bounds in some relationships.

    My line is romantic/sexual contact. Kissing, sexting, whatever - nope nope nope.
  • Cali_Chica
    Cali_Chica Posts: 895 Member
    When you dive for your phone when your SO is within a 5 foot radius of it, you know you're cheating in some way
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  • JeniferEverx3
    JeniferEverx3 Posts: 219 Member
    IMO, if you're ready to be in a relationship with someone, then you know that person well enough to know what THEY would consider cheating. Anything they would consider cheating = cheating. If you don't know, you should ask them.
  • bloominheck
    bloominheck Posts: 869 Member
    His thingy in her thingy...?

    wet Pinky in her ear? That's a wet willy


    Geez that explains a lot...... I'm doing it wrong.:frown:
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    i think it's in that realm of subjectively defined items, like "eating clean"
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    If you are doing something behind your spouse's back, you are cheating.

    The dishonesy is the cheating part. Whether the flirting or texting or harmless kiss meant nothing to you isn't the point. The point is your did something you know you shouldn't have and you kept it from your spouse. Spin it any way you want, but you were dishonest.
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    I don't think there's a universal definition. Some people think anything short of "boy part in girl part" sex is NOT cheating. Others think flirtatious texts and emails are cheating. This is one of the ground rules you have to establish when you decide to commit to a monogamous relationship with someone.
  • pawnstarNate
    pawnstarNate Posts: 1,728 Member
    When you dive for your phone when your SO is within a 5 foot radius of it, you know you're cheating in some way

    what if you are just scared they will mess with your minecraft? (no, I don't play....but, I've seen our 11 yr old react that way..lol)
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    basically what everyone is saying is that if you made this thread to find out if you're cheating, you're probably cheating.
  • SamanthaD1218
    SamanthaD1218 Posts: 303 Member
    It's different for every couple.

    If you don't KNOW what your significant other would consider cheating, you might want to re-evaluate your relationship.
  • Whyareyoumad
    Whyareyoumad Posts: 268 Member
    Anything you wouldnt want your spouse to do with someone else. I like harmless flirtation, but anything beyond that is out of my comfort zone.
  • Iron_Lotus
    Iron_Lotus Posts: 2,295 Member
    Cheating is anything you wouldn't want your SO doing
  • TheSwollMinister
    TheSwollMinister Posts: 246 Member
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  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    When you dive for your phone when your SO is within a 5 foot radius of it, you know you're cheating in some way

    what if you are just scared they will mess with your minecraft? (no, I don't play....but, I've seen our 11 yr old react that way..lol)


    He is cheating on you with different parents.
  • metaphoria
    metaphoria Posts: 1,432 Member
    If you'd be embarrassed to tell your mother-in-law, it's cheating.
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    Bumping uglies with someone else

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