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Women..Worst thing a man can do on a date with u...

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  • Lovely_77
    Lovely_77 Posts: 1,116 Member
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    Talking bad about your mother, a mother teaches her son how to love how he treats his mother will tell you a lot on how he treats his partner... of course, being too close to his mother is a turn off as well. If the date goes to a second or third or long enough to have sex, I really rather you didnt speak to your mother about the experience. Lol yes some guys have.

    What if his mom really is a grade A *kitten*, and he's just trying to warn you what kind of mother in law you'd be up against in the long run? :wink:

    The other one is just creepy however.

    Not a conversation for a first date. That's the biggest point. Second, talking bad about his mother to a woman especially a new woman is like saying hey, I am broken and I have my mother to thank for that, so I either expect you to fill all that motherly void in me and thus we can have a very poisonous relationship, since I will be putting you up to a standard you could not possibly compete with OR like you said watch out my mom is a B just warning you now what mother in law you will have when we get married. <<< Not a first date thing to say plus that is like saying your love for me isn't enough to overcome the B storm that is my mother so it will always fail for me lol.

    As for the first thing I just said... I have daddy issues, well not issues as I don't give a damn but I never tell a guy on the first date that I grew up without a father. Because they usually assume there is daddy issues and I don't blame them. However, I don't expect a man to fill the I didnt have a daddy growing up void so I wouldn't want them talking to me about their mother in a negative light where I might feel obligated to fix them. They came to me broken I didnt break them so cant fix them lol. Never that girl, not into fixing or changing a man. So anything mom especially on a first date, unless its healthy small talk is all red flags to me. You know? Psychology and ****. Lol
  • bd0027
    bd0027 Posts: 1,053 Member
    One time while hanging with a guy (first and last date) at his friends house, he texted me while sitting across from me, asking for head. I texted back and said no and he replied with, "you can leave at any point now."

    Don't be THAT guy.
  • RaggedyPond
    RaggedyPond Posts: 1,487 Member
    One time while hanging with a guy (first and last date) at his friends house, he texted me while sitting across from me, asking for head. I texted back and said no and he replied with, "you can leave at any point now."

    Don't be THAT guy.

    Lol I'm so doing that tonight to my spouse.
  • smantha32
    smantha32 Posts: 6,990 Member

    Not a conversation for a first date. That's the biggest point. Second, talking bad about his mother to a woman especially a new woman is like saying hey, I am broken and I have my mother to thank for that, so I either expect you to fill all that motherly void in me and thus we can have a very poisonous relationship, since I will be putting you up to a standard you could not possibly compete with OR like you said watch out my mom is a B just warning you now what mother in law you will have when we get married. <<< Not a first date thing to say plus that is like saying your love for me isn't enough to overcome the B storm that is my mother so it will always fail for me lol.

    Good point. lol
  • Shahelene
    Shahelene Posts: 133 Member
    Looking at his phone every five seconds ugh
  • jo_tolose
    jo_tolose Posts: 10 Member
    isn't well mannered on a date is worst thing he can do.
  • alisonlynn1976
    alisonlynn1976 Posts: 929 Member
    Any kind of boundary violation.
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