Traded in my Breasts for a Skinnier Me

OP I never had large boobs but they did get smaller with weight loss. I was quite self-conscious about it for awhile. But I have adjusted. I got some nice push-up bras and a padded bikini top. I started focusing on things I like about my body when I look in the mirror. And I wouldn't trade my new-found fitness to go back to having larger boobs. Now I can honestly say that I rarely think about it anymore.

Give yourself some time and cut yourself some slack. And if it still bothers you after you've had plenty of time to adjust, then augmentation is an option.

Very well said. Quoted again for emphasis. :drinker:

totally agree with you Hauntinglyfit. I know that if I were in the same position she is in, I would be uncomfortable with myself and would also feel like I had become inadequate to my spouse. Some people seriously need to get a grip....

I've seen some awesome implant boobies. And my friend's confidence went through the roof when she got them.

Depending on how much mammary tissue you have and how big you want them, a lift may be enough to make you happy. The doctor will know.

She's a mom with soon two kids.

She not out there hitting the clubs getting attention for her tits from guys lol.

Its a simpler ego thing, like the ghost of your past and your identity falling to a lower rung.

You shouldn't want that if you're married anyway, especially if your assertion of ego comes from a sexually oriented source.

But it's okay for a 27 year old to say they only date 15-19 year olds and currently has an 18 year old girlfriend in high school?

Oh. Okay then. :noway:

Notice how we all have our ways of trying to cheat death and aging?

Maybe if I can just hold on to that youthful vibe just a little longer....

Wow. That's really disturbing. Really really disturbing.....

1. Some guys are into fake boobs.
2. A doctor will touch your wife's boobs at one point in time whether she gets implants or not. Her vagina as well.
3. OP never mentioned flirting. Fake boobs have nothing to do with that. If attention from men other than her husband is what she wants, trust me, she can get it without the boobs.
4. if you think getting married and having kids means letting yourself go, you must have very low expectations from yourself and your future wife. That's sad.

Preach.

I've seen some awesome implant boobies. And my friend's confidence went through the roof when she got them.

Depending on how much mammary tissue you have and how big you want them, a lift may be enough to make you happy. The doctor will know.

She's a mom with soon two kids.

She not out there hitting the clubs getting attention for her tits from guys lol.

Its a simpler ego thing, like the ghost of your past and your identity falling to a lower rung.

You shouldn't want that if you're married anyway, especially if your assertion of ego comes from a sexually oriented source.

She could be a mom of 6 kids for all i care.
I would personally only consider getting implants after kids anyways.

Would you stop going to the gym after you get married/have kids?
You don't stop being a woman/man when you become a mother/father.
Sexual attraction is extremely important in a marriage even after (maybe especially so) after kids. Her lack of confidence might affect that.
Maybe it's not even about that, and she just wants her boobs to look like they used to, because she likes boobs. I like boobs.

Sexual attraction in marriage is important I agree. But her boob job isn't gonna make her more sexy. I mean, the husband KNOWS she got a boob job. If anything I personally would be turned off because my dear wife was operated on like frankenstein. Doctors touching my wifes breasts. Its still not a fresh pair of boobs...

Its not gonna change the reality. Nothing can. Its denial. You're in denial OP, Im sorry but its time to let them go...

You let yourself go when you got married with kids. Now you're here, enjoy your kids and your life. Not attention to your boobs or flirting from strangers here and there.

You're cute.



Not really.


You still have no clue. The breast implants aren't for the husband necessarily. If the husband isn't into them, that is something for them to address within their relationship.
The poster you quoted said confidence can affect sexual attraction. You are assuming it has to do with the husband.
When I was overweight my husband was still attracted to me. I was still attracted to him. How I felt about my body affected my confidence and in turn, our relationship.

It doesn't have to have anything to do with strangers or flirting. You have a very narrow view of this issue.

I've seen some awesome implant boobies. And my friend's confidence went through the roof when she got them.

Depending on how much mammary tissue you have and how big you want them, a lift may be enough to make you happy. The doctor will know.

She's a mom with soon two kids.

She not out there hitting the clubs getting attention for her tits from guys lol.

Its a simpler ego thing, like the ghost of your past and your identity falling to a lower rung.

You shouldn't want that if you're married anyway, especially if your assertion of ego comes from a sexually oriented source.

She could be a mom of 6 kids for all i care.
I would personally only consider getting implants after kids anyways.

Would you stop going to the gym after you get married/have kids?
You don't stop being a woman/man when you become a mother/father.
Sexual attraction is extremely important in a marriage even after (maybe especially so) after kids. Her lack of confidence might affect that.
Maybe it's not even about that, and she just wants her boobs to look like they used to, because she likes boobs. I like boobs.

Sexual attraction in marriage is important I agree. But her boob job isn't gonna make her more sexy. I mean, the husband KNOWS she got a boob job. If anything I personally would be turned off because my dear wife was operated on like frankenstein. Doctors touching my wifes breasts. Its still not a fresh pair of boobs...

Its not gonna change the reality. Nothing can. Its denial. You're in denial OP, Im sorry but its time to let them go...

You let yourself go when you got married with kids. Now you're here, enjoy your kids and your life. Not attention to your boobs or flirting from strangers here and there.

1. Some guys are into fake boobs.
2. A doctor will touch your wife's boobs at one point in time whether she gets implants or not. Her vagina as well.
3. OP never mentioned flirting. Fake boobs have nothing to do with that. If attention from men other than her husband is what she wants, trust me, she can get it without the boobs.
4. if you think getting married and having kids means letting yourself go, you must have very low expectations from yourself and your future wife. That's sad.

1) I disagree. Sometimes what guys say to you or around you isn't the truth. Especially if you hang out with only beta White Knights. ( they will say anything to be cool with you)
2) Correction. A female doctor. I don't know many teenage girls that regularly get nude checkups from male doctors. Pretty sure you're allowed to choose a preference lol.
3) Thats just ridiculous. Boobs have everything to do with attention. A certain automatic-heightened attention/awareness that is noticeable especially from men but women too almost respecting your potency.
4) Yes getting married is essentially an implied agreement you give up yourself to sacrifice for your family. Since that is what it implies, don't get married if you want some sort of slutty hybrid life because it won't work and you'll end up divorced.

You, my friend, are all set for a wonderful life in the enchanted forest. I bow down to your wisdom, and wish you nothing but the best.

u probably need a lift with a reduction. That will be about $10,000.00

Bewbs Schmewbs!

I've seen some awesome implant boobies. And my friend's confidence went through the roof when she got them.

Depending on how much mammary tissue you have and how big you want them, a lift may be enough to make you happy. The doctor will know.

She's a mom with soon two kids.

She not out there hitting the clubs getting attention for her tits from guys lol.

Its a simpler ego thing, like the ghost of your past and your identity falling to a lower rung.

You shouldn't want that if you're married anyway, especially if your assertion of ego comes from a sexually oriented source.

She could be a mom of 6 kids for all i care.
I would personally only consider getting implants after kids anyways.

Would you stop going to the gym after you get married/have kids?
You don't stop being a woman/man when you become a mother/father.
Sexual attraction is extremely important in a marriage even after (maybe especially so) after kids. Her lack of confidence might affect that.
Maybe it's not even about that, and she just wants her boobs to look like they used to, because she likes boobs. I like boobs.

Sexual attraction in marriage is important I agree. But her boob job isn't gonna make her more sexy. I mean, the husband KNOWS she got a boob job. If anything I personally would be turned off because my dear wife was operated on like frankenstein. Doctors touching my wifes breasts. Its still not a fresh pair of boobs...

Its not gonna change the reality. Nothing can. Its denial. You're in denial OP, Im sorry but its time to let them go...

You let yourself go when you got married with kids. Now you're here, enjoy your kids and your life. Not attention to your boobs or flirting from strangers here and there.

1. Some guys are into fake boobs.
2. A doctor will touch your wife's boobs at one point in time whether she gets implants or not. Her vagina as well.
3. OP never mentioned flirting. Fake boobs have nothing to do with that. If attention from men other than her husband is what she wants, trust me, she can get it without the boobs.
4. if you think getting married and having kids means letting yourself go, you must have very low expectations from yourself and your future wife. That's sad.

1) I disagree. Sometimes what guys say to you or around you isn't the truth. Especially if you hang out with only beta White Knights. ( they will say anything to be cool with you)
2) Correction. A female doctor. I don't know many teenage girls that regularly get nude checkups from male doctors. Pretty sure you're allowed to choose a preference lol.
3) Thats just ridiculous. Boobs have everything to do with attention. A certain automatic-heightened attention/awareness that is noticeable especially from men but women too almost respecting your potency.
4) Yes getting married is essentially an implied agreement you give up yourself to sacrifice for your family. Since that is what it implies, don't get married if you want some sort of slutty hybrid life because it won't work and you'll end up divorced.

On the subject of #2, I would just like to point out that about 50% of the Ob/Gyn doctors in my area are male. It is very common for women (of any age) to see male gynecologists and obstetricians. Were it not for a MALE Ob/Gyn, chances are, I would not be alive today. Plus, the large majority of women do not take their first visit to an Ob/Gyn until their late teens. Clearly, you do not know very much about the subjects you are trying to seem so knowledgeable in.

I think the healthiest thing to do is just accept that it happened.

You can't be on top forever. What about when you're 70?

A boob job is not gonna make you young again, it will just make you a person with a boob job.

Even if you buy a little time with implants, it won't fix the reality that we all age.

Age gracefully with dignity and be strong enough to accept what is going on.

I think that is the most smartest and respectful reply on this post! On any post really!!

You might not want to read the rest of his posts then.

I've seen some awesome implant boobies. And my friend's confidence went through the roof when she got them.

Depending on how much mammary tissue you have and how big you want them, a lift may be enough to make you happy. The doctor will know.

She's a mom with soon two kids.

She not out there hitting the clubs getting attention for her tits from guys lol.

Its a simpler ego thing, like the ghost of your past and your identity falling to a lower rung.

You shouldn't want that if you're married anyway, especially if your assertion of ego comes from a sexually oriented source.

She could be a mom of 6 kids for all i care.
I would personally only consider getting implants after kids anyways.

Would you stop going to the gym after you get married/have kids?
You don't stop being a woman/man when you become a mother/father.
Sexual attraction is extremely important in a marriage even after (maybe especially so) after kids. Her lack of confidence might affect that.
Maybe it's not even about that, and she just wants her boobs to look like they used to, because she likes boobs. I like boobs.

Sexual attraction in marriage is important I agree. But her boob job isn't gonna make her more sexy. I mean, the husband KNOWS she got a boob job. If anything I personally would be turned off because my dear wife was operated on like frankenstein. Doctors touching my wifes breasts. Its still not a fresh pair of boobs...

Its not gonna change the reality. Nothing can. Its denial. You're in denial OP, Im sorry but its time to let them go...

You let yourself go when you got married with kids. Now you're here, enjoy your kids and your life. Not attention to your boobs or flirting from strangers here and there.

That last statement is about as low as you could possibly get. You are obviously trying to be offensive and it's ridiculous. No woman goes into starting a family with the mindset that she is just going to "let herself go". No woman wants that. While each and every one of us age, we still want to be attractive - especially to a spouse or significant other. While I personally am not yet married nor have children, I KNOW that I always want to be attractive to my future husband. Even after kids. It is obviously something for both of them to consider but she has every right and it is NOTHING to be ashamed of.

Well again, these people lie to you.

Like another poster above said, she and her man gained weight, but he "still saw me as attractive, and I was attractive to him".

Wait what? Attractive like how? He did "SEE" you as attractive. If your not attractive.

A man will stay with (or slay) an unattractive woman all day any day. That doesn't mean you were actually attractive. Only like 20% of the human race is technically even attractive.

If you got looks in life thank Jesus for giving you that DNA because you are in for one lucky roller coaster ride. But thats it.

Beauty isn't attraction. So you were never really sexy on a mass-appeal scale. You are just that persons significant other.

There is a huge difference. So when you say you want to be sexy for your husband what do you mean? Because once you get married you are united and you live for each other.

The only other reason you want to be sexy is to be sexy for others....

You can't just leave it vague, say what you really mean, you want attention from others. Outside of your marriage.

Remember, attention is like a currency. The media has turned everyone in our generations into attention-*kitten*.

And you are not fooling anyone by saying stuff like, I want to look sexy "for me"

We all just want attention so you should only get married when you can no longer get it and can settle for having attention from only one man. That is what you agree to when marrying. If you can't do that you're not ready for marriage.

You can either have the attention of everyone, or only one person. You can't have both.

I've seen some awesome implant boobies. And my friend's confidence went through the roof when she got them.

Depending on how much mammary tissue you have and how big you want them, a lift may be enough to make you happy. The doctor will know.

She's a mom with soon two kids.

She not out there hitting the clubs getting attention for her tits from guys lol.

Its a simpler ego thing, like the ghost of your past and your identity falling to a lower rung.

You shouldn't want that if you're married anyway, especially if your assertion of ego comes from a sexually oriented source.

Who are you to tell her what she can and can't do even though she is married?? Screw you.

I've seen some awesome implant boobies. And my friend's confidence went through the roof when she got them.

Depending on how much mammary tissue you have and how big you want them, a lift may be enough to make you happy. The doctor will know.

She's a mom with soon two kids.

She not out there hitting the clubs getting attention for her tits from guys lol.

Its a simpler ego thing, like the ghost of your past and your identity falling to a lower rung.

You shouldn't want that if you're married anyway, especially if your assertion of ego comes from a sexually oriented source.

She could be a mom of 6 kids for all i care.
I would personally only consider getting implants after kids anyways.

Would you stop going to the gym after you get married/have kids?
You don't stop being a woman/man when you become a mother/father.
Sexual attraction is extremely important in a marriage even after (maybe especially so) after kids. Her lack of confidence might affect that.
Maybe it's not even about that, and she just wants her boobs to look like they used to, because she likes boobs. I like boobs.

Sexual attraction in marriage is important I agree. But her boob job isn't gonna make her more sexy. I mean, the husband KNOWS she got a boob job. If anything I personally would be turned off because my dear wife was operated on like frankenstein. Doctors touching my wifes breasts. Its still not a fresh pair of boobs...

Its not gonna change the reality. Nothing can. Its denial. You're in denial OP, Im sorry but its time to let them go...

You let yourself go when you got married with kids. Now you're here, enjoy your kids and your life. Not attention to your boobs or flirting from strangers here and there.

That last statement is about as low as you could possibly get. You are obviously trying to be offensive and it's ridiculous. No woman goes into starting a family with the mindset that she is just going to "let herself go". No woman wants that. While each and every one of us age, we still want to be attractive - especially to a spouse or significant other. While I personally am not yet married nor have children, I KNOW that I always want to be attractive to my future husband. Even after kids. It is obviously something for both of them to consider but she has every right and it is NOTHING to be ashamed of.

Well again, these people lie to you.

Like another poster above said, she and her man gained weight, but he "still saw me as attractive, and I was attractive to him".

Wait what? Attractive like how? He did "SEE" you as attractive. If your not attractive.

A man will stay with (or slay) an unattractive woman all day any day. That doesn't mean you were actually attractive. Only like 20% of the human race is technically even attractive.

If you got looks in life thank Jesus for giving you that DNA because you are in for one lucky roller coaster ride. But thats it.

Beauty isn't attraction. So you were never really sexy on a mass-appeal scale. You are just that persons significant other.

There is a huge difference. So when you say you want to be sexy for your husband what do you mean? Because once you get married you are united and you live for each other.

The only other reason you want to be sexy is to be sexy for others....

You can't just leave it vague, say what you really mean, you want attention from others. Outside of your marriage.

Remember, attention is like a currency. The media has turned everyone in our generations into attention-*kitten*.

And you are not fooling anyone by saying stuff like, I want to look sexy "for me"

We all just want attention so you should only get married when you can no longer get it and can settle for having attention from only one man. That is what you agree to when marrying. If you can't do that you're not ready for marriage.

You can either have the attention of everyone, or only one person. You can't have both.

:smh: Who are you?

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=143768413

I've seen some awesome implant boobies. And my friend's confidence went through the roof when she got them.

Depending on how much mammary tissue you have and how big you want them, a lift may be enough to make you happy. The doctor will know.

She's a mom with soon two kids.

She not out there hitting the clubs getting attention for her tits from guys lol.

Its a simpler ego thing, like the ghost of your past and your identity falling to a lower rung.

You shouldn't want that if you're married anyway, especially if your assertion of ego comes from a sexually oriented source.

She could be a mom of 6 kids for all i care.
I would personally only consider getting implants after kids anyways.

Would you stop going to the gym after you get married/have kids?
You don't stop being a woman/man when you become a mother/father.
Sexual attraction is extremely important in a marriage even after (maybe especially so) after kids. Her lack of confidence might affect that.
Maybe it's not even about that, and she just wants her boobs to look like they used to, because she likes boobs. I like boobs.

Sexual attraction in marriage is important I agree. But her boob job isn't gonna make her more sexy. I mean, the husband KNOWS she got a boob job. If anything I personally would be turned off because my dear wife was operated on like frankenstein. Doctors touching my wifes breasts. Its still not a fresh pair of boobs...

Its not gonna change the reality. Nothing can. Its denial. You're in denial OP, Im sorry but its time to let them go...

You let yourself go when you got married with kids. Now you're here, enjoy your kids and your life. Not attention to your boobs or flirting from strangers here and there.

That last statement is about as low as you could possibly get. You are obviously trying to be offensive and it's ridiculous. No woman goes into starting a family with the mindset that she is just going to "let herself go". No woman wants that. While each and every one of us age, we still want to be attractive - especially to a spouse or significant other. While I personally am not yet married nor have children, I KNOW that I always want to be attractive to my future husband. Even after kids. It is obviously something for both of them to consider but she has every right and it is NOTHING to be ashamed of.

Well again, these people lie to you.

Like another poster above said, she and her man gained weight, but he "still saw me as attractive, and I was attractive to him".

Wait what? Attractive like how? He did "SEE" you as attractive. If your not attractive.

A man will stay with (or slay) an unattractive woman all day any day. That doesn't mean you were actually attractive. Only like 20% of the human race is technically even attractive.

If you got looks in life thank Jesus for giving you that DNA because you are in for one lucky roller coaster ride. But thats it.

Beauty isn't attraction. So you were never really sexy on a mass-appeal scale. You are just that persons significant other.

There is a huge difference. So when you say you want to be sexy for your husband what do you mean? Because once you get married you are united and you live for each other.

The only other reason you want to be sexy is to be sexy for others....

You can't just leave it vague, say what you really mean, you want attention from others. Outside of your marriage.

Remember, attention is like a currency. The media has turned everyone in our generations into attention-*kitten*.

And you are not fooling anyone by saying stuff like, I want to look sexy "for me"

We all just want attention so you should only get married when you can no longer get it and can settle for having attention from only one man. That is what you agree to when marrying. If you can't do that you're not ready for marriage.

You can either have the attention of everyone, or only one person. You can't have both.

:smh: Who are you?

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=143768413

This answers ALL of my questions. Thankyou :flowerforyou:

This answers ALL of my questions. Thankyou :flowerforyou:

lol shut up you've seen that thread a hundred times.

Real stalkish ladies....