Serious questions for married/serious relationship people?

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  • kgeyser
    kgeyser Posts: 22,505 Member
    1. No.
    2. Not on here but knows I'm on here.
    3. No, he knows what he married.
  • Hobb3s
    Hobb3s Posts: 119 Member
    1) Yes
    3) No, she's my wife, she knows/gets me.
  • 1) No

    2) Isn't here, but knows I am.

    3) No.
  • BL_Coleman
    BL_Coleman Posts: 324 Member
    1. No, ( wish he would)
    2. Yes
    3. No
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  • GoMizzou99
    GoMizzou99 Posts: 512 Member
    1. No

    Uh-oh - 2 is a 2 part question:
    2.a. No; and
    2.b. Yes they know I have an account

    3. I would act the same
  • Mischievous_Rascal
    Mischievous_Rascal Posts: 1,791 Member
    1 No
    2 Yes
    3 Yes...I would be way, WAY more of a brat for his benefit...
  • vjohn04
    vjohn04 Posts: 2,276 Member
    1.) Yes
    2.) N/A
    3.) Why would I act any differently? I would be the same me I always am.
  • MysteriousMerlin
    MysteriousMerlin Posts: 2,270 Member
    1. No

    2. No to being on the site himself, but yes to knowing I have an account and post here. I basically don't shut up about it :laugh:

    3. No, I would not act differently. I would have no need to ;)
  • 1. Yes
    2. Not Applicable
    3. I act the same, regardless of his presence on my friend's list.
  • 1. no
    2. a) no b) yes

    3. I would act the same, in fact I often show him my newsfeed, statuses and such for a good chuckle at my antics.

    he knew what he was getting when he got me, he's VERY confident about how much I adore him.
  • 1) No he's not

    2) Yes he knows I'm on here. I have app on his phone so he has access if he wanted but he doesn't

    3) Act differently, nope.

    As a rule, in my opinion, if you wouldn't do it or say it in front of your spouse, you shouldn't do it behind their backs either. JMO...
  • NikiaSue
    NikiaSue Posts: 259 Member
    1) Is your spouse on your friends list?

    2) If no, is your spouse on the site and/or do they even know you have an account/are on the site?

    3) Whichever is true (on your FL or not) , if the opposite were true....do you think you would act differently? In what way?
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    1-no

    2-no he doesn't care for social sites, not even FB, and yes I tell him about it and show him

    3-nope. I am who I am. that's why we're married :wink:
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    1. We met on MFP and started humping so I removed him from my FL so I could still *kitten* around behind his back.




    I don't think I need to answer 2 & 3, do I?
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    No x 3
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    1) Is your spouse on your friends list?

    2) If no, is your spouse on the site and/or do they even know you have an account/are on the site?

    3) Whichever is true (on your FL or not) , if the opposite were true....do you think you would act differently? In what way?

    1) No

    2) My wife does not MFP...yes, she knows that I MFP

    3) No, I mostly talk about riding bikes, lifting weights, and general nutrition with my FL peeps...pretty much the same drivel I expose my wife to at home...if she has to hear one more time about how awesome my ride was on such and such a day, I think she's going to kill me.

    One thing I would do differently if she was on my FL though would be PMing her with regularly scheduled junk shots just for ****s and giggles....
  • 19TaraLynn84
    19TaraLynn84 Posts: 739 Member
    My hubby is not on the site, but he knows that I am. I would act the same if he were here. I'm not pretending to be someone I'm not. I actually share a lot of the conversations with him that I have on here.
  • k8blujay2
    k8blujay2 Posts: 4,941 Member
    No, Yes (he prefers to do the weight loss thing by himself), and for the most part no... there may be one or two instances where I would have... but nothing major.
  • aimroe
    aimroe Posts: 13 Member
    1) Is your spouse on your friends list?

    2) If no, is your spouse on the site and/or do they even know you have an account/are on the site?

    3) Whichever is true (on your FL or not) , if the opposite were true....do you think you would act differently? In what way?

    No, my spouse doesn't really approve of MFP.
    No, he isn't on the site either.
    I would probably act different in the regards of posting if I was under my calorie goal for the day. I already receive slack as far as counting goes, and especially if he know I was under my daily goal.
  • The_Enginerd
    The_Enginerd Posts: 3,982 Member
    1) No
    2) Yes she knows I have an account here.
    3) I'd like to plead the 5th.
  • Mother_Superior
    Mother_Superior Posts: 1,624 Member
    1. We met on MFP and started humping so I removed him from my FL so I could still *kitten* around behind his back.




    I don't think I need to answer 2 & 3, do I?

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  • _crafty_
    _crafty_ Posts: 1,682 Member
    1. We met on MFP and started humping so I removed him from my FL so I could still *kitten* around behind his back.




    I don't think I need to answer 2 & 3, do I?

    Why didn't I go this route? :grumble:
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    No longer married, but I've been on MFP long before my divorce.

    1) Is your spouse on your friends list? No

    2) If no, is your spouse on the site and/or do they even know you have an account/are on the site? Ex knew I was on here, didn't care.

    3) Whichever is true (on your FL or not) , if the opposite were true....do you think you would act differently? In what way? If we were still married, I wouldn't flirt. I have no reason not to now.
  • Whyareyoumad
    Whyareyoumad Posts: 268 Member
    1) Is your spouse on your friends list?

    2) If no, is your spouse on the site and/or do they even know you have an account/are on the site?

    3) Whichever is true (on your FL or not) , if the opposite were true....do you think you would act differently? In what way?

    No, but my oldest son is.

    No by her choice and she knows I am here.

    I would not act any differently.
  • ThinLizzie0802
    ThinLizzie0802 Posts: 863 Member
    No not on the site so not on my friends list.

    No, I would not act differently if he were.

    In fact, I had a gentleman PM me the other day who was married. His harmless questions very quickly turned sexual and I politely told him I wasn't interested in continuing the conversation because I don't engage in behaviors that I wouldn't want my bf engaging in. And I don't flirt with married men.
  • neandermagnon
    neandermagnon Posts: 7,436 Member
    1) Is your spouse on your friends list?

    no
    2) If no, is your spouse on the site and/or do they even know you have an account/are on the site?

    not on this site. knows i have this account.
    3) Whichever is true (on your FL or not) , if the opposite were true....do you think you would act differently? In what way?

    I don't think I would act differently. Other than occasionally messaging him to show him derpy stuff on the forums, as opposed to calling him over to show him on my laptop screen or reading it to him.
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    1. We met on MFP and started humping so I removed him from my FL so I could still *kitten* around behind his back.




    I don't think I need to answer 2 & 3, do I?

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  • 1) No
    2) Yes
    3) Yes
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    1) Is your spouse on your friends list?

    2) If no, is your spouse on the site and/or do they even know you have an account/are on the site?

    3) Whichever is true (on your FL or not) , if the opposite were true....do you think you would act differently? In what way?

    No, but my oldest son is.

    No by her choice and she knows I am here.

    I would not act any differently.

    Oh snap!


    Kid's on MFP would be a whole different ball game for me *LOL*
  • Chezzie84
    Chezzie84 Posts: 873 Member
    No, my boyfriend is not on my friends list
    No, he is not on the site but he knows that I am
    No, I would not do anything different if he was

    My boyfriend takes an interest in my weight loss and since the page is open on my kindle all the time, he is free to look if he wants.