2 weeks on Lyle Mcdonald's RFLD...advice please?

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  • Dee,

    I just took a quick look at your post history. Based on what I saw, my recommendation is this: get off the RFLD now. With your history, this is not a good plan for you.
    Holy ****, I did not realize you were recovering from an eating disorder. I completely agree that this is a HORRIBLE IDEA for you. I have a feeling the author of the diet would completely agree.

    THIS.

    And again, explains why you aren't able to lose the weight. Excess Cortisol, from PCOS and additionally the extra stress you are adding with the crash diets. And perhaps a suppressed metabolism.

    I'm still throwing in for the thyroid since your TSH level puts you in overt hypothyrodism at over 3 (and yours were over 4).

    Perhaps that too. But even if it is not thyroid, she probably has enough going on with cortisol to prevent normal weight loss, paired with what damage there may have been to metabolism from past unhealthy eating.

    Yep you're probably right about cortisol...I have been having some difficulty with sleep and pounding heart. I am going to get through the rest of this week then next week perhaps slowly increase calories to prevent rebound weight gain and hopefully find a good balance.
  • Fullsterkur_woman
    Fullsterkur_woman Posts: 2,712 Member
    It sounds like you're already back in a super-disordered place in your relationship with food. Do you think this diet will bring you further away from that, or closer to it? I'm not being judgey, but if I were in your shoes, I would be wanting people to tell me not to focus on the wrong part of the story, and right now, the scale moving is the wrong part of the story.
  • Dee,

    I just took a quick look at your post history. Based on what I saw, my recommendation is this: get off the RFLD now. With your history, this is not a good plan for you.
    Holy ****, I did not realize you were recovering from an eating disorder. I completely agree that this is a HORRIBLE IDEA for you. I have a feeling the author of the diet would completely agree.

    THIS.

    And again, explains why you aren't able to lose the weight. Excess Cortisol, from PCOS and additionally the extra stress you are adding with the crash diets. And perhaps a suppressed metabolism.

    Over restriction can lead to binge eating

    I know :(. I've been working hard at getting a handle on it. ANY restriction can lead me to binge eating...but it's restrict or stay fat.
  • kjo9692
    kjo9692 Posts: 430 Member
    Dee,

    I just took a quick look at your post history. Based on what I saw, my recommendation is this: get off the RFLD now. With your history, this is not a good plan for you.

    Can I ask why? I'm not at risk of becoming anorexic, trust me. Binge eating was my problem and I haven't done that in a long time.


    That, right there. On this type of diet, you are much more likely to binge than someone else.

    And to answer your original question, deksgrl probably pretty much just nailed it.

    Yeah I know and it is hard but I've tried to get help for it and been unsuccessful so I have to deal with it myself. I do agree that I'm much more likely to binge, but I am much better at coping with it now. If I feel that I'm getting to the stage that it's too much for me I stop. I can feel it coming a mile away and this is why I can't eat nothing at all but thought this diet would actually be helpful because 1. on a moderate calorie deficit the emotional side is worse because progress is painfully slow and I end up gaining weight and 2. I just absolutely cannot stand the idea of being overweight for the rest of my life because of a bloody ED that I've worked hard at fixing....:(

    Dee, take it easy on yourself. If you don't have much to lose like others have suggested, aim to lose 0.5 pound per week. It is more sustainable because you'll be eating at a reasonable deficit that's not too hard and won't make you want to binge. Trust me, at the beginning I was eating waaaay too low. And now I'm eating 1550 and more than that if I exercise, and now thoughts on binging are practically gone. Every day I treat myself to something that I like, and it's really easier this way. Take it easy, really. If you have about 10 pounds to lose that's just 20 weeks, and time will pass anyway.

    If you need someone to talk to send me a PM or FR. :flowerforyou:
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    I'm pretty sure I'm using per se correctly. It also means "of, or in itself". It's the same as saying, "I don't know what his personal psychological issue is, in an of itself, but it is significant." That is used correctly. Check the Chicago Manual of Style if you don't believe me.

    Still not correct, but you'll read no more from me in this thread.
    I don't mind derailing a thread on occasion, but if OP has eating issues, I am ducking out of this one.

    I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on that. I feel pretty comfortable with my usage given my background, and you're the first person ever to state otherwise.

    LOL here you go again. Yes, yes, we know you are smarter than everyone :rollseyes:

    ETA: My bad, you are smarter than 99% of the people in the U.S. :laugh:

    and she is a lawyer and biologist!!!
  • Fullsterkur_woman
    Fullsterkur_woman Posts: 2,712 Member
    I made it to page 3, 3 pages to go and I'm already jumping in. Jesus, Lindsey, how the F is this thread about you now? OP has said multiple times she is NOT insulin resistant and not hypothryoid. Yes, yes, we ALL know YOU'VE been tested, blah blah blah, and that's how you lost weight and yay for you.
    Are you going to show up on everyone's thread and talk all about yourself and your tests and how you lost weight from those tests and forget completely about the OP?

    When she says things that point to such issues, I believe it's relevant. Here are the factors:

    (1) She stated over and over again that caloric deficit wasn't producing the anticipated results
    (2) She stated over and over again that she was confident in calorie counting and gave examples to support that
    (3) She said that she did have certain symptoms of hypothryoid -- hands and feet that were cold all the time, difficulty losing weight, unexplained weight gain
    (4) Oh, and most of all a blood test of TSH showing actual hypothyroidism.

    I know a lot of people like to jump on others and tell them that they're crazy, can't count calories correctly, are lying, etc., but sometimes there are actual valid reasons for the pieces not adding up. Oh, so terrible of me for sharing my experience in a highly analogous situation.

    You're going to feel really stupid when you bother to read the next 3-4 pages. Try harder.
    So assuming arguendo that she is logging calories correctly, perhaps the calories-out side of the equation is the issue. I don't think two weeks is long enough to see if anything is working (unless by "working" you mean making her feel like crap), but if there is no loss once things like water weight are accounted for, there is no caloric deficit. You don't have to be lying or not counting correctly to not be in caloric deficit, so I have no need to accuse her of that.
  • Well I'm going to have more tests on my thyroid in a few months, but I went to see an endocrinologist in the past and he told me my thyroid was fine so even if it is sluggish how do I get anyone to do anything if they refuse to accept there's a problem? Very little specialists I can see outside of this without a ton of money to go private.

    What you said makes me think about a few years ago when I gained 12lbs over 9 days over Christmas. Now these judegmental people on here will say, "Well you must have been stuffing yourself with an excess of 2,000 cals a day!" but to me that is excessive. I wasn't counting calories so I can't say how much I was eating but eating 3,000 cals in one day makes me so full I want to puke so I can't see it likely that I was consuming over 4,000 a day. I don't have ALL the signs of hypothyroid though...I believe my body temp is normal even though my hands and feet are ALWAYS cold.

    Did you have to pay to see a specialist? The problem I see even if I am found to have a slow thryoid is that the treatment is thyroxine which doesn't seem to be hugely effective when it comes to weight. My mom has a friend who's got weight problems, was diagnosed with hypothyroidism, given thyroxine, but still struggles to lose weight :-/. I'm sure it'd be worth a try...my GP said if my thyroid is still borderline in a few months they'd trial me on some but went on about side effects and this is why they're hesitant to prescribe it. How did they treat you if you don't mind me asking? What medications? I do agree that doctors should be looking at what's optimal and not what's ok because it's only JUST outside of range. This is the strange thing...my first test showed borderline (4.3 or something), then months later 2 more tests were both around 2 or so. Then most recent one was 4.22, so I'll have to wait to see what the next one says. I have nothing to lose though so I will try push the issue next time...Lord what a relief it would be to not have to suffer so bad just to lose a couple of pounds! I'm sorry you had bad experiences with people being nasty to you too. I really don't understand why people don't believe it's possible that we're all different and metabolic issues are a REAL thing. Them saying that because they can lose weight on a certain amount of calories you must be able to too is like saying to someone in a wheelchair, "Well I can walk, so you must be able to walk too!" but just because they can't SEE it they can't believe it. They can't SEE what your body is doing inside so they refuse to believe it's not working optimally. It's very very narrow-minded.

    I'm pretty sure by the current standards, you're overt hypothyroid now. The "normal" levels for TSH used to be 0.5 - 5.0. As a few years ago, they adjusted that to 0.3 - 3.0, putting your ranges in the clearly hypothyroid area at 4+. Having different readings with no treatment is common with Hashi's as people with Hashi's swing from hypo to normal to hyper depending on how much the immune system is attacking the thyroid at any given time -- so that may be what's happening (that's exactly what happened to me). You really need the antibody tests (read that article I linked to) -- some with Hashi's still won't show antibodies but the vast majority will. You need to find a doctor that can help you with this. Far too many docs and endos are terrible with this -- seriously, go to thyroid websites and you'll see such stories all the time. As I said, I saw 4 docs before I got where I needed to be -- 2 primary care and 2 actual endos. Plus, if you read that article I shared, it explains why if you have the antibodies of Hashi's, how many of the tests are ineffective as they don't know how much of the free T3 and T4 the antibodies are binding up and making ineffective. I too have a normal body temp and my hands and feet were cold ALL the time. You totally sound hypo, in some variation or another.

    Unfortunately, I did end up going private and it is costly (first visit was $600, follow up visits $400 -- but I only have to see him once a year now). But, man, did I wish I'd spent the thousand+ (after the first few visits and all the labs) 10+ years ago as my insurance docs weren't getting it done at all. For me, I pay my doc directly and then he orders labs/tests through my insurance. If you go to thyroid sites, people will recommend folks or send you to sites for referrals for docs who specialize in thyroid (some are endos, some are family practitioners with an emphasis there, etc.).

    If you can't go private at all, I'd start doing the research yourself about these tests and challenging your doctor on it. www.stopthethyroidmadness.com is good resource and you'll find soooo many people with similar stories to yours. You can also have labs done yourself through places like quest and mymedlab if your doctor refuses to order them. And, if none of that works, find a new doctor and keep looking for one that can answer these issues on thyroid.

    As for treatment, I tried both synthetics (Synthroid which is just T4) but ended up preferring Nature-throid (which is a combination T3 and T4 drug -- it's natural dessicated thyroid). And it's cheap -- like less than $10/month -- and has been around many, many years. Some endos prefer the synthetics because the dosing in more precise and consistent, but the natural dessicated thyroid is still pretty good (and many docs like mine says the differential is negligible) -- and for whatever reason, some people like me just do better on it. In the end, I'm more concerned about symptoms than anything else and that works for me. In thyroid forums, you'll see big debates about synthetics (synthroid, cytomel) versus natural dessicated thyroid (Nature-throid, Armour, etc.). Personally, I wonder if the synthetic bias isn't somewhat linked to kickbacks to doctors.

    As for the weight issues, thyroid is only part of the problem sometimes. For example, when we were investigating thyroid, he looked at a lot of stuff that can contribute to the overall picture -- adrenal issues, liver issues, blood/glucose issues, vitamin deficiencies, etc. He said if something is off (especially adrenal), you can first feel awful on thyroid treatment because another part of the equation is off (because when thyroid goes off, it can cause a cascade of things). So, before I started on thyroid treatment, he wanted to make sure everything else was where it should be -- and that's when he found the insulin resistance and vitamin D and magnesium deficiencies (which can also contribute to difficulty losing weight). So, it's totally possible that your mother's friend is fine as far as her thyroid goes (or it could be be undermedicated), but have some other issues like adrenal fatigue or insulin resistance which is creating a roadblock to weight loss.

    And, thyroid medication doesn't make you lose weight per se. You still have to put in the hard work in diet and exercise (but you seem to have that part well under control). It just evens the playing field and means that people like us will be able to lose weight like a "normal" person. And that's exactly what happened for me once I got it all sorted out. But, man, do I wish I'd known this 10+ years ago. I could have stopped that sysphian struggle a long time ago.

    As for the nasty people here (i.e. not the people that are genuinely helpful and kind). I figure it's either a fear thing --- they want things to be simple, so they insist on forcing those round pegs into square holes in order to comfort themselves about such issues -- or, like a lot of internet trolls, they're just sadists looking for vulnerable people to pick on. It's how they get their rocks off. I really wish the moderators actually moderated this because such disrespectful behavior is totally unnecessary and just drives people away. It will hurt them more in the end.

    And the funny thing about the whole "special snowflake" thing some people throw around, it turns out I was that special snowflake apparently. Though, I've since learned, there are quite a few of us out there. For example, the American Thyroid Association estimates something like 20 million Americans have a thyroid disorder (60% of which are undiagnosed) and 12% of the population will have one at some point in their lives. Or, insulin resistance numbers are estimated at 80 million Americans or 25% of the population. That's a LOT of special snowflakes. Once you add in other things like adrenal issues, liver issues, diabetes, PCOS, etc. -- the numbers are pretty significant. If people are truly doing the eating and exercising and calculating of such faithfully as you appear to be, they probably are one of those special snowflakes.


    I made it to page 3, 3 pages to go and I'm already jumping in. Jesus, Lindsey, how the F is this thread about you now? OP has said multiple times she is NOT insulin resistant and not hypothryoid. Yes, yes, we ALL know YOU'VE been tested, blah blah blah, and that's how you lost weight and yay for you.
    Are you going to show up on everyone's thread and talk all about yourself and your tests and how you lost weight from those tests and forget completely about the OP?

    I think she has some very good points and things I've wondered about myself. I'm also happy to hear other people's stories who've struggled to lose weight for whatever reason.
  • Fullsterkur_woman
    Fullsterkur_woman Posts: 2,712 Member
    and she is a lawyer and biologist!!!
    Well, I stayed in a Holiday Inn Express last night, so...
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  • lindsey1979
    lindsey1979 Posts: 2,395 Member
    Dee,

    I just took a quick look at your post history. Based on what I saw, my recommendation is this: get off the RFLD now. With your history, this is not a good plan for you.
    Holy ****, I did not realize you were recovering from an eating disorder. I completely agree that this is a HORRIBLE IDEA for you. I have a feeling the author of the diet would completely agree.

    THIS.

    And again, explains why you aren't able to lose the weight. Excess Cortisol, from PCOS and additionally the extra stress you are adding with the crash diets. And perhaps a suppressed metabolism.

    I'm still throwing in for the thyroid since your TSH level puts you in overt hypothyrodism at over 3 (and yours were over 4).

    Perhaps that too. But even if it is not thyroid, she probably has enough going on with cortisol to prevent normal weight loss, paired with what damage there may have been to metabolism from past unhealthy eating.

    Yep you're probably right about cortisol...I have been having some difficulty with sleep and pounding heart. I am going to get through the rest of this week then next week perhaps slowly increase calories to prevent rebound weight gain and hopefully find a good balance.

    Do you tend to hold fat along the middle (rather than limbs/hips/thighs)? I know that's a common sign of excess cortisol.
  • Lisa1971
    Lisa1971 Posts: 3,069 Member
    IN for the free popcorn!!!!!

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  • Dee,

    I just took a quick look at your post history. Based on what I saw, my recommendation is this: get off the RFLD now. With your history, this is not a good plan for you.

    Can I ask why? I'm not at risk of becoming anorexic, trust me. Binge eating was my problem and I haven't done that in a long time.
    Looking around at people who have tried the diet and decided that it didn't work all said that it led then to binge (one was on here, a couple on bodybuilding.com). I would think this diet could be a horrible trigger for you. As much as it sucks, I think slow and steady will work better for you.

    In addition, I don't know how much weight you have to lose, but have you considered working on body recomposition instead of just losing weight? I don't know if you've read Staci's story, but it's a great read. http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2011/07/21/meet-staci-your-new-powerlifting-super-hero/

    She weighs 11lbs more in the photo on the right, but looks much smaller:

    54b9d0ce-b8cb-4f82-b6b5-e2e17713d515_zpsc4e88b7e.jpg

    Truth is I have a LOT of triggers, not just hunger. I figure it's better to be losing some weight and making progress and if I get a trigger at least I don't end up weighing more. I don't know what to do anymore :(

    I haven't looked into body recomposition. I find strength training SUCH hard work...I use weights but they're only 2.5lbs. I don't have money to pay for a gym membership but if it's something I can do at home then perhaps I'll give it a try! Thanks for the link I'll take a look.
  • kjo9692
    kjo9692 Posts: 430 Member
    I'm pretty sure I'm using per se correctly. It also means "of, or in itself". It's the same as saying, "I don't know what his personal psychological issue is, in an of itself, but it is significant." That is used correctly. Check the Chicago Manual of Style if you don't believe me.

    Still not correct, but you'll read no more from me in this thread.
    I don't mind derailing a thread on occasion, but if OP has eating issues, I am ducking out of this one.

    I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on that. I feel pretty comfortable with my usage given my background, and you're the first person ever to state otherwise.

    LOL here you go again. Yes, yes, we know you are smarter than everyone :rollseyes:

    ETA: My bad, you are smarter than 99% of the people in the U.S. :laugh:

    and she is a lawyer and biologist!!!

    OH GOSH LINDSEY FORGIVE ME FOR NOT QUOTING YOUR CREDENTIALS CORRECTLY :sad: :sad: :sad:

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  • lindsey1979
    lindsey1979 Posts: 2,395 Member
    Dee,

    I just took a quick look at your post history. Based on what I saw, my recommendation is this: get off the RFLD now. With your history, this is not a good plan for you.

    Can I ask why? I'm not at risk of becoming anorexic, trust me. Binge eating was my problem and I haven't done that in a long time.
    Looking around at people who have tried the diet and decided that it didn't work all said that it led then to binge (one was on here, a couple on bodybuilding.com). I would think this diet could be a horrible trigger for you. As much as it sucks, I think slow and steady will work better for you.

    In addition, I don't know how much weight you have to lose, but have you considered working on body recomposition instead of just losing weight? I don't know if you've read Staci's story, but it's a great read. http://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/2011/07/21/meet-staci-your-new-powerlifting-super-hero/

    She weighs 11lbs more in the photo on the right, but looks much smaller:

    54b9d0ce-b8cb-4f82-b6b5-e2e17713d515_zpsc4e88b7e.jpg

    I haven't looked into body recomposition. I find strength training SUCH hard work...I use weights but they're only 2.5lbs. I don't have money to pay for a gym membership but if it's something I can do at home then perhaps I'll give it a try! Thanks for the link I'll take a look.

    Lifting heavy can be one of the best things you can do to help maintain lean body mass while in a caloric deficit. It oftentimes means getting a gym membership or putting together your own weight set (but often you can find deals on craigslist or used otherwise). We set up our own olympic set in the garage and it works really well for us. If you're interested in learning some good weight lifting exercises, I'd highly recommend Starting Strength's 3x5 workout. Squats, bench, press, deadlift, etc. -- 2-3 times a week in the beginning is all it takes to make significant changes -- and that book has awesome info on proper form.

    Also, if you want something you can do for free that makes huge impacts -- look into sprint workouts. Once or twice a week, especially for newbies, has great results (especially if up a hill). Think about how jacked sprinters (Flo Jo, Michael Johnson, etc.). Here'a good, but wordy, article on why they're so awesome: http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/par46.htm
  • auddii
    auddii Posts: 15,357 Member
    Truth is I have a LOT of triggers, not just hunger. I figure it's better to be losing some weight and making progress and if I get a trigger at least I don't end up weighing more. I don't know what to do anymore :(

    I haven't looked into body recomposition. I find strength training SUCH hard work...I use weights but they're only 2.5lbs. I don't have money to pay for a gym membership but if it's something I can do at home then perhaps I'll give it a try! Thanks for the link I'll take a look.

    Really now, your purse probably weighs more than 2.5lbs. :wink: Look into some progressive resistance training programs that use body weight exercises. There are a ton of them, but two I often see thrown around are Convict Conditioning and You Are Your Own Gym.
  • lindsey1979
    lindsey1979 Posts: 2,395 Member
    I'm pretty sure I'm using per se correctly. It also means "of, or in itself". It's the same as saying, "I don't know what his personal psychological issue is, in an of itself, but it is significant." That is used correctly. Check the Chicago Manual of Style if you don't believe me.

    Still not correct, but you'll read no more from me in this thread.
    I don't mind derailing a thread on occasion, but if OP has eating issues, I am ducking out of this one.

    I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on that. I feel pretty comfortable with my usage given my background, and you're the first person ever to state otherwise.

    LOL here you go again. Yes, yes, we know you are smarter than everyone :rollseyes:

    ETA: My bad, you are smarter than 99% of the people in the U.S. :laugh:

    and she is a lawyer and biologist!!!

    OH GOSH LINDSEY FORGIVE ME FOR NOT QUOTING YOUR CREDENTIALS CORRECTLY :sad: :sad: :sad:

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    Tis better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt. -- Abe Lincoln (I think)
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    Well I'm going to have more tests on my thyroid in a few months, but I went to see an endocrinologist in the past and he told me my thyroid was fine so even if it is sluggish how do I get anyone to do anything if they refuse to accept there's a problem? Very little specialists I can see outside of this without a ton of money to go private.

    What you said makes me think about a few years ago when I gained 12lbs over 9 days over Christmas. Now these judegmental people on here will say, "Well you must have been stuffing yourself with an excess of 2,000 cals a day!" but to me that is excessive. I wasn't counting calories so I can't say how much I was eating but eating 3,000 cals in one day makes me so full I want to puke so I can't see it likely that I was consuming over 4,000 a day. I don't have ALL the signs of hypothyroid though...I believe my body temp is normal even though my hands and feet are ALWAYS cold.

    Did you have to pay to see a specialist? The problem I see even if I am found to have a slow thryoid is that the treatment is thyroxine which doesn't seem to be hugely effective when it comes to weight. My mom has a friend who's got weight problems, was diagnosed with hypothyroidism, given thyroxine, but still struggles to lose weight :-/. I'm sure it'd be worth a try...my GP said if my thyroid is still borderline in a few months they'd trial me on some but went on about side effects and this is why they're hesitant to prescribe it. How did they treat you if you don't mind me asking? What medications? I do agree that doctors should be looking at what's optimal and not what's ok because it's only JUST outside of range. This is the strange thing...my first test showed borderline (4.3 or something), then months later 2 more tests were both around 2 or so. Then most recent one was 4.22, so I'll have to wait to see what the next one says. I have nothing to lose though so I will try push the issue next time...Lord what a relief it would be to not have to suffer so bad just to lose a couple of pounds! I'm sorry you had bad experiences with people being nasty to you too. I really don't understand why people don't believe it's possible that we're all different and metabolic issues are a REAL thing. Them saying that because they can lose weight on a certain amount of calories you must be able to too is like saying to someone in a wheelchair, "Well I can walk, so you must be able to walk too!" but just because they can't SEE it they can't believe it. They can't SEE what your body is doing inside so they refuse to believe it's not working optimally. It's very very narrow-minded.

    I'm pretty sure by the current standards, you're overt hypothyroid now. The "normal" levels for TSH used to be 0.5 - 5.0. As a few years ago, they adjusted that to 0.3 - 3.0, putting your ranges in the clearly hypothyroid area at 4+. Having different readings with no treatment is common with Hashi's as people with Hashi's swing from hypo to normal to hyper depending on how much the immune system is attacking the thyroid at any given time -- so that may be what's happening (that's exactly what happened to me). You really need the antibody tests (read that article I linked to) -- some with Hashi's still won't show antibodies but the vast majority will. You need to find a doctor that can help you with this. Far too many docs and endos are terrible with this -- seriously, go to thyroid websites and you'll see such stories all the time. As I said, I saw 4 docs before I got where I needed to be -- 2 primary care and 2 actual endos. Plus, if you read that article I shared, it explains why if you have the antibodies of Hashi's, how many of the tests are ineffective as they don't know how much of the free T3 and T4 the antibodies are binding up and making ineffective. I too have a normal body temp and my hands and feet were cold ALL the time. You totally sound hypo, in some variation or another.

    Unfortunately, I did end up going private and it is costly (first visit was $600, follow up visits $400 -- but I only have to see him once a year now). But, man, did I wish I'd spent the thousand+ (after the first few visits and all the labs) 10+ years ago as my insurance docs weren't getting it done at all. For me, I pay my doc directly and then he orders labs/tests through my insurance. If you go to thyroid sites, people will recommend folks or send you to sites for referrals for docs who specialize in thyroid (some are endos, some are family practitioners with an emphasis there, etc.).

    If you can't go private at all, I'd start doing the research yourself about these tests and challenging your doctor on it. www.stopthethyroidmadness.com is good resource and you'll find soooo many people with similar stories to yours. You can also have labs done yourself through places like quest and mymedlab if your doctor refuses to order them. And, if none of that works, find a new doctor and keep looking for one that can answer these issues on thyroid.

    As for treatment, I tried both synthetics (Synthroid which is just T4) but ended up preferring Nature-throid (which is a combination T3 and T4 drug -- it's natural dessicated thyroid). And it's cheap -- like less than $10/month -- and has been around many, many years. Some endos prefer the synthetics because the dosing in more precise and consistent, but the natural dessicated thyroid is still pretty good (and many docs like mine says the differential is negligible) -- and for whatever reason, some people like me just do better on it. In the end, I'm more concerned about symptoms than anything else and that works for me. In thyroid forums, you'll see big debates about synthetics (synthroid, cytomel) versus natural dessicated thyroid (Nature-throid, Armour, etc.). Personally, I wonder if the synthetic bias isn't somewhat linked to kickbacks to doctors.

    As for the weight issues, thyroid is only part of the problem sometimes. For example, when we were investigating thyroid, he looked at a lot of stuff that can contribute to the overall picture -- adrenal issues, liver issues, blood/glucose issues, vitamin deficiencies, etc. He said if something is off (especially adrenal), you can first feel awful on thyroid treatment because another part of the equation is off (because when thyroid goes off, it can cause a cascade of things). So, before I started on thyroid treatment, he wanted to make sure everything else was where it should be -- and that's when he found the insulin resistance and vitamin D and magnesium deficiencies (which can also contribute to difficulty losing weight). So, it's totally possible that your mother's friend is fine as far as her thyroid goes (or it could be be undermedicated), but have some other issues like adrenal fatigue or insulin resistance which is creating a roadblock to weight loss.

    And, thyroid medication doesn't make you lose weight per se. You still have to put in the hard work in diet and exercise (but you seem to have that part well under control). It just evens the playing field and means that people like us will be able to lose weight like a "normal" person. And that's exactly what happened for me once I got it all sorted out. But, man, do I wish I'd known this 10+ years ago. I could have stopped that sysphian struggle a long time ago.

    As for the nasty people here (i.e. not the people that are genuinely helpful and kind). I figure it's either a fear thing --- they want things to be simple, so they insist on forcing those round pegs into square holes in order to comfort themselves about such issues -- or, like a lot of internet trolls, they're just sadists looking for vulnerable people to pick on. It's how they get their rocks off. I really wish the moderators actually moderated this because such disrespectful behavior is totally unnecessary and just drives people away. It will hurt them more in the end.

    And the funny thing about the whole "special snowflake" thing some people throw around, it turns out I was that special snowflake apparently. Though, I've since learned, there are quite a few of us out there. For example, the American Thyroid Association estimates something like 20 million Americans have a thyroid disorder (60% of which are undiagnosed) and 12% of the population will have one at some point in their lives. Or, insulin resistance numbers are estimated at 80 million Americans or 25% of the population. That's a LOT of special snowflakes. Once you add in other things like adrenal issues, liver issues, diabetes, PCOS, etc. -- the numbers are pretty significant. If people are truly doing the eating and exercising and calculating of such faithfully as you appear to be, they probably are one of those special snowflakes.


    I made it to page 3, 3 pages to go and I'm already jumping in. Jesus, Lindsey, how the F is this thread about you now? OP has said multiple times she is NOT insulin resistant and not hypothryoid. Yes, yes, we ALL know YOU'VE been tested, blah blah blah, and that's how you lost weight and yay for you.
    Are you going to show up on everyone's thread and talk all about yourself and your tests and how you lost weight from those tests and forget completely about the OP?

    I think she has some very good points and things I've wondered about myself. I'm also happy to hear other people's stories who've struggled to lose weight for whatever reason.

    OP - Now I am confused, and I am really not trying to be mean ..but when people offered their stories early in the thread you lashed out at them, but now you are saying you are open to them?

    I really think you need to sit back and take a deep breath and reexamine where you are and what your goals are.

    if you have severely under eaten then you may have metabolic adaptation and/or damage, which means that you would need to eat more to reset your metabolism. I understand given your history of binging that this may be a scary concept ...but you can do it if you really tighten up your logging and focus on just eating saying 1500 calories a day, like was suggested earlier...Or, if that seems to much start with 1200 and slowly increase 100 per week until you hit 1500..

    either way, good luck to you ..
  • skinnyinnotime
    skinnyinnotime Posts: 4,078 Member
    Ok I've made my diary public, however, on my "free" days I don't always count all calories but I make sure it's no more than 200 calories more than what's in my diary (those days are a Weds and a Sat). I am really not one of those people who just munches on things randomly or estimates consumption. If I snack on something it's after it's accounted for and weighed. The extras I have on my cheat days may be something like 5 almonds, one chocolate and a piece of fruit. You can choose to not believe me if you want but that's the truth. Also, the first week I was very ill so one day shows only 200 calories taken in all day and that's accurate because I was too ill to eat anything else.

    I looked back through your diary. There were days you were eating 2000 calories and they didn't look accurate. There were days you had quick add calories, which tells me you are NOT accurate. The moment you stop lying to yourself you will see results. You are eating more than you think you are.

    I did the calculations for you and here is my suggestion: For the next month eat 1500 calories every day on the dot while being 100% accurate. If you can't weigh it or account for it perfectly do not eat it. Get at least 110g of protein. Start strength training.

    I don't know if you are ignoring my posts or if you're just trying to be arrogant but I already explained that those days with 2000 or so cals are my free days and on those days I have slipped up by around 200 cals which would not make a big dent in my deficit. As I said above, 90% of my cals are accurate. All other days every morsel is accounted for apart from maybe a few lettuce leaves and some cucumber. Nothing that could make much of an impact on the deficit. I don't see any point in lying to myself or anyone else. I'd be wasting everyone's time including my own. Who are you to say that my diary doesn't "look" accurate?? Am I missing something about how an accurate diary should look?? And in general if I haven't logged all my cals for the day I don't click the complete button at the bottom. If you really wanted to be nitpicky you could go over the last 2 weeks and check which days I completed my diary and which I didn't!

    I didn't make this post to ask for how anyone else thinks I should be eating to lose weight. There's a very good reason why I've chosen this diet and why I am NOT going to do what you suggest. And the last time I checked there was such a thing as freedom of choice. It's my choice. Why do you feel the need to put me down for that? Does it make you feel important or good about yourself? I actually find this diet to be far more sustainable for me than a moderate calorie deficit that forces me to eat at the exact same cals EVERY day for months on end! Do you not think I've been there, done that? It's not for me. I'm doing what is sustainable for me based on experience because, you know, we're not all the same! When are people going to realise that and drop the judgemental "know it all" attitude? I don't know why I expected more from people on this site, I've seen it so many times before. You've found what works for you obviously, that's great. Does that mean that you know what will work for me or have any right to tell me I'm lying to myself? I don't think so. If you really want to believe that I am underestimating my calories by more than 4,000 a week despite everything I've said then please take your suggestions and give them to someone who wants them. You obviously have trouble believing that someone could be at a large deficit and not losing much weight and that's just ignorant. All I'm trying to do is find out why and fix the problem. If you think a 1500 calorie diet is going to generate more weight loss than my current diet then you must think there are over 6000 calories unaccounted for in my week! What would even be the point in taking the time to fill in a food diary if you were going to be THAT inaccurate?? Wow. I didn't realise I came across as so damn stupid. Stupid enough to trust people to look at my food diary, maybe even read the notes where I am brutally honest, and not start calling me a liar because that's the ONLY possible explanation for my lack of weight loss. Can't possibly have anything to do with water retention or a slow metabolism or some other factor. Ignore all the other ways I said I've tried to lose weight in the past because someone who so blatantly LIES would not put in that much effort and years of their life to fix their health. I assume your suggestion is based on some average calculations yet I don't believe anything I've said should give the impression that I'm an average female with a healthy metabolism. If I really wanted some idea of what an average female needs to lose weight, I wouldn't need you to give it to me.

    Oh and by the way, I'm a training Nutritionist. Wasting time trying to lose weight whilst lying about it would not only be pointless in my personal life but also my professional life. But thanks for being a good example of a general faceless internet know it all.

    Obviously you have it all figured out. I definitely don't know anything about fat loss since I haven't been successful (I'm a competitive bodybuilder and I wouldn't dare treat my body the way you are treating yours). Good luck with your goals.

    From Lyle McDonald: http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/you-are-not-different.html
    http://youtu.be/KA9AdlhB18o

    Obesity runs in my family, I assume it doesn't in yours. DIFFERENT GENES.

    No, no, no. Obesity does not run in your family, you have family members that choose to be obese.

    Genes are different, but there are no obese genes.
  • Dee,

    I just took a quick look at your post history. Based on what I saw, my recommendation is this: get off the RFLD now. With your history, this is not a good plan for you.

    Can I ask why? I'm not at risk of becoming anorexic, trust me. Binge eating was my problem and I haven't done that in a long time.


    That, right there. On this type of diet, you are much more likely to binge than someone else.

    And to answer your original question, deksgrl probably pretty much just nailed it.

    Yeah I know and it is hard but I've tried to get help for it and been unsuccessful so I have to deal with it myself. I do agree that I'm much more likely to binge, but I am much better at coping with it now. If I feel that I'm getting to the stage that it's too much for me I stop. I can feel it coming a mile away and this is why I can't eat nothing at all but thought this diet would actually be helpful because 1. on a moderate calorie deficit the emotional side is worse because progress is painfully slow and I end up gaining weight and 2. I just absolutely cannot stand the idea of being overweight for the rest of my life because of a bloody ED that I've worked hard at fixing....:(

    Dee, take it easy on yourself. If you don't have much to lose like others have suggested, aim to lose 0.5 pound per week. It is more sustainable because you'll be eating at a reasonable deficit that's not too hard and won't make you want to binge. Trust me, at the beginning I was eating waaaay too low. And now I'm eating 1550 and more than that if I exercise, and now thoughts on binging are practically gone. Every day I treat myself to something that I like, and it's really easier this way. Take it easy, really. If you have about 10 pounds to lose that's just 20 weeks, and time will pass anyway.

    If you need someone to talk to send me a PM or FR. :flowerforyou:

    Thanks so much for the support. I guess maybe eating like this isn't worth 1.4lbs in 2 weeks...I am not sure what will give me 0.5lbs weight loss a week though. I was eating at around 1,300 before and not losing even that much. But maybe a gradual increase will help things. Surely if cortisol improves then other things will too. My weight has been a big big stressor in my life and I wish I could just relax more and be more accepting of my shape but man it's just impossible :(.
  • Fullsterkur_woman
    Fullsterkur_woman Posts: 2,712 Member
    Lifting heavy can be one of the best things you can do to help maintain lean body mass while in a caloric deficit. It oftentimes means getting a gym membership or putting together your own weight set (but often you can find deals on craigslist or used otherwise). We set up our own olympic set in the garage and it works really well for us. If you're interested in learning some good weight lifting exercises, I'd highly recommend Starting Strength's 3x5 workout. Squats, bench, press, deadlift, etc. -- 2-3 times a week in the beginning is all it takes to make significant changes -- and that book has awesome info on proper form.
    Can't argue with that. I second the craigslist option. I have a nice gym setup in my garage myself. Also, and of course I'm slightly biased here, but you can always go to the park and pick up rocks and broken tree limbs and such. If you're going to have to put in "such hard work" to strength train, you might as well be able to say you're badazz enough to struggle with the very Earth itself! :laugh:
  • MicheleWE
    MicheleWE Posts: 179 Member
    I managed to hang in there to the last page. I am not the arguing type at all, but I wanted to know if anyone else had suggested my thoughts. I was also very interested in the all the thyroid talk since I am currently "trying out" treatment for hypothyroid with my level at 4.3 which was an increase from past tests.

    My suggestions are this: take a look at your stress level and amount of sleep you get.

    I have had a lot of trouble losing weight in the recent past, even though I had a long period of time of being as absolutely accurate as I could. I was weighing my eggs, slices of bread, everything. At the same time I was working out like a mad fool, sometimes 3 hrs a day. I wasn't losing any weight. The truth is, I believe that behavior and the stress I was placing on myself by focusing in so close on my diet and weight loss knocked me way out of balance. There was nothing else except diet, exercise, calories, etc. As soon as I let up on myself and started to enjoy the rest of life a little I felt way less stress and the weight started inching down. I have limited myself to one hour of exercise a day plus a nice walk. I still weigh my food but have let up and realized that I can not be 100% accurate no matter how hard I try, (eggs are off the hook) so I just do my best. I stick to my calorie allowance and figure my exercise is going to help cover the fluctuations in deficit.
    I have also found that getting a proper amount of sleep plays a huge role in the number on the scale!!!!! My weight is always up when I haven't had enough rest-probably another form of stress on the body.

    One last thing to consider. I have found that having free meals or days absolutely does not work for me. I could be spot on for two weeks, then have a free meal, even if I feel like I am making decent choices, and it will take me two weeks to undo the damage of one day.

    I don't know you at all, and I have not read your profile or looked at your diary. I just thought these are a few things you might want to look at while trying to figure out what is going on with your body.
    Consistency is the best tool we have to combat weight. If we keep doing the right things eventually our bodies will adapt. I've settled myself to the fact that it may take another year to lose this 10-15 pounds but I won't give up on myself, and each day is an improvement over the last.

    Good luck Dee
  • auddii
    auddii Posts: 15,357 Member
    Lifting heavy can be one of the best things you can do to help maintain lean body mass while in a caloric deficit. It oftentimes means getting a gym membership or putting together your own weight set (but often you can find deals on craigslist or used otherwise). We set up our own olympic set in the garage and it works really well for us. If you're interested in learning some good weight lifting exercises, I'd highly recommend Starting Strength's 3x5 workout. Squats, bench, press, deadlift, etc. -- 2-3 times a week in the beginning is all it takes to make significant changes -- and that book has awesome info on proper form.
    Can't argue with that. I second the craigslist option. I have a nice gym setup in my garage myself. Also, and of course I'm slightly biased here, but you can always go to the park and pick up rocks and broken tree limbs and such. If you're going to have to put in "such hard work" to strength train, you might as well be able to say you're badazz enough to struggle with the very Earth itself! :laugh:
    My friend and I will do trail running in the local park, and one day a guy passed us with a huge tree trunk across his shoulders (sawn down so that he fits between the trees). Our only thoughts. Damn.
  • RatherBeFishing
    RatherBeFishing Posts: 61 Member
    I used this diet for just over two months, and had great results 27% body fat to 21% body fat (BodPod before and after). I didn't gain back anything but the water weight that I had lost from the diet being so low in carbs. Then again I have a lot of will power. Now I have switched over to a different diet and dropping 1 pound a week.

    So the diet works and just like any diet if you don't go back to your old eating habits the weight will stay off. I am not going to stay it was easy staying on the diet for 10 weeks (minus the 2 weeks off the diet I enjoyed them lol). It does work and works very well.
  • Fullsterkur_woman
    Fullsterkur_woman Posts: 2,712 Member
    My weight has been a big big stressor in my life and I wish I could just relax more and be more accepting of my shape but man it's just impossible :(.
    So what do you think about putting the tremendous amount of energy you're investing into working on your psychological issues instead?

    I'm not being flippant. If you magically woke up at your ideal weight, you would still have problems in your life. Learning to cope with adversity is a *much* better investment of your energies in terms of improving quality of life. It also makes it easier to get on with things when something bad happens that's out of your control.
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    I made it to page 3, 3 pages to go and I'm already jumping in. Jesus, Lindsey, how the F is this thread about you now? OP has said multiple times she is NOT insulin resistant and not hypothryoid. Yes, yes, we ALL know YOU'VE been tested, blah blah blah, and that's how you lost weight and yay for you.
    Are you going to show up on everyone's thread and talk all about yourself and your tests and how you lost weight from those tests and forget completely about the OP?

    When she says things that point to such issues, I believe it's relevant. Here are the factors:

    (1) She stated over and over again that caloric deficit wasn't producing the anticipated results
    (2) She stated over and over again that she was confident in calorie counting and gave examples to support that
    (3) She said that she did have certain symptoms of hypothryoid -- hands and feet that were cold all the time, difficulty losing weight, unexplained weight gain
    (4) Oh, and most of all a blood test of TSH showing actual hypothyroidism.

    I know a lot of people like to jump on others and tell them that they're crazy, can't count calories correctly, are lying, etc., but sometimes there are actual valid reasons for the pieces not adding up. Oh, so terrible of me for sharing my experience in a highly analogous situation.

    And the OP asked follow up questions, indicating that she was quite interested in my experience and learning more. I even received an email from someone thanking me for that same post, but chooses to stay off the forums because of all the bad behavior. Yes, that is truly a terrible thing that I'm sharing my experience and knowledge gained along the way -- just like all the other helpful posters do.

    You're going to feel really stupid when you bother to read the next 3-4 pages. Try harder.


    *Sitting back, waiting til there are three-four more pages*

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  • It sounds like you're already back in a super-disordered place in your relationship with food. Do you think this diet will bring you further away from that, or closer to it? I'm not being judgey, but if I were in your shoes, I would be wanting people to tell me not to focus on the wrong part of the story, and right now, the scale moving is the wrong part of the story.

    I guess I figured that if I could just get to a more average weight then the disordered eating would go away...I don't know if that's true but I've never had the chance to see. I haven't got much hope of full recovery otherwise...I've had this since I was 15 and it's actually a mix of bulimia and binge eating. I haven't purged in a LONG time and the last time I truly binged was when I had blood sugar issues from eating starch on its own. Even my free days I don't consider a binge because they're only around 2,000 cals and it's fruits, starch and healthy fats mostly. I would never purge nutritious food! That's how I've managed...don't keep ANY junk in the house and choose healthy foods for higher cal days as I know it won't lead to purging.

    You're right, of course you are. I would love to have a better relationship with food...it just feels like it's a dream that will never come true.
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    Dee,

    I just took a quick look at your post history. Based on what I saw, my recommendation is this: get off the RFLD now. With your history, this is not a good plan for you.
    Holy ****, I did not realize you were recovering from an eating disorder. I completely agree that this is a HORRIBLE IDEA for you. I have a feeling the author of the diet would completely agree.

    THIS.

    And again, explains why you aren't able to lose the weight. Excess Cortisol, from PCOS and additionally the extra stress you are adding with the crash diets. And perhaps a suppressed metabolism.

    I'm still throwing in for the thyroid since your TSH level puts you in overt hypothyrodism at over 3 (and yours were over 4).

    Perhaps that too. But even if it is not thyroid, she probably has enough going on with cortisol to prevent normal weight loss, paired with what damage there may have been to metabolism from past unhealthy eating.

    Yep you're probably right about cortisol...I have been having some difficulty with sleep and pounding heart. I am going to get through the rest of this week then next week perhaps slowly increase calories to prevent rebound weight gain and hopefully find a good balance.

    I'm hoping the pounding heart is not an arrhythmia issue from low potassium, which can often happen when people go on diets where they don't get the proper nutrition. Especially if the goal is to eat at limits of 1,000 calories or lower. I know you've had days of 2,000 calories or so, but if I take you at your word, and you are eating very low calories ,it's possible you are developing an arrhythmia. My advice would be to see your doctor to have your labs checked, just to be safe.
  • lindsey1979
    lindsey1979 Posts: 2,395 Member
    My weight has been a big big stressor in my life and I wish I could just relax more and be more accepting of my shape but man it's just impossible :(.
    So what do you think about putting the tremendous amount of energy you're investing into working on your psychological issues instead?

    I'm not being flippant. If you magically woke up at your ideal weight, you would still have problems in your life. Learning to cope with adversity is a *much* better investment of your energies in terms of improving quality of life. It also makes it easier to get on with things when something bad happens that's out of your control.

    I totally agree with this. Stress management alone is a real struggle for me as I tend to be a burn the candle at both ends personality. And getting good sleep, like another poster pointed out, is so key. It can just be really hard to get good sleep if other issues are making it difficult (stress, cortisol, thyroid, etc.).

    And, this is a little out there, but if you have any inclination, may want to check into mindful meditation, especially as a stress management tool. I've been reading a lot about it recently, especially with how it can affect certain neuroplasticity, and it's pretty fascinating and looks promising. I haven't implemented it truly effectively, but am working on it.
  • sassyjae21
    sassyjae21 Posts: 1,217 Member
    It sounds like you're already back in a super-disordered place in your relationship with food. Do you think this diet will bring you further away from that, or closer to it? I'm not being judgey, but if I were in your shoes, I would be wanting people to tell me not to focus on the wrong part of the story, and right now, the scale moving is the wrong part of the story.

    I guess I figured that if I could just get to a more average weight then the disordered eating would go away...I don't know if that's true but I've never had the chance to see. I haven't got much hope of full recovery otherwise...I've had this since I was 15 and it's actually a mix of bulimia and binge eating. I haven't purged in a LONG time and the last time I truly binged was when I had blood sugar issues from eating starch on its own. Even my free days I don't consider a binge because they're only around 2,000 cals and it's fruits, starch and healthy fats mostly. I would never purge nutritious food! That's how I've managed...don't keep ANY junk in the house and choose healthy foods for higher cal days as I know it won't lead to purging.

    You're right, of course you are. I would love to have a better relationship with food...it just feels like it's a dream that will never come true.

    I don't know your personal business or if you have insurance, but getting some counseling would be a great place to start.

    Just an fyi: Your problems won't go away with weight loss. Trust me, I know :)
  • Dee,

    I just took a quick look at your post history. Based on what I saw, my recommendation is this: get off the RFLD now. With your history, this is not a good plan for you.
    Holy ****, I did not realize you were recovering from an eating disorder. I completely agree that this is a HORRIBLE IDEA for you. I have a feeling the author of the diet would completely agree.

    THIS.

    And again, explains why you aren't able to lose the weight. Excess Cortisol, from PCOS and additionally the extra stress you are adding with the crash diets. And perhaps a suppressed metabolism.

    I'm still throwing in for the thyroid since your TSH level puts you in overt hypothyrodism at over 3 (and yours were over 4).

    Perhaps that too. But even if it is not thyroid, she probably has enough going on with cortisol to prevent normal weight loss, paired with what damage there may have been to metabolism from past unhealthy eating.

    Yep you're probably right about cortisol...I have been having some difficulty with sleep and pounding heart. I am going to get through the rest of this week then next week perhaps slowly increase calories to prevent rebound weight gain and hopefully find a good balance.

    Do you tend to hold fat along the middle (rather than limbs/hips/thighs)? I know that's a common sign of excess cortisol.

    Actually, no...my waist to hip ratio is pretty good. Most of my fat is on my hips, bum and thighs. Waist is 30.5 inches and hips are 40. Does that mean cortisol isn't to blame?

    By the way, sorry for not replying to you in detail...this thread has generated a lot more interest than I anticipated and now appears to be becoming an ED therapy group...I'm going to cry!!
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    I'm pretty sure I'm using per se correctly. It also means "of, or in itself". It's the same as saying, "I don't know what his personal psychological issue is, in an of itself, but it is significant." That is used correctly. Check the Chicago Manual of Style if you don't believe me.

    Still not correct, but you'll read no more from me in this thread.
    I don't mind derailing a thread on occasion, but if OP has eating issues, I am ducking out of this one.

    I guess we'll have to agree to disagree on that. I feel pretty comfortable with my usage given my background, and you're the first person ever to state otherwise.

    LOL here you go again. Yes, yes, we know you are smarter than everyone :rollseyes:

    ETA: My bad, you are smarter than 99% of the people in the U.S. :laugh:

    and she is a lawyer and biologist!!!

    OH GOSH LINDSEY FORGIVE ME FOR NOT QUOTING YOUR CREDENTIALS CORRECTLY :sad: :sad: :sad:

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    Tis better to be silent and be thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt. -- Abe Lincoln (I think)

    ^ maybe you need to do a better job of following your own advice? Just saying...
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