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  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    After two weeks of going to bed hungry every night, I have only lost 2lbs. I just started this diet at 164 and I am now at 162. I workout a lot (just finished a full marathon) and eat only healthy foods. I am at 1400cal diet, but earn net calories through exercise. I also chose the least amount of calories burned so there is room for error to help my weight. I am just so angry that after 2 whole weeks, it was only 2 lbs. Not a happy camper right now :(
    You have few pounds to lose, and only 12 pounds to go. Even 1 pounds a week is a little fast.

    The most sustainable things in life are done slowly, and that includes weight loss.

    Just keep doing what you're doing and quit expecting quick-fix results.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    Thanks everyone. I guess my anger comes from being at this plateau for years now. I was at 220 and came down to 150. I had 2 kids and cancer... which brought me up to 164. I have been at 164-62 range for 3 years now. I am thankful to be where I am, but its so discouraging when hard work doesnt pay off, especially when I am going to bed hungry every night.
    Stop going to bed hungry. Allocate your calories so you have a night time snack.

    Get rid of the negative message about your hard work not paying off. It IS paying off.

    Patience is a virtue.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    Consider removing certain types of calories from your diet for awhile to see if that prompts the scale to move. For example, once my sister moved away from all wheat products, but ate other grains like oats, rye, pumpernickel etc....she lost almost 35 pounds in a year. Most everything else she kept the same...diet, amounts and exercise. She was not able to digest or use wheat well. I figured since it worked for her and we are sisters....I did the same thing and went to more rice based products, I eat rice bread every morning, rice chex or Rice Krispies when I do have cereal etc. And I lost about ten pounds over a summer.

    Just a thought, give it a try with different foods and see what results you might have!!
    No. The type of food has nothing to do with weight loss. The reason your sister lost weight is because she created a calorie deficit, and she simply chose not to eat foods with wheat. She could have chosen not to eat any type(s) of food and created a calorie deficit and lost weight. Also, the reason you've lost weight is because you are eating less calories than you burn.

    Really, type of food is superfluous to weight loss.
  • animatorswearbras
    animatorswearbras Posts: 1,001 Member
    If you've intensified your exercise regime you will be gaining water weight as your body retains water for muscle repair, however as others have said 1 pound a week is probably the max you should be losing.

    Also if you exercise loads don't punish yourself if you're hungry and your net can take it (especially if you're trying to underestimate your burns), otherwise you'll be burning off too much muscle along with the fat as your body tries to find energy, also it's a good way to end up frustrating yourself, becoming miserable and ending up throwing in the towel. xxxx

    Brilliant success so far just give it time hun x
  • gkauf744
    gkauf744 Posts: 128 Member
    Thank you so much for posting this! I know that wasn't your goal, but some of the responses you've received have been very enlightening. I am down to almost your weight after being much heavier, and my weightloss has slowed down. Now I know why! Congrats on the weightloss and the marathon.
  • bcattoes
    bcattoes Posts: 17,299 Member
    1 lb a week is a good weight loss rate. Unless you are very overweight it's unrealistic to expect a higher rate of loss consistently, though you may have weeks when you lose a little more.
  • Nice2BFitAgain
    Nice2BFitAgain Posts: 319 Member
    Sounds like you are hangry! You need to eat a bit more - maybe do the 3 meals with 2-3 small snacks in between route. I'm a grazer and like to eat a bit all day so I do 3 meals + 2 snacks.

    You just ran a marathon!! WOW! Congratulations. Your body is holding on to water to use to repair those tattered muscles and bones!

    You are losing 1 pound a week and that is a great weight loss rate! Don't fret. The weight will come off, give it more time.
  • leggup
    leggup Posts: 2,942 Member
    Why are you going to bed hungry? Allocate some calories for the end of the day, accurately log your exercise calories and eat them back. Two lbs per week is too aggressive for only 12-14 lbs to lose. That's why you're hungry.
  • jackjackattck
    jackjackattck Posts: 117 Member
    As most people have said, when you don't have much to lose, 1 lb a week is exactly where you want to be. I know it is hard to go that slow, I am in the same boat. But, when you only have 10-20 lbs to lose (as opposed to 100+), you can't expect that to happen so quickly.

    Also remember that muscle is more dense than fat. So if you are lifting weights, and you said you upped your protein, you may have actually lost more than 2 lbs of body fat. I suggest getting a fitness measuring tape (GNC sells it) and taking your measurements and body fat percentage. Trust me, seeing a difference on the tape measure is much more rewarding than seeing it on the scale! The scale is just a number, focus on how good you feel and how your body feels and your clothes fit.
  • Congratulations thats amazing well done :) be proud 2 lbs is a lot xx
  • sdonovan96
    sdonovan96 Posts: 46 Member
    I've been at this for going on a month and have only lost around 4 lbs...and it fluctuates daily. I'm not worrying so much about the number on the scale but how my clothes are fitting and how I'm feeling. Try to focus more on that and it won't seem like such a big deal to only lose 2 lbs. Good luck and keep up the good work!
  • levitateme
    levitateme Posts: 999 Member
    I never understand why people are upset about losing weight "too slow". Why does almost everyone new to weight loss need to lose the weight as fast as possible? You were overweight or fat or stocky or whatever for (probably) a long period of time and it took time to get you to that point, so why would you expect to lose the weight overnight?

    A pound a week is a great loss. A half pound a week is a great loss. This morning, I gained weight since the last time I weighed in but I'm wearing my 7/8 jeans with no muffin top for the first time in over a year.
  • mblair1968
    mblair1968 Posts: 323 Member
    2 lbs in 2 weeks! Awesome. If you go bed hungry, so what? It is working. I would suggest drinking more water, or get used to going to bed hungry. Breakfast will taste better!
  • missomgitsica
    missomgitsica Posts: 496 Member
    One pound a week is exactly what you should be losing. As for the MFP estimates, ignore them . . . there are too many variables for those to be super accurate.

    Have you taken your measurements to see how you're progressing there? If you haven't, you most definitely should . . . don't let the scale be the only measure of your progress.
  • cuinboston2014
    cuinboston2014 Posts: 848 Member
    I gained five pounds this week. As I gained five pounds last week. The scale went down pretty low and shot right back up. I was just able to start heavy lifting and get back into my full workout routine recently and it's so frustrating to see my hard work seem to have the opposite effect of what I want.

    But when I take my measurements or look at my body I can already tell a difference. While the scale goes up for God knows what reason - my body is shrinking. more than that, I feel so strong. I'm properly fueling my body, I'm running further and faster, and I have been going to bed with that soreness that feels so good after pushing yourself.

    It's not all in the scale. Throw the stupid scale away. I might :)

    And 2 pounds is awesome progress! Someone on here posted a picture of what a pound of fat looks like. See it and you will appreciate the 2 pounds gone (I dont know where that picture is, though!) I'd post a picture but I'm hopeless at that - just google "what a pound of fat looks like"

    And 1400 calories a day WHILE marathon training? I hope not! I'm a little bigger than you at around 180 and when I'm running 60 miles a week, 1400 calories is NOT going to get my body the fuel it needs to work at it's best
  • GretaGirl8
    GretaGirl8 Posts: 274 Member
    I wrote this blog after reading a post very similar to yours. Perspective is very important.

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/blog/ihad/view/the-path-of-success-631437

    I love this chart. someone posted it on a thread i started about feeling like a failure.

    to OP: this probably adds little consolation...but the scale is moving in the right direction, no? keep working at it, and you will achieve your goals. next week you might lose two pounds. the body doesn't always behave as we anticipate. even previous weight loss successes may not be an accurate picture of what we experience losing weight now.
  • AnIrishLibra
    AnIrishLibra Posts: 54 Member
    I'd love those results!! In the last 14 weeks... I'm averaging about .67 lbs a week. Heck, during Lent, I only lost 1.2 lbs (6 weeks). But I also lost 3% body fat and 4 inches... so I'm ok with only 1.2 lbs loss.

    Be patient and keep at it!
  • ShaunaN5
    ShaunaN5 Posts: 16 Member
    I wrote this blog after reading a post very similar to yours. Perspective is very important.

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/blog/ihad/view/the-path-of-success-631437

    Love this! I just printed it out to hang by the mirror I look in every morning!!!
  • I know it's hard to be patient. I have similar stats to you (not sure of you're height though). I'm 5'6" and started at 168 and now I'm at 164 and it's been about 5 weeks. I was getting frustrated too. I realized (thanks to helpful peeps on here) that I wasn't logging accurately too. I would've sworn I was because I was using measuring cups/spoons and entering info right off nutrition labels. What I didn't know is that nutrition labels can be off by 20% or MORE. So you really need to WEIGH your food. I was super shocked when I measured my snack of peanuts for 1/4 cup and then weighed it. By weighing it, it was almost 2 full servings compared to the measuring cup method. That was over an extra 100 calories for just that one snack. I couldn't believe it. So, I try my best to weigh everything now...even pre-packaged stuff. I know I feel fuller and it's much easier going between meals with no snacks if my meals are high in protein. High protein also helps avoid losing the muscle your building with working out.
  • jsissom86
    jsissom86 Posts: 47 Member
    That's two whole pounds of hamburger...look at it that way! That's alot!
  • Bounce4
    Bounce4 Posts: 288 Member
    A pound a week is a really good loss.

    The patience needed is frustrating for me too so I get what you are saying.. It seems like such a long ways off but I try to picture the end of this year. If I keep going with this slow loss - I will in fact reach my goal. I will be there. One year of my life and I'll achieve what I want. One year is a drop in the bucket. I've promised myself I'd keep taking one step at a time all year. The year will pass either way and I'll be exactly where I am now if I quit.

    Also - I have learned a lot about how to eat throughout the day so I'm not so starved. I've tweaked things to include more protein at each meal and snack, which meals to make a little bigger, etc.
  • malibu927
    malibu927 Posts: 17,562 Member
    Hey, that's better than my first two weeks when I GAINED two pounds!
  • asciiqwerty
    asciiqwerty Posts: 565 Member
    I know it's hard to be patient. I have similar stats to you (not sure of you're height though). I'm 5'6" and started at 168 and now I'm at 164 and it's been about 5 weeks. I was getting frustrated too. I realized (thanks to helpful peeps on here) that I wasn't logging accurately too. I would've sworn I was because I was using measuring cups/spoons and entering info right off nutrition labels. What I didn't know is that nutrition labels can be off by 20% or MORE. So you really need to WEIGH your food. I was super shocked when I measured my snack of peanuts for 1/4 cup and then weighed it. By weighing it, it was almost 2 full servings compared to the measuring cup method. That was over an extra 100 calories for just that one snack. I couldn't believe it. So, I try my best to weigh everything now...even pre-packaged stuff. I know I feel fuller and it's much easier going between meals with no snacks if my meals are high in protein. High protein also helps avoid losing the muscle your building with working out.
    Thanks for posting SuperGirl, i'm so glad it souds like you've tested out some of the sugestions from your thread.
  • Bounce4
    Bounce4 Posts: 288 Member
    That's two whole pounds of hamburger...look at it that way! That's alot!

    That is so gross, lol. That is a lot . I'm going to remember that because if I visualize 2 pounds of hamburger leaving my body I'm a very happy girl indeed. I definitely do not want it back!
  • Ninkyou
    Ninkyou Posts: 6,666 Member
    Reset your expectations. 2 lbs in 2 weeks is fantastic and right on target. You also just finished a marathon, so you're probably retaining some water from that as well. Relax, lower your expectations, celebrate any loss you have, whether large or small.