Do you get hit on?

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  • Livin4me1969
    Livin4me1969 Posts: 745 Member
    Pretty much never

    I find that hard to believe.

    Thanks but in all seriousness it never happens to me.

    How is that possible...are the girls where you live blind?
  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,259 Member
    I don't think I do, honestly. I have social anxiety, so I steer clear of people anyways, lol.

    I totally get where you're coming from when I was younger I totally would freeze up in a social setting. I can still get a little anxious if I let myself, I just taught myself not to focus on certain things and avoid the triggers that would set me off. I hope you can learn to avoid them as I have.
  • I get hit on ALOT usually on the bus or when im travelling ive even gotten looks when with my boyfriend...
    it is annoying not a fan im assuming if I didnt take public transit it wouldnt happen so much
    I dont get picked up in malls or anything so bored people on the bus i think
  • brittdani5
    brittdani5 Posts: 25 Member
    I'm not sure that I've ever been hit on. Of course, my husband does, but I"m thinking that's it. I assume that anyone being nice to me is just that, being nice. Lol, not even sure I'd know the difference :blushing:
  • Maryaly40
    Maryaly40 Posts: 551 Member
    Pretty much never

    I find that hard to believe.

    Thanks but in all seriousness it never happens to me.

    yeah, seriously?

    How is that possible...are the girls where you live blind?
  • Shananigans_
    Shananigans_ Posts: 785 Member
    Never
  • lulushort
    lulushort Posts: 50
    Not at all. Im invisible lol.
  • SteadyRun99
    SteadyRun99 Posts: 97
    No not yet...One can only hope LOL
  • Livin4me1969
    Livin4me1969 Posts: 745 Member
    I used to a lot and then went through a period of not at all but recently I am back to getting hit on a bit
  • MCarbary
    MCarbary Posts: 48 Member
    alot more then I care to admit :\
  • R_Calvillo
    R_Calvillo Posts: 177 Member
    Not in a long time.
  • leaaa92
    leaaa92 Posts: 164 Member
    At the gym? Nah, Guys may talk to me, but they're just being nice. Kindness does not equal flirtation. At the rare event that I go out to the club? Yeah, sometimes. :blushing:
  • mralmayes
    mralmayes Posts: 325 Member
    dont I wish... People are very nice to me once they figure out i'm not a mean person...I just look like I am
  • fitgirlandfoodie
    fitgirlandfoodie Posts: 1,014 Member
    nope. maybe twice in my life.
  • pudgeylou
    pudgeylou Posts: 202 Member
    Nope. Doesn't happen.
  • MissMegannLee
    MissMegannLee Posts: 226 Member
    I never get hit on. Lol! No one has ever hit on me in person, unless it was my friend joking, but to me that doesn't count! Oh well. ):
  • debneeds2beskinny
    debneeds2beskinny Posts: 227 Member
    It has been a long time.... and I mean long time.... BUT - we were in Vegas and i was waiting for my husband in the casino. These guys came up to me and wanted to know if I wanted to party. So I explained I was waiting for my husband and they left. I told my hubby when he came downstairs. His response...... "Just how DRUNK were they?" made me feel so loved.
  • Trad_Barbie
    Trad_Barbie Posts: 166 Member
    Oh yes, my milkshake brings all the boys to the yard

    Edited to add this tasty gem ^

    My protein shake brings the buff men.
  • rockky83
    rockky83 Posts: 59
    Nope
  • Monkey_Business
    Monkey_Business Posts: 1,800 Member
    I get hit on all the time, especially at work.

    I work in an area that certain departments are more gender specific. If I am giving a presentation there, I have to remind them that my face is “up here’.

    I will be in a business meeting and a senior department chief will start touching me in a more then casual way.

    It is really a pain if I am with my wife out on a date night....it can destroy the whole atmosphere. Waitresses feel very empowered when helping you with that napkin on your lap.

    I was at church last Sunday; my wife is a ‘Lay Person’ there. A lady scooted into the pew next to me and next thing I know hand is on my thigh. I moved real quickly.

    Last month, I was at the car dealer picking up some parts, the young lady behind the counter put her home number on the receipt with a message to call her sometime.

    I am afraid of flying because of some of the stuff I have to put up with from the airline staff. And DO NOT get me started about TSA. EVERY time I end having to go to the damn private room.

    It is really ridiculous.












    Then again, I do have a very good imagination.


    Just one old man's opinion :-)
  • Galatea_Stone
    Galatea_Stone Posts: 2,037 Member
    This thing rolled.

    I get hit on sometimes, but most of the time, men just stare at me. I usually check my zipper first, then my shoe for TP, then my teeth for food. If all clean, I take the compliment for what it is, a compliment. It isn't being hit on, but that's good enough for me.
  • arewethereyet
    arewethereyet Posts: 18,702 Member
    I don't get hit on....EVER. At least not in the last two decades. I guess the "hitability" factor has a shelf life and mine has expired.

    Not true!! NOT true!!

    I was out the other night at the local beach area. Not bar atmosphere, just music and people walking around the beach area. I purposely hit on a gentlemen a bit older than I. He was handsome, and was smiling and enjoying the music. He had NO idea I was interested.

    How do I know this? I heard his friend tell him as we parted ways!! :laugh:

    I wonder how many times I miss these same queues!:flowerforyou:
  • mrfreestyle
    mrfreestyle Posts: 1,293 Member
    Getting hit on is a privilege only a few hot people ever get to experience. And believe me I'm not one of them. I've never been hit on, ever!
  • laynerich15
    laynerich15 Posts: 1,918 Member
    Nope, no one likes Australians in North America
  • Miz_Sparklez
    Miz_Sparklez Posts: 427 Member
    I suppose that means you would actually have to have a life outside of work and home to be hit on
  • mank32
    mank32 Posts: 1,323 Member
    i get looks and smiles, but not approached. i think that's even better. :devil:
  • JulieE1002
    JulieE1002 Posts: 162 Member
    Nope. Never.
  • SummerRain43
    SummerRain43 Posts: 358
    Nope, no one likes Australians in North America

    ha!!...I grew up in new Zealand....I would have to amend your statement to say...."no one likes Australians"....:wink:

    as for me......I rarely get hit on.....and I find it strange because everyone likes Kiwis.....we have such cute accents.....lol...:tongue:
  • laynerich15
    laynerich15 Posts: 1,918 Member
    Nope, no one likes Australians in North America

    ha!!...I grew up in new Zealand....I would have to amend your statement to say...."no one likes Australians"....:wink:

    as for me......I rarely get hit on.....and I find it strange because everyone likes Kiwis.....we have such cute accents.....lol...:tongue:

    bahahahaha extremely well played
  • Trad_Barbie
    Trad_Barbie Posts: 166 Member
    Pretty much never

    I find that hard to believe.

    Thanks but in all seriousness it never happens to me.

    May I just say that if I saw you on the street I would think you were fine as could be? I'd stare. Hard.
    But I might be a bit shy because you're super cut and I would be a little intimidated with my pink blender bottle and elliptical workouts?
    I wouldn't know the first thing to say, but that might be because I'm awkward.