Do you get hit on?

Autk79

Id have to say yes... but hardly by someone Id really want to hit on me . My friends say Im too nice. The weirdest person in the room can come talk to me and I will be friendly and courteous to anyone. And my friend is beautiful but they dont approach her cuz she has this look on her face like dont even think about saying hi to me.

DainaLC

There are a lot of people in here NOT being hit on! Yes, yes I'll join you!

ibrahimz95

I cant say for sure. I was invisible back when I was really fat but ever since I've slimmed into a normal range I feel like the general attitude females have towards me has changed and my friends keep pointing out looks and stuff but I'm kinda dumb like that... I dont pick up on flirty signals and stuff lol

Shananigans_

Never

MelanieMamaof5

Absolutely. My husband hits on me all the time. Especially on the days that I shower. ha ha ha..... Seriously, though...my husband in incredibly sincere and awesome. He is always telling me how lucky he is and how beautiful I am. Makes a girl blush.

Oh....and my kids don't actually hit on me...but they have all hit me at one point in their lives. Does that count?

courtneyfrose

Amazingly, I get hit on all the time & not subtly either. Unfortunately it's usually by high school boys (since I look so young!) or old perverts & never for the right reasons. Still a compliment, I guess.

theoncomingstorm6464

Not yet

indycoltz

so let me get this straight, women want to be hit on to boost their ego, but think its creepy and don't want it to happen too much. is that what I am picking up here???

JackKopCh

I have never ever been hit on in real life, or just didn't realise if I have xD

indycoltz

I used to weigh over 400 pounds. Now that I've lost on my weight , it would be nice to get hit on just to know that I've made it. Ya know? Never happened!

SarahElizabeth1981

In the same boat! I never get hit on unless it's online!! Maybe men are just not that brave or I don't look easy enough? Haha!

free1220

I think I'm invisible,girls just look right past me.

infinitevast

On occasion

Becka4Real

If you want to get hit on there is a secret no one is telling you. PM me and we can talk. ;-)

mstaser

Nothing Obvious

TheRoadDog

Once, by a woman, in 1974. Once, by a man, in 1975.

Been kind of a dry spell ever since.

ActorFighterGuy

If I do, I am not aware of it.

_Tink_

Never, ever. The last time I remember was in my early 20's. I suspect my resting b*tch face has something to do with that. Or I'm just not appealing. lol

TrainingToBePerfect

Pfft.. hardly ever, only told oh pretty face...

donnysoule

you people need to work in a bar..... you will get hit on

terem00

Never! The last time I remember being hit on I was 6 months pregnant and that was 14 years ago.

Becka4Real

donnysoule wrote: »

you people need to work in a bar..... you will get hit on

I can usually find a way to score a free drink. ;-)

acorsaut89

Nope! Never! Ok well not true, about 3 years ago when I was with my ex we all went out for a friend's birthday to a bar and someone did hit on me . . . but he was pretty drunk, and I don't know if I'm going to count it or not.

I have been told that I also look like I'm just going to say no, be rude, be stuck up, be high maintenance, etc etc.

I'm a pretty easy going person with a little OCD thrown in

It would be nice to have someone I am interested in/could be interested in try to pick me up

JeriAnne84

The only time I get hit on, and its very rare, is usually by guys old enough to be my dad or grandfather, or they are drunk. Oh or they are on meth. I had two drunk guys hit on me at a bar my boyfriend's death metal band was playing at. Just trying really hard until I informed them my boyfriend was the bass player. Then they backed off on the hitting on and wanted me to mosh. Well they got me to mosh because one dumped beer on my chest and the other grabbed my boob. I was right outside the pit when that happened so I moshed my way in and punched the one in the nose. Whoopsie. Total accident.

AlgoRhythmik

I'm not hit on here or outside of this virtual world.

Maybe I should visit the uncrushables thread. They don't have one of those in real life though

indycoltz

So I'm hearing that some of you get hit on too much... & some don't get hit on at all. There's no middle ground.

BlueEyedRedhead

indycoltz wrote: »

So I'm hearing that some of you get hit on too much... & some don't get hit on at all. There's no middle ground.

I get hit on just the right amount

EZDUZIT68

A lot more now than I used to - I can tell you that. I'm happily married and would never break that trust with my wife, but there's something empowering and fulfilling about that sort of "confirmation" that you're doing something right!

ItsMeGee3

Yep, Usually by inmates. Not so flattering. lol

sweedee1218

fauxpunker wrote: »

I work in a pediatrics clinic. I either tend to get hit on by moms, or so-young-it's-not-even-funny. The most recent, and worst, was a 4yr old who approached me while I was entering vitals into the computer. She began rubbing my arm and, no joke, said, "When I'm older I can do what I want with you."

I felt so... violated. My wife thought it was hysterical when I told her. Even thinking about it now, though, I want a shower.

Um that's actually pretty creepy! I would be worried that someone had said that to her and she was repeating it. That could be a sign of abuse. Does she still visit your clinic I would mention it to her doctor. If my son said something like that my first response would be where did you hear/learn that.