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  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    Honestly... if you can't make time for yourself, then you are absolutely doing too much. You really should talk to hubby. If this home business is becoming too much, either he needs to consider quitting his job and helping you, or you need to hire a helper.

    I'm sure you could find an animal-loving teen that could take over some of those feedings for you after-school for a few bucks an hour.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    What in the hell is with all of the quotes?

    QFT!

    Just stahp it already, you guys! :tongue:
  • Texusmc
    Texusmc Posts: 129 Member
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    umm yeah

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  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,022 Member
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    I can't even. If that's truly your schedule, why do you need to work out? Watch what you eat, and call it a day. If lifting is something you enjoy, then you're going to have to find something on that list that you enjoy less than lifting. If all of that is really 100% necessary, then I'm not sure what you expect. We can't manufacture another hour in the day for you, and if we did, there would probably be another animal that needs to be fed or walked or medicated.
  • jonnythan
    jonnythan Posts: 10,161 Member
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    The important thing is that you have your excuse.
  • jonnythan
    jonnythan Posts: 10,161 Member
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    Also: you forgot "spend 30 minutes on MFP writing out a list of crap instead of working out."
  • Foodiethinking
    Foodiethinking Posts: 240 Member
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    You CHOSE to have animals so why complain? Surely you'd get to the 100th pet and think 'okay that's it now'?
  • Foodiethinking
    Foodiethinking Posts: 240 Member
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    Also: you forgot "spend 30 minutes on MFP writing out a list of crap instead of working out."
  • JTick
    JTick Posts: 2,131 Member
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    So, just to get this clear, this is your schedule:

    5:40am.
    Wake up, get dressed half asleep.
    Let dog out of room.
    Feed kittens.
    Feed bunnies, who are obviously starving as they are wailing and banging their food dish around.
    Feed brooder of chicks.
    Feed brooder of ducklings after mixing particular food.
    Water all above, after mixing vitamins in to one container for ducks.
    Potty.
    Feed dogs and remaining cats.
    Water.
    Mix layer feed for big chickens.
    Walk dogs.
    Feed chickens.
    Collect eggs.
    Collect hay/grass/etc for rabbits.
    Wash eggs.
    Give greens to rabbits.
    Give ducks more water.
    Put laundry on to wash.
    1st cup of coffee at 9:10am.
    9:12am
    Organize food journal.
    Update budget journal.
    Balance expenses.
    Make to do lists.
    Organize breeding charts.
    Vitamin deficient ducks-check on them.
    Duck has seizure.
    Hold duck.
    Syringe feed weak duck.
    More water.
    More bunny food.
    Check incubator temperature.
    Turn eggs.
    Flea meds for cats and dogs.
    Peroxide cat scratches.
    10:36am
    Coffee is cold. Reheat.
    Water planters.
    Set out trench hose in garden.
    Hang laundry.
    Check on laying hens.
    Back inside, walk dogs.
    Clean litterbox.
    Finish organizing all notebooks and projects.
    Update sale page on FB.
    Check email.
    Check messages.
    Reply to sale inquiries. "Will arrive between noon and 8pm."
    Cuss. Mark off half of to do list from 12-8pm.
    12:02pm
    Realize hunger pains are interfering with coherency while discussing sales.
    Go to kitchen-remember 8 loaves of bread needed.
    Kitchen still dirty from dinner.
    Put more laundry on (no clean towels for dish drying).
    Wash dishes.
    Suringe feed duck.
    Still hungry. Grab fig bar.
    Eat fig bar and half wrapper in frenzy while measuring flour.
    Knead, rise, knead, rise.
    Feed and water all poultry and rabbits. Mental note to add ACV.
    Knead, rise.
    Still hungry.
    Walk dogs.
    Bring in laundry.
    Realize garden is half flooded, sprint to move hose.
    Bread in oven, hang laundry.
    Out of laundry detergent.
    Make laundry detergent.
    Turn eggs.
    Bread cooling .
    Realize towels are dry but no shower.
    2:56pm
    Shower.
    Turn off hose after yard floods.
    3:23pm
    Walk dogs.
    Food and water.
    Check on ducks.
    Syringe feed duck.
    3:46pm
    Hubby home.
    Help hubby on projects.
    Feed chickens.
    Collect eggs.
    More projects.
    Clean three brooders and two bunny cages.
    Walk dogs.
    Projects.
    8:39pm
    Hungry.
    Clean eggs.
    Decide to make macaroni and cheese with bacon bits and salad for dinner.
    Eat fewds.
    Cook hubbys breakfast.
    Cook hubbys lunch.
    Get coffee pot set.
    Put chickens in coop.
    Collect feed buckets.
    Walk dogs.
    Feed, water (see 5:40am).
    10:56pm
    Bed.

    Have you considered re arranging it to be more like this?

    4:40am.
    Wake up, get dressed half asleep.
    Let dog out of room.
    Feed kittens.
    Feed bunnies, who are obviously starving as they are wailing and banging their food dish around.
    Feed brooder of chicks.
    Feed brooder of ducklings after mixing particular food.
    Water all above, after mixing vitamins in to one container for ducks.
    Potty.
    Feed dogs and remaining cats.
    Water.
    Mix layer feed for big chickens.
    Walk dogs.
    Feed chickens.
    Collect eggs.
    Collect hay/grass/etc for rabbits.
    Wash eggs.
    Give greens to rabbits.
    Give ducks more water.
    Put laundry on to wash.
    1st cup of coffee at 9:10am.
    8:12am
    Organize food journal.
    Update budget journal.
    Balance expenses.
    Make to do lists.
    Organize breeding charts.
    Vitamin deficient ducks-check on them.
    Duck has seizure.
    Hold duck.
    Syringe feed weak duck.
    More water.
    More bunny food.
    Check incubator temperature.
    Turn eggs.
    Flea meds for cats and dogs.
    Peroxide cat scratches.
    9:36am
    Coffee is cold. Reheat.
    Water planters.
    Set out trench hose in garden.
    Hang laundry.
    Check on laying hens.
    Back inside, walk dogs.
    Clean litterbox.
    Finish organizing all notebooks and projects.
    Update sale page on FB.
    Check email.
    Check messages.
    Reply to sale inquiries. "Will arrive between noon and 8pm."
    Cuss. Mark off half of to do list from 12-8pm.
    11:02am
    Realize hunger pains are interfering with coherency while discussing sales.
    Go to kitchen-remember 8 loaves of bread needed.
    Kitchen still dirty from dinner.
    Put more laundry on (no clean towels for dish drying).
    Wash dishes.
    Suringe feed duck.
    Still hungry. Grab fig bar.
    Eat fig bar and half wrapper in frenzy while measuring flour.
    Knead, rise, knead, rise.
    Feed and water all poultry and rabbits. Mental note to add ACV.
    Knead, rise.
    Still hungry.
    Walk dogs.
    Bring in laundry.
    Realize garden is half flooded, sprint to move hose.
    Bread in oven, hang laundry.
    Out of laundry detergent.
    Make laundry detergent.
    Turn eggs.
    Bread cooling .
    Realize towels are dry but no shower.
    1:56pm
    Shower.
    Turn off hose after yard floods.
    2:23pm
    Walk dogs.
    Food and water.
    Check on ducks.
    Syringe feed duck.
    2:46pm
    Hubby home.
    Help hubby on projects.
    Feed chickens.
    Collect eggs.
    More projects.
    Clean three brooders and two bunny cages.
    Walk dogs.
    Projects.
    7:39pm
    Hungry.
    Clean eggs.
    Decide to make macaroni and cheese with bacon bits and salad for dinner.
    Eat fewds.
    Cook hubbys breakfast.
    Cook hubbys lunch.
    Get coffee pot set.
    Put chickens in coop.
    Collect feed buckets.
    Walk dogs.
    Feed, water (see 5:40am).
    9:56pm
    Workout
    10:56pm
    Bed.


    But that schedule above means waking up at 4:40am and working out just before bed. For me, working out just before bed can keep me awake all night, so maybe try this schedule instead?

    4:40am
    get dressed, half asleep workout
    5:40am.
    Let dog out of room.
    Feed kittens.
    Feed bunnies, who are obviously starving as they are wailing and banging their food dish around.
    Feed brooder of chicks.
    Feed brooder of ducklings after mixing particular food.
    Water all above, after mixing vitamins in to one container for ducks.
    Potty.
    Feed dogs and remaining cats.
    Water.
    Mix layer feed for big chickens.
    Walk dogs.
    Feed chickens.
    Collect eggs.
    Collect hay/grass/etc for rabbits.
    Wash eggs.
    Give greens to rabbits.
    Give ducks more water.
    Put laundry on to wash.
    1st cup of coffee at 9:10am.
    9:12am
    Organize food journal.
    Update budget journal.
    Balance expenses.
    Make to do lists.
    Organize breeding charts.
    Vitamin deficient ducks-check on them.
    Duck has seizure.
    Hold duck.
    Syringe feed weak duck.
    More water.
    More bunny food.
    Check incubator temperature.
    Turn eggs.
    Flea meds for cats and dogs.
    Peroxide cat scratches.
    10:36am
    Coffee is cold. Reheat.
    Water planters.
    Set out trench hose in garden.
    Hang laundry.
    Check on laying hens.
    Back inside, walk dogs.
    Clean litterbox.
    Finish organizing all notebooks and projects.
    Update sale page on FB.
    Check email.
    Check messages.
    Reply to sale inquiries. "Will arrive between noon and 8pm."
    Cuss. Mark off half of to do list from 12-8pm.
    12:02pm
    Realize hunger pains are interfering with coherency while discussing sales.
    Go to kitchen-remember 8 loaves of bread needed.
    Kitchen still dirty from dinner.
    Put more laundry on (no clean towels for dish drying).
    Wash dishes.
    Suringe feed duck.
    Still hungry. Grab fig bar.
    Eat fig bar and half wrapper in frenzy while measuring flour.
    Knead, rise, knead, rise.
    Feed and water all poultry and rabbits. Mental note to add ACV.
    Knead, rise.
    Still hungry.
    Walk dogs.
    Bring in laundry.
    Realize garden is half flooded, sprint to move hose.
    Bread in oven, hang laundry.
    Out of laundry detergent.
    Make laundry detergent.
    Turn eggs.
    Bread cooling .
    Realize towels are dry but no shower.
    2:56pm
    Shower.
    Turn off hose after yard floods.
    3:23pm
    Walk dogs.
    Food and water.
    Check on ducks.
    Syringe feed duck.
    3:46pm
    Hubby home.
    Help hubby on projects.
    Feed chickens.
    Collect eggs.
    More projects.
    Clean three brooders and two bunny cages.
    Walk dogs.
    Projects.
    8:39pm
    Hungry.
    Clean eggs.
    Decide to make macaroni and cheese with bacon bits and salad for dinner.
    Eat fewds.
    Cook hubbys breakfast.
    Cook hubbys lunch.
    Get coffee pot set.
    Put chickens in coop.
    Collect feed buckets.
    Walk dogs.
    Feed, water (see 5:40am).
    10:56pm
    Bed.

    OOORRRR if that doesn't work, maybe just try running when you walk the dogs at 8:39pm, like on this schedule below:

    5:40am.
    Wake up, get dressed half asleep.
    Let dog out of room.
    Feed kittens.
    Feed bunnies, who are obviously starving as they are wailing and banging their food dish around.
    Feed brooder of chicks.
    Feed brooder of ducklings after mixing particular food.
    Water all above, after mixing vitamins in to one container for ducks.
    Potty.
    Feed dogs and remaining cats.
    Water.
    Mix layer feed for big chickens.
    Walk dogs.
    Feed chickens.
    Collect eggs.
    Collect hay/grass/etc for rabbits.
    Wash eggs.
    Give greens to rabbits.
    Give ducks more water.
    Put laundry on to wash.
    1st cup of coffee at 9:10am.
    9:12am
    Organize food journal.
    Update budget journal.
    Balance expenses.
    Make to do lists.
    Organize breeding charts.
    Vitamin deficient ducks-check on them.
    Duck has seizure.
    Hold duck.
    Syringe feed weak duck.
    More water.
    More bunny food.
    Check incubator temperature.
    Turn eggs.
    Flea meds for cats and dogs.
    Peroxide cat scratches.
    10:36am
    Coffee is cold. Reheat.
    Water planters.
    Set out trench hose in garden.
    Hang laundry.
    Check on laying hens.
    Back inside, walk dogs.
    Clean litterbox.
    Finish organizing all notebooks and projects.
    Update sale page on FB.
    Check email.
    Check messages.
    Reply to sale inquiries. "Will arrive between noon and 8pm."
    Cuss. Mark off half of to do list from 12-8pm.
    12:02pm
    Realize hunger pains are interfering with coherency while discussing sales.
    Go to kitchen-remember 8 loaves of bread needed.
    Kitchen still dirty from dinner.
    Put more laundry on (no clean towels for dish drying).
    Wash dishes.
    Suringe feed duck.
    Still hungry. Grab fig bar.
    Eat fig bar and half wrapper in frenzy while measuring flour.
    Knead, rise, knead, rise.
    Feed and water all poultry and rabbits. Mental note to add ACV.
    Knead, rise.
    Still hungry.
    Walk dogs.
    Bring in laundry.
    Realize garden is half flooded, sprint to move hose.
    Bread in oven, hang laundry.
    Out of laundry detergent.
    Make laundry detergent.
    Turn eggs.
    Bread cooling .
    Realize towels are dry but no shower.
    2:56pm
    Shower.
    Turn off hose after yard floods.
    3:23pm
    Walk dogs.
    Food and water.
    Check on ducks.
    Syringe feed duck.
    3:46pm
    Hubby home.
    Help hubby on projects.
    Feed chickens.
    Collect eggs.
    More projects.
    Clean three brooders and two bunny cages.
    Walk dogs.
    Projects.
    8:39pm
    Hungry.
    Clean eggs.
    Decide to make macaroni and cheese with bacon bits and salad for dinner.
    Eat fewds.
    Cook hubbys breakfast.
    Cook hubbys lunch.
    Get coffee pot set.
    Put chickens in coop.
    Collect feed buckets.
    Walk dogs - jog while walking them
    Feed, water (see 5:40am).
    10:56pm
    Bed.

    Any thoughts?


    Holy mother of...
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    You don't like my suggestions? :(
    I'm not sure yet, give me 6-8 minutes to read??
    I actually read all of OP's post hahaha.

    Oh okay! Whew, you had me worried that I was out of line with the suggestions!
    LOVE the suggestions, but we have yet to see what OP thinks about it.
    Personally, the waking up at 4:40 sounds good to me.. OP should perhaps do the workout at this time AND the running of the dogs listed on your last list.
    That sounds more beneficial and OP will have a full day of workouts that actually FEEL like a workout to them.

    ....OP??


    Edit: I would also try to build my own automatic/timed feeders if the cages are nearby.. Then again, I like building stuff.
    No more hungry animals, more time for OP to relax a bit.

    I like your suggestions too!



    ^^QFT!!!!

    What does QFT mean?
    Quoted for truth hahaha

    THANKS!!!

    I'm sorry! I should have explained that in the first place!!









    :flowerforyou:

    It's okay, other MFPers had your back!
  • Holly_Roman_Empire
    Holly_Roman_Empire Posts: 4,440 Member
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    Okay OP, I can't imagine that this happens every day, so I'll assume you had just one really busy day. Seriously though, if you're that busy, why are you...

    1)Baking bread?
    2)Hanging laundry to dry? (no dryer?)
    3)making laundry detergent?
    4)cooking your husband breakfast and lunch? (I mean, come on, it isn't the 1950s anymore.)
    5)Tending to so many pets...?
  • MagicalLeopleurodon
    MagicalLeopleurodon Posts: 623 Member
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    The important thing is that you have your excuse.

    You know what, you're 100% right. I will not vent again because my day is rough. Working out is not that damn important and i have been trying to make excuses of why i should have time to lift weights.

    I single handedly provide 90% of my family's food and by next year it will be 100%. I hang clothes to dry, stitch socks, and make my own laundry detergent. I bake 100% of our bread and pastries and im damn good at it. My dogs are well fed, well exersiced, and well mannered. I have performed surgery on four small aninals without any veterinary knowledge and saved their lives.

    I make sure my husband comes home from his physical job and isnt bombarded with more work unless i absolutely have to.

    So youre right-a lot of you are.

    Working out would be a waste of time that i dont have.
  • jonnythan
    jonnythan Posts: 10,161 Member
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    The important thing is that you have your excuse.

    You know what, you're 100% right. I will not vent again because my day is rough. Working out is not that damn important and i have been trying to make excuses of why i should have time to lift weights.

    I single handedly provide 90% of my family's food and by next year it will be 100%. I hang clothes to dry, stitch socks, and make my own laundry detergent. I bake 100% of our bread and pastries and im damn good at it. My dogs are well fed, well exersiced, and well mannered. I have performed surgery on four small aninals without any veterinary knowledge and saved their lives.

    I make sure my husband comes home from his physical job and isnt bombarded with more work unless i absolutely have to.

    So youre right-a lot of you are.

    Working out would be a waste of time that i dont have.

    Cool.

    So why did you make this thread, anyway?
  • MagicalLeopleurodon
    MagicalLeopleurodon Posts: 623 Member
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    Okay OP, I can't imagine that this happens every day, so I'll assume you had just one really busy day. Seriously though, if you're that busy, why are you...

    1)Baking bread? Source of income and because i can bake 6 loaves for $0.71
    2)Hanging laundry to dry? (no dryer?) No dryer and it keeps the light bill around $50/month if we dont rrun it or the a/c
    3)making laundry detergent? $0.12/500 loads
    4)cooking your husband breakfast and lunch? (I mean, come on, it isn't the 1950s anymore.)because i am happy in my gender role and his cooking sucks.
    5)Tending to so many pets...? I have dogs and cats. The rest of the 85 animals are food producing livestock.
  • MagicalLeopleurodon
    MagicalLeopleurodon Posts: 623 Member
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    The important thing is that you have your excuse.

    You know what, you're 100% right. I will not vent again because my day is rough. Working out is not that damn important and i have been trying to make excuses of why i should have time to lift weights.

    I single handedly provide 90% of my family's food and by next year it will be 100%. I hang clothes to dry, stitch socks, and make my own laundry detergent. I bake 100% of our bread and pastries and im damn good at it. My dogs are well fed, well exersiced, and well mannered. I have performed surgery on four small aninals without any veterinary knowledge and saved their lives.

    I make sure my husband comes home from his physical job and isnt bombarded with more work unless i absolutely have to.

    So youre right-a lot of you are.

    Working out would be a waste of time that i dont have.

    Cool.

    So why did you make this thread, anyway?
    i needed to get it off my chest. Wont happen again.
  • jonnythan
    jonnythan Posts: 10,161 Member
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    The important thing is that you have your excuse.

    You know what, you're 100% right. I will not vent again because my day is rough. Working out is not that damn important and i have been trying to make excuses of why i should have time to lift weights.

    I single handedly provide 90% of my family's food and by next year it will be 100%. I hang clothes to dry, stitch socks, and make my own laundry detergent. I bake 100% of our bread and pastries and im damn good at it. My dogs are well fed, well exersiced, and well mannered. I have performed surgery on four small aninals without any veterinary knowledge and saved their lives.

    I make sure my husband comes home from his physical job and isnt bombarded with more work unless i absolutely have to.

    So youre right-a lot of you are.

    Working out would be a waste of time that i dont have.

    Cool.

    So why did you make this thread, anyway?
    i needed to get it off my chest. Wont happen again.

    Cool.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    The important thing is that you have your excuse.

    You know what, you're 100% right. I will not vent again because my day is rough. Working out is not that damn important and i have been trying to make excuses of why i should have time to lift weights.

    I single handedly provide 90% of my family's food and by next year it will be 100%. I hang clothes to dry, stitch socks, and make my own laundry detergent. I bake 100% of our bread and pastries and im damn good at it. My dogs are well fed, well exersiced, and well mannered. I have performed surgery on four small aninals without any veterinary knowledge and saved their lives.

    I make sure my husband comes home from his physical job and isnt bombarded with more work unless i absolutely have to.

    So youre right-a lot of you are.

    Working out would be a waste of time that i dont have.

    Look... no one is saying you aren't awesome. But you do need to make some time for yourself. Your husband could help out a lot more than he is. If you are providing that much to the household, then he isn't spending a hell of a lot so he shouldn't have to work so hard so he ought to be able to help... don't you think?

    Or you could continue carrying all of this burden and martyring yourself on the internet, and before you get offended, women do have a natural tendency to try to take on everything and excuse themselves for neglecting themselves and call it love. Stop it! It's not healthy!

    For all that energy and time that you expense to manage your household, it seems like you could spare some time for yourself.
  • Holly_Roman_Empire
    Holly_Roman_Empire Posts: 4,440 Member
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    Okay OP, I can't imagine that this happens every day, so I'll assume you had just one really busy day. Seriously though, if you're that busy, why are you...

    1)Baking bread? Source of income and because i can bake 6 loaves for $0.71
    2)Hanging laundry to dry? (no dryer?) No dryer and it keeps the light bill around $50/month if we dont rrun it or the a/c
    3)making laundry detergent? $0.12/500 loads
    4)cooking your husband breakfast and lunch? (I mean, come on, it isn't the 1950s anymore.)because i am happy in my gender role and his cooking sucks.
    5)Tending to so many pets...? I have dogs and cats. The rest of the 85 animals are food producing livestock.

    You know, besides the fact that I think a lot of what you already do is exercise, it is a different set of priorities indeed. All of this you just named is clearly very important to you, and that's fine. I wouldn't do half of that, but I'm not you and I don't know your situation.

    I'm just sort of at a loss at why you would start a thread like this, then. As someone else stated, either do an organized workout, or don't. But if you decide you want to, you're going to have to make it a priority over one of the other million things you do.

    Nvm: I see you clarified the point of the thread above.
  • a_stronger_me13
    a_stronger_me13 Posts: 812 Member
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    The important thing is that you have your excuse.

    You know what, you're 100% right. I will not vent again because my day is rough. Working out is not that damn important and i have been trying to make excuses of why i should have time to lift weights.

    I single handedly provide 90% of my family's food and by next year it will be 100%. I hang clothes to dry, stitch socks, and make my own laundry detergent. I bake 100% of our bread and pastries and im damn good at it. My dogs are well fed, well exersiced, and well mannered. I have performed surgery on four small aninals without any veterinary knowledge and saved their lives.

    I make sure my husband comes home from his physical job and isnt bombarded with more work unless i absolutely have to.

    So youre right-a lot of you are.

    Working out would be a waste of time that i dont have.

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    Sorry, I don't have much sympathy for a situation you've chosen to be in.
  • angf0679
    angf0679 Posts: 1,120 Member
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    Give me a break.. Give me a break.. Break me off a piece of that KIT KAT BAR!
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    mm chcolate now I want a kit kat bar!!! Sadly there is no room in my calories for it today. :sad: