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Live each day doing something special for your partner to make him or her feel loved without worrying about what it is you might or might not get in return.0
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dont loose yurself.0
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Marriage is simply a give and take. You`d better give it to her or she`ll take it anyway0
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My grandma used to say
'What's right is more important than who's right'
That being said she, she slept around a lot.0 -
Kiss her.........every single day.........and learn how to forgive
Smart man!0 -
lol!0
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It took my fiance over ten years to figure this one out...if your partner is hurt by/feels bad about/gets upset over something you do (or don't do) and you don't understand why so you keep doing it (or not doing it)...and they keep hurting/feeling bad/get upset...quit doing it JUST BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM. For the longest time, something would bother me that my fiance was doing or not doing and because HE didn't understand WHY it hurt/bothered me, he didn't feel motivated to change. Then one day, he realized, hey, I love this girl and I hate seeing her upset, so instead of continuing my behavior/actions, I'm going to quit/start this behavior/action, just to make her happy.
I told my therapist this years later and she said she was going to incorporate that in to her couple's counseling sessions!
Bottom line, do it or don't do it because just for the simple reason that you want to see your loved one happy and not hurting, that is the only and most important reason!0 -
Don't argue.
Seriously.
My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years, together for a total of 17 and have never had an argument. EVER. Do we have disagreements? Sure. Does he do stuff that drives me batty and vice versa? Absolutely however we agree to disagree. It's not worth it to get mad over things like the dishes in the sink or the coffee that he leaves out on the counter. It just doesn't matter to me.
We also love and respect each other. He's my absolute best friend and I don't know what I would do with out him. We understand each other and actually prefer to do things together when it's just the two of us and we never get sick of it. We communicate with each other. If I'm annoyed or po'd about something I tell him and we talk about it and he does the same thing.
I also think that's why we don't argue. We communicate our feelings in a rational and adult way. Never once have we raised our voices at each other in an angry way. Life is too short to be mad at the one you love all the time.0 -
Don't argue.
Seriously.
My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years, together for a total of 17 and have never had an argument. EVER. Do we have disagreements? Sure. Does he do stuff that drives me batty and vice versa? Absolutely however we agree to disagree. It's not worth it to get mad over things like the dishes in the sink or the coffee that he leaves out on the counter. It just doesn't matter to me.
We also love and respect each other. He's my absolute best friend and I don't know what I would do with out him. We understand each other and actually prefer to do things together when it's just the two of us and we never get sick of it. We communicate with each other. If I'm annoyed or po'd about something I tell him and we talk about it and he does the same thing.
I also think that's why we don't argue. We communicate our feelings in a rational and adult way. Never once have we raised our voices at each other in an angry way. Life is too short to be mad at the one you love all the time.
I've been with my fiance for 15 years and while I can't say NEVER argue...I say pick your arguments. Before our daugher, we fought all.the.time. After her, I honestly can't think of a "fight" we have had. We have bigger fish to fry now and are much more aware of what is important and what is a waste of our time. Once in awhile we might have a small tiff, or some slighty tepid words, but it isn't over some petty crap that really won't matter in the long run.
I do agree with you saying that you two tell each other when the other has angered or annoyed you. I do this with my fiance but he has a really hard time telling me. He feels really bad bringing something up so it tends to fester until I pry it out of him.0 -
I can say that my husband and I have never had an argument. BUT....this is mainly because we do not speak to each other and bottle everything inside. This is NOT healthy. Some disagreements are bound to happen if you are speaking freely.0
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As soon as someone starts yelling, everyone stops listening. Listen to your partner, respect them and be respected in return...0
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I'm sure this will piss off someone but ..... don't get married too young..... huge mistake0
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I'm sure this will piss off someone but ..... don't get married too young..... huge mistake
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Hot sex. Every.Single.Day.
that would be fantastic..... just sayin'0 -
Talk and Listen.0
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Say what...Wow, people are weird.0
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best marrige advice, JUST DONT!!!0
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The other day I woke up in the morning, long after my partner had gone to work in the dark hours of the day. I put on a cup of coffee and went to weigh myself (as is my routine) and my scale wouldn't work. The digital display was glowing a bit, but it couldn't read it, so I flipped on the bathroom light to see what was going on
the display had been covered up by a piece of paper that read "PERFECT" (my profile picture now).
That is the cutest ****ing thing ever!0 -
Communicate....
If you can't communicate effectively then you may as well separate.... without communication you have got nothing, not even trust, because without communicating you can not possibly build the trust that all relationships should be built on xXx0 -
Compromise
Because what YOU won't do, someone else will gladly step in and do it for you.0
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