Best Marriage Advice

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  • jellybeanhed313
    jellybeanhed313 Posts: 344 Member
    Some great advice here. I am divorced and hoping to marry my current boyfriend in the next few years. I say trust and intimacy are most important. I like the post about love languages. So true!
  • bombshellinprogress
    bombshellinprogress Posts: 125 Member
    Drink lots of pineapple juice.

    Does that really work?
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    Happy Wife = Happy Life
  • obrientp
    obrientp Posts: 546 Member
    Laugh together
    Have fun together both in and out of bed
    Be each others best friend
  • thebigcb
    thebigcb Posts: 2,210 Member
    Drink lots of pineapple juice.

    Does that really work?

    Whats this?
  • bethanytowell
    bethanytowell Posts: 256 Member
    Listen, Dont Speak.
  • highervibes
    highervibes Posts: 2,219 Member
    Drink lots of pineapple juice.

    Does that really work?

    NO, it absolutely does not.
  • Slrajr
    Slrajr Posts: 438 Member
    Kiss her.........every single day.........and learn how to forgive

    Yes! Kiss her.....every single day. Good one!
  • highervibes
    highervibes Posts: 2,219 Member
    Regular, quality blow jobs. They pretty much can't argue with anything after that.

    Just so much truth

    And this benefits the woman...how?

    Well I don't know about you, but I ususally get some action in return but I don't mind giving no strings attached (that they can see anyways lol) *kitten*. Try giving your guy road head the next time you've had too much wine at dinner then you'll have your answer dear :flowerforyou:
  • Swissmiss
    Swissmiss Posts: 8,754 Member
    If both partys would put each other first, then there would be a wonderful marriage. I always tell couples to do The Love Dare.
  • judyde
    judyde Posts: 401 Member
    separate bathrooms...

    ^^ THIS!!!!
  • Cre8veLifeR
    Cre8veLifeR Posts: 1,062 Member
    Well, according to the leading marriage expert, your positive to negative interaction ratio needs to be 5:1 -- which totally makes sense. And my favorite definition of love EVER is from Brene Brown:

    We cultivate love when we allow our most vulnerable and powerful selves to be deeply seen and known, and when we honor the spiritual connection that grows from that offering with trust, respect, kindness and affection.

    Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow, a connection that can only be cultivated between two people when it exists within each one of them – we can only love others as much as we love ourselves.

    Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Love can only survive these injuries if they are acknowledged, healed and rare.”
  • thebigcb
    thebigcb Posts: 2,210 Member
    Regular, quality blow jobs. They pretty much can't argue with anything after that.

    Just so much truth

    And this benefits the woman...how?

    Well I don't know about you, but I ususally get some action in return but I don't mind giving no strings attached (that they can see anyways lol) *kitten*. Try giving your guy road head the next time you've had too much wine at dinner then you'll have your answer dear :flowerforyou:


    Marry me?
  • sewerchick93
    sewerchick93 Posts: 1,438 Member
    My dear sweet grandmother of 90 years says there are 3 C's to a long, happy marriage

    Communication: always keep it open and honest
    Compromise: you can't have everything your way
    Cuddling: a simple act of PDA that is frequent during dating but the one most people forget about after marriage when their lives start to get busy.
  • highervibes
    highervibes Posts: 2,219 Member
    My dear sweet grandmother of 90 years says there are 3 C's to a long, happy marriage

    Communication: always keep it open and honest
    Compromise: you can't have everything your way
    Cuddling: a simple act of PDA that is frequent during dating but the one most people forget about after marriage when their lives start to get busy.

    I thought it was carat, cut and clarity. This explains a lot lol
  • highervibes
    highervibes Posts: 2,219 Member
    Regular, quality blow jobs. They pretty much can't argue with anything after that.

    Just so much truth

    And this benefits the woman...how?

    Well I don't know about you, but I ususally get some action in return but I don't mind giving no strings attached (that they can see anyways lol) *kitten*. Try giving your guy road head the next time you've had too much wine at dinner then you'll have your answer dear :flowerforyou:


    Marry me?

    LOL
  • metaphoria
    metaphoria Posts: 1,432 Member
    Always assume your spouse has the best intentions.

    Be your spouse's best cheerleader.

    Don't just add your spouse as a part of your life; build a new life, together.
  • FrauHaas2013
    FrauHaas2013 Posts: 615 Member
    Drink lots of pineapple juice.

    Does that really work?

    Yes, it does!!!
  • gabbygirl78
    gabbygirl78 Posts: 936 Member
    Hot sex. Every.Single.Day.

    THIS!!!!!!
  • gabbygirl78
    gabbygirl78 Posts: 936 Member
    Regular, quality blow jobs. They pretty much can't argue with anything after that.

    Just so much truth

    And this benefits the woman...how?

    Well I don't know about you, but I ususally get some action in return but I don't mind giving no strings attached (that they can see anyways lol) *kitten*. Try giving your guy road head the next time you've had too much wine at dinner then you'll have your answer dear :flowerforyou:

    and this!!