Being hit on/flirted with?

karmac0matic
karmac0matic Posts: 285
edited November 2024 in Chit-Chat
How does anyone else feel about it?
I personally hate it.
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  • HerkMeOff
    HerkMeOff Posts: 1,002 Member
    There is a tactful way to do it.

    Most people, especially around here don't know that way...
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    It makes me feel special as it rarely happens. It shocked me the first few times that someone found me attractive on here because I had never really heard that before.

    IMO it is nice to go from feeling average-to-not good looking and start feeling like you may be reasonably attractive.
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    There is a tactful way to do it.

    Most people, especially around here don't know that way...

    ^This. Depends on who it is and how they do it.
  • salladeve
    salladeve Posts: 1,053 Member
    Depends on who is doing the flirting and if they are being obnoxious or not.
  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    depends.
  • psych101
    psych101 Posts: 1,842 Member
    There is a tactful way to do it.

    Most people, especially around here don't know that way...

    haha agree!
  • Madame_Goldbricker
    Madame_Goldbricker Posts: 1,625 Member
    I'm pretty oblivious to it if it's happening. I just assume folk are being friendly.
  • spirit095
    spirit095 Posts: 1,017 Member
    I's pretty non-existent in my life right now. I kind of wish it would happen more to me.
  • TheGreatBeyond
    TheGreatBeyond Posts: 125
    Honestly, I am fairly blunt about things when it comes to that. Sometimes it rubs people the wrong way but I am not one for games and subtleties.
  • karmac0matic
    karmac0matic Posts: 285
    I mean more the obvious like " I want in your pants" flirting...
    But yeah there are the other flirters who mean no harm and just can't help themselves

    But they don't bother me :)
  • YesIAm17
    YesIAm17 Posts: 817 Member
    It never stops... I'm just trying to learn to live with the fact that I'm sexy and everyone wants me... it's a hard life.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    I am choosing to ignore it and never put my pic up.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    when they are around my parents age it makes me feel really uncomfortable and I do indeed hate it
  • George_Baileys_Ghost
    George_Baileys_Ghost Posts: 1,524 Member
    I like it. I grew up with zero confidence. It's kind of nice to think that others see me as something "good" when I so often don't.
  • greeneyes0809
    greeneyes0809 Posts: 422 Member
    Some guy looked at me today, tootttttallllyyyyy flirting amiright?! Skeeved me out, whatta creep!
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I mean more the obvious like " I want in your pants" flirting...
    But yeah there are the other flirters who mean no harm and just can't help themselves

    But they don't bother me :)

    Ahh, well...it is still flattering, but can sometimes be a bit much. I think your reaction depends on how you feel about the other person or not. If it is someone I find attractive it bothers me less than if it is someone I am not attracted to.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I like it. I grew up with zero confidence. It's kind of nice to think that others see me as something "good" when I so often don't.

    So much this.

    P.S, I think you are cute. :flowerforyou:
  • salladeve
    salladeve Posts: 1,053 Member
    I mean more the obvious like " I want in your pants" flirting...
    But yeah there are the other flirters who mean no harm and just can't help themselves

    But they don't bother me :)

    oh now I get it you're talking about the guys that honk and yell out the window at you when your running.... No to that!
  • craziedazie
    craziedazie Posts: 185 Member
    I like it. I grew up with zero confidence. It's kind of nice to think that others see me as something "good" when I so often don't.

    Same here
  • George_Baileys_Ghost
    George_Baileys_Ghost Posts: 1,524 Member
    I like it. I grew up with zero confidence. It's kind of nice to think that others see me as something "good" when I so often don't.

    So much this.

    P.S, I think you are cute. :flowerforyou:

    I want your scruff to be my scruff.
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    It never stops... I'm just trying to learn to live with the fact that I'm sexy and everyone wants me... it's a hard life.

    A VERY hard life. Lol.
  • Sovi_
    Sovi_ Posts: 575 Member
    I always assume people who hit on me are trying to sell me something, trying to rob me, or wants me to join their cult.
  • psych101
    psych101 Posts: 1,842 Member
    I am choosing to ignore it and never put my pic up.

    wait...you're not a cute but slightly angry looking bunny?
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    I like it. I grew up with zero confidence. It's kind of nice to think that others see me as something "good" when I so often don't.

    I came in to sexually harass you and now I just feel dirty! You are wonderful, head pats, belly rubs.

    But anyway, back to regularly scheduled programing:

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  • DOM4U
    DOM4U Posts: 239
    How does anyone else feel about it?
    I personally hate it.

    Depends on whos doing it.

    Youd love it if I did it to you snatch
  • Alisontheice
    Alisontheice Posts: 9,611 Member
    Innocent flirting and being hit on is certainly fun and flattering. There is a fine line though between flirty and creepy though.

    I think some people just tend to be flirty in their interactions in general.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I like it. I grew up with zero confidence. It's kind of nice to think that others see me as something "good" when I so often don't.

    So much this.

    P.S, I think you are cute. :flowerforyou:

    I want your scruff to be my scruff.

    Come hither, that we may make the beast with two beards.
  • SavageAbbey
    SavageAbbey Posts: 79
    The creepy vulgar guys with offensive remarks bother me. Also the really aggressive types. Some guy followed me off of the freeway to a gas station recently. That was scary. He asked if I had a boyfriend and some other stuff. Compliments are nice from some but it's really hard to separate the creeps from the nice guys sometimes.

    I guess I'm in the not liking it crowd.
  • HealthWoke0ish
    HealthWoke0ish Posts: 2,078 Member
    It makes me feel special as it rarely happens. It shocked me the first few times that someone found me attractive on here because I had never really heard that before.

    IMO it is nice to go from feeling average-to-not good looking and start feeling like you may be reasonably attractive.

    Ditto
  • TheVirgoddess
    TheVirgoddess Posts: 4,535 Member
    It makes me feel special as it rarely happens. It shocked me the first few times that someone found me attractive on here because I had never really heard that before.

    IMO it is nice to go from feeling average-to-not good looking and start feeling like you may be reasonably attractive.

    Really? You're adorable.

    I don't mind being flirted with, as long as it's tasteful - you know, not things like "show me yer tits", or cat-calling or things like that. And that the person respects any boundaries you throw up.

    Some guy randomly came up to me last week to tell me my smile was lovely. There was no real intent there - it was just a nice compliment. He smiled and walked away. It felt nice.
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