how skinny is sexy?

I personally find underweight women to be absolutely repulsive. Serious no schwing zone. Less attractive than morbidly obese even.

Though fit or curvy are the most attractive IMHO, with fit and curvy (dat *kitten*) taking the cake.

While I agree that way underweight women arent that sexy, I wouldnt go this far. The moribly obese just make the damn thing wanna go back into its shell like a turtle!

Thread title implies that there is only one definition of sexy, and that is "skinny".....
OK then.

^ In for taking offense at others' insecurity.

^In for taking offense at anything.

^ in for taking offense at offense taking to something.

So today's society confuses me. There are girls who are super skinny that men find attractive, but then there are women who are curvy and a little 'chubby' that is attractive. So what would the ideal sexy weight be for a woman of 5'6"? The reason I ask is because I want my husband to be happy with me and he doesn't seem very happy with me at 95 lbs...so any advice?

Perhaps the issue isn't your weight :grumble:

So today's society confuses me. There are girls who are super skinny that men find attractive, but then there are women who are curvy and a little 'chubby' that is attractive. So what would the ideal sexy weight be for a woman of 5'6"? The reason I ask is because I want my husband to be happy with me and he doesn't seem very happy with me at 95 lbs...so any advice?

Perhaps the issue isn't your weight :grumble:

Pretty much what I was going to say...

I'd also add that different men have different tastes. My best buddy likes his women tiny and skinny...I personally prefer a more athletic build. Not surprisingly, our wives reflect both of our tastes.

I personally find underweight women to be absolutely repulsive. Serious no schwing zone. Less attractive than morbidly obese even.

Though fit or curvy are the most attractive IMHO, with fit and curvy (dat *kitten*) taking the cake.

I guess I'm repulsive. lol

I wouldn't say your repulsive, but you need too hit the squats hard! You also need to go to burger king! Hey,maybe you and the Op could meet up...

is my husband making you type that? his most famous line when seeing women with no back is "eat a cheeseburger!"...he's harsh.

Your husband is cool mang!!!

I personally find underweight women to be absolutely repulsive. Serious no schwing zone. Less attractive than morbidly obese even.

Though fit or curvy are the most attractive IMHO, with fit and curvy (dat *kitten*) taking the cake.

I guess I'm repulsive. lol

In the stars, you keep bringing it back to you. I don't think ANYONE here is referring to you. Why do you do that? Just asking....not looking to argue, so, peace, ok?

It's not about me, there are other members that are both thin and fit. Peace.

This is

I think I can speak for all men...

We don't find women 5'6" attractive, your husband is lying to you.

This. I had to resort to wearing heels all the time to trick my husband into marrying me. It's awkward in the shower but that's the price of being 5'6".

I share your pain. Finding water-resistant, high heeled shower shoes has been one of the greatest challenges of my marriage.

What kind of marriage is so focused on "making the husband happy"? This better be trolling.

Each person is responsible for their own happiness. Two happy people having a good time together is the goal.

What kind of marriage is so focused on "making the husband happy"? This better be trolling.

Each person is responsible for their own happiness. Two happy people having a good time together is the goal.

IDK, I care what my husband thinks about the way I look. It's certainly not the only thing I care about, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't like that he likes what I got.

"so focused" may simply be your inference.

OK, let's end this once and for all!!! You are all sexy OK!!!! Its difficult to measure sexiness with a weight or a picture for that matter!! What makes you sexy is your smile, your personality, your drive, the way you walk, the way you speak, your passions among many more things!! Yes, some women may have better physical attributes then others, that doesn't make them less or more sexy... We are all here to improve ourselves, let's help each other, and try to feel comfortable in the skin we are in, we could always improve.

I personally find underweight women to be absolutely repulsive. Serious no schwing zone. Less attractive than morbidly obese even.

Though fit or curvy are the most attractive IMHO, with fit and curvy (dat *kitten*) taking the cake.

I guess I'm repulsive. lol

In the stars, you keep bringing it back to you. I don't think ANYONE here is referring to you. Why do you do that? Just asking....not looking to argue, so, peace, ok?

It's not about me, there are other members that are both thin and fit. Peace.

Oh if you are trying to speak up for other people who you know feel the way you do, I already learned my lesson about that. Don't do it. It's a losing game.

I wouldn't be happy if my girlfriend was 95lbs @ 5'6" either, because that just aint healthy.

Sexy is not about weight or height. Its about how you carry yourself. Its that unexplainable thing that is different for everyone. For me, it's all about that smile that lights up a room.

Totally agree.

To me, sexy is how you CARRY yourself... It has a little to do with looks, but mostly the way you present yourself.

This to a point...

My own opinion, fit and healthy is sexy visually, the confidence definately comes into play...

OP you are neither...sorry...even if you carried yourself with 100% confidence you are not sexy to your husband...why because you have self image issues...you are deathly slim...anyone who is underweight is not healthy period...sickly is not sexy.

Your husbands issue is that you are ill...and he doesn't know how to fix it...that's what men do fix things...he can't fix this...

You now have a choice to be frank...get better or things with him will get worse and chances are you will divorce...harsh reality isn't it.