What is the oldest age you would ever go for in a partner?

I know just the guy for you, OP

2 years in either direction. All my ex boyfriends are 1-2 years younger than me, my husband is 1 year older. He's the only person I've been with that's older than me. I like the young en's lol

My husband is 22 years my senior. We met when I was 19, got married when I was 21. His daughter is about 6 and a half months younger than I am.

That said, he was never in a position of authority over me. If you think there is potential for something with your professor, then you should make it clear that nothing can/should happen until such time as he is no longer your instructor. Period. If it is genuine interest, and he's a smart person, then he'd recognize the danger in getting involved with one of his students, and would be happy to wait.

Also, if you did start dating after getting out of his class, do not take any other classes with him as your instructor. Take alternate classes, or, if the class is required and he's the only teacher, go to the administration with him, and disclose the relationship and see if there are any options (perhaps all assignments graded by a TA.)

You want to avoid the appearance of impropriety, not just avoid improper actions themselves. I am quite familiar with this, as I used to work in the student loan industry. My sister-in-law worked for a university who happened to use the company I worked for. On the rare occasions that I received transactions for that school, I would notify my team leader and/or supervisor, and they would assign the batch of transactions to another team member.

Full disclosure is the ideal here. Wait, and notify ethics committees. Sometimes kismet happens. But if you want to protect your reputations, and job/student status, then you act appropriately and make sure your ducks are in a row before you do anything that could remotely be considered inappropriate by anyone who sees you.

My husband is 22 years my senior. We met when I was 19, got married when I was 21. His daughter is about 6 and a half months younger than I am.

That said, he was never in a position of authority over me. If you think there is potential for something with your professor, then you should make it clear that nothing can/should happen until such time as he is no longer your instructor. Period. If it is genuine interest, and he's a smart person, then he'd recognize the danger in getting involved with one of his students, and would be happy to wait.

Also, if you did start dating after getting out of his class, do not take any other classes with him as your instructor. Take alternate classes, or, if the class is required and he's the only teacher, go to the administration with him, and disclose the relationship and see if there are any options (perhaps all assignments graded by a TA.)

You want to avoid the appearance of impropriety, not just avoid improper actions themselves. I am quite familiar with this, as I used to work in the student loan industry. My sister-in-law worked for a university who happened to use the company I worked for. On the rare occasions that I received transactions for that school, I would notify my team leader and/or supervisor, and they would assign the batch of transactions to another team member.

Full disclosure is the ideal here. Wait, and notify ethics committees. Sometimes kismet happens. But if you want to protect your reputations, and job/student status, then you act appropriately and make sure your ducks are in a row before you do anything that could remotely be considered inappropriate by anyone who sees you.

I don't think I could have said it any better. One of my hubby's professors married one of his students, however they never dated while she was in his classes. They have been married now for at least 15 years. Juts play it by the rules.

I've always been most attracted to men around 40, even when I was a teenager of 13/14. Yes, I know it's inappropriate for what is no more than a little kid to have an affair with a 40-year-old (and I never went there!) but I couldn't help it, I simply wasn't attracted to the immature jerks my age.

Things have only changed insofar as I'm now 48 - and still interested in around 40-year-olds.
The youngest I would go is probably 35, but not much younger than that as I prefer mature men.
The oldest is around 60, depending on how young/old they are inside.

I have always liked guys close to my age best and generally prefer a bit younger before a bit older. My husband is 5 years younger than I am, and previously I was married to someone else who was 3 years younger. Almost every guy I've ever dated has been within 5 years of my own age.

Completely inappropriate and he sounds like a charming predator of a professor. I'd wager you're not the first 19 year old he's "liked". I agree that as we age the years can matter less, but at 19 I think anyone over 30 is probably more attracted to the youth than to the person. Why chooise to invest your energy, your emotions, or perhaps even your heart to someone you obviously have a limited future with. Sad truth is that we age exponentially, so someone 50 is aging at a much faster rate than someone 19...and it just goes continues to speed up. Your professor has one foot on a slippery slope wether you or he admit it. No offense to all of us older folks who think young, but time does catch us all.

Maybe 10 yrs

I'm 32. I'd be willing to go for a ten year boundary, up and down.

Im 25 and as a rule.. give it 5 years down or 7 up