Stereotyping against Beautiful People
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<<<<<< picture of self swimming with sharks, never gets creeper messages. Based on my n=1 study, what you use for your avatar has a direct impact on what kind of messages you get, sad but true.
ETA: I just realized that's actually not the avatar I have up right now :laugh: , but the point still stands, I intentionally don't use a face pic.0 -
OMG, I GUESS THE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE AREN'T AS NICEE AS I WAS TOLD...I SHOULDN'T GET RIDICULED FOR BEING OFFENDED
You're not being ridiculed for being offended (which you never even mentioned, you said "eerked"). People are poking a bit of fun at you for the "This is what I have to deal with for being so beautiful" vibe of your thread title/post.
People on the internet send inappropriate, rude, hateful messages to other people all the time. It sucks - but it's not about you - it's about them. I get asked for nudes at *least* once a week. I can't control these messages, I can only control what I do about them.
I know I seem to be putting off the "whoa is me" vibe out but in all reality I was trying to get people to realize that just because I'm "pretty and uninterrested" doesn't mean I should be called out and made fun of
If you try to change "people" you will just get more frustrated. That guy has already forgotten about you and is presently flirting with or "irking" his next pretty girl.0 -
OMG, I GUESS THE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE AREN'T AS NICEE AS I WAS TOLD...I SHOULDN'T GET RIDICULED FOR BEING OFFENDED
You're not being ridiculed for being offended (which you never even mentioned, you said "eerked"). People are poking a bit of fun at you for the "This is what I have to deal with for being so beautiful" vibe of your thread title/post.
People on the internet send inappropriate, rude, hateful messages to other people all the time. It sucks - but it's not about you - it's about them. I get asked for nudes at *least* once a week. I can't control these messages, I can only control what I do about them.
I know I seem to be putting off the "whoa is me" vibe out but in all reality I was trying to get people to realize that just because I'm "pretty and uninterrested" doesn't mean I should be called out and made fun of
Of course you shouldn't be harassed via message because you've rejected someone. I hate telling people "this is life, suck it up" (I'm the girl who is always trying to fight to change stuff I don't like) - but in this case it's accurate. There is no way you can change every person that thinks other people owe them something. So it's better not to engage. I still sometimes answer messages on here IF I recognize the person as someone I've posted with often. Other than that, I just delete.0 -
You can also choose to ignore or block a user, I have used that just this past week. Very simple way to eliminate your problem
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You got into college without first learning how to spell? :noway:
Being beautiful is a cross some women learn to bear silently.0 -
LOL. holy humble brag batman.0
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OMG, I GUESS THE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE AREN'T AS NICEE AS I WAS TOLD...I SHOULDN'T GET RIDICULED FOR BEING OFFENDED
You're not being ridiculed for being offended (which you never even mentioned, you said "eerked"). People are poking a bit of fun at you for the "This is what I have to deal with for being so beautiful" vibe of your thread title/post.
People on the internet send inappropriate, rude, hateful messages to other people all the time. It sucks - but it's not about you - it's about them. I get asked for nudes at *least* once a week. I can't control these messages, I can only control what I do about them.
OMG I AM SO BEAUTIFUL I GET MESSAGES FROM CREEPS ALL THE TIME THAT I AM PHYSICALLY UNABLE TO IGNORE. HALP!0 -
OMG, I GUESS THE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE AREN'T AS NICEE AS I WAS TOLD...I SHOULDN'T GET RIDICULED FOR BEING OFFENDED
You're not being ridiculed for being offended (which you never even mentioned, you said "eerked"). People are poking a bit of fun at you for the "This is what I have to deal with for being so beautiful" vibe of your thread title/post.
People on the internet send inappropriate, rude, hateful messages to other people all the time. It sucks - but it's not about you - it's about them. I get asked for nudes at *least* once a week. I can't control these messages, I can only control what I do about them.
I know I seem to be putting off the "whoa is me" vibe out but in all reality I was trying to get people to realize that just because I'm "pretty and uninterrested" doesn't mean I should be called out and made fun of
Sorry, you’re not as pretty as you think. I’d give you a 5 out of 10. The statement “men have fragile egos.” is not true. Boys have fragile egos, those aren’t men. Women who get hit on all the time build up an immunity to it. Obviously you don’t have that, obviously don’t get hit on as much as you think. Women who get hit on all the time get called sluts, lesbian all the time by these boys. It doesn’t bother them, they heard it a zillion times. What was said to you wasn’t that bad, yet you’re having a difficult time with it.
I do understand it can be annoying at times. Women are constantly throwing themselves at me. The line is long to be with a man as great as me. I mean just look at me, I am like a god. It gets pretty frustrating and makes it hard to choose. I do understand your predicament.
LOL @ you thinking the people on this site are nice.
ETA: My issue when i was 50lbs over weight is that I looked like buddha I would use my spirtial powers to sleep with 5 women at a time, 3x a day. It gets tiring.0 -
I don't even show my face on MFP (or the internet in general) and I still get creepy mail from creepy men. Ignore/block, move on. It's not because you're pretty, it's because you most likely have female genitalia, and some men are programmed to act like idiots when they sense a female is near. I don't even give them the slightest satisfaction of a return "hello" unless they genuinely respond to something I've said on the forums and treat me like a normal human being.0
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Don't hate me because I'm beautiful. *hair flip*0
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You got into college without first learning how to spell? :noway:
Being beautiful is a cross some women learn to bear silently.
I'm not like most victims of society..I know I'm beautiful and I shouldn't be afraid to speak out about it0 -
There's creepy females too. Just sayin'. lolI don't even show my face on MFP (or the internet in general) and I still get creepy mail from creepy men. Ignore/block, move on. It's not because you're pretty, it's because you most likely have female genitalia, and some men are programmed to act like idiots when they sense a female is near. I don't even give them the slightest satisfaction of a return "hello" unless they genuinely respond to something I've said on the forums and treat me like a normal human being.0 -
OP, I can confirm. Being stunningly attractive is a MASSIVE burden...
But I try to carry it lightly - I suggest you do the same!0 -
OMG, I GUESS THE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE AREN'T AS NICEE AS I WAS TOLD...I SHOULDN'T GET RIDICULED FOR BEING OFFENDED
You're not being ridiculed for being offended (which you never even mentioned, you said "eerked"). People are poking a bit of fun at you for the "This is what I have to deal with for being so beautiful" vibe of your thread title/post.
People on the internet send inappropriate, rude, hateful messages to other people all the time. It sucks - but it's not about you - it's about them. I get asked for nudes at *least* once a week. I can't control these messages, I can only control what I do about them.
I know I seem to be putting off the "whoa is me" vibe out but in all reality I was trying to get people to realize that just because I'm "pretty and uninterrested" doesn't mean I should be called out and made fun of
Sorry, you’re not as pretty as you think. I’d give you a 5 out of 10. The statement “men have fragile egos.” is not true. Boys have fragile egos, those aren’t men. Women who get hit on all the time build up an immunity to it. Obviously you don’t have that, obviously don’t get hit on as much as you think. Women who get hit on all the time get called sluts, lesbian all the time by these boys. It doesn’t bother them, they heard it a zillion times. What was said to you wasn’t that bad, yet you’re having a difficult time with it.
I do understand it can be annoying at times. Women are constantly throwing themselves at me. The line is long to be with a man as great as me. I mean just look at me, I am like a god. It gets pretty frustrating and makes it hard to choose. I do understand your predicament.
LOL @ you thinking the people on this site are nice.
Your profile says you're a woman, so you're a lesbian? And you're THAT smokin' hot?! I might have to switch teams...0 -
This thread is so cute. It reminds me of the stuff my 13yo stepdaughter says.0
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OP, I can confirm. Being stunningly attractive is a MASSIVE burden...
But I try to carry it lightly - I suggest you do the same!
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To the person who said females can be creepy too, I agree 100%. My scariest stalkers have been female. The men usually go away after their temper tantrum. The females will show up on your doorstep.0 -
That happens. Its happened to me. Big deal. Move on, move forward, get on with it.0
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Let me explain what happened to you op. You got trolled. Put it simply the guy wanted something and when you didn't give him what he wanted the troll showed his true colors.
You are better off just ignoring him and acting like he doesn't even exist.0 -
Yup. I had to move away because of that once back in the day. lol She kept calling me for a year and half later too.
To the person who said females can be creepy too, I agree 100%. My scariest stalkers have been female. The men usually go away after their temper tantrum. The females will show up on your doorstep.0 -
You got into college without first learning how to spell? :noway:
Being beautiful is a cross some women learn to bear silently.
I'm not like most victims of society..I know I'm beautiful and I shouldn't be afraid to speak out about it
you sound like you have a narcissistic personality disorder OP. here ya go: http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/basics/definition/con-200255680 -
Lmao. Speechless I tell you. I am speechless.You got into college without first learning how to spell? :noway:
Being beautiful is a cross some women learn to bear silently.
I'm not like most victims of society..I know I'm beautiful and I shouldn't be afraid to speak out about it0 -
You got into college without first learning how to spell? :noway:
Being beautiful is a cross some women learn to bear silently.
I'm not like most victims of society..I know I'm beautiful and I shouldn't be afraid to speak out about it
It's not a bad thing to think/say that you're beautiful - I wish more people did see the beauty they have.
But, you don't know that's the reason you're being hit on (which is, I think, the whole issue with this thread to begin with). I don't consider myself beautiful - and I still get hit on regularly.
It's not the plight of the gorgeous. It's the plight of the internet (playgrounds for the lonely and horny).0 -
OMG, I GUESS THE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE AREN'T AS NICEE AS I WAS TOLD...I SHOULDN'T GET RIDICULED FOR BEING OFFENDED
You're not being ridiculed for being offended (which you never even mentioned, you said "eerked"). People are poking a bit of fun at you for the "This is what I have to deal with for being so beautiful" vibe of your thread title/post.
People on the internet send inappropriate, rude, hateful messages to other people all the time. It sucks - but it's not about you - it's about them. I get asked for nudes at *least* once a week. I can't control these messages, I can only control what I do about them.
I know I seem to be putting off the "whoa is me" vibe out but in all reality I was trying to get people to realize that just because I'm "pretty and uninterrested" doesn't mean I should be called out and made fun of
Sorry, you’re not as pretty as you think. I’d give you a 5 out of 10. The statement “men have fragile egos.” is not true. Boys have fragile egos, those aren’t men. Women who get hit on all the time build up an immunity to it. Obviously you don’t have that, obviously don’t get hit on as much as you think. Women who get hit on all the time get called sluts, lesbian all the time by these boys. It doesn’t bother them, they heard it a zillion times. What was said to you wasn’t that bad, yet you’re having a difficult time with it.
I do understand it can be annoying at times. Women are constantly throwing themselves at me. The line is long to be with a man as great as me. I mean just look at me, I am like a god. It gets pretty frustrating and makes it hard to choose. I do understand your predicament.
LOL @ you thinking the people on this site are nice.
Your profile says you're a woman, so you're a lesbian? And you're THAT smokin' hot?! I might have to switch teams...
I use my powers to go back and forth. I convert to a woman when I don't want them hitting on me.0 -
You got into college without first learning how to spell? :noway:
Being beautiful is a cross some women learn to bear silently.
I'm not like most victims of society..I know I'm beautiful and I shouldn't be afraid to speak out about it
It's not a bad thing to think/say that you're beautiful - I wish more people did see the beauty they have.
But, you don't know that's the reason you're being hit on (which is, I think, the whole issue with this thread to begin with). I don't consider myself beautiful - and I still get hit on regularly.
It's not the plight of the gorgeous. It's the plight of the internet (playgrounds for the lonely and horny).
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I'm not like most victims of society..I know I'm beautiful and I shouldn't be afraid to speak out about it
I don't even know what that means....0 -
OMG, I GUESS THE PEOPLE ON THIS SITE AREN'T AS NICEE AS I WAS TOLD...I SHOULDN'T GET RIDICULED FOR BEING OFFENDED
You're not being ridiculed for being offended (which you never even mentioned, you said "eerked"). People are poking a bit of fun at you for the "This is what I have to deal with for being so beautiful" vibe of your thread title/post.
People on the internet send inappropriate, rude, hateful messages to other people all the time. It sucks - but it's not about you - it's about them. I get asked for nudes at *least* once a week. I can't control these messages, I can only control what I do about them.
I know I seem to be putting off the "whoa is me" vibe out but in all reality I was trying to get people to realize that just because I'm "pretty and uninterrested" doesn't mean I should be called out and made fun of
Sorry, you’re not as pretty as you think. I’d give you a 5 out of 10. The statement “men have fragile egos.” is not true. Boys have fragile egos, those aren’t men. Women who get hit on all the time build up an immunity to it. Obviously you don’t have that, obviously don’t get hit on as much as you think. Women who get hit on all the time get called sluts, lesbian all the time by these boys. It doesn’t bother them, they heard it a zillion times. What was said to you wasn’t that bad, yet you’re having a difficult time with it.
I do understand it can be annoying at times. Women are constantly throwing themselves at me. The line is long to be with a man as great as me. I mean just look at me, I am like a god. It gets pretty frustrating and makes it hard to choose. I do understand your predicament.
LOL @ you thinking the people on this site are nice.
Your profile says you're a woman, so you're a lesbian? And you're THAT smokin' hot?! I might have to switch teams...
I use my powers to go back and forth. I convert to a woman when I don't want them hitting on me.
Mmmmm...hermaphrodite...even hotter.0 -
Grow up..seriously0
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You got into college without first learning how to spell? :noway:
Being beautiful is a cross some women learn to bear silently.
"Whoa is she."
I cannot even. I mean, I literally cannot even.0 -
Grow up..seriously
That's what I was thinking too!!!
...when reading your replies to this thread.0
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