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  • akh1981
    akh1981 Posts: 67 Member
    He's just not that into you.

    Seriously, demand your money.
    Stop texting dude. Find better friends.

    +1
  • whitebalance
    whitebalance Posts: 1,654 Member
    I am sorry but I advocate dropping him out of your life. I don't treat people whom I like in that fashion.

    She might want to get her 1,500 dollars back before she totally drops him.
    These two things. Get the money back, if possible, and drop the guy. The time, angst, and energy you're pouring into this black hole could be spent on more fulfilling "friendships" with people who act like your friends.

    I put "friendships" in quotes because from the context of your OP, it seems pretty clear to me that you're looking for more than a "friendly" relationship -- and he's sending the message loud and clear that he's not into that. I suspect that it's getting in the way of your "friendship" with this guy in the first place, but also that the friendship he would accept is not what would satisfy you.
  • nitole111
    nitole111 Posts: 45 Member
    Thanks everyone. I told him that I was tired of giving so much in our friendship and getting nothing in return. I told him that until (or if) he decides he wants to actually be friendly to me, too, I didn't want to talk to him.

    Thanks for your advice. Hopefully I can work on being used by everyone instead of being a pushover.

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