Looks or Personality?

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  • recarine
    recarine Posts: 24
    Both
  • phuckingbadasscutie
    phuckingbadasscutie Posts: 1,619 Member
    Definitely both...more so personality though. If they have looks with no personality there's no point.
  • skcardiog
    skcardiog Posts: 316 Member
    A good looking personality .
  • borst13
    borst13 Posts: 1,826 Member
    Personality....if you can make me laugh you can make me do anything

    anything? I do need my house painted.

    lol how big is your house?
  • reddz12
    reddz12 Posts: 350 Member
    Personality.. I mean you need to be attracted.. but personality can do that!
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  • sargessexyone
    sargessexyone Posts: 494 Member
    You don't love a woman because she is beautiful, she is beautiful because you love her.

    Personality for me :bigsmile:
  • Jennkies
    Jennkies Posts: 382 Member
    Its pretty much equal amounts of both for me.
  • Galatea_Stone
    Galatea_Stone Posts: 2,037 Member
    A lot of people aren't very truthful.

    All that matters is that he be desperate enough to say yes.
  • RebeccaP1972
    RebeccaP1972 Posts: 101 Member
    A good personality makes someone very attractive, just like a jerk gets uglier by the minute :happy:
  • SunShineBeastess
    SunShineBeastess Posts: 225 Member
    You need both- we all need something that visually appeals to us (that is on a basic primal level). However, looks are only an initial attraction, its how someone presents themselves and who they are that can then lead to something more meaningful.

    This says it ^^^
  • thatonegirlwiththestuff
    thatonegirlwiththestuff Posts: 1,171 Member
    Looks mean little nothing to me these days. A man HAS to have intelligence, kindness and the ability to make me laugh....Personality hands down.
  • pinupgal123
    pinupgal123 Posts: 65
    At the beginning it's looks. Anyone who says otherwise is a liar. (Unless you started out as friends). I choose personality in the long run though. A pretty face only lasts so long.
  • borst13
    borst13 Posts: 1,826 Member
    Looks mean little nothing to me these days. A man HAS to have intelligence, kindness and the ability to make me laugh....Personality hands down.

    with you on that
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Why not both? I wont date anyone that is ugly or boring.
  • TravelinChiGal
    TravelinChiGal Posts: 216 Member
    In all honesty, it takes a bit of both for me!

    I like to look at my men and need to be attracted to them.

    I also love passion, intelligence, a sense of humor, playfulness, and respectfulness.
  • LoneWolf_70
    LoneWolf_70 Posts: 1,151 Member
    i hate to call bs, but I just dont believe all the women who say personality. What I think they really mean is they wants both. just saying.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    You women are so shallow. Not everyone is born with a great personality.
  • Guns_N_Buns
    Guns_N_Buns Posts: 1,899 Member
    Looks
  • borst13
    borst13 Posts: 1,826 Member
    You women are so shallow. Not everyone is born with a great personality.

    haha
  • TravelinChiGal
    TravelinChiGal Posts: 216 Member
    You women are so shallow. Not everyone is born with a great personality.


    Humor - Check!! :laugh:
  • Derp_Diggler
    Derp_Diggler Posts: 1,456 Member
    And here I thought the size of my personality didn't matter.
  • TravelinChiGal
    TravelinChiGal Posts: 216 Member
    And here I thought the size of my personality didn't matter.



    Size matters.
  • SwedishSarah
    SwedishSarah Posts: 4,350 Member
    i hate to call bs, but I just dont believe all the women who say personality. What I think they really mean is they wants both. just saying.


    I agree that it is both. I perceived the question to be which one I place more importance on though. I don't mind less attractive features if you've got a good personality. It is harder for me to overlook a not-so-great personality even if you're better looking.
  • drsdc63
    drsdc63 Posts: 612 Member
    Looks make me look but personality makes me smile :-)
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    You women are so shallow. Not everyone is born with a great personality.


    Humor - Check!! :laugh:

    And here I thought my best features were my great looks, sharp intelligence, and humble nature. :ohwell:
  • TravelinChiGal
    TravelinChiGal Posts: 216 Member
    You women are so shallow. Not everyone is born with a great personality.


    Humor - Check!! :laugh:

    And here I thought my best features were my great looks, sharp intelligence, and humble nature. :ohwell:


    If your intelligence matches your wit, sir, you win!! :wink:
  • KatieKat1979
    KatieKat1979 Posts: 470 Member
    I have dated both and personalities win hands down.. There has to be brains, kindness, and humor inside of someone for me to dig them :)
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  • missshyeviolett
    missshyeviolett Posts: 310 Member
    Both.

    Hey, I have high standards. :drinker:

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