Are you losing weight to feel more attractive?

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  • Cheekies_
    Cheekies_ Posts: 319 Member
    Well now, my health is the reason I started and feeling more attractive keeps me motivated. So both! :smile:
  • betty_2010
    betty_2010 Posts: 44 Member
    both but mainly to be be more attractive and look better in clothes etc....
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
    Kevin Spacey had a line in American Beauty that went something like "I want to look good naked". I think that's a pretty good reason, lol.

    It doesn't end well for him.
    And his name is Lester.
    And he's 42 at the end of the movie.

    (i may have a thing here)
  • misskarne
    misskarne Posts: 1,765 Member
    Horrible dodgy genetics that means I KNOW the ache in my hips some days is osteoarthritis. Already. At 25. Combine this with a high-impact sport (figure skating).

    My mother is 51. Next week she will have a hip replacement. She had a knee replacement last year. The doctors told her nearly two decades ago that she had to lose weight to help her hips. By the time she took them seriously, it was too late. She was locked in a vicious cycle of being unable to exercise because she was in too much pain and her increasing weight putting further stress on her joints.

    I want to skate for as long as I can. I want to avoid having that conversation with the doctor where he utters the word, "osteoarthritis". The car goes where the eyes go, and I am not ready to turn my car in that direction just yet. But to do that, I need to remove as much pressure off my hip joints as I can. And that means shedding some serious kilograms.

    Also, I ain't never seen a fat 100kg+ *kitten* haul itself around in a single Axel.
  • xjeanie
    xjeanie Posts: 69
    It's not the main reason, but it is definitely a driving factor.
  • Siigh_duck
    Siigh_duck Posts: 161 Member
    Came for vanity, stayed for health :)

    Took the words right out of my mouth :smile: :smile:
  • trainguy917
    trainguy917 Posts: 366 Member
    Heart disease in my family and I just turned 50. My knees and back started aching too and I started not being able to do some of the things I wanted to because I just didn't have the energy. Looking better is a bonus, but not the reason.
  • RToland45
    RToland45 Posts: 57 Member
    Three reasons motivated me:
    healthy!
    look more attractive:)
    can't afford to by a new wardrobe!
  • crystalblair2355
    crystalblair2355 Posts: 63 Member
    IM losing weight so i can become healthier... but also and primarily for gaining my self esteem and self confidence back
    I am at the biggest ive been in my life and alot of the gain has been because of life events that have taken place in the last 3 years and because of the way my job is and it being easier to just grab fast food and go!!
    ive been using herbalife for 2 1/2 months lost 15 lbs so far and TONS of inches~~~ I have changed my eating habits and am working out atleast 3 days a week
    still trying to figure out my calorie intake tho
  • carolinetayloruk
    carolinetayloruk Posts: 73 Member
    I'm losing it to look good. Simple as. There are other reasons but this is my primary goal
  • aarnwine2013
    aarnwine2013 Posts: 317 Member
    Well I started this so I would look good, so yes vanity. Now that I'm in, it's more about being strong and healthy and feeling good. I don't know when it shifted, but I'm glad it did.
  • dopeysmelly
    dopeysmelly Posts: 1,390 Member
    Only health, at least at the moment. I was never a Picasso when I was 200 lbs. There's probably a comfort factor as well, but even that is based in practicality (it would be nice and comfy to wear skirts in summer without having to wear hose or shorts underneath to prevent chafing).

    I've never been interested in clothes. My usual look is scruffy and I'm well aware that any interest in new clothes will be a passing novelty.

    When I hit my goal, I'll probably switch to improving muscle and working to support my joints.
  • KatieLK14
    KatieLK14 Posts: 90 Member
    Yes and no- I want to be healthier. I do want to look more attractive sure but its for my own benefit, not for anyone else. I've had ridiculously low self image since I was probably ten years old, I'm getting healthier and learning to appreciate myself more.
  • DevSanchez
    DevSanchez Posts: 314 Member
    Came for vanity, stayed for health :)

    ^ LOVE this!
  • Spnneil06
    Spnneil06 Posts: 18,745 Member
    My friend is getting married in a couple months so that jump started me. Although that was just one factor out of many! I had to get to where I was fed up with my lifestyle before I really decided to change it. However being more attractive also drives me too!
  • LuckyMunky
    LuckyMunky Posts: 200 Member
    I'd say it's primarily healthy reasons, but vanity does play a small roll. As I lose weight I feel more confident and sexy, and can fit into sexier clothes (which I like.) There is nothing attractive about loose skin however, an inevitable result of significant weight loss. But the health benefits, both physically and mentally, make up for it.
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    Honestly for me that was never the biggest part of it. When I first started it was concern about health and then it was more about my lifestyle (healthy eating, lots of activity) and the way that I felt (energetic & great) not matching the way I LOOKED or the number on the scale. I like that now people assume I eat healthier foods & am capable of hiking difficult terrain. In the past, I think I was usually taken for someone who would rather have a pitcher of daiquiris, and watch Real Housewives on the sofa...even though I wasn't. So I wanted my outside to match.

    Anyway, I have always felt the same level of attractiveness. I am quite modest and not the "hot" type nor do I wish to be, I would rather just be attractive to my husband and keep the "hot" stuff for behind closed doors.

    For me, the best part of losing weight has been the ability to just feel normal, fitting into booths and seats and rides easily...wearing dresses or well fitting jeans/pants without a bunch of cardigans and distracting accessories and standing tall without fidgeting with my clothes/body out of self-consciousness. I am sure that makes me seem a lot more confident and therefore more attractive.
  • itsbasschick
    itsbasschick Posts: 1,584 Member
    i'm losing weight as i developed hypertension and type 2 diabetes, and i really don't want to take medication.

    i'd love to be more attractive, but that wasn't enough motivation to get me where i am now - health is. also sagging skin is appearing on my neck and a little my face as i lose weight, so my appearance isn't going to be improved :(
  • ValGogo
    ValGogo Posts: 2,168 Member
    Yes and I'm not ashamed to admit it. I let my body get "fat" (fat is relative to the person calling themselves fat. I only need to lose about 50 lbs.) and I'm sick of myself for holding on to it for almost 10 years already.

    I've always been kinda fit without being a nazi about it. But I have to get nazi about it now becasue my way isn't working. I don't look good with excess weight on my body. I have no real prounounced waist line so I turn into an apple with a bubble *kitten* and hardly any chest. I'm built like an athlete and I want to be that again.

    Yes, I want to be attractive again. Yes, it's about vanity for the first time. Also, I want to be strong and that's why I'm lifting too. Well, "lifting;" it's been a while.
  • _KitKat_
    _KitKat_ Posts: 1,066 Member
    Started for pure vanity. Started lifting for vanity, also figured if I now had to work at being fit looking.....I might as well improve on that look and actually be fit. Now it is vanity and strength, I love lifting heavy stuff and being confident that i can....all without chipping a nail :drinker:

    Looking fantastic naked is still priority #1
  • alska
    alska Posts: 299 Member
    Yes, most definitely, but to also feel better too.
  • Fsunami
    Fsunami Posts: 241 Member
    Unfortunately for me losing weight will not make me attractive, so for me it is more about trying to be healthier. :)

    This I don't get.

    I get the healthier part. I don't get the :"why you wouldn't feel more attractive"

    Not trying to run you thru therapy here, the comment just jumped out at me and struck me as odd....

    Fsunami
  • kikityme
    kikityme Posts: 472 Member
    Nope, cause well, seriously-look at me. I'm awesome! :)

    I just want off diabetes medication.
  • ChrisMullis
    ChrisMullis Posts: 73
    I was always the good looking lad growing up. Always being told so and I kind of knew it. Then the weight started creeping on and before I knew I was a withdrawn, unhappy obese man who was disgusted looking in the mirror and feared having heart attacks etc. I started for health reasons and I continue for health and the chance to bring the good looking cat back out of this fat body.
  • kaseyr1505
    kaseyr1505 Posts: 624 Member
    I started losing weight for health reasons, and a byproduct of that is feeling more attractive. So, that feeling motivates me to lose the last few (9-12lbs) and maintain.
  • freshstart180213
    freshstart180213 Posts: 170 Member
    For me its a lot of reasons one I am 30 and have hit the heavest point I have ever been two I have a beautiful and skinny 2 year old daughter and I want her to have a healthy relationship with food but also I want both my kids to be pleased with how their mum looks third I hate pictures of myself I always look pregnant so yes vanity is a big part of it I want to look good for me for my hubby and also I want to feel I look good in my clothes so far really sticking with this despite having such a lot to lose
  • becs3578
    becs3578 Posts: 836 Member
    Probably not the PC answer.. But HECK YES!

    I have never been comfortable in my own skin. It effected relationships, my own confidence and self worth. Losing the weight AND getting healthy and STRONG did so much for me. I have so much more confidence than I never had before. I was able to get out of a manipulative relationship sooner rather than later because my self worth had grown by leaps and bounds.

    And I am not going to life.. I LOVE to shop now (my bank account does not like this new trend). I love to try on new clothes, new styles... SLEEVELESS tops. Ha. I am easily excited I guess. But wanting to feel attractive, beautiful, fit and sexy is part of the reason I did it. Honest truth!
  • mrbyte
    mrbyte Posts: 270 Member
    Umm...yes!
  • nicsflyingcircus
    nicsflyingcircus Posts: 2,789 Member
    Mostly for health. I am in my mid-30's now and need to make that change. I have four (fit, healthy) kids and a husband who runs 10-20 miles a week. It will make me look better, I am sure, but that is not the primary reason :)
  • RacheleRountree
    RacheleRountree Posts: 12
    Absolutely!

    I think that holds true for just about every person with a pulse - on some level. I have never met a single person who didn't want to feel attractive, nor have I met anyone who didn't feel that shedding a few pounds assists with feeling more attractive. Feeling attractive increase self esteem and self confidence. I'm happy to announce that I feel my best when I'm at my goal weight and fit. Healthy just happens to be a bonus (for me, anyway). :)

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