Do i have to be upset part 2

Chibukalu908
Chibukalu908 Posts: 212
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Yesterday posted a question about how my long distance boyfriend cancelled a trip to coming to see me over a fight with his mom and that he was upset. Well last night after I tried texting him telling him that coming to see me would be a great way to get away from the stress and put his mind off it and he finally responded and said he wont make it this weekend and that there is always a future so my attempts to convinced him failed. I got upset and told that we should part ways since he didn't appreciate the hassle I went though so I can see him.I then told him that I wasn't feeling his bs. then I said good bye!He just said ``farewell`` which made even more upset since it seems like he doesn't even care .so that was the end of it.Here is the link from yesterday post for those who didn't see it



http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1377006-do-i-have-the-right-to-be-upset
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  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    Not surprised at all. Again, if he cancelled a trip to see you over a fight with his mommy then you weren't a priority. These things happen, but at least it's settled and you can move on.
  • shadowofender
    shadowofender Posts: 786 Member
    You're probably better off honestly?

    Obviously there's a million pieces of a relationship that's it's impossible to explain to a third party, two sides to every story, etc., but if you said it's over and he was so blase about it, you're probably better anyway. Which doesn't stop it from hurting and being frustrating, I know.
  • darkguardian419
    darkguardian419 Posts: 1,302 Member
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  • srslybritt
    srslybritt Posts: 1,618 Member
    Good for you, OP! Stand up for yourself. If he wasn't willing to make it right, kick the loser to the curb. I'm sure you'll have no trouble upgrading.
  • Chibukalu908
    Chibukalu908 Posts: 212
    You're probably better off honestly?

    Obviously there's a million pieces of a relationship that's it's impossible to explain to a third party, two sides to every story, etc., but if you said it's over and he was so blase about it, you're probably better anyway. Which doesn't stop it from hurting and being frustrating, I know.

    thank you
  • headofphat
    headofphat Posts: 1,597 Member
    Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Cool, MFP got what it hoped for. :)
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free.

    For steak, of course.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    Not surprised at all. Again, if he cancelled a trip to see you over a fight with his mommy then you weren't a priority. These things happen, but at least it's settled and you can move on.

    This man always seems to be a voice of reason and rational thought.......it's really rare around here so listen to this....
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    He's a coward. I'm sorry he treated you that way.

    I still think you should have enjoyed your weekend and dealt with this next week. I hope you still have a good weekend anyway.
  • DBoone85
    DBoone85 Posts: 916 Member
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  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    So.....you're now single? How you doin'?
  • Laurenloveswaffles
    Laurenloveswaffles Posts: 535 Member
    You're 29. Move on already.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    You should NOT be upset. Be glad you dodged a bullet.

    Sounds like a tool.
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    Not surprised at all. Again, if he cancelled a trip to see you over a fight with his mommy then you weren't a priority. These things happen, but at least it's settled and you can move on.

    Agreed. Move on.
  • JoelleAnn78
    JoelleAnn78 Posts: 1,492 Member
    Anyone willing to just walk away with a "farewell" was not that invested IMO. It sucks, and I'm sorry it ended this way, but you're better off not wasting anymore time. Best of luck.
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    You broke up with him because of a change of plans?

    Please tell me you're not any older than 19.
  • Galatea_Stone
    Galatea_Stone Posts: 2,037 Member
    Really sorry that it turned out this way, but better now than if you've made any further commitments. Don't worry about what MFP wants or doesn't want. You have to take care of yourself. Now you're single with an open weekend. Go out and enjoy it, and no matter how hard it can be at certain moments, try to not give this guy more thought.
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    this must not have been too serious a relationship...which is good.

    you shouldnt have much to get over, and now you can get back out there!
  • Galatea_Stone
    Galatea_Stone Posts: 2,037 Member
    You broke up with him because of a change of plans?

    Please tell me you're not any older than 19.

    I've walked away for less. That's the deal when it isn't right. Why waste someone's time?
  • Chibukalu908
    Chibukalu908 Posts: 212
    So.....you're now single? How you doin'?

    it wont last long lol:drinker:
  • bugaha1
    bugaha1 Posts: 602 Member
    Hi5...He will come crawling back, that's what we do. Don't let him.
  • DaWayne360
    DaWayne360 Posts: 261 Member
    Try and work it out. You both sound really high maintenance and deserve each other. You posted this on here for all to see, so you love drama and I would bet your life together would be full of drama.
  • Chibukalu908
    Chibukalu908 Posts: 212
    You broke up with him because of a change of plans?

    Please tell me you're not any older than 19.

    read my previous post which is the link in my question
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    You broke up with him because of a change of plans?

    Please tell me you're not any older than 19.

    read my previous post which is the link in my question

    I did. My comment remains the same.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Looks like you're free for the weekend, then?

    Having BBQ/Birthday party on Saturday. Come on by. You can spank the Birthday Boy.
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    You broke up with him because of a change of plans?

    Please tell me you're not any older than 19.

    I've walked away for less. That's the deal when it isn't right. Why waste someone's time?

    Definitely. If I were in this situation having already switched my work schedule to meet up with a long distance boyfriend, and he bailed... it would have been over. Sorry, you don't care enough to take the time to see me, then I will find someone who does. Simple. as. that. Plus, even if he did have a fight with his mom, and his story is legit.. Who wants a partner who gets in a tizzy over a fight with mommy? Give me a break. What a turn off.
  • Behxo
    Behxo Posts: 1,190 Member
    If all he said was "farewell" then you gave him exactly what he wanted... You to end the relationship so that he didn't have to.
  • jasonmh630
    jasonmh630 Posts: 2,850 Member
    All he said was "Fairwell"? That tells me that you're better off without him and that he never cared in the first place. I think he was lying to you all along, anyway. I mean, what kind of *kitten* has a fight with his mom and DOESN'T take the opportunity to get away from that situation to see his lady? His whole story smells of BS. Just keep your head up and know that you'll be upgrading sooner or later to someone that appreciates you more. :)
  • sixout
    sixout Posts: 3,128 Member
    You broke up with him because of a change of plans?

    Please tell me you're not any older than 19.

    I've walked away for less. That's the deal when it isn't right. Why waste someone's time?

    Definitely. If I were in this situation having already switched my work schedule to meet up with a long distance boyfriend, and he bailed... it would have been over. Sorry, you don't care enough to take the time to see me, then I will find someone who does. Simple. as. that. Plus, even if he did have a fight with his mom, and his story is legit.. Who wants a partner who gets in a tizzy over a fight with mommy? Give me a break. What a turn off.

    Not throwing all the blame on OP. They both seem like they'd be annoying to have a relationship with. But the whole thing seems like kids play.

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