40+ Club : Where the Cool Kids Are

Just a random 28 year old popping in to say hi

Hey Cool Kids. It's good to hear from everyone. E's Mom, it sounds like you had a good trip. Did you bump into King {LeBron} James while you were in town?

The kid's stories are funny. I have been told that I stood on a chair at the bathroom sink beside Daddy and 'shaved' when he did, using a razor without a blade. {this was back in the safety razor days} I don't remember it, but there is a picture somewhere with my face covered in shaving cream.

Speaking of the DL, I tweaked my back a little. The group at the Civic Center on Sunday left a huge pot of green beans on the stove. It was too hot to deal with then, but last night I carried it out to the edge of the woods to throw the beans away. It must have been 6 or 7 gallons, and was heavy as Hades. This morning I was having back spasms. Not really painful, just scary that you know something isn't right.

I have to be in Panama City at 1000-1030 in the morning to pick Mamma up, and take her to the rehab in Blountstown. I think I will leave plenty early this time. Can't afford anymore tickets. I tried to get some of the house cleaning done today since I'll be gone tomorrow when our cleaning lady comes. But I ran to Marianna to do the shopping, so I didn't get all that much done.

See y'all later,

Larro

Good morning all! Rest day for me today- still feeling blah! Still rainy here too. I had to take the hubs in for blood work this morning, speaking of back pain. No- he's not a pain in my back(side)- OK, maybe sometimes- but in all seriousness, he has continued to have terrible back pain for weeks. They originally thought kidney stones and did an CT scan that turned up nothing, then they were thinking it may be one of his meds, now they are not sure and sent him for blood work and some other samples. Hoping they find out soon as he is not sleeping well, so neither am I. Not good for either of us.

Alf- we are going Friday to see the house again. I am in the process of trying to downsize 17 years of accumulation that is in our current house. It is slow going since it is just me doing all the work. Tiring for sure.

Larro- have a safe trip to get your Momma. Hopefully, no tickets for you today!

Everyone else- Have a wonderful day!

Good morning Cool Kids! I've decided my exercise tonight will be basketball with my teenage son. Now I am not a challenge..but I can break a sweat just trying to get the dang ball away from him Hope everyone has a great day!

Hello all my cool kids friends! I hope that your day has started off wonderful!

Caramel - I am sure that you will have a beautiful photo shoot. Your outside beauty AND your inside beauty will shine! I think that you are a beautiful woman!

MomforNoah - I have three boys and know how they can wear you out. But so much fun too. Enjoy it while you can, it goes by so fast. Then they have their own agenda.

Beeps - Enjoy your vacation!

KellySue - I am so excited for you the you think you have found the one so quick. I know how it is trying to downsize. When I got remarried eight years ago my house had been in my family for several generations plus I had to blend in with my new husband and his already full house. It was a challenge at times but it all worked out in the end.
I have a granddaughter that we just finished potty training and I was not sure it was ever going to happen. She is three and a half and did not want anything to do with it and all of a sudden she decided that she wanted to wear big girl panties. Come to find out she didn't like her feet hanging as soon as she got a stool that her feet could touch she was fine.

Geek - I hope that you have an awesome run today!

Larro - I am glad to hear that your Momma is doing better.

CG - I hope that your BF is getting better.

JFM - Keep your head up this too shall pass!

Greetings to all the Cool Kids!
I've finally had a moment to read the thread. So much going on! Mostly great.
Thank you all for the well wishes for Bruce. He's hanging in there. I'm a lttle worried about how next week is going to go as he'll be totally on his own. I have to travel to DC Mon- Thu.
KS, I really like the idea of eating healthy to get an insurance premium reduction! That makes total sense! I hope the house works out perfectly.
Sdereski, the veggies and BBQ sound awesome. Glad the weather is holding!

Speaking of weather, it sounds like we're all have weird bits! I'm in the NW corner of CA right on the coast, and it was sprinking here this morning ... but not too bad, so I rode the motor bike to work.

Larro, sorry about the ticket! You're obviously a devoted son to want to keep your lunch date with Mamma. Glad she's doing better and the Rehab is starting.
Alf, grrrr. It is so crazy-making when the docs just won't get aggressive with the testing when you need them to. Fingers crossed for you.
Caramel, I love hearing about your warrior daughter. Sounds like the proverbial chip off the block! The medicine ball hip exercise sounds awesome! Have fun with the photo shoot.
JFM, hysterical story about the puberty dirt! Boys that age are just my favorite. Mine is now 28, and like Annette's boy, they really get into their "manliness" as it evolves. :laugh:
E's Mom, despite the super scary hotel, I'm glad you had a great trip! Way to go on the weight maintain.

Speaking of weight ... I could use some butt-kicking. I'm really not keeping it together. It would be easy to blame it on the fact that I'm ridiculously busy caregiving when I'm not at work -- which is true -- but not an excuse. I know I can do better. I've been having beer or wine pretty much every night, and eating the same food I'm fixing for him, which means pasta instead of salad. Must do better. I'm afraid to take the scale back out of the closet.

Beeps, happy to hear you're in the mountains! So lovely and peaceful.
MomforNoah, kids are better then treadmills if you want to exercise! My boy would get me to jog while he skateboarded. It only worked in my favor when we were going up hill!

Geek, I hope your run was great!

I will make a batch of green juice tonight!:drinker:

Stay Cool! :flowerforyou:

Morning :happy:

Hope you all are well. I'm starting to really enjoy my strength training and am working on building up my home gym. I'm perusing the classifieds for a deal right now.

Caramel - you are so blessed to have a wonderful daughter who you share so much fun with!

Larro - I just moved to a small town and I know what you mean - lol. Through going for coffee at a couple of women's places, I now know the entire story of everyone on my block ....

KS & CG - Well wishes to your hubbies

Geek - GO MAN GO!!!!

Esmom - So glad you're back!

Alf - So sorry you are having to go through all this pain :flowerforyou:

Beeps - Enjoy your time

MomforN - Your kids are lucky to have such a great mom!

Im off to eat breakfast and start a much needed organization of my basement! Yay! :grumble: :grumble:

Great day all,

JFM

I forgot to do the numbers. Since this is Thursday, I'll just leave these here.

Body Fat, 21.8%
Body Water, 57.0%
BMI 24.4
Weight 174.7

I was only 168 calories below my goal over the last four days, yet I lost 2.7 pounds since Sunday. I must have underestimated cardio and over estimated calories eaten. It's tough when you can't weigh everything. I'll try to just barely get in the red for the next week and see how it goes.

Larro

Wow, Thursday already....have no idea where the week has gone. Woke up today to another cloud coverage, some drizzles last night, and still a layer of sand everywhere from a sand storm Tuesday. The cooler morning (low 70s) was SO refreshing today. I did manage to get some of my flower pots replanted last night, in the front yard I planted some plants on the porch that needed shade....well I am not sure what made me thing I needed shade plants there, it is facing the East, so it gets the late afternoon hot sun. So I replanted a bunch of the plants that were in the ICU, with a Do Not Resuscitate tag, I think they were thankful that I pulled the plug

I use a Fitbit Flex, and have been watching my sleep patterns, usually I get 6 1/2 to 7 1/2 hours of actual sleep. Last night was
4 1/2....there is not a coffee cup big enough today!

Larro.....I enjoyed your 'small town' story, I am not a native to this town, and I crack up when I hear people in the community rant and rave about people or businesses. I was in a pizza shop yesterday (fantastic salad bar there) and there was a table of about 12 ladies, all over 65 easily. There were deciding where lunch was for the next week. One suggest Olive Garden, then that led into a discussion about lousy parking, which was all blamed on the Mayor, which led to the story about one of their daughters who dated him in high school....and he didn't know to keep his elbows off the dinner table....ohhh I could have sat there and listened to them for hours!

JFM...we just got our home gym set up, takes up a good portion of our garage...which does not have AC, so we are not able to use it in the peak of summer, but boy is it nice to be able to use it before hopping in the shower, in the privacy of your own home. We found a couple good pieces on our local Facebook groups for Swap and Trading...almost every town has them. Some Called Trunk and Trade, Quick Swap, etc, Once you find one in your local area you can easily find several more. people can post things to sell, or make comments on things they want to buy. then Typically you meet in a public place, like a large parking lot. LOL I found our Weiderman Weight Machine there, and we only paid $70, it retails for $450. We got a punching bag on stand with a speed bag too, and all that was $90.

CG.....You post reminded me that I have not had a nice glass of wine, or an ice cold beer in ages....I think I need to 'budget' for that this coming Friday. There is a little artesian brewery here that I have not visited yet

Alf....you mentioned you cooked fish up for upcoming meals, did you just steam it all, or what? I am fish stupid I think, I know how to cook just about anything, but fish intimidates me

KellySue, good luck downsizing....I do not envy you!

Caramel, wow a photo shoot sounds like a great goal to set!

Beeps, a Mountain Vacation....LOVE that, the Cascade Mountains are less than an hour away (Mr Rainier and Mt St Helens....and all the beautiful lands in between) In fact I think I hear them calling my name


Everyone else, have a GREAT Thursday, be extra special nice to someone today...and be even better to yourself!

Alf....you mentioned you cooked fish up for upcoming meals, did you just steam it all, or what? I am fish stupid I think, I know how to cook just about anything, but fish intimidates me

Annette, I just laughed when I read your note to Alf. I am STEAK stupid. I cannot get my head around how to cook it. Chicken, pork, fish? NO problem but I don't even buy it because I'm too nervous I'll screw it up!


Larro - I'd love to help you out! I don't mind cleaning other people's stuff, it's just becomes a drag when it's your own...lol


Oh and KS - I find it kind of fun going down memory lane, opening boxes and things..although I guess it puts a different spin on it when you're on a time constraint. Is there a time/date that it has to be done by?

JFM

Ok tips for steak. Depending on the cut of meat you're talking about- lets go with a NY Strip. Get a meat thermometer- (one that you can put in the steak and run the cable out of the oven). Remove some (but not all) of the fat on the side. The bit that remains- score gently on a diagonal with a knife (this will keep it from curling up).

Season however you like- but salt and pepper are a must.

1. Preheat your oven to 450.
2. Preheat a saute' pan and drizzle a little olive oil- swirl to coat. Be sure to get the pan HOT first. (a Grill pan also works well)
3. Drop the steak in and sear it for about 3 minutes. Repeat on the other side.
4. Put the steak inside a sheet of aluminum foil. Stick the meat thermometer in the thickest part of the steak.
5. Put the foiled steak in the oven.
6. Watch the thermometer until it hits the desired temperature: rare=130 medium rare=140 medium=150 med well=160 well (cringe)=165.
7. Remove the steak from the oven and let it rest for 5 minutes or until the temp comes up 5 more degrees. Trim the remaining fat off (if you desire, I leave it right where it is).

Slap it next to the mashed potatoes and enjoy! This technique will work with other steaks (filet, porterhouse etc.) and the temps are the same. Tougher cuts (like flank steak, round steak etc.) require a different technique or they may be chewy.

Hope this helps!

Good morning (barely) Cool Kids, and happy Thursday!

I just found out my folks are coming over...they're over the mountains about 4 hrs away. I love them, but sheesh! I'm already pretty wiped out caring for Bruce and working. Got to put on my game face!
Good job on the weight loss Larro. I think I may know where they went... Glad your back isn't geting worse.
KS, isn't it a trip how much difference a little wind makes! I'm glad your hubby is feeling somewhat better.
Annette, that eavesdropping story was great! As for cooking fish, there's a myriad of ways, but one easy one is in a foil pouch. Google that. You'll find easy pouch recipes for just about any kind of fish and flavor.
Fay... awww... kids are so cute at that age. Last year of HS for one! Enjoy your renovating project.

I did NOT behave any better last night. Over cals again. I'm on a good trajectory today though. I found a new probiotic drink that tastes awesome and only has 10 calories. I'm stocking the fridge with those instead of IPAs!:drinker:

The sun has finally come through the marine layer here, so it should be a lovely day on the Redwood Coast. Wishing you all lovely days in your parts of the world.

Alf....you mentioned you cooked fish up for upcoming meals, did you just steam it all, or what? I am fish stupid I think, I know how to cook just about anything, but fish intimidates me

Annette, I just laughed when I read your note to Alf. I am STEAK stupid. I cannot get my head around how to cook it. Chicken, pork, fish? NO problem but I don't even buy it because I'm too nervous I'll screw it up!


Larro - I'd love to help you out! I don't mind cleaning other people's stuff, it's just becomes a drag when it's your own...lol


Oh and KS - I find it kind of fun going down memory lane, opening boxes and things..although I guess it puts a different spin on it when you're on a time constraint. Is there a time/date that it has to be done by?

JFM

Ok tips for steak. Depending on the cut of meat you're talking about- lets go with a NY Strip. Get a meat thermometer- (one that you can put in the steak and run the cable out of the oven). Remove some (but not all) of the fat on the side. The bit that remains- score gently on a diagonal with a knife (this will keep it from curling up).

Season however you like- but salt and pepper are a must.

1. Preheat your oven to 450.
2. Preheat a saute' pan and drizzle a little olive oil- swirl to coat. Be sure to get the pan HOT first. (a Grill pan also works well)
3. Drop the steak in and sear it for about 3 minutes. Repeat on the other side.
4. Put the steak inside a sheet of aluminum foil. Stick the meat thermometer in the thickest part of the steak.
5. Put the foiled steak in the oven.
6. Watch the thermometer until it hits the desired temperature: rare=130 medium rare=140 medium=150 med well=160 well (cringe)=165.
7. Remove the steak from the oven and let it rest for 5 minutes or until the temp comes up 5 more degrees. Trim the remaining fat off (if you desire, I leave it right where it is).

Slap it next to the mashed potatoes and enjoy! This technique will work with other steaks (filet, porterhouse etc.) and the temps are the same. Tougher cuts (like flank steak, round steak etc.) require a different technique or they may be chewy.

Hope this helps!

Thank you!! Great info, seems pretty straight forward. I think I may just break out of my rut and surprise my family with some steak and mashed potatoes :happy: :happy: :happy:

Question? Do you mean wrap the meat in foil or make a dish/plate out of the foil?

Wrap the steak in foil. It keeps the steak from drying out as it cooks and helps hold the thermometer in place- you can omit this if you prefer- but if you like your steak more than medium it will help keep is moist. I like mine ultra rare so I skip the oven, but my wife prefers her's medium well.

Speaking of food, yesterday after I had cooked a pot of peas, and had the pork chops ready to go on the grill, Margie called and said she had changed her mind, that she did want to go out to eat after all. So we will be having peas and pork chops tonight instead. And I didn't even say any bad words {out loud}.

Hope everyone has a good day.

Larro

Good Morning everyone

I am behind on our thread and I'm going to go try and catch up when I finish my post.

I am struggling!! I know this week I could have probably reached my 10 lb. mark, but I have fallen off the wagon...SOS!
Tuesday night I had bunko at my house for 12. I had to cook dinner, provide snacks, drinks, and a dessert. I actually did "ok" on Tuesday night, but ever since I've been outta control!! Maybe I just need the leftover candy, etc., out of the house. I dunno, but I need to get it together!