Why is it so hard for me to lose weight?

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  • 59gi
    59gi Posts: 307 Member
    Some people will never admit they are wrong and, also go to extreme and lie to you to get into your diary.
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    Some people will never admit they are wrong and, also go to extreme and lie to you to get into your diary.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • MelodyandBarbells
    MelodyandBarbells Posts: 7,724 Member

    Translation: "I'm totally not mad guys. Damn, I know noone knows how mad I am right now."


    Sorry what now?

    Certainly not mad - confused maybe, yes confused about why you decided to inject yourself into this, and while I'm enjoying the insults - I find them quite hysterical actually, little girl-tizzy :laugh: - they say way more about you than me, I sadly have to go to bed now - but hey, feel free to try to guess my emotions regarding the stuff I say. You've been completely wrong so far, but keep trying - I'm sure you'll get one right eventually. (hint: I've just told you one)

    night night buttercup. :flowerforyou:

    I think it's most telling that when I gave you my explanation -- i.e. not aimed at you personally (evidence: didn't quote you, used "some" for generic discussion purposes) -- you simply chose to ignore it and insist on your interpretation of slight that did not exist. You could have just as easily said, "oh, I see what you're saying, my bad." But instead you gave the internet version of an eye roll, and now just say it's because you're bored.

    That's a lot of after the fact rationalization for what was a pretty minor misunderstanding. Given this display, I imagine you also have a hard time admitting you're wrong and/or apologizing. Easier to invent slights that don't exist.

    To avoid confusion, it's probably best to simply state your opinion rather than reference what "some people" say. Because as you have found out, you may be asked who these some people are so that you may place their opinions in the proper context. She also referenced a thread so short that you could have read the responses to see that people in this very thread fell into the "some people" category. That was your own choice to not read the responses first, so as irritating as they may be , surely the "consequences" would be yours to shrug off
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    Also I'm pretty sure your signature isn't valid unless you put it in bold.

    LOL!!! :laugh:
  • lindsey1979
    lindsey1979 Posts: 2,395 Member

    Translation: "I'm totally not mad guys. Damn, I know noone knows how mad I am right now."


    Sorry what now?

    Certainly not mad - confused maybe, yes confused about why you decided to inject yourself into this, and while I'm enjoying the insults - I find them quite hysterical actually, little girl-tizzy :laugh: - they say way more about you than me, I sadly have to go to bed now - but hey, feel free to try to guess my emotions regarding the stuff I say. You've been completely wrong so far, but keep trying - I'm sure you'll get one right eventually. (hint: I've just told you one)

    night night buttercup. :flowerforyou:

    I think it's most telling that when I gave you my explanation -- i.e. not aimed at you personally (evidence: didn't quote you, used "some" for generic discussion purposes) -- you simply chose to ignore it and insist on your interpretation of slight that did not exist. You could have just as easily said, "oh, I see what you're saying, my bad." But instead you gave the internet version of an eye roll, and now just say it's because you're bored.

    That's a lot of after the fact rationalization for what was a pretty minor misunderstanding. Given this display, I imagine you also have a hard time admitting you're wrong and/or apologizing. Easier to invent slights that don't exist.

    To avoid confusion, it's probably best to simply state your opinion rather than reference what "some people" say. Because as you have found out, you may be asked who these some people are so that you may place their opinions in the proper context. She also referenced a thread so short that you could have read the responses to see that people in this very thread fell into the "some people" category. That was your own choice to not read the responses first, so as irritating as they may be , surely the "consequences" would be yours to shrug off

    I did read all the responses. I just didn't make notes about who exactly said what because I wasn't interested in engaging with the specific people on the opinion, but the concept in general. Geez, people, it's just not that hard.
  • Charityn12
    Charityn12 Posts: 268
    It is really hard to stick to a new routine and lifestyle, specially when there are people in the house dragging you back :( But they say, "Where there is a wish, there is a way" ... we just have to figure it out :(
  • MelodyandBarbells
    MelodyandBarbells Posts: 7,724 Member

    Translation: "I'm totally not mad guys. Damn, I know noone knows how mad I am right now."


    Sorry what now?

    Certainly not mad - confused maybe, yes confused about why you decided to inject yourself into this, and while I'm enjoying the insults - I find them quite hysterical actually, little girl-tizzy :laugh: - they say way more about you than me, I sadly have to go to bed now - but hey, feel free to try to guess my emotions regarding the stuff I say. You've been completely wrong so far, but keep trying - I'm sure you'll get one right eventually. (hint: I've just told you one)

    night night buttercup. :flowerforyou:

    I think it's most telling that when I gave you my explanation -- i.e. not aimed at you personally (evidence: didn't quote you, used "some" for generic discussion purposes) -- you simply chose to ignore it and insist on your interpretation of slight that did not exist. You could have just as easily said, "oh, I see what you're saying, my bad." But instead you gave the internet version of an eye roll, and now just say it's because you're bored.

    That's a lot of after the fact rationalization for what was a pretty minor misunderstanding. Given this display, I imagine you also have a hard time admitting you're wrong and/or apologizing. Easier to invent slights that don't exist.

    To avoid confusion, it's probably best to simply state your opinion rather than reference what "some people" say. Because as you have found out, you may be asked who these some people are so that you may place their opinions in the proper context. She also referenced a thread so short that you could have read the responses to see that people in this very thread fell into the "some people" category. That was your own choice to not read the responses first, so as irritating as they may be , surely the "consequences" would be yours to shrug off

    I did read all the responses. I just didn't make notes about who exactly said what because I wasn't interested in engaging with the specific people on the opinion, but the concept in general. Geez, people, it's just not that hard.

    Keep doing what you've always done. It's working great :wink:
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,024 Member
    Also I'm pretty sure your signature isn't valid unless you put it in bold.

    LOL!!! :laugh:
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    A.C.E. Certified Personal/Group FitnessTrainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
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  • 59gi
    59gi Posts: 307 Member
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too. Your lies to get into my Diary were not appreciated and you are not an authority in weight loss!

    What I eat and don't eat and how many calories I eat is none of your business.
  • RGv2
    RGv2 Posts: 5,789 Member
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too.

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  • 59gi
    59gi Posts: 307 Member
    Don't worry about my calorie consumption, I don't count calories. I'm more interested in eating whole foods and no junk foods. If you can't deal with that then move on.
  • 59gi
    59gi Posts: 307 Member
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too.

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    I dislike your gif or your opinion!
  • ILiftHeavyAcrylics
    ILiftHeavyAcrylics Posts: 27,732 Member
    Also I'm pretty sure your signature isn't valid unless you put it in bold.

    LOL!!! :laugh:
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    A.C.E. Certified Personal/Group FitnessTrainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    :flowerforyou:
  • tracymayo1
    tracymayo1 Posts: 445 Member
    I don't even know... what just happened....
  • RGv2
    RGv2 Posts: 5,789 Member
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too.

    f-p.gif



    I dislike your gif or your opinion!

    I dislike you spreading your opinion of VLCD's and qualifications. Don't really care if you like the gif or not. I do, and it fit really well.
  • levitateme
    levitateme Posts: 999 Member
    I don't even know... what just happened....

    lol, same.

    I think there was some kinda quote in a quote argument about what passive aggressive means. Also peeps be arguing that anyone who believes that weight loss is calories in/calories out is telling people to eat nothing but straight up sugar from the bag with a spoon.

    It must be Wednesday on MFP.

    BUT ANYWAY: OP you are eating too much, weigh your food. What is "2 legs of chicken?"
  • 59gi
    59gi Posts: 307 Member
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too.

    f-p.gif



    I dislike your gif or your opinion!

    I dislike you spreading your opinion of VLCD's and qualifications. Don't really care if you like the gif or not. I do, and it fit really well.

    No one in promoting VLCD, I just responded to a thread of CICO. I don't care about your opinion!
  • 59gi
    59gi Posts: 307 Member
    Move on your opinion about signature is wrong. I started on June 2, 2014 and you need to stop with your attitude.
  • RGv2
    RGv2 Posts: 5,789 Member
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too.

    f-p.gif



    I dislike your gif or your opinion!

    I dislike you spreading your opinion of VLCD's and qualifications. Don't really care if you like the gif or not. I do, and it fit really well.

    No one in promoting VLCD, I just responded to a thread of CICO. I don't care about your opinion!

    I've seen you multiple time promote a VLCD diet, and now some sort of "qualification". If you don't care about my opinion....just move on.
  • MinimalistShoeAddict
    MinimalistShoeAddict Posts: 1,946 Member
    Looking at your diary, you logging appears inconsistent at best (nothing logged since Saturday).

    Until you start accurately logging we can only guess.

    Most likely you are eating more than you think
  • auddii
    auddii Posts: 15,357 Member
    Move on your opinion about signature is wrong. I started on June 2, 2014 and you need to stop with your attitude.
    I'm not sure what you are responding to, but it does not seem that you have added much that is constructive to the original post of the thread. Are you responding to the correct thread? Everything you have answered is about lies and reading your diary.

    Anyways, OP. I doubt you're still reading, but if you are, I agree with everyone else to try accurately logging consistently for a month. See what happens with your weight (also use pictures, measurements, and how your clothes fit as a guide), and then reassess your calorie goal based on the outcome. There has been a lot of research about people eating more than they think. Here is a pretty good summary post about it:

    http://bretcontreras.com/not-seeing-results/

    and this:
    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/872212-you-re-probably-eating-more-than-you-think

    I believe someone gave you the sexypants link already. It's a good one. Also, here's a guide to accurate logging:

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1234699-logging-accurately-step-by-step-guide
  • 59gi
    59gi Posts: 307 Member
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too.

    f-p.gif


    Wrong never promoted VLCD, what I have said it is not cico, because our body is more complicated then that. I do not count calories, but instead I keep an eye on my macros. Like I said in the past I was just responding on a tread, so move on.



    I dislike your gif or your opinion!

    I dislike you spreading your opinion of VLCD's and qualifications. Don't really care if you like the gif or not. I do, and it fit really well.

    No one in promoting VLCD, I just responded to a thread of CICO. I don't care about your opinion!

    I've seen you multiple time promote a VLCD diet, and now some sort of "qualification". If you don't care about my opinion....just move on.
  • RGv2
    RGv2 Posts: 5,789 Member

    f-p.gif


    Wrong never promoted VLCD, what I have said it is not cico, because our body is more complicated then that. I do not count calories, but instead I keep an eye on my macros. Like I said in the past I was just responding on a tread, so move on.



    I dislike your gif or your opinion!

    I dislike you spreading your opinion of VLCD's and qualifications. Don't really care if you like the gif or not. I do, and it fit really well.

    No one in promoting VLCD, I just responded to a thread of CICO. I don't care about your opinion!

    I've seen you multiple time promote a VLCD diet, and now some sort of "qualification".
    If you don't care about my opinion....just move on.
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too.


    I'm glad you BELIEVE you're more qualified.

    Edit: To fix the hosed up quotes.
  • 59gi
    59gi Posts: 307 Member

    f-p.gif


    Wrong never promoted VLCD, what I have said it is not cico, because our body is more complicated then that. I do not count calories, but instead I keep an eye on my macros. Like I said in the past I was just responding on a tread, so move on.



    I dislike your gif or your opinion!

    I dislike you spreading your opinion of VLCD's and qualifications. Don't really care if you like the gif or not. I do, and it fit really well.

    No one in promoting VLCD, I just responded to a thread of CICO. I don't care about your opinion!

    I've seen you multiple time promote a VLCD diet, and now some sort of "qualification".
    If you don't care about my opinion....just move on.
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too.


    I'm glad you BELIEVE you're more qualified.

    Edit: To fix the hosed up quotes.

    I see that you do not like to be wrong and like to be the authority, but guess what you are not.
  • RGv2
    RGv2 Posts: 5,789 Member

    f-p.gif


    Wrong never promoted VLCD, what I have said it is not cico, because our body is more complicated then that. I do not count calories, but instead I keep an eye on my macros. Like I said in the past I was just responding on a tread, so move on.



    I dislike your gif or your opinion!

    I dislike you spreading your opinion of VLCD's and qualifications. Don't really care if you like the gif or not. I do, and it fit really well.

    No one in promoting VLCD, I just responded to a thread of CICO. I don't care about your opinion!

    I've seen you multiple time promote a VLCD diet, and now some sort of "qualification".
    If you don't care about my opinion....just move on.
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too.


    I'm glad you BELIEVE you're more qualified.

    Edit: To fix the hosed up quotes.

    I see that you do not like to be wrong and like to be the authority, but guess what you are not.

    :huh:

    Edit: And again, edited to fix the quotes that keep getting hosed up. Post at the bottom of the quote string, not the middle.
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  • eric_sg61
    eric_sg61 Posts: 2,925 Member

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    Wrong never promoted VLCD, what I have said it is not cico, because our body is more complicated then that. I do not count calories, but instead I keep an eye on my macros. Like I said in the past I was just responding on a tread, so move on.



    I dislike your gif or your opinion!

    I dislike you spreading your opinion of VLCD's and qualifications. Don't really care if you like the gif or not. I do, and it fit really well.

    No one in promoting VLCD, I just responded to a thread of CICO. I don't care about your opinion!

    I've seen you multiple time promote a VLCD diet, and now some sort of "qualification".
    If you don't care about my opinion....just move on.
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too.


    I'm glad you BELIEVE you're more qualified.

    Edit: To fix the hosed up quotes.
    Lol @59gi believing she is more qualified than anyone. Lolo lol


    59gi, hopefully you received the reply to the PM you sent me. And if it hurt your feelings I'd like to say..............Oh well.
    I remember that poster. got her diary exposed. It is easy to dismiss CICO when you only average 700 calories a day LOL.
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  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member

    f-p.gif


    Wrong never promoted VLCD, what I have said it is not cico, because our body is more complicated then that. I do not count calories, but instead I keep an eye on my macros. Like I said in the past I was just responding on a tread, so move on.



    I dislike your gif or your opinion!

    I dislike you spreading your opinion of VLCD's and qualifications. Don't really care if you like the gif or not. I do, and it fit really well.

    No one in promoting VLCD, I just responded to a thread of CICO. I don't care about your opinion!

    I've seen you multiple time promote a VLCD diet, and now some sort of "qualification".
    If you don't care about my opinion....just move on.
    I believe that I'm more qualified then you ! And I don't like to be tricked and lied too.


    I'm glad you BELIEVE you're more qualified.

    Edit: To fix the hosed up quotes.
    Lol @59gi believing she is more qualified than anyone. Lolo lol


    59gi, hopefully you received the reply to the PM you sent me. And if it hurt your feelings I'd like to say..............Oh well.
    I remember that poster. got her diary exposed. It is easy to dismiss CICO when you only average 700 calories a day LOL.
    Yea. She's still crying about that.

    Why is ms VLCD still talking about her unhealthy ways of eating? No one is going to follow your very unhealthy path.