Worst compliment you've ever gotten.

Once a date told me "You have a nice *kitten*. It must be your genes." Not jeans, but genes. Those genes that I got from Mom & Dad.

First & last date with that idiot!

I was asked how far along I was when I was gaining weight, then my ex's sister and mother made fun of my weight. Haha jokes on them I managed to lose the weight then they gained twice as much as I did so karma paid them back.

"You looked so much better last year". Thanks Mom!

"You look exactly the same, just bigger"

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"You're less fat than you used to be"...

*le sigh*...

ex-husband: "First time I married for looks, this time I'm married for personality."

I've dated a few guys who have said almost the same thing. "I've been with a lot of girls. Beautiful, BEAUTIFUL girls. If I wanted a beautiful girl, I'd be with them. But I don't want to be with a beautiful girl. I want you."

I think the worst I've got was being called "sturdy"... by a guy I was in bed with at the time.

"You don't look like you weigh that much."

I actually take that as a compliment. I look better than I should.
I've had people argue with me that I'm not fat, or even not overweight.

i immediately was reminded about how beautiful my wife looked in her dress when we got married 4yrs ago, but i couldn't bring myself to tell her because i was paranoid from reading this thread that my compliment would come across like she USED TO BE so beautiful.

Try this:
I remember how gorgeous you were in your wedding dress, and you've only gotten better since then.

When I was pregnant, my British mother in law said "There she is, fatty, fatty, fatty"
Seriously?!! Who says that to a pregnant woman.

Nobody who wants to live. It's dangerous to say anything to a pregnant woman that might upset her. If she doesn't kill you outright, everyone around you will kill you for making her cry. (Which is real easy to do because hormones.)

Any & all compliments on being a redhead when I had what I felt was very obviously dyed red hair.

I don't know why that is SUCH an annoying thing to me. I love red hair on both men & women, and married a (real) redhead guy. But for some reason it makes me nuts when people DYE their hair red and then make comments about having a fiery temper because of their red hair and stuff like that. I went back to brunette partly for that reason!

This girl (talking to her friend) points at me (a lesbian lol) "See? This girl is thick. She aint no twig. She's gonna get herself a man. Men like big girls" It made me feel a bit awkward lol.

I''ve gotten the "really, you don't lookk that big", statement before.

Also, "you''ve lost some weight, I can tell by your face"!

"No offense, but if you got down to your goal weight you'd have the perfect body."

Looking at old pictures with my grandfather he said, "Oh, that's when you were a fatty."

I've dated a few guys who have said almost the same thing. "I've been with a lot of girls. Beautiful, BEAUTIFUL girls. If I wanted a beautiful girl, I'd be with them. But I don't want to be with a beautiful girl. I want you."

ugh yeah that is HORRID, you should be with a guy who thinks YOU are the beautiful girl (and I hope you are with someone like that, now). I married a guy who would always make comments about "cheerleader type girls" which meant anyone thin and petite, basically, even if they were hideous in the face, missing teeth, whatever...I guess that was his goal in the past before marrying someone tall, fat & very curvy (me). Next time around, with my second husband, I married someone who loves big tall curvy women (thin or fat) and digs short hair and my specific brand of looks...it is SO MUCH BETTER that way!!!

Funniest part is the guy who dug "cheerleader type girls" was 300 lb, short, looked like Drew Carey, and my current husband is tall and hot and fit.