what would you think?

I've actually done this before. Many many years ago. Wound up in a long term relationship with her. I just wondered what women of today might think. Plus, I'm attracted to a very specific type of woman. No offense to anyone, but the most negative responses came from women that wouldn't have been the one I choose anyway. It's not all looks. You can tell the ebb and flow of a woman by her body lamguage. Her demeanor. How she carries herself. It won't be some random "assault" like I rushed her and tackled her like a linebacker.
Thank you for your responses and your honesty.

Women of today?

Did you originally do this in 1910?

I've actually done this before. Many many years ago. Wound up in a long term relationship with her. I just wondered what women of today might think. Plus, I'm attracted to a very specific type of woman. No offense to anyone, but the most negative responses came from women that wouldn't have been the one I choose anyway. It's not all looks. You can tell the ebb and flow of a woman by her body lamguage. Her demeanor. How she carries herself. It won't be some random "assault" like I rushed her and tackled her like a linebacker.
Thank you for your responses and your honesty.

Women of today?

Did you originally do this in 1910?

1945. They made a statue of it.

Im quite shocked i was just informed its classed as a sexual assault in this country??? wtf? I think someones pulling my leg... thats it romance really is dead :devil:

Point is, if this fantasy girl is a complete stranger you have no idea what's going to happen. You're not gambling with your potential outcome, you're gambling with some random girl's state of mind.

There's this one book we studied in English when I was about 15. The main character is grabbed and kissed by a random stranger on her way home from a new year's party, and does in fact end up marrying him.

This led to a massive debate in the class with the teacher trying to argue it as 'romantic' and the class - the most vocal of which were teenaged boys, by the way - arguing that it was most certainly not romantic and it was more than a bit rapey.

Incidentally, this book was written in 1932 and she spends much of the book fighting off her incestuous invalid father.


I do understand that kind of fantasy. I've got a similar one that involves kissing some random guy on a London Underground train right before I step off and the doors close. But I wouldn't do it because it's totally invading someone's personal space and you have no idea how they'll take it. I'll probably fake it some time with someone I am in a relationship with, I dunno.

Point is, it's a cute idea but in real life it's a big gamble and will probably be seen as rapey. If you go ahead, be prepared for pepper spray or similar.... and you'll never know if she liked it or hates you forever.

OP, I think this is a wonderful way to end up spending New Years Day icing your balls.

You should never just walk up to a woman you don't know and kiss her. That is a recipe for disaster.

And you can claim that you're going to scope it out all right etc, but the reality is there are lots of people who are in relationships who for whatever reason don't spend new years together (I actually haven't spent it with my SO for the past two years) so there's really no way of knowing if they're in a relationship, or even looking for one.

If you want to kiss a girl at midnight, do it the old fashioned way, meet her in the beginning of the evening, talk a bit, get to know her, find out if she's got an SO or is single, and then when it reaches midnight either ask, or go for it. You're less likely to get slapped if you've already expressed some sort of interest, and she might be expecting it then when you end up standing beside each other as the count down goes on.

Every woman is different. Some might think it's romantic, some might think it's creepy. You just have to prepare yourself for any reaction.

I'm really not sure how I'd respond. I don't think I'd hit a guy who did that, but if he was a good kisser, it'd be a nice memory, I think.

You have a 2.78% chance of a positive outcome. Roll the dice!!

I've actually done this before. Many many years ago. Wound up in a long term relationship with her. I just wondered what women of today might think. Plus, I'm attracted to a very specific type of woman. No offense to anyone, but the most negative responses came from women that wouldn't have been the one I choose anyway. It's not all looks. You can tell the ebb and flow of a woman by her body lamguage. Her demeanor. How she carries herself. It won't be some random "assault" like I rushed her and tackled her like a linebacker.
Thank you for your responses and your honesty.

Yeah ok dude...

If you're that determined to do it, and yet still want functioning testicles some time in the future, may I recommend a more gentlemanly approach and go for a kiss on the hand. Less likely to end in a furious assault and the quaintness of it will probably work in your favour.

I want to look good on new years, pick the hottest chick in the room, and just walk up and kiss her at midnight. Not a word spoken before or after. Just kiss and walk away. And her memory NOT be of that fat creep that did that. Instead, "OMG WHO was that? IDK but he was HOT!"

So, ladies....if this happened to you, what would your reaction be? I'm so gonna do this, but I kinda want to hear how it could be received.

I think you've been watching too many chick flicks.

I think odds are that it will end pretty badly for you. Wear a cup, just in case.

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Ever been maced?

Hahahaaha I think it's a funny idea although personally I think I would want someone to talk to me first!x

Before you do this.. ask yourself... if a random hot guy walked up to you and smacked one on your lips how would you feel? If your answer is "Screw that, I'd kick that dude's *kitten*!" chances are, no matter who the girl is, she's gonna feel the same way. :drinker: :drinker:

Also, before anyone says something along the lines of "But it would be a guy kissing a guy, that's different!" No.. really isn't different. It's still unasked for, unwanted and flat our rude.

^^ You. I like you.

I've actually done this before. Many many years ago. Wound up in a long term relationship with her. I just wondered what women of today might think. Plus, I'm attracted to a very specific type of woman. No offense to anyone, but the most negative responses came from women that wouldn't have been the one I choose anyway. It's not all looks. You can tell the ebb and flow of a woman by her body lamguage. Her demeanor. How she carries herself. It won't be some random "assault" like I rushed her and tackled her like a linebacker.
Thank you for your responses and your honesty.

Aha! - some passive aggressive dig at people who disagreed with you.:huh:

Well I disagreed as I said upthread but I am 50 years old so not upset that you wouldnt choose me :laugh: - I do wonder how you know all these things about posters from "the ebb and flow of their body language" and "their demenaour" and "how they carry themselves" - I mean, if you know these things about people on the internet to know they are not the specific type, you must be very perceptive.

Or very delusional.

You wondered what people think and asked them on the internet yet dont seem to want to hear the answer that 99% of responders are giving.:indifferent: