opions on this....
bahrainbel
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so you're friends with a man, who you have a bit of a thing for, when drunk he tells you "you're a nice girl, but too big for me"
you lose weight, suddenly he's interested........do you go for it, or tell him where to go?
you lose weight, suddenly he's interested........do you go for it, or tell him where to go?
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obviously, that should be opinions, i can actually spell :-/0
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I'd tell him he's too much of a jerk and an idiot. Be sure to do it in stiletto heels and a wicked outfit. To his face..perhaps while checking out another man that is superior to him in many ways.0
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I would tell him where to go!0
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tell him where to go!!!
thats bull!!!
size has nothing to do with personality! and thats what i look for!0 -
P.S. He's really hot isn't he? LOL0
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so you're friends with a man, who you have a bit of a thing for, when drunk he tells you "you're a nice girl, but too big for me"
you lose weight, suddenly he's interested........do you go for it, or tell him where to go?
And the horse he rode in on.0 -
I wouldn't be with a drunk and I wouldn't be with anyone so callous.0
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You can so do better than this! He's clearly only motivated by your body and nothing else....what a superficial SOB!0
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Tell him to take a hike!!! Some people are so rude!0
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On behalf of all men around the world who aren't giant *insert censored string of words here*, let me take this moment to apologize.
Dude needs to be told where to go, given a hand-drawn map to find his way, and a pretty pink tricycle to help him with his journey.0 -
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I guess everybody will say he is shallow....yet we are all the same way. Physical attractiveness has a lot to do with who we choose as a partner. ( yes girls, we care too)
Can't say I blame him. It's also a heath issue.
Maybe he will keep you on the right track now that you've lost weight?
I'm sure everyone else will tell you to dump him.....but I think he's entitled to his opinion.0 -
Agree with all above! Think if you married this guy and got pregnant! You would be worried ALL the time about him not being attracted to you because of the pregnancy and not losing the weight fast enough post baby!0
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On behalf of all men around the world who aren't giant *insert censored string of words here*, let me take this moment to apologize.
Dude needs to be told where to go, given a hand-drawn map to find his way, and a pretty pink tricycle to help him with his journey.
lol, good answer.
i'm going to cause world war 3, and play the card: in my experience, most men are like this :-)0 -
lol, good answer.
i'm going to cause world war 3, and play the card: in my experience, most men are like this :-)
You used the word "most' as opposed to "all," so we're okay, lol.0 -
You want a man who will be with you for you, for the long run, no matter what your body looks like. You need to know he is there out of love, not judgement, or you will NEVER feel secure in your relationship.0
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It's one thing to have a preference for fit or skinnier girls, but quite another to tell a girl that! I don't care if he was drunk! He could have just said "you aren't my type" or "I like just being friends". But, he actually doesn't have enough common courtesy or consideration for another human being to spare their feelings! Is this the type of man you want to be with? First and foremost, you should be with a nice person!0
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Tell him where to go! What a jerk!0
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i don't really want to marry him, i would never trust him, just abuse him a little :devil:
but you're all right, thanks :-)0 -
I would tell him where to go.
If he doesn't love you for who you are, rather than what you look like, he's a schmo.0
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