Lots2Lose & over 40 (CLOSED GROUP)

Are you sitting in the land of make-believe, waiting for a handsome prince to rescue you from your problems? Are you wanting to be freed from the castle tower, but don't know how to get out without a fairy godmother or a night in shining armor?

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Does this mean he is not coming ??:sad:

Positive self talk is a hard one, but the more you practice it the better you will feel about the whole process. We can re-program ourselves to find the positive in any situation. This brings us peace of mind and makes the journey a pleasant one. This does not mean their will be times we will struggle but if we look for the positives we will get past the bumps in the road without giving up. I am pleasantly suprised at how good I feel this month even though I have gained weight this month and have definitely been struggling. I am looking at all the positives and rejoicing in the many NSV's. That takes my mind away from the let down of scale moving in the right direction.

The more you practice postive self talk the easier it becomes. Keep up the good work everyone! We can do this! One day at a time, one pound at a time......:-)
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You got that right Ms. Mollie!!! It is so hard. It is amazing how good were are at encouraging others and taking care of them but not good at nurturing ourselves or caring for our own needs. I wonder if it is a woman thing - being the care-giver and not the care-taker?
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I think you have hit on something here regarding the care-giver and not the care-taker. I think we are programmed from very young to be caregivers despite what it may cost us.
i beleive we can change the inner voices that try and throw us off track. I really like what someone posted a page or two back about thinking what advice we would give someone else and try and take that advice ourselves.
Being overweight in a 'skinny' society, i think many of us have a poor self image or view ourselves as 'failures' for not looking after ourselves while we have been busy looking after everyone else. BUT....you ARE worth the effort you are putting in here on getting healthy and fit....give yourself a pat on the back for working hard and being successful in your journey

Sue*** I am on face book, (Joanna Baines) if anyone would like to add me. I do use it a lot as my parents and one of my brothers is in Malta and my other brother lives in Australia

Christy*** I don't "do" tap water either! I go one further and don't like my water chilled! I have taken to carrying a 1ltr bottle of water with me, I don't need to do weights anymore

Joanna, there are a LOT of Joanna Baines on FB, can you look me up? - Suzanne Selim (my profile pic is of my calico cat Bridget)

I also don't like cold water, room temp works for me

As for the pet peeve word, I don't like anything like "low-fat" or low-calorie" they are misnomers, when you check out the nutritional info, there is always something extra added in (like sodium or sugar)

TO GROUP, what is your pet peeve word or your 4 letter word that you do not like when it comes to getting healthy and it does not have to be 4 -letters since Shelly's was not actually 4 letter word?

My pet peeve is not a word....It's a skinny person telling me what I should be eating or how I should be exercising. It's like they think fat = stupid. grrrr

TO GROUP, what is your pet peeve word or your 4 letter word that you do not like when it comes to getting healthy and it does not have to be 4 -letters since Shelly's was not actually 4 letter word?

My pet peeve is not a word....It's a skinny person telling me what I should be eating or how I should be exercising. It's like they think fat = stupid. grrrr

Agreed! This happens to me at the gym. A new member will come in and think I am new at working out and give me all kinds of pointers. One guy really irriated me because he told me I should focus on all cardio if I wanted to lose weight faster. I smiled and said, "I'm sorry, I don't remember stating I was trying to lose weight at all. I am working out to be healthier and if I should shed a few pounds all the better." He had nothing else to say to that remark.

Hi all, hope you have had a good Tuesday!

MJ - Do you all eat more earlier or later? Any suggestion on how best to distribute my calories throughout the day?

thyroid meds an hour before food

Thanks for your best wishes. Re your calories issue: I think listen to your body is the answer. Lots of debate on this site as you know. I have 1200 calories target per day and when I work out I can see I am allowed these and eat the back if I feel I want to and don’t if I don’t. I have mixed feelings on this and will certainly stop ‘eating back’ if I feel I am stuck. I try to eat my main calories at lunch and in the early pm because this is when I am preparing to go to the gym at around 6 or 7pm and I don’t want to eat anything when I finish there around 9/9.30pm. If I do want something I tend to have a bowl of cereal at around 100-200 calories to finish the day. However I am in it for the long haul so don’t want to push my body so that I am exercising so much and not catching up energy wise.

Jo – thanks for the good wishes. Well done on your trip to ASK that is a great change you have made. Good luck with the weigh in, I await your news!

Charmaine – hope you had a good night with your friends

Mollie – thanks for your good wishes. It seems a good idea to consider looking at your calorie limit if you are not finding any results set at that. Love what you said to the gym guy who was trying to give you advice, lol!

Claudia – thanks for sharing the recipe

Sue – hope bed did the trick and you feel rested x Thanks for you thoughts.

Gabby – Hope the pedomitor works well for you!

Cathy – Agree with you, I use my exercise calories as a buffer, if I feel a little hungry I eat some or all back, if I don’t feel hungry I don’t fret it.

Malias – Fantastic job on the 4.2lbs!!!! Wow! Good luck with the water drinking!

Katzpawz – That pesky inner voice! Yes, it is awful itsn’t it, no matter how well we are doing something in us says you should be doing more or you will never do it. It is a fight and I wish you well with your new challenge. Sunday, that long walk, shows just what you can do. What a change from a little while ago.

Shelly – you have been doing such a phenomenal job on the exercise, I am always impressed by your reports of how much you have done. Your working with your personal trainer. You are a great motivator! I agree re not beating yourself up when we deviate from our eating plan BUT I have excluded foods from my eating plan because they are ‘bad’ for me, they hurt me, affect me in ways I don’t’ want to feel. There is a lot of research about low carb eating and providing a person doesn’t do it for 3 months (as I did) and loose 3 stone (as I did) but then get tired of it and start eating a variety again (as I did) then it will be okay. I put 4stone back on, grrrr! (a couple of years ago). I know low carb, strictly, isn’t for me. However I suspect that as I approach my target I will find it harder and harder to loose weight and I might then consider loosing or strictly restricting some of the high carb foods.

Themommie – Good luck with the gym challenge!

Are you sitting in the land of make-believe, waiting for a handsome prince to rescue you from your problems? Are you wanting to be freed from the castle tower, but don't know how to get out without a fairy godmother or a night in shining armor?

Does this mean he is not coming ??:sad:
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I am rolling on the floor laughing :laugh: Karen....we all need our "happy place" and this sounds like a wonderful one

I am really upset. I weighed myself today, and Im up 3 pounds!!! How can that be? I mean, I get that I went over a few days, and I only walked 3 days last week, but 3 pounds? I feel like I should of just treated myself to chocolate cake or something! Its not my weigh day, its tomorrow, but I was curious, because I wasnt 'feeling' like I had lost any. Im discouraged! Bad. Its so frustrating when I feel that Ive done everything right, but still cant lose!:flowerforyou:

You know what I thought about today also. I have not been taking my normal vitiamins that I take religiously for about 4 weeks. I wonder if this is a factor. Anyhoos, I am so tired and off to bed I go.

Sweet dreams everyone!

Hi, everyone,
I finally made it on here today. Well, actually it's after midnight. Don't know why I'm still up, but just not tired yet so I came on here to see how all of you did today. Just finished reading all of the poists. You all were talking about a few different things today. First off, I was told I used a bad word, "guilty". I agree but sometimes I just can't help feeling this way. It must be that nasty little voice you have all been talking about. That little devil needs to leave me (all of us) alone!
Mollie - I loved your story about the guy at the gym!
Karen - I kjnow what you mean, I hate when people who know you are trying to lose weight say things like, "shoold you be eating that?". That's why now I only tell a very chosen few when I'm trying to lose weight. I justy don't need the unwanted advice. I know they are just trying to help, but it's hard taking advice from someone who weighs 100lbs soaking wet! At least in this group we all iknow what it's like.l
Claudia - wow, what dedication, planning to exercise whi8le on vacation! Way to go girl!
Sue - it is true what you say about "fat free" or "lite", for everything they take out they put somethi8ng else in. I do confess though, I do buy some of these products.
Mollie - Did you find out about the spinache and other foods? I am curious because I am also hypothyroid and take El Troxin daily.
Also, what is the 30 day shred? I keep reading it on here. Is it an exercise tape?
Now for my Tuesday Test: I'm going to get back on track with making healthy food choices and I am going to start drinking more water this week. I'm also going to work on that pesky little voice! Remember n the cartoons they would show a little devil on the guys one shoulder and a little angel on the other shoulder, well from now on I'm only listening to the little angel!
Well, it's off to bed for me, so I'll talk to you all in ther morning.
Charmaine

Monday Check In

I had a diet soda last week because the restaurant had nothing but tap water - I don't drink tap water! It was the first diet soda I've had in 2 months. It tasted ok but nothing I couldn't live without. I immediately went back to my water. I still don't care for water but I know that it's healthy so I keep after it. I think it's kinda funny that I've turned into a "water snob" & won't drink tap water. It just tastes so nasty! :sick:

I've been calories cycling for the last week & am up 1.5 lbs. I don't think it's supposed to work like that & I don't like seeing the scale go up. I'm going to give it another week just to see if it will work out for me. If not, I'll not be climbing back on that bicycle! :laugh:

@Mollie - I do change my ticker up or down on my weigh-in day. If I don't change it, then I feel like I'm cheating. I feel that it is important for me to see exactly what's going on to keep me honest.

Christy

LOL. .......oh Christy, your post made me chuckle when I read the part about you being a water snob. Goodness! I thought I was the only one who is a water snob. Where I live, we have a community well that our water comes from. It provides well water to only 75 families. And it is really good tasting water. But if I go away from home, I either take my own water with me or I buy bottled water. But if you stop & think about all the contaminants in city water.....it's scarey. So I say it's ok to be a water snob.

Also .....sorry the calorie cycling isn't going well. I nnever have quite understood how that's supposed to work. Keep up the good work....you're doing great.
Cassie

My new scale arrived yesterday afternoon. That's the good news. The bad news is, as I feared, my old scale was not accurate. It seems that, even when I recorded the heavier weight reading, it was still a few kilograms/pounds light. So, I've updated my ticker to reflect the weight from the new scale this morning. Also, since I now live in the UK, and the new scale was bought here, I've changed my data to show in kilograms. I've resisted making this change, but it's part of living here!

I'm a bit disappointed that I had not lost as much as I thought I had. I'll just put on those smaller jeans from my closet that I can now wear and move forward.

Now that I have a more accurate scale, I hope to see it moving downward!!

Cheers,
katzpawz

I really hope you get some sunshine soon Cassie, I totally understand about it lifting your spirit. We have rain here today after days of sunshine and I'm already bleugghh about it!
Kelly, my old scales had me at 28lb lighter! Talk about being mislead, when I had my pre op then a month ago I was totally shocked!! My new ones weigh in kg or stones. I don't get kg still... I think a lot if people here still cling to lbs and stones.
Well good news and bad this morning, the scales said 18 stone 12, which is 264 pounds , which is the same as last week! I can only hope that losing 14 pounds so quick made my body say hey ...not so fast lady. I'm quite often quite a bit under my 1350 calorie allowance, maybe I shouldn't be. Who knows, I'll tweak and see what works for me.
Mollie I'm on my phone at mo but will do the necessary this evening for you to register the weight.
Off to see my knee surgeon later, more looks down has nose as he says in an almost exasperated way that my weight really isn't helping my knee. Uggh yeah , you don't think anyone with a smidgen of intelligence wouldn't know that! Doesn't help that he is my age and whippet thin!

Sue I can’t find you but can friend you once Joanna accepts or you can look me up under Shelly Brewster

I must really have myself locked down on FB! LOL. I sent a FB request to you Shelly!

Wednesday weigh in: I lost 1.2lbs this week so it looks like it has finally started moving in the right direction again:bigsmile:


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My goal this month is 10 lb but I wont worry if I don't reach it so long as my finish weight is less than my starting weight