What makes you feel sexy/attractive??

I'll be honest not too many things lol. I think when most ppl look at me they are intimidated by me because of my size and tattoos. Id say what does make me feel attractive are these three beautiful young women in my life.lol before ppl go on and think Im a manwhore two of them are my daughters and the third knows who she is(hopefully).I will be honest it is a incredible feeling when you hear people say your kids are beautiful and they look like you..lol

When people stop and actually stare at me now......but in a good way....or that I see peoples heads turn.....Now I just have to learn to believe it.....:blushing:

not a lot really

I'll be honest not too many things lol. I think when most ppl look at me they are intimidated by me because of my size and tattoos. Id say what does make me feel attractive are these three beautiful young women in my life.lol before ppl go on and think Im a manwhore two of them are my daughters and the third knows who she is(hopefully).I will be honest it is a incredible feeling when you hear people say your kids are beautiful and they look like you..lol

This def made my day and I really need to put some thought into this.I have no time to tackle this issue this morning,as for what I would like to reply but when someone steps up to the plate like this they need around of applause...way to go guy,Thanks I needed that and I shall return later to actually take time to reply more !!!

This is going to sound weird....but I feel the most attractive when I'm in my gym gear and working out!

When I'm getting ready for work, (naked or in bra and panties) my husband still checks me out all the time and makes me feel sexy. And our four year anniversary is this month!

personally, I think the word sexy is too often linked to sexual appeal for the purpose of having sex.

that said, I prefer to be seen as a whole package and not just a physical being. of course I know this is difficult for most of us to do because vision is one of our strongest senses and we are genetically wired toward physical attraction for the purpose of survival of species. still, knowing that I'm being checked out is not something I'm comfortable with.

and yet, when a man is being discreet in his checking me out, I have great respect for that. not sure why.

as for what makes me feel attractive? I'd have to say, with great Eros vanity, the image I see in the mirror when I'm liking and accepting it. when I'm not liking or accepting my reflection, I'm the last person I want to see lol!

This might sound a little wierd at first haha but bare with me I'm sure you'll undersand by the end...

Last Friday I needed a pound coin for the shopping trolley so I went to the kiosk in the supermarket to buy a lottery ticket to break a ten pound note. Whilst waiting in the queue, some silly little boys (about 16 by my guess) walked up to the other till on the kiosk and started s******ing and mock wolf whistling and giving me the evils as it were. Of course I saw and of course I heard, but it was more irritating than anything else. The kiosk staff looked a little embarrassed on my behalf, but I guess by this point in my life it doesn't really even register anymore, it's one more thing that blends in to the background.

Unfortunately for those little boys trying to play it so big and clever, someone did register what was going on., and they were very upset by it all They didn't realise that despite the fact that I, a morbidly obese woman, was stood all alone in the kiosk queue...I was not in fact there on my own at all.

My husband had gone to look at the news paper stand so he was out of the way of the queue that was building up around the kiosk at that time, and he saw everything as it happened. He didn't do anything rash and he didn't shout. He put the news paper he'd been perusing down and slowly made his way up to the kiosk till he was stood right behind the offending young fellows with a look like thunder on his face. He later related to me that at this point, while I was in the middle of my transaction, the man stood behind me caught their eye and pointed out my husband stood behind them. They turned around to see him and err...well they never got whatever it was they wanted to buy because they were too cowardly to wait around at that point.

I don't know why. All he did was stand behind them. He didn't even say anything ^_^;;

But yes...having a REAL man to stand up for me, even when I barely register what's going on, against the silly little boys who presume to try and embarrass me over my size in the middle of a busy supermarket...now if that doesn't make you feel sexy, I don't know what else will

My daughter is 7 and in her "painfully truthful" stage. She used to think I'm fat, but now she thinks I'm not fat and not skinny, and often will say that I look good before I leave the house. This child would not lie. Trust me.

And I like it when boys talk to me..

One thing that depresses the crap out of me is it seems like all these friends on FB want to brag about their SO's today... And I've been single over 2x years. I know I'm more physically attractive than some of them... it just sucks.

People have been posting this all day:
While you scream at your woman, there's a man wishing he could whisper in her ear. While you humiliate, offend, and insult her, there's a man flirting with her and reminding her how beautiful she is. While you hurt her, there's a man wishing he could take her pain away. While you make her cry, there's a man stealing smiles from her.........Post on your wall if you are against Domestic Violence & Mental abuse

I'm like... OH PLEASE~! Are you trying to make single women feel DOUBLE rejected? THANKS~

I was very confident of myself until I started gaining weight...up & down the scale felt I lost a lil' sexiness with every pound I gained ...& even when the husb' will tell me that I looked beautiful no matter what size ...I still felt self conscious about it...now that I decided that I want back that confidence ...& with every lil' victory whether is non -scale or scale related I feel like "I'm bringing sexy back" ... because I want to approach my 30's with my swagg back

The kind words of my MFP friends.

There are times when I am feeling good and I guess those are when I feel sexy/attractive.

Still working through a LOT of issues from my last relationship during which my self confidence and sense of sexiness/attractiveness took a major beating.