What makes you feel sexy/attractive??

People have been posting this all day:
While you scream at your woman, there's a man wishing he could whisper in her ear. While you humiliate, offend, and insult her, there's a man flirting with her and reminding her how beautiful she is. While you hurt her, there's a man wishing he could take her pain away. While you make her cry, there's a man stealing smiles from her.........Post on your wall if you are against Domestic Violence & Mental abuse

Those things irritate me, lol especially the ones ending with "99% of people won't repost, will you?" Ugh, 99% of people need to stuff it.

Oh, lol as for the sexy part, when I see a big plate of buffalo wings.... LOL No just kidding, seriously, um, when I'm really happy I think.

Just getting dressed up and going out.. I went out the other night with my guy friends and all of them were flirty, I thought that was kinda funny. :P Also after working out.

When my husband wraps his arms around my waist and tells me I am sexy! :happy:

I thought about this thread at work yesterday. A customer asked for my number. I said no obviously and probably would not have said yes had I been single, but it's nice to know someone wanted it lol.

Nothin makes me feel sexy at all ive got no confidence wat so ever but im hopin the more weight i lose that i might start to like myself a bit more!x

You are what you want to be and never believe you are not beautifull or sexy...never let anyone take that away from you !! I understand the thoughts and why,but the person inside you makes the outside..!!!!!

I could not POSSIBLY agree MORE with Gino's response!!!! And I will go one further than my pal, Gino, and say that no matter how MUCH weight you lose, if you can't/don't/won't love yourself as you are now then it will never be enough. You will never be thin enough, pretty enough, sexy enough, smart enough, together enough, regardless of the amount of weight you lose because you will never see it. You will only ever see what you allow yourself to see and right now, it sounds like what you allow yourself to see is not a special, unique, caring, beautiful person. See her. Get to know her. Feel her pain and her successes, her strengths and weaknesses...and LOVE HER! You will be amazed at how quickly you can let go of the weight after that!

Yes, it will still take hard work and dedication, but until you can love and accept who you are today, you can't move on to tomorrow.

*MASSIVE HUGS!!*

personally, I think the word sexy is too often linked to sexual appeal for the purpose of having sex.

that said, I prefer to be seen as a whole package and not just a physical being. of course I know this is difficult for most of us to do because vision is one of our strongest senses and we are genetically wired toward physical attraction for the purpose of survival of species. still, knowing that I'm being checked out is not something I'm comfortable with.

and yet, when a man is being discreet in his checking me out, I have great respect for that. not sure why.

as for what makes me feel attractive? I'd have to say, with great Eros vanity, the image I see in the mirror when I'm liking and accepting it. when I'm not liking or accepting my reflection, I'm the last person I want to see lol!

AMEN, Sistah!!

A really good workout where I KNOW I've kicked some butt.... or getting all dolled up in my LBD (Little Black Dress) and a pair of 4" heels. I'm 5'8 in bare feet so when I have those heels on.... WHEW!