2015 Adopt a Noob Official MFP Thread

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  • msdjkoolaide
    msdjkoolaide Posts: 12 Member
    I have contacted 5 people on the mentor list and I received NO response... Thanks a lot.. talk about rejection/lack of support!.... I need someone's help please.. not just a friend request.. I need a mentor!
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    msdjkoolaide wrote: »
    I have contacted 5 people on the mentor list and I received NO response... Thanks a lot.. talk about rejection/lack of support!.... I need someone's help please.. not just a friend request.. I need a mentor!

    Did you send PMs or just blank friend requests? :huh:
  • msdjkoolaide
    msdjkoolaide Posts: 12 Member
    I left a message with the friend request
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    msdjkoolaide wrote: »
    I left a message with the friend request

    Maybe they felt you wouldn't be a good fit, or they have enough noobs to mentor. Either way, don't take it personally.
  • msdjkoolaide
    msdjkoolaide Posts: 12 Member
    No worries! I have a mentor now! Thanks for the inquiry @randomtai‌
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    msdjkoolaide wrote: »
    No worries! I have a mentor now! Thanks for the inquiry @randomtai‌

    K.
  • kristyhartley
    kristyhartley Posts: 14 Member
    I would appreciate some help if someone has time. I don't even know how to add someone or if I'm responding to the thread the right way!?! LOL
    I am a MFP noob. :(
  • molissep
    molissep Posts: 452 Member
    edited January 2015
    I had the same issue with getting no response...I had sent a detailed message to a mentor. I would think it even if someone didn't think the match was good or if they were already at their quota that they would just let me know :neutral_face:

    I know you're supposed to review the list and send a message, but seeing that that hasn't worked out for me - I'm not a "noob" but would be interested in a mentor if anyone is still available. I lift, do HIIT and run. I follow IIFYM and count macros. Have lost 50 lbs and looking for a partner to lose the next 50 with. Thanks in advance.
  • kluvit
    kluvit Posts: 435 Member
    After a few half-hearted attempts trying low carb again and not getting the same results in my 40's that I had in my 30's, in late 2011, I started my MFP Journey when I decided to take control of what I was putting in my mouth. I was 5'7" and 155 pounds (the heaviest I'd ever been). After realizing that the older I get, the harder it is, I decided that, I never wanted to need to lose more than 5 pounds again. I knew that to make it "stick" for the long haul, I couldn't impose any crazy rules, so I stuck to the "all things in moderation" philosophy and treated my calorie allowance like a budget only spending them on things I really enjoyed. I lost on average one pound per week, and when I reached my goal of 128, my body didn't look the same as it did at that weight a decade before, so I decided to keep going. I have learned to balance exercise and portion control to maintain within +/-3 pounds of 122 for more than 2 years. Since then, I've invested thousands in a whole new wardrobe and am highly motivated to KEEP IT!

    And, while I've never "loved" to exercise, I will run for french fries! I like the way I look and feel when I work out, but I'm not always consistent, so I adjust my food intake accordingly. I can maintain my weight & my wardrobe whether I workout or not, so I'm always looking for new motivations to exercise. Signing up for races seems to work for a short while, but I know I can finish whether I'm in shape or not, so it's not fool-proof. So, in that regard, I'm no expert but am continuing to learn.

    I don't eat "clean;" for me it's about portion control and making choices that are "worth it" to me. My friends who look at my diary will see ice cream nightly and pizza, french fries, and fried chicken at least weekly, but I've traded enchiladas for grilled items such as fajitas or shrimp tacos (with a single tortilla). I don't typically "drink" my calories except for the daily 130 calorie frappuchino light I added back when I moved up to "maintenance" calories. If I know I've got a special meal planned within the week, I try to get in more workouts and save a few calories in the days leading up to it, so I can just enjoy and still be in budget for the week.

    I weigh almost daily, but I don't accept a weight until it sticks around for 3 days, and if it's > 122, I adjust slightly until I'm back there. At 125, I get serious and start logging daily, reassess my portion sizes (has my nightly 1/2 cup of ice cream grown to 3/4 cup or more?), and make it a point to get up with the work-out alarm rather than the secondary alarm.

    I love that I'm in the best shape of my life at this stage in life where I can really appreciate and enjoy it. I fought to get it, and I will continue to do what I need to do to keep it...which to me means I eat the foods I really want...just not EVERTHING or AS MUCH as. :) Will be glad to assist others with similar goals and philosophies.
  • Serah87
    Serah87 Posts: 5,481 Member
    Rachel wrote: »
    The list has been updated to this point. Thank you to everyone who has participated in this topic! :flowerforyou:

    I sent a PM to Olivia to take me off the list, she must have forgot. Can you please take me off?? Thank you. :)
  • JClark1980
    JClark1980 Posts: 30 Member
    Hi, I jus relocated to OKC from Louisiana, and would like to find a mfp mentor in my area, any help would be so appreciated
  • lishie_rebooted
    lishie_rebooted Posts: 2,973 Member
    molissep wrote: »
    I had the same issue with getting no response...I had sent a detailed message to a mentor. I would think it even if someone didn't think the match was good or if they were already at their quota that they would just let me know :neutral_face:

    I know you're supposed to review the list and send a message, but seeing that that hasn't worked out for me - I'm not a "noob" but would be interested in a mentor if anyone is still available. I lift, do HIIT and run. I follow IIFYM and count macros. Have lost 50 lbs and looking for a partner to lose the next 50 with. Thanks in advance.


    I've PMed her and we've connected.
  • jreyn04
    jreyn04 Posts: 6 Member
    Noob here. I tried this awhile ago but failed alone. I am a geeky, past martial artist, spinal injured, special ed teacher who need some support outside my lucky friends who can eat or not eat whatever and always look good.
  • MRivera422
    MRivera422 Posts: 62 Member
    edited January 2015
    I NEED a coach! I want to get back into shape and change my unhealthy lifestlyle. Totally new to dieting and can definitely use some tips. I have a goal of losing 67lbs. I am MOTIVATED and will not waste your time. All help is greatly appreciated! Thanks.
  • ash_me
    ash_me Posts: 2
    ewhsweets wrote: »
    I will gladly be a mentor for a couple of folks!

    I am looking for a mentor

  • 13vespa13
    13vespa13 Posts: 2
    PrizePopple wrote: »
    I can take one or two people.

    I'm still fairly new to this stuff myself, but in the last 4 months I've learned a lot. I don't do any real special diets, and mostly adhere to the "proper portions of the things I love" mentality. Exercise is hit or miss with me, but I am hoping that before long I will be able to being lifting (be it with a bar and weights at home, or caving and going to a gym).

    I started September 1st at 198 pounds and am down to 176 as of this morning. I have a GI disease (diverticulosis) which is rare for a 33 year old. I was also recently diagnosed with PCOS, and if what my endocrinologist said was accurate I am also at the start of Hashimoto's disease. So my choice to lose weight couldn't have come at a better time as it has enabled me to stay medication free for the time being.

    Those on very low calorie diets need not "apply". If sarcasm and colorful metaphors are not your thing, I'm not a good match for you. My dairy is open to friends, and I'd kind of like the same in return if I'm going to mentor you. :smile:

    Hi, Are you still able to take on a noob?
  • 13vespa13
    13vespa13 Posts: 2
    UmmSqueaky wrote: »
    I would be happy to mentor a few newbies, especially if you're fellow geeks (or even better, cosplayers). Bonus points if you're a short geek (cuz short people have lower calorie limits and our own special problems).

    I'm 33 years old and have spent my entire adult life trying and failing to lose weight and get healthy. I was on sparkpeople for years, would lose 10-15 lbs, and then gain back 20. I yo yo-ed my way from the 150s all the way up to 205 lbs. I finally hit rock bottom a year ago - after avoiding pictures of myself for years, I had taken up cosplay. And you can't avoid pictures of yourself if you dress up in costume. I logged onto MFP (which I had tried the previous year and fallen away), and have been logging every day since.

    In the last year, I've lost 85 lbs through good old fashion eat less, move more. In general, I eat healthier than I did before, but I don't eat "clean" (however you define that). I eat out at least once a week. I love McDonalds. I love cookies. I love fried chicken. I love chocolate. The big difference is now I know how much my body needs (which is sadly not much), so I'm all about the portion control. Also planning and not giving in to cravings. If I want McDonalds, I'm not going to get in the car and get it right now. I plan to have it on the weekend, when I know that I can fit it into my calorie limit. I am not big on giving anything up, be it gluten or carbs or soda or whatever.

    I also exercise. A lot. Well, not so much now that I can't bike commute, but I am a big proponent of working exercise into your daily life (walk on your lunch hour, bike to work if possible) as well as going to the gym regularly.

    And finally, I believe that good friends are essential to success on MFP. An active friends list, interacting with said friends, cheering them on, asking for advice, has been what keeps me coming back here every day for the last 392 days.

    Hi, I'm a short geek of sorts, but not the cosplay kind. If you're still able to mentor, I would love to work with you. I have Lost 20lbs doing the same eat less move more, but I struggle with the last 10lbs and the constant love call of sweets
  • dimasj
    dimasj Posts: 164 Member
    13vespa13 wrote: »
    PrizePopple wrote: »
    I can take one or two people.

    I'm still fairly new to this stuff myself, but in the last 4 months I've learned a lot. I don't do any real special diets, and mostly adhere to the "proper portions of the things I love" mentality. Exercise is hit or miss with me, but I am hoping that before long I will be able to being lifting (be it with a bar and weights at home, or caving and going to a gym).

    I started September 1st at 198 pounds and am down to 176 as of this morning. I have a GI disease (diverticulosis) which is rare for a 33 year old. I was also recently diagnosed with PCOS, and if what my endocrinologist said was accurate I am also at the start of Hashimoto's disease. So my choice to lose weight couldn't have come at a better time as it has enabled me to stay medication free for the time being.

    Those on very low calorie diets need not "apply". If sarcasm and colorful metaphors are not your thing, I'm not a good match for you. My dairy is open to friends, and I'd kind of like the same in return if I'm going to mentor you. :smile:

    Hi, Are you still able to take on a noob?

    I am also still looking for a mentor as I am also new and need some help staying on track!
  • Sleeper1962
    Sleeper1962 Posts: 8 Member
    gr8tfulm wrote: »
    How is all the newbies doing? We are here if anyone needs help!!! We all started here too.
    Marianne

    So far, I am doing fairly well and am still on my own. I have messaged two different people with the reasons why I would like for them to be my mentor, but did not hear back. I have a couple more names of folks who seem like a good match, so I will keep trying.
  • Withcyhoe
    Withcyhoe Posts: 6 Member
    cklbrown wrote: »
    I will be a mentor. I joined here March of 2011 weighing almost 200 pounds. I was ready to lose the weight and took over 80 pounds off in less then eight months. I struggle with keeping the weight off. I will be 48 very soon. Although I haven't checked in here everyday for the last almost four years, I have checked in daily for almost a year and intend on being here daily. I appreciate the importance of having supportive friends who will hold me accountable and therefore in turn try to be a good friend.

  • Withcyhoe
    Withcyhoe Posts: 6 Member
    My name is Peggy, I've been on MFP for 2 weeks. I've been going to the gym since mid October. I will be 49 Monday. I weighed 265 when I started in October and today am floating between 257 and 260. I've lost alot of inches, but thru weight training I'm gaining muscle. I'm assuming that's why the scale isn't going down much. I DONT CARE!!! I feel better than I have in years! I'm interested in finding new ways to eat and lift. I have this vision of me in two years being a body builder (yes, as in bikini) WHAT???? It's just a vision, I dont think I'll do it, but you never know! If you feel you can offer me some suggestions and guidance, please holla back :) By the way, Im in the USA.
  • shellcatori
    shellcatori Posts: 8 Member
    Hello looking for tips and advice and a mentor would be awesome please add me
  • shaunellejacob22
    shaunellejacob22 Posts: 6 Member
    Hi everybody .. I would like to be adopted..I am 18 years of age and have been struggling with my weight since I was six years old. I an currently 304 lb .. I jus want to change my life so I can love myself more and feel good about myself if anybody would like to be my mentor can message me :)
  • dinosnopro
    dinosnopro Posts: 2,177 Member
    In.....I could help a couple of people out. I would be a good fit for someone looking to start lifting. I would be willing to review videos for form check, and steer them in the right direction programing wise.

    I am 38 and have been lifting for about 5 years (give or take a few months). My wife and I started competitive powerlifting this year. We have our second meet coming in a few weeks.

    I can be sarcastic from time to time, so a sense of humor is required.
  • Ericka120
    Ericka120 Posts: 1 Member
    Greetings from chilly Ohio. I am looking for a mentor. I am very new to MFP. I am looking to lose 30 lbs and am struggling with keeping my calorie intake up. I feel as if I am constantly eating and I think over the past week I have only achieved my net calorie goal once.

    When I get on the elliptical, I tend to hit the zone and don't want to stop, thus burning more calories... I believe a mentor might be able to keep me on track and hopefully, avoid pitfalls others have faced.
  • ty_palmer09
    ty_palmer09 Posts: 22
    I have been here for a little while but looking to lose down to 195 from 305 and wouldn't mind a mentor at all. I am a teacher and a coach so decently active job that has some weird time constraints but I am trying. I have recently started lifting again and adding cardio. I played football at a small college in Texas until I basically destroyed my shoulder so I am trying to get back into shape. Thanks in advance.
  • munucchi
    munucchi Posts: 3
    I would really love some mentoring, I am a newbie and the encouragement would be awesome. I dnt know how to pm mentors so this is my only option. Thanks a lot!
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    Hi. I mostly part my hair on the left.

    If you want me to mentor you just squinch your eyes real tight while sitting criss-cross applesauce with a votive candle on...and tink happy thawts.

  • cees650
    cees650 Posts: 32 Member
    Hi,
    Don't let my Resting *kitten* Face Syndrome scare you lol. I'm looking for a mentor someone who is willing to stick with me for a long time. Starting from weight loss and going up all the way into lifting, not beefy, but nice and toned, something nice to look at everyday as a reward to remind myself of how far I've come, also to reach goals and know that I have accomplished them.
    I've recently started back to MFP I used it before I got pregnant, and honestly it worked for me.
    I would love to find my own mentor, I figured I could post a little note in which hopefully it can steer me into the correct fit. Anyway... Feel free to message me or add me as a friend.

    Thanks so much.
    RBF CC
  • MallowBrain
    MallowBrain Posts: 17 Member
    Hi I'm looking for a mentor who does or has done the 5:2 diet to help me stick to it and help me lose the weight I desperately need to lose
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