Would you date a woman who has kids and you do not?

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  • TaraHancock827
    TaraHancock827 Posts: 37 Member
    edited January 2015
    Id hope that if I were ever dating again that I would meet a man that would love and accept me and my 3 beautiful children. More to love is what I would think!! The way to a womans heart is to love her children.
  • RachelStidd
    RachelStidd Posts: 1,102
    edited January 2015
    I wouldn't date a woman with or without kids...
    But I would date a man with kidskids:)
  • LuvPosh
    LuvPosh Posts: 105 Member
    RenCara wrote: »
    During my divorce, my ex kept telling me, " You're 40 years old with three kids. No one will want you. You'll be alone for the rest of your life." That didn't stop me from not wanting to be married to him. (Can you guess why I wanted to leave?) Thankfully, I found a wonderful man who was open to dating me, even with my 3 teen-aged daughters and crazy ex. As a matter of fact, I was the one reluctant to date him because he was 6 years younger than me, with no children and I didn't want to go down that road again. However, we took a chance on each other. We fell in love and eloped 6 months later. My life has never been happier.

    Given my story... I would never say never because you could be shutting the wrong door!

    That's a nice happy ending.

    Guys these days want all the fun with no commitment. Try finding one that actually wants a relationship and all it entails.... they're few and far between, let alone worrying if he has kids or not. It's a part of life, just like ex's; if the person makes you happy and vice versa, what does it matter?


  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    i have dated a man that had a kid and i would also date a women that had a kid

    one kid not a gaggle of gremlins
  • RachelStidd
    RachelStidd Posts: 1,102
    LuvPosh wrote: »
    RenCara wrote: »
    During my divorce, my ex kept telling me, " You're 40 years old with three kids. No one will want you. You'll be alone for the rest of your life." That didn't stop me from not wanting to be married to him. (Can you guess why I wanted to leave?) Thankfully, I found a wonderful man who was open to dating me, even with my 3 teen-aged daughters and crazy ex. As a matter of fact, I was the one reluctant to date him because he was 6 years younger than me, with no children and I didn't want to go down that road again. However, we took a chance on each other. We fell in love and eloped 6 months later. My life has never been happier.

    Given my story... I would never say never because you could be shutting the wrong door!

    That's a nice happy ending.

    Guys these days want all the fun with no commitment. Try finding one that actually wants a relationship and all it entails.... they're few and far between, let alone worrying if he has kids or not. It's a part of life, just like ex's; if the person makes you happy and vice versa, what does it matter?


    Right on!! Nicely said!
  • LuvPosh
    LuvPosh Posts: 105 Member
    RachelStidd wrote: »

    Right on!! Nicely said!


    Thanks :)
  • aklose72
    aklose72 Posts: 499 Member
    Married one!
  • llUndecidedll
    llUndecidedll Posts: 724 Member
    edited February 2015
    Date, yes. Marry? Probably not. I don't want the unnecessary stress of dealing with kids who aren't mine, their parents, and parenting limits.
  • mamameaof2kiddos
    mamameaof2kiddos Posts: 6,611 Member
    edited February 2015
    If I am available :) with kids or not.. Yes of course I would!!
  • SangreViento
    SangreViento Posts: 289 Member
    Absolutely. Assuming these children would benefit from another parental figure.
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