Singles: Does Valentine's Day depress you?

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  • Melissa90xo
    Melissa90xo Posts: 1,020 Member
    Plans for this Valentine's Day: footy with my equally single best friend. Life is sweet :blush:
  • iwillsucceed0444
    iwillsucceed0444 Posts: 432 Member
    4homer wrote: »
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    Lol :(

  • iwillsucceed0444
    iwillsucceed0444 Posts: 432 Member
    Thanks everyone...your posts have made me feel better. Hopefully I'll have that special someone in the future... <3
  • TiliaIvanovska
    TiliaIvanovska Posts: 73 Member
    Valentine's what?? No no, I'm watching NBA All star weekend ;)
  • Arliah
    Arliah Posts: 266 Member
    Won't have anybody for V-Day this year either. I've been single since my ex left me in 2011, but for the life of me I can't figure out that whole dating thing *lol*.
    So I think I will spend V-Day with my puppy and give him lots of treats. He'll appreciate that :smiley:

    Maybe next year all of us singles will be luckier and have a special somebody that will send us an "I love you card" (which is really all I am missing on V-Day ... I love greeting cards).
  • _riddikulus_
    _riddikulus_ Posts: 59 Member
    nahh, vday is fine, it's just a holiday. I prefer february 15th when all the candy goes on sale. march 14th is even better.
  • kar328
    kar328 Posts: 4,159 Member
    edited February 2015

    As the perpetually single person, it's a hard "holiday" because you're bombarded with the whole couples thing. And unless it's leap year, it's a reminder that my birthday is exactly six weeks away. I love the Facebook posts that pop up proclaiming it Single Awareness Day. Some of the anti-Valentine cartoons/gifs/jpgs I find are great.

    I've gotten less depressed over the years, because that's the way it's going to be, but I try to be my own valentine and by myself a rose and definitely partake in some cheap, yet yummy chocolate. And even a chocolate rose. Also, Dunkin donuts makes a brownie batter donut for this time of year, shaped like a heart, with lovely brownie batter inside. It's the one day of the year I have one of their donuts. Worth every calorie and carb.

    So, I just try to remember that no matter what, I always have me :kissing_closed_eyes:

  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    nope ... im my own valentine..ill get myself lots of candy and junk food and watch movies

  • MyM0wM0w
    MyM0wM0w Posts: 2,008 Member
    I'm single but it's not so bad. I work with 5 guys who have become big brothers. I get a box of candy and flowers from them, plus they treat me to lunch on Valentine's day.

    Of course, that might be payment because I'm the one who reminds them of birthday's, anniversaries, and Valentine's day.
  • JeriAnne84
    JeriAnne84 Posts: 543 Member
    salembambi wrote: »
    nope ... im my own valentine..ill get myself lots of candy and junk food and watch movies

    I always watch horror movies on Valentine's Day. Freddy Kruger is the original Dream Weaver.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    JeriAnne84 wrote: »
    salembambi wrote: »
    nope ... im my own valentine..ill get myself lots of candy and junk food and watch movies

    I always watch horror movies on Valentine's Day. Freddy Kruger is the original Dream Weaver.

    haha yeah i never go for the romance movies...scifi,horror seems more appropriate
  • JeriAnne84
    JeriAnne84 Posts: 543 Member
    salembambi wrote: »
    JeriAnne84 wrote: »
    salembambi wrote: »
    nope ... im my own valentine..ill get myself lots of candy and junk food and watch movies

    I always watch horror movies on Valentine's Day. Freddy Kruger is the original Dream Weaver.

    haha yeah i never go for the romance movies...scifi,horror seems more appropriate

    Especially if you are single! I never understood why women watch sappy love stories when they are single or just been broken up with. That's like having someone eat a huge steak dinner in front of you when you haven't eaten in over a week and not giving you a bite.
  • funjen1972
    funjen1972 Posts: 949 Member
    I'm glad I'm single on Valentine's day for the following reasons:

    1. I don't have to spend money on stupid pink hearty stuff
    2. I dont have to pretend to like receiving stupid pink hearty stuff
    3. Any guy out alone is most likely single hehehe...unless he is at the store buying stupid pink hearty stuff
  • iwillsucceed0444
    iwillsucceed0444 Posts: 432 Member
    funjen1972 wrote: »
    I'm glad I'm single on Valentine's day for the following reasons:

    1. I don't have to spend money on stupid pink hearty stuff
    2. I dont have to pretend to like receiving stupid pink hearty stuff
    3. Any guy out alone is most likely single hehehe...unless he is at the store buying stupid pink hearty stuff

    True...it's a good day/night to go guy hunting LOL!
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    I loved it when i was single. Lots of girls 'loopin pa nub'.
  • SangreViento
    SangreViento Posts: 289 Member
    No, because you don't have to show love JUST to a significant other. I exchange flowers and whatnot with people I volunteer with. Just another good reminder to give love :)
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    _JustDG_ wrote: »
    I think it's more depressing for the married's. :p

    I clicked on this post just to write that I'm married and depressed about valentine's day lol

  • 530roman
    530roman Posts: 1,819 Member
    _JustDG_ wrote: »
    I think it's more depressing for the married's. :p

    I clicked on this post just to write that I'm married and depressed about valentine's day lol

    This can't be true.
  • LadyLots2Lose
    LadyLots2Lose Posts: 110 Member
    Absolutely not! I've never been that keen on celebrating Valentine's day (even when I was in a relationship) but, I've come around to celebrating the freedoms that single life affords me with some of my single mates.
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    530roman wrote: »
    _JustDG_ wrote: »
    I think it's more depressing for the married's. :p

    I clicked on this post just to write that I'm married and depressed about valentine's day lol

    This can't be true.

    Says the unmarried man right? ;)
  • 530roman
    530roman Posts: 1,819 Member
    530roman wrote: »
    _JustDG_ wrote: »
    I think it's more depressing for the married's. :p

    I clicked on this post just to write that I'm married and depressed about valentine's day lol

    This can't be true.

    Says the unmarried man right? ;)

    Says who?
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    530roman wrote: »
    530roman wrote: »
    _JustDG_ wrote: »
    I think it's more depressing for the married's. :p

    I clicked on this post just to write that I'm married and depressed about valentine's day lol

    This can't be true.

    Says the unmarried man right? ;)

    Says who?

    Says me!

  • vddamico84
    vddamico84 Posts: 15 Member
    I am usually more interested in the day after Valentine's Day. 50% off chocolate! Woo! Although this year I'll just stand over the candy and breath in the wonderful scents. I also use the actual day to hang out with friends and what not
  • 530roman
    530roman Posts: 1,819 Member
    530roman wrote: »
    530roman wrote: »
    _JustDG_ wrote: »
    I think it's more depressing for the married's. :p

    I clicked on this post just to write that I'm married and depressed about valentine's day lol

    This can't be true.

    Says the unmarried man right? ;)

    Says who?

    Says me!

    My Valentine's day may suck just as bad as yours.
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    530roman wrote: »
    530roman wrote: »
    530roman wrote: »
    _JustDG_ wrote: »
    I think it's more depressing for the married's. :p

    I clicked on this post just to write that I'm married and depressed about valentine's day lol

    This can't be true.

    Says the unmarried man right? ;)

    Says who?

    Says me!

    My Valentine's day may suck just as bad as yours.

    oh really? How so?
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    I think it will be a little depressing
  • 530roman
    530roman Posts: 1,819 Member
    530roman wrote: »
    530roman wrote: »
    530roman wrote: »
    _JustDG_ wrote: »
    I think it's more depressing for the married's. :p

    I clicked on this post just to write that I'm married and depressed about valentine's day lol

    This can't be true.

    Says the unmarried man right? ;)

    Says who?

    Says me!

    My Valentine's day may suck just as bad as yours.

    oh really? How so?

    Maybe I'll come clean some day. You're not going to get me to say it out loud though.
  • I had to attend my father's funeral on valentines day.
  • iwillsucceed0444
    iwillsucceed0444 Posts: 432 Member
    strozman wrote: »
    I think it will be a little depressing

    Not when you have me in your life...LOL! o:)
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    strozman wrote: »
    I think it will be a little depressing

    Not when you have me in your life...LOL! o:)

    HAHA
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