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Online Dating
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Love that!!!! Glad he kept trying even after you blew him off twice. Most guys wouldn't
Exactly I know I would not. Although the girl I am taking out tonight blew me off the first time last weekend. I almost said f it after that.0 -
WednesdayJanuary07th2015 wrote: »
Have any spare luck, that you'd like to share? Since you obviously don't need anymore because I do!
It not luck. It never is luck. Just be yourself and you will find someone who likes that.
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yopeeps025 wrote: »
Exactly I know I would not. Although the girl I am taking out tonight blew me off the first time last weekend. I almost said f it after that.
So why did you agree to another date?0 -
One online date. Married her. Sorry to ruin the fun.0
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So why did you agree to another date?
I like her is the short answer. I can say a lot more because we have been talking for a while now.0 -
Just started this. Want to read later when not at work.0
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Wow. I feel really lucky. I have a profile up on PoF. I get really good responses usually. And so far, every guy I have met has been a nice, polite man. But then again, my profile is fairly clear that I think online dating is an introduction not a date; and that I am classy. Only a few guys try to ask if going for a movie equals them getting lucky. Maybe its my area of the world.
Not all dates have resulted in immediate attraction, but every face-to-face interaction has been fun and positive. If the goal is to meet someone new and interesting, you will be successful every time. I do call guys on their profile *kitten*. I had one guy message me and when I read his profile it basically indicated that he thought women who didn't respond were judging him on his looks and that by failing to respond, I was shallow and a b*tch. He did reveal some personal stuff too soon and we didn't progress to meeting.
I do some screening before meeting someone, red flags especially for safety I pay close attention to. I need to think that I might actually enjoy time with the person to message back and forth. Otherwise I try to be open minded. No limits on looks, careers, height, etc. After all, not all men find me attractive or interesting and that is not personal.
I don't even have a profile pic with my profile and I still get contacted. One of my "dates" told me that that there is a stat out there that women with no pic are actually more likely to respond them profiles with pics. Who knows.
I've been told that my profile is brilliant and that I come across as being not being needy. So YAY me! 0 -
Does it count as online dating being that I met my now wife on Usenet (let's see how many of y'all know what this is)? We didn't 'date'; just in a Usenet group of people with similar interests. We didn't become an item until after we met in person at a group gathering.0
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Does it count as online dating being that I met my now wife on Usenet (let's see how many of y'all know what this is)? We didn't 'date'; just in a Usenet group of people with similar interests. We didn't become an item until after we met in person at a group gathering.
I have never heard of Usenet.0 -
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yopeeps025 wrote: »
I have never heard of Usenet.
I think it's what causes the machines to become aware and wage war on humanity0 -
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My worst date was set up to be great! We got along well online, chatting for a few weeks about normal life - even talked about what furniture I was buying for my house and still stupid people at our jobs. We decided to meet for a movie and then drinks after. He told me to pick the movie and time. I sent him my choice and he said he'd meet me there
I texted him when I was leaving my house (movie was less than 3 miles from my place) and didn't hear back from him. Just as I parked my car he told me he'd fallen asleep and his clothes were still in the washer. I asked him if the next showing would work and he said he'd be there for it. Luckily, I didn't purchase my ticket - just in case.
I went to the restaurant across from the theater and chose a patio seat so I could see him coming, got myself a sangria and waited. 5 minutes to showtime I still don't see him or hear from him. 10 minutes after showtime and I finally get a text that he just pulled into the parking lot and he'll see me soon. 25 minutes after showtime he finally arrives - looking like Forrest Gump after he ran across the country those few years! Unshaven (and unkept) facial hair, tattered ballcap, stained and too-big sweatshirt, and jeans that he'd probably owned for 15 years!
He asked me if I wanted to wait for the next showtime.
Uh, no thanks.0 -
My sentiments exactly. I replied earlier without realizing this guy is the current boyfriend. Who she agreed to go out with again. Oops. I'm going to stop skimming and start reading word for word.
Yup...I used to beleive in second chances. I thought maybe he was just super awkward but as it turns out, he was a lying, cheating, *kitten* and as of today I'm happy to say that he is no longer my problem to deal with.0 -
Online dating requires a huge amount of patience. I met my husband on Match.com, but I met several losers before him and a couple of nice guys that just weren't right for me.
Before online dating, I met a lot of men at bars. At least online, I could weed out the worst offenders before meeting them in person.
Some of the ones I remember:
- I'm 5'8" and had gained a few pounds from my norm at the time. I was a size 8 and had my body type set to "athletic" because I was. Guy had a photo and profile that said he was 40 (I was 32 or 33 at the time). When we met (first date was hiking), it was clear his profile picture was at least 10 years old and he was closer to 50-55, but he had the nerve to tell me I didn't look very athletic.
- Guy fell in love with me after one dinner and movie date. He texted within an hour after the first date and said he'd already talked to his family and they can't wait to meet me. No thank you.
- Dated a guy for 2 months, thought maybe he was a keeper. He was very low maintenance. We lived about 50 miles apart and only saw each other 1-2 days/week. One night, he told me he was disappointed I hadn't asked for details about why his marriages ended. He had only told me he'd been married once. Apparently, they had ended because he can't keep it in his pants. And, oh by the way, he'd been cheating on me the entire time we were dating. He texted me a few months later and said he'd made a huge mistake and wanted to marry me. No thanks.0 -
So I messaged a guy earlier today on match and just said hi and stuff like that. His response "Thanks for messaging me, but I can't date someone who is a Celtics fan. Hope you understand" I am a Celtics fan, and proud of it...but I'm not hating on him because he's a Lakers fan! So I responded "That's okay, but I can't date a guy who has no intelligence whatsoever. I hope you understand, and good luck on your search."
Too mean? 0 -
Responding with anger only validates his opinion. The best you can do is just delete and move on.
Online dating can be fun. I've met a few crazies. One told me she had picked out every detail of her wedding... on our first date.0 -
BigBadWolf__ wrote: »Online dating can be fun. I've met a few crazies. One told me she had picked out every detail of her wedding... on our first date.
That's the worst lol.0 -
BigBadWolf__ wrote: »Responding with anger only validates his opinion. The best you can do is just delete and move on.
Online dating can be fun. I've met a few crazies. One told me she had picked out every detail of her wedding... on our first date.
I had a guy tell me on the second date as he casually walked to his car that he was going to put a baby in me. Also relevant: my profile specifically said I do not want kids. I think he was under the mistaken impression that's a romantic thing to say; he would terribly wrong on that point.
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healthyinpink wrote: »
That's the worst lol.
No... them talking about their past rapes... that's way worse.
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I had a guy tell me on the second date as he casually walked to his car that he was going to put a baby in me. Also relevant: my profile specifically said I do not want kids. I think he was under the mistaken impression that's a romantic thing to say; he would terribly wrong on that point.
"got dem nice child bearin' hips right thur"0 -
^^ You look good. Just sayin! LOL0
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BigBadWolf__ wrote: »
"got dem nice child bearin' hips right thur"
I cannot deny that - it's a fact. But mother nature gave me an out by not installing one o' those biological clock thingies in me (or maybe it's just broken).
And, yeah, nothings gonna throw a flag quicker than rape or DV stories. I mean, in due time it's something you need to know about. But yikes.0 -
BigBadWolf__ wrote: »
No... them talking about their past rapes... that's way worse.
Yikes...I honestly wouldn't even know how to react. What did you end up saying?0 -
LOL! Would love to hear what happens!
Last night date did get interesting alright. It was actually one of my favorites.
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BigBadWolf__ wrote: »Responding with anger only validates his opinion. The best you can do is just delete and move on.
Online dating can be fun. I've met a few crazies. One told me she had picked out every detail of her wedding... on our first date.
Okay, I did it with a smiley face next to it...I was just being a total smartass.0 -
yopeeps025 wrote: »
Last night date did get interesting alright. It was actually one of my favorites.
Glad to hear it! 0 -
I've got one I'm chattin with, haven't met up with, we'll see how it goes lol. I've been friend zoned a couple times already hahah0
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Markdjones83 wrote: »I've got one I'm chattin with, haven't met up with, we'll see how it goes lol. I've been friend zoned a couple times already hahah
LOL! I know how that goes! Good luck! 0 -
Signed up to POF in March 2013, deleted my profile two weeks ago after zero dates and a string of women messaging me to say how ugly, out of shape and short (5'8") I am.
Confidence is now at zero, addicted to lifting due to BDD and I've become a panic-attack suffering gynophobe
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