i feel like im ugly

HannahMaeCabe
HannahMaeCabe Posts: 29
edited November 12 in Chit-Chat
I feel so ugly, like noone likes me :/
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  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
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  • If you're serious, this is not the board for that.

    You're beautiful.
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    Life gets so much better when you stop caring what other people think.

    Just do you. The right people will find you.
  • Lindsay_the_great
    Lindsay_the_great Posts: 209 Member
    edited February 2015
    We all have our bad days. Try to stay positive. Make a list of all the good things about you and all the good things in life and meditate on that for a while.
  • I know it seems that way. But all mylife ive been told i was a reject and fat and ugly. I was called a *kitten*, slut, cow, fatty, mistake, reject, DUFF, crackhead, *kitten*, etc... i start to think and ive never once been told that i was worth something. Not once, my own parents gave me away the day i was born. Since ghen ive been in 10 foster homes.
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
    I know it seems that way. But all mylife ive been told i was a reject and fat and ugly. I was called a *kitten*, slut, cow, fatty, mistake, reject, DUFF, crackhead, *kitten*, etc... i start to think and ive never once been told that i was worth something. Not once, my own parents gave me away the day i was born. Since ghen ive been in 10 foster homes.

    You're worth something

  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,992 Member
    When people aren't liked, it's not usually because of their appearance. It's usually because of their attitude and how they portray themselves. I have lots of "ugly" friends that have lots of friends.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

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  • wolfsbayne wrote: »
    I know it seems that way. But all mylife ive been told i was a reject and fat and ugly. I was called a *kitten*, slut, cow, fatty, mistake, reject, DUFF, crackhead, *kitten*, etc... i start to think and ive never once been told that i was worth something. Not once, my own parents gave me away the day i was born. Since ghen ive been in 10 foster homes.

    You're worth something
    Thank you, you are the first to say that! It makes me feel somewhat better....

  • If you're serious, this is not the board for that.

    You're beautiful.

    ummm, thanks i guess....

  • IllBeBack1Day
    IllBeBack1Day Posts: 982 Member
    Sinistrous wrote: »
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    You got some srs issues if you really believe that you are ugly unless this pic states the real thruth !
  • We all have our bad days. Try to stay positive. Make a list of all the good things about you and all the good things in life and meditate on that for a while.
    Thats all i can do is try..

  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    When people aren't liked, it's not usually because of their appearance. It's usually because of their attitude and how they portray themselves. I have lots of "ugly" friends that have lots of friends.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    9285851.png

    -nodnod-
  • armgyo wrote: »
    Sinistrous wrote: »
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    You got some srs issues if you really believe that you are ugly unless this pic states the real thruth !

    I know, i know. Think what you want
  • HillmanVTfan
    HillmanVTfan Posts: 567 Member
    wolfsbayne wrote: »
    I know it seems that way. But all mylife ive been told i was a reject and fat and ugly. I was called a *kitten*, slut, cow, fatty, mistake, reject, DUFF, crackhead, *kitten*, etc... i start to think and ive never once been told that i was worth something. Not once, my own parents gave me away the day i was born. Since ghen ive been in 10 foster homes.

    You're worth something
    Thank you, you are the first to say that! It makes me feel somewhat better....
    Wow! Seriously, not just saying this to be nice but looking at your profile pic. You are beautiful. And yes you are definitely worth something. Don't ever let anyone tell you you're not.
  • wolfsbayne wrote: »
    I know it seems that way. But all mylife ive been told i was a reject and fat and ugly. I was called a *kitten*, slut, cow, fatty, mistake, reject, DUFF, crackhead, *kitten*, etc... i start to think and ive never once been told that i was worth something. Not once, my own parents gave me away the day i was born. Since ghen ive been in 10 foster homes.

    You're worth something
    Thank you, you are the first to say that! It makes me feel somewhat better....
    Wow! Seriously, not just saying this to be nice but looking at your profile pic. You are beautiful. And yes you are definitely worth something. Don't ever let anyone tell you you're not.

    I understand what your trying to say. I want to thank you.
  • Athos282
    Athos282 Posts: 405 Member
    If you're serious, this is not the board for that.

    You're beautiful.

    ummm, thanks i guess....
    Tell-a-girl-shes-beautiful-a-million-times-she-will-never-believe-you.jpg

  • verymissk
    verymissk Posts: 262 Member
    Talk to a therapist. Someone who specializes in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
  • Athos282 wrote: »
    If you're serious, this is not the board for that.

    You're beautiful.

    ummm, thanks i guess....
    Tell-a-girl-shes-beautiful-a-million-times-she-will-never-believe-you.jpg

    Somewhat true. Its hard to forget something youve been told your whole life. Thanks though!

  • RicaFit
    RicaFit Posts: 38 Member
    armgyo wrote: »
    Sinistrous wrote: »
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    You got some srs issues if you really believe that you are ugly unless this pic states the real thruth !

    That is very true. We can get so messed up with body imagine (looks, size) that it can consume us. Imagine if you really were ugly. Many people have to accept they are just simply ugly. There is no reason, no matter what we look like, that we cannot have happiness, families, great times, fabulous memories and joy. We can be happy despite the sterotypical imagine. So basically, so what if you are ugly? So what if you are pretty? Young or old? Life is great regardless. It is not all about looks. Actually I find some of the ugliest people are happiest. They are not consumed by all the image. I am on here to be healthy. Not pretty. Not skinny. Just healthy. Then again.. I am getting old :)
  • I feel so ugly, like noone likes me :/

    Uhmm...I think you should stop worrying about your health and go see Dr. Phill.lol
  • RicaFit
    RicaFit Posts: 38 Member
    Sinistrous wrote: »
    ninerbuff wrote: »
    When people aren't liked, it's not usually because of their appearance. It's usually because of their attitude and how they portray themselves. I have lots of "ugly" friends that have lots of friends.

    A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
    IDEA Fitness member
    Kickboxing Certified Instructor
    Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition

    9285851.png

    -nodnod-

    EXCELLENT - SAID VERY WELL
  • Sinistrous
    Sinistrous Posts: 5,589 Member
    elsongo wrote: »
    I feel so ugly, like noone likes me :/

    Uhmm...I think you should stop worrying about your health and go see Dr. Phill.lol

    Yeah, why not tell her to start listening to Dr. Oz while you're at it o.o
  • RicaFit wrote: »
    armgyo wrote: »
    Sinistrous wrote: »
    fbcc7bb52278308e42c897729980bafb.png

    ^
    You got some srs issues if you really believe that you are ugly unless this pic states the real thruth !

    That is very true. We can get so messed up with body imagine (looks, size) that it can consume us. Imagine if you really were ugly. Many people have to accept they are just simply ugly. There is no reason, no matter what we look like, that we cannot have happiness, families, great times, fabulous memories and joy. We can be happy despite the sterotypical imagine. So basically, so what if you are ugly? So what if you are pretty? Young or old? Life is great regardless. It is not all about looks. Actually I find some of the ugliest people are happiest. They are not consumed by all the image. I am on here to be healthy. Not pretty. Not skinny. Just healthy. Then again.. I am getting old :)
    Lol, i like what ur saying. I also understand where ur coming from. Thank you for the advice, i will surely think about that.
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    What's a DUFF?
  • spade117 wrote: »
    What's a DUFF?
    Depressed ugly fat freak
  • From the pic I would say you are absolutely beautiful! But aside from that if you start veiwing and telling yourself you are amazing, beautiful, strong, succesful and just being positive every day I honestly think you would see a turn around in thinking!! You can do it we are all here for you!!
  • JackKopCh
    JackKopCh Posts: 8,042 Member
    If you are ugly then Jesus Christ I don't wanna know what I am..... O_o
  • From the pic I would say you are absolutely beautiful! But aside from that if you start veiwing and telling yourself you are amazing, beautiful, strong, succesful and just being positive every day I honestly think you would see a turn around in thinking!! You can do it we are all here for you!!
    aw, thank you!

  • JackKopCh wrote: »
    If you are ugly then Jesus Christ I don't wanna know what I am..... O_o
    lol

  • Oops_Myhaloslipped
    Oops_Myhaloslipped Posts: 3,892 Member
    spade117 wrote: »
    What's a DUFF?
    Designated ugly fat friend. Basically when people use unattractive people to hang out with so they look better.
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