What do you struggle with???

pipsqueak1990
pipsqueak1990 Posts: 791 Member
edited November 14 in Getting Started
I start the week motivated and committed.... weekend rolls round and BOOM Ive blown it all with fast food and chocolate and then I spend the rest of the week in the working off what I did bad :( What do you struggle with and how would you support others?
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  • Struggle would be binge eating... support for me would be sharing my journey both the successes and slips..
  • pipsqueak1990
    pipsqueak1990 Posts: 791 Member
    I tend to binge on chocolate... I think I just eat this then I will not touch it again and eat too much.... Do you allow treats or cut things out completely?
  • pipsqueak1990
    pipsqueak1990 Posts: 791 Member
    vla246 wrote: »
    Try not to look at it as blowing everything and having to undo damage. It's ok to splurge, we are human. :smile: You are doing a great job. (I checked your profile and it looks like you are at your goal). If you are committed during the week to health and fitness you will still be getting healthier despite your weekend indulgence.

    Personally my struggles are pretty complicated. I have ongoing mental health problems that impact on everything. As for supporting others, I listen, I try to advise the best I can but I'm not afraid to ask them what they need from me. If they need me to just listen and appreciate how tough things are for them I do that. I know how rubbish and triggering unsolicited/misplaced advice can be.

    You sound really positive. . I do have some understanding of mental health and how it can impact your goals add me if you want to chat.. not something to really discuss in public unless your happy too xx
  • mignon44
    mignon44 Posts: 2 Member
    Chocolate.... ugh, me too!
  • pipsqueak1990
    pipsqueak1990 Posts: 791 Member
    so what do u do to stop chocolate from ruining your goals?
  • Cookie108
    Cookie108 Posts: 10 Member
    Chocolate is my weakness I don't keep any at home. At work my co worker keeps a bowl filled. I just drink water and don't think about it. When it gets "bad" for me I'll get a 3 Musterkers bar. For me if I don't think about it too much, I'm good. Good luck to you.
  • pipsqueak1990
    pipsqueak1990 Posts: 791 Member
    Cookie108 wrote: »
    Chocolate is my weakness I don't keep any at home. At work my co worker keeps a bowl filled. I just drink water and don't think about it. When it gets "bad" for me I'll get a 3 Musterkers bar. For me if I don't think about it too much, I'm good. Good luck to you.

    I wish my will power was as strong as yours :)

  • yesimpson
    yesimpson Posts: 1,372 Member
    Cookie108 wrote: »
    Chocolate is my weakness I don't keep any at home. At work my co worker keeps a bowl filled. I just drink water and don't think about it. When it gets "bad" for me I'll get a 3 Musterkers bar. For me if I don't think about it too much, I'm good. Good luck to you.

    I wish my will power was as strong as yours :)

    Practice makes perfect. You can do it too. Not everybody manages to resist all of the times they want to, I'm sure, but willpower is like a muscle - it needs consistent exercise to strengthen, and sometimes it will get worn out.
  • hyIianprincess
    hyIianprincess Posts: 302 Member
    Binging and the guilt/actions that ensues afterwards.
    Being reminded that it's just a slip up and it happens to everyone makes me feel a little better :)
  • fishshark
    fishshark Posts: 1,886 Member
    Being a chef and wanting to just eat all day. Plus being a female in the kitchen all the guys on the line are always just making and brining me food haha. I can be eating healthy but then il get to work and go nuts.
  • aemw93
    aemw93 Posts: 134 Member
    I struggle with the idea of going to the gym. Once I'm there it's fine, it's just the thought of going that puts me off! :p
    As for the junk food, I have to cut it all out or one bite would lead to 4 empty packets lol.
  • welchbriauna
    welchbriauna Posts: 16 Member
    Omg ! Yes binge eating! But big food like burgers fries and nachos! Emotional eating!
  • wendykennedy219
    wendykennedy219 Posts: 6 Member
    Sweets... And a husband who likes to eat out. I hate having a salad while the rest of the family is having pizza. Feel ripped off ya know?
  • SillyCat1975
    SillyCat1975 Posts: 328 Member
    Chocolate. If it's sweet, then I want it. I crave sweets more than any other food. :'( I have to learn to control that.. It's so dang hard. I can only eat so much meat and potatoes!
  • Tatarataa
    Tatarataa Posts: 178 Member
    Binge eating! For me it is mainly the sweet stuff, including chocolate as well....I am still trying how to lose weight and maintain despite my binges...Cutting out certain foods completely did not help me, what helps more is including them....but sometimes it ends in binges..what sometimes helps is finding satisfying alternatives, like a lower cal chocolate ice cream bar or pudding snack!
  • Reema_capricorn
    Reema_capricorn Posts: 1,032 Member
    I love EVERYTHING. Pizza, ice cream, Chinese, indian, Italian. I give in to Chinese sometimes but usually I try to control :p Like that day I wanted an ice cream and I went out to get it but the shop was closed :( After some time the craving went away :smiley:
  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    so what do u do to stop chocolate from ruining your goals?

    you build it into your daily life

    I'm not a chocolate fiend but occasionally I want some - so I take 20g of a good quality dark chocolate, take a small piece of it and pop it on my tongue and let it melt so I get the full flavour - it can make a small piece last a good half hour

    I like crisps and crunchy things and ice cream so I always allow calories for them

    I don't binge because I don't restrict - I make it work across the week

    it's an 80/20 approach .. I mainly eat healthily making sure I hit my protein macro goal where possible and the rest of the time I'll have what I crave .. no mental torment
  • Sued0nim
    Sued0nim Posts: 17,456 Member
    2 pieces of pizza with a huge delicious salad on the side - around 350 calories .. no issue with that being a meal

  • crosbylee
    crosbylee Posts: 3,455 Member
    I struggle with getting movement in during the day. My job is pretty sedentary and I feel like I don't have time to get to the gym after work. I plan to make better use of my time after work. The daycare closes later in the evening and my gym is nearby, so I really don't have an excuse. Once I get home, I am pretty much useless after dinner. All I want to do is sit down and hang out with my husband and kid.
  • cdlee05
    cdlee05 Posts: 718 Member
    I can be awesome during the week but like you on the weekends it can be pretty rough. My biggest problem is on Friday nights when I'm exhausted and want to throw back a couple beers, then I get snacky! Sometimes I cave, sometimes I manage to fight it off.
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    so what do u do to stop chocolate from ruining your goals?

    I eat chocolate almost every day. Very dark chocolate that fits into my calorie goal. Sometimes a whole bar fits, sometimes only a couple squares. But that's just in addition to my nightly gelato as well.
  • alicaramik2
    alicaramik2 Posts: 71 Member
    Being disabled, my biggest struggle is finding exercises that I can do. What do you do when even walking is a no-go? I can do some isometrics and lift light weights for upper body, but I'd live to find something that can get my heart rate up.
  • sodakat
    sodakat Posts: 1,126 Member
    Being disabled, my biggest struggle is finding exercises that I can do. What do you do when even walking is a no-go? I can do some isometrics and lift light weights for upper body, but I'd live to find something that can get my heart rate up.

    Can you swim? Regardless, you will lose weight without exercising, especially if you are heavy to begin with (obese or overweight categories) as long as your calorie deficit is adequate. As you get closer to goal, or sometimes just because you've been eating at a deficit for so long, it can get harder to lose without upping your exercise/movement. This is what happened to me this winter for a few months. I'm not disabled but I'm not motivated to walk outside in below zero temps and found that the gym is not as appealing as I hoped.

    In order to lose at that point, the answer is to eat even less. Not fun. Hopefully by the time you get to that point you'll have found an activity that you can do with your limitations that burns a bit more than when you are completely inactive.

    But, if not, you'll still be able to lose, just at a much slower rate.

    And what I've decided is there is nothing wrong with losing slowly really. You learn a lot about yourself, your eating habits and what it takes to keep weight off; because when you lose just 1/2 pound a week your logging has to be super accurate, so much you are also maintaining, to a degree.

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  • FemaleWarriorxo
    FemaleWarriorxo Posts: 222 Member
    I start the week motivated and committed.... weekend rolls round and BOOM Ive blown it all with fast food and chocolate and then I spend the rest of the week in the working off what I did bad :( What do you struggle with and how would you support others?
    Eh, chocolate, fast food, soda, and back problems. If my back hurts I would use that as an excuse to not workout or just do yoga :# However, I ordered some Tommie Copper products to see if it will help :)
  • haleynorthrup
    haleynorthrup Posts: 6 Member
    I definitely struggle with the iced chai teas at starbucks! Those are so good! They are HORRIBLE for you i've learned and I've actually gained weight this semester at school from getting them everyday (Starbucks is included in our meal plan so I would swipe at starbucks everyday).

    It doesn't help that the starbucks is in the same building as one of my classes :s

    It's really hard for me to give them up but I think I'm just going to reward myself with them, or at least get a tall or grande (I HAVE been getting the Venti :sweat_smile:
  • LokiDokiArtichoki
    LokiDokiArtichoki Posts: 36 Member
    I struggle with portions and not binging. I don't want to go back to cutting foods completely out of my diet (hello, binge trigger), but sometimes it's hard to just eat a little bit of something (especially chocolate/sweets or chips). I'm getting better at it. What is helping is not getting mad at myself and discouraged when I slip up. It's all part of my process. I'd rather say "Opps, I overate. I wonder why I did that? Am I sad/feeling lonely/bored/PMSing/depriving myself/really hungry?" and identify why I messed up and then tell myself it's ok and congratulate myself on working out or some other little accomplishment I achieved that same day vs beating myself up and going into the "well I f*cked up AGAIN! Time to throw all my progress out the window and binge on every crumb of food in my apartment" mindset.
  • JayRuby84
    JayRuby84 Posts: 557 Member
    I struggle more with my intake on weekends like a lot of you. I also struggle more logging on weekends than during the week. It's like I hit a "fu.k it" switch as soon as Friday evening hits. At least I workout like a bad *kitten* and am still losing consistently though.
  • jddicarlo
    jddicarlo Posts: 171 Member
    Late night eating is probably my biggest. I do great all day, log my food and come in under calorie goals. Then, sometimes I sit to watch tv and boom..have to go grab the bag of chips or other snacks. Try water but that doesn't always cut it. Sometimes I give in and sometimes I make it through. That's probably my biggest challenge. If anyone wants to adds feel free. Maybe you can motivate me to beat those late night munchies and I can do the same for you!!!!!!
  • Alidecker
    Alidecker Posts: 1,262 Member
    Snacking is my problem...mostly when I am bored. My three main meals are generally healthy. Then I have a snack and I eat too much. I have tried the route of a piece of fruit or something along those lines, but then I find some sort of sweet or chips or crackers and eat too much of that. I happily to go to the gym or do some sort of exercise daily, but it is true that you can't out train a bad diet. It helps some, but not as much as I would like.
  • melorastar
    melorastar Posts: 31 Member
    I struggle with my brain! Gave up haribos for lent and now I can't stop craving them hahaha

    I struggled with just general laziness and just enjoying unhealthy food too much, instead of making dinner just grabbing the phone and ordering something delicious always seemed like the more appealing option. However, completely restricting myself from fast food places and takeaway made me crave it more and not being able to stop thinking about it. I learned that it's okay once in a while, just not constantly, it should be a treat. Now I hardly order takeaway on my own anymore, and I go to Mcdonalds with my friend for what we call "Maccy Monday" but still of course minding what I eat, calorie counting and cutting down portions, which is working great for me :)
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