Do you get hit on?
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never been hit on, never will be0
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I'm a guy, so no, unless I haven't noticed, so I doubt it....0
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No, but I am usually toting two teenage daughters with me so.... yeah. LOL0
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I get hit on quite a bit, to be honest, and I have since I was 14. I think it is more the energy you put out. For a while, it stopped when I was overweight (for the most part) but I think that was because I was emitting a different energy. I was self conscious and wanted to disappear in a crowd. Now that I am feeling confident again, the hitting on has restarted...if that makes sense.
Sometimes I don't mind it, but other times men can be extremely disrespectful and inappropriate. The other night for example, some dude asks for a hi-five on the street, I say no, and then he says "oh, well I was hoping it would lead to me having sex with you". WTF?? Why would anyone ever feel that is appropriate to say?
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Hardly ever...well, pretty much never.
Ive been told my friends that my height is intimidating...or that when they first met me, they just assumed I must already have a boyfriend. *Forever Alone* LoL yeah, I just go online nowadays. When I do get the nerve to ask a guy out, turns out hes married...I havnt been asked out in ughhh...years. And no, guys screaming "dat a** though!" after me doesnt count. Not at all.0 -
No, not really. Online I guess, but not so much in day to day.0
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fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »BlackScorpio91 wrote: »fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »Nope 5' 6"
Oh maybe they're insecure men? But then again if you're always smiling at people, people will just think you're being nice
Maybe, my guess is I'm a pony tail and jeans kind of girl. I don't wear makeup and take about 15 minutes to get ready. I think guys prefer their women dolled up.
Not all guys...my preference is the women who keep it simple.....of course, I didn't marry that way, but still I tell my wife to not worry about it....0 -
fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »BlackScorpio91 wrote: »fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »Nope 5' 6"
Oh maybe they're insecure men? But then again if you're always smiling at people, people will just think you're being nice
Maybe, my guess is I'm a pony tail and jeans kind of girl. I don't wear makeup and take about 15 minutes to get ready. I think guys prefer their women dolled up.
Not all guys...my preference is the women who keep it simple.....of course, I didn't marry that way, but still I tell my wife to not worry about it....
LoL you know what though? I have mused, while talking to friends that guys seem to always go for the xyz girl, whatever it may be that we're talking about. And while they insist that is not true, that girls who are down to earth and blah blah blah are awesome and amazing and they love that in women....they always instead end up marrying someone that is exactly like I described, and none of the stuff I am. Nice to date but not to marry I suppose?
I have yet to rub it in anyones face and be all "told ya so!" I could though!!!
Hate to say it, but I have moved to wearing more makeup, dressing less casually and being more trendy, and curb my quirky sense of humour quite a bit as the years go by. 99% of the time though, I just be me, which includes being single LoL and most definitely unmarried.
ETA but dont get me wrong, Id rather be single and happy than have to spend the rest of my life pretending Im something Im not just so someone wants to be with me.
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fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »BlackScorpio91 wrote: »fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »Nope 5' 6"
Oh maybe they're insecure men? But then again if you're always smiling at people, people will just think you're being nice
Maybe, my guess is I'm a pony tail and jeans kind of girl. I don't wear makeup and take about 15 minutes to get ready. I think guys prefer their women dolled up.
Not all guys...my preference is the women who keep it simple.....of course, I didn't marry that way, but still I tell my wife to not worry about it....
LoL you know what though? I have mused, while talking to friends that guys seem to always go for the xyz girl, whatever it may be that we're talking about. And while they insist that is not true, that girls who are down to earth and blah blah blah are awesome and amazing and they love that in women....they always instead end up marrying someone that is exactly like I described, and none of the stuff I am. Nice to date but not to marry I suppose?
I have yet to rub it in anyones face and be all "told ya so!" I could though!!!
Hate to say it, but I have moved to wearing more makeup, dressing less casually and being more trendy, and curb my quirky sense of humour quite a bit as the years go by. 99% of the time though, I just be me, which includes being single LoL and most definitely unmarried. ETA but dont get me wrong, Id rather be single and happy than have to spend the rest of my life pretending Im something Im not just so someone wants to be with me.
well my wife will keep it simple at times, but when she plans on going somewhere, she has to do some makeup and so forth, while I'm like "just throw something on and let's go!"
In the long run, it doesn't really matter, I just grew up in the country basically so my preference is for the simpler...guess going to school in the city kinda makes a difference though as the ladies I met were not really country but city and suburban...0 -
Fortunately the answer is no. I bruise easily.0
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In the long run, it doesn't really matter, I just grew up in the country basically so my preference is for the simpler...guess going to school in the city kinda makes a difference though as the ladies I met were not really country but city and suburban...[/quote]
I'm not a country girl. I was raised in the city but my dad is a contractor. I think each person just has their own style. I'm comfortable in a pair of heels at the Opera but I'm more comfy in a pair of jeans helping tile a friends house.
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fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »BlackScorpio91 wrote: »fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »Nope 5' 6"
Oh maybe they're insecure men? But then again if you're always smiling at people, people will just think you're being nice
Maybe, my guess is I'm a pony tail and jeans kind of girl. I don't wear makeup and take about 15 minutes to get ready. I think guys prefer their women dolled up.
Not all guys...my preference is the women who keep it simple.....of course, I didn't marry that way, but still I tell my wife to not worry about it....
LoL you know what though? I have mused, while talking to friends that guys seem to always go for the xyz girl, whatever it may be that we're talking about. And while they insist that is not true, that girls who are down to earth and blah blah blah are awesome and amazing and they love that in women....they always instead end up marrying someone that is exactly like I described, and none of the stuff I am. Nice to date but not to marry I suppose?
I have yet to rub it in anyones face and be all "told ya so!" I could though!!!
Hate to say it, but I have moved to wearing more makeup, dressing less casually and being more trendy, and curb my quirky sense of humour quite a bit as the years go by. 99% of the time though, I just be me, which includes being single LoL and most definitely unmarried. ETA but dont get me wrong, Id rather be single and happy than have to spend the rest of my life pretending Im something Im not just so someone wants to be with me.
well my wife will keep it simple at times, but when she plans on going somewhere, she has to do some makeup and so forth, while I'm like "just throw something on and let's go!"
In the long run, it doesn't really matter, I just grew up in the country basically so my preference is for the simpler...guess going to school in the city kinda makes a difference though as the ladies I met were not really country but city and suburban...
Well yeah, Im sure who you are around makes a difference... Was just musing over how often I come across it, that what guys say they prefer, and who they actually choose to marry, tend to be different. It just is what it is!0 -
I just posted I don't get hit on. I was pumping gas and got a huge shout out. I am counting it for me and not my husbands jeep. 0
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I work in an office with women that make me look like a hot pile of garbage, I don't get hit on much. On occasion I'll get hit on but 9/10 times it's some really weird creeper dude...0
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No
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Sadly I am too oblivious to things so if I do I don't notice.0
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fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »
Ditto. There are times when I get to bed then smack my forehead when I realize it lol0 -
Not in any serious way.0
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I get hit on when I'm drinking and happy and out with friends... If I have my Resting *kitten* Face on... not so much
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More often than I feel I should, not complaining but genuinely surprised when it happens.
Maybe most of you just don't notice you're hit on?
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fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »BlackScorpio91 wrote: »fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »Nope 5' 6"
Oh maybe they're insecure men? But then again if you're always smiling at people, people will just think you're being nice
Maybe, my guess is I'm a pony tail and jeans kind of girl. I don't wear makeup and take about 15 minutes to get ready. I think guys prefer their women dolled up.
i dont own make up or heels. my hair is almost always pulled up (and not nicely LOL) i live in jeans and normal tops and half the time am in workout clothes (leggings and tank tops LOL).
i also dont give a flying eff what anyone thinks. men must like that. too bad im married. LOLOLOL0 -
callsitlikeiseeit wrote: »fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »BlackScorpio91 wrote: »fitnessgoddess17 wrote: »Nope 5' 6"
Oh maybe they're insecure men? But then again if you're always smiling at people, people will just think you're being nice
Maybe, my guess is I'm a pony tail and jeans kind of girl. I don't wear makeup and take about 15 minutes to get ready. I think guys prefer their women dolled up.
i dont own make up or heels. my hair is almost always pulled up (and not nicely LOL) i live in jeans and normal tops and half the time am in workout clothes (leggings and tank tops LOL).
i also dont give a flying eff what anyone thinks. men must like that. too bad im married. LOLOLOL
LoL! Remember my snake picture? Thats me 99% of the time...well, except that I stole my daughters Captain America tshirt...usually I wear band tshirts. But if i want to remotely get noticed, I have to spend an hour getting ready.
Im not polished enough to fit in with the high maintenance crowd, but not grungey enough for the hippie crowd. I just kinda...float around and the chick thats cool to grab a beer with. Which actually is not bad at all I have to say. LoL0 -
Nope. I never have been.0
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In my younger days (am 38 now) 3 times from strangers that I can recall. Otherwise nope. I am married but don't wear my ring because it gets in the way with 2 young kiddos so I can't be bothered.0
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No, not really.....at least I don't think so lol0
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Nah, never really been hit on in the real world or cyber world0
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