Why are you here?
DedRepublic
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So many of us know what we want to do. But how many of us know WHY? Start with WHY, so why are you here?
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DedRepublic wrote: »So many of us know what we want to do. But how many of us know WHY? Start with WHY, so why are you here?
I would like to whittle away enough to be willing to take my clothes off in front of someone. So I can have sex at least one more time before I die. Or at least take my clothes off with the lights off and have sex under the covers at least once more before I die.
Sex and body confidence was a huge factor for me too. I was already healthy enough, really. Perhaps it was vain, but I feel so much better regardless. And not just when I look in the mirror.0 -
I would like to whittle away enough to be willing to take my clothes off in front of someone. So I can have sex at least one more time before I die. Or at least take my clothes off with the lights off and have sex under the covers at least once more before I die.
I'd be lying if I didn't initially do this for Aesthetics!! But the confidence that comes with it...the strength that comes with it...the attitude and sense of accomplishment that comes with it...the ability to pass on your knowledge that comes with it...not to mention the health benefits...makes it worth it.
I want everyone who is struggling with weight loss to know that where you want to be is just a matter of time and consistency following the right plan. Start with WHY...write this goal down...put it in front of a mirror...write it on your calendar...put it on a vision board...and STARE at it every day.
Hit me up if you are struggling with a plan. This whole weight loss/bodybuiding thing is just a math problem at the end of the day coupled with consistency.
Great and HONEST first posts!0 -
I'm doing it for my son. I know everyone says weight loss should be done for your own well being, but that hasn't been enough motivation for me for years. My son is 11 months old and has started mimicking my actions, and it's made me realize that my obesity, eating habits, and laziness are not only a problem of my own anymore. This spring I started a journey that will last for my lifetime, I'm ready to change and be the role model my son will need
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My trainer wanted me to keep track of what I ate and recommended this app.0
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Mine is purely athletic I guess and some vanity. I want to workout, hike and play regular golf for many more years to come.0
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kaitiedid3 wrote: »I'm doing it for my son. I know everyone says weight loss should be done for your own well being, but that hasn't been enough motivation for me for years. My son is 11 months old and has started mimicking my actions, and it's made me realize that my obesity, eating habits, and laziness are not only a problem of my own anymore. This spring I started a journey that will last for my lifetime, I'm ready to change and be the role model my son will need
I started my transformation when my son's were 1 and 3. And you are totally thinking about this the right way...this is lifestyle...lifelong journey...and your son will follow you.
From back in 2012...my son's were 1 and 3 respectively:
My youngest son is now 5:
My oldest son is now 7:
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I am losing the weight to be able to protect and take care of my family. I never wanted to be someone that needed someone to help me and if I dont get healthy I see that happening. I turn 40 in a year and my thin self is inside screaming to get out. This is it. This is for real this time. I am changing my life.0
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Initially it was to be healthy and a good role model to my two young sons. Now they say they get their sportiness from me!!! I have to admit though that now vanity has played a huge part. I love looking good and being 'checked out' despite my age...
Oh and after I lost all my weight 118lbs my hubbie left me for a 'larger' lady so I had to feel confident enough to get naked with another man after 22 years OMG that was a tough one!!0 -
I'm here for advice and tips sick of yo yo dieting, yes I lose weight but when I stop I.put it all back on, so now it's healthy eating and working out, feel free to add me 0
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Hmm. 20% because energy levels improve when I work out regularly and eat properly, 20% vanity, 20% because I like feeling strong, 20% to inspire my parents and partner, 20% because it builds my confidence and discipline.0
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Love those pics of you and your boys!
What brought me here this time was actually my Pilates class...after 3 years of going regularly, it was getting harder not easier. In the back of my mind was the voice saying "that's because you've gained 20 pounds in that time". So...that was the kick in the butt I needed to get the weight back off. Now I am 7 pounds away from my all time adult low and planning on blowing by that! I feel great, fit, sexy, healthy...all such great benefits from losing some weight!0 -
I'm looking for high-protein nutrition information. It's my 5th day of low carbs diet today.0
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I'm here because all of the women in my family are overweight nearing obesity and I don't want to be like that. I'm here to help myself get healthier.0
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Wow - everyone here is so young! I'll be 65 in August and have been at a desk for the last 40 years and it has taken its toll....that, and donuts. In the words of Homer Simpson, "mmmmm....donuts..". Anyway, I want to lose the weight and get fit/healthy so that if I ever get to retire, I can enjoy a relatively active one.0
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Why am I here? I'm here to finally put procrastination in its place where it belong... In the past. Time to for no more excuses. I watched a one armed MMA boxer fight his heart to earn where he is today. If he has one limb missing and kick butt, what excuses should be made after? None. Here to lose fat, get ripped and be a better person, mentally, physically, spiritually, and health wise than yesterday. What is your excuse? Why are you here?0
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I want to wear cute clothes again.0
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Lots of reasons.
1) I got diagnosed with insulin resistance and I really didn't want diabetes. I've lost enough now that I'm no longer insulin resistant (yay me).
2) I have a brain condition that makes life a little more challenging. I wasn't doing my body any favors by being obese. I needed to control the aspects of my health that I could.
3) I wanted to feel sexy again and look good naked.
4) I wanted to be more confident about my body in general.
5) It was part of the process of learning how to love myself again.
6) And I want to be strong and flexible and fit.0 -
I moved up north after 13yrs in Fl and gained 40 pds in a year.First time having a weight problem. Lost 10 already. No carbs,no sugar and no fat. Doing 500 calories a day. Too tired right now to go to gym. Need tips!
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Hi guys. I started a healthy diet because I want to lose some weight and to look good for summer. Also, I know how important is what to eat for your health... so this is why I m here. 0
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I used to be a fairly fit and active outdoors-woman. I grew up outside. Somewhere after moving from my parents home I stopped. Close to a decade later, I am over weight and unhappy. I turn 30 in August, my husband and I are planning a camping trip in the Rocky Mountains for my birthday. I have been uncomfortable because if my weight for far too long. I want to enjoy the outdoors again and live a healthy life style for myself and for any future children. That why I am here!DedRepublic wrote: »So many of us know what we want to do. But how many of us know WHY? Start with WHY, so why are you here?
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I am here because I have no energy and feel so fatigued after a workday that I feel I can't keep up with my 4.5 year old daughter! I want to show her a healthy lifestyle and also be the best Mom and me I can be!
This site is so supportive and motivating I just recently discovered the friends portion of this and what a difference to have positive feedback from like-minded individuals and be on the same page!
Add me if you're looking for positive energy and encouragement on your newsfeed and can provide the same:)
@DedRepublic what an amazing transformation! You are an inspiration, congrats on your accomplishments!0 -
I here so that I can finally get an amazing body like superheroes that I always admire, I am an upcoming illusionist and looks really matters on TV . 0
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DedRepublic wrote: »kaitiedid3 wrote: »I'm doing it for my son. I know everyone says weight loss should be done for your own well being, but that hasn't been enough motivation for me for years. My son is 11 months old and has started mimicking my actions, and it's made me realize that my obesity, eating habits, and laziness are not only a problem of my own anymore. This spring I started a journey that will last for my lifetime, I'm ready to change and be the role model my son will need
I started my transformation when my son's were 1 and 3. And you are totally thinking about this the right way...this is lifestyle...lifelong journey...and your son will follow you.
From back in 2012...my son's were 1 and 3 respectively:
My youngest son is now 5:
My oldest son is now 7:
That is awesome! I don't think there's any better motivator to improve yourself than to make your kids proud 0 -
I am here because I am tired of being depressed about my body and not doing anything about it. I am tired of feeling frumpy when I am out and about and want my self consciousness to stop rearing her head. I am here because irl there isn't the support and MFP could possibly give me that.0
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I'm here bec I know I'm a beautiful woman but I just wish my body matched up I have a high metabolism But since I had my daughter that went down hill now I see the wight packing on and it's making me very uncomfortable with sex bathing suits just cloths that use to fit and I'm barley making it in them now. I feel as tho its not fare to myself and my fiance I'm not the slim tia he fell for even tho he say it don't bother him it dose me for him lol0
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Tired of the constant roller coaster of losing weight and gaining weight. I want to lose the weight and keep it off. Nice slim fit. This site definitely helps with that because of great support and motivation from fellow MFP users!! Good luck to you all and stay motivatedDedRepublic wrote: »So many of us know what we want to do. But how many of us know WHY? Start with WHY, so why are you here?
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I was a long distance runner until my knee said no more running. I've gone from 125 pounds to just 'one day' of being 140 pounds and I've said no more!!! I'm an active person, can't run any longer so I can ride a bike, then can't ride a bike any longer so I can walk, now I can't walk anymore so I can lift weights. I just had my 5th knee surgery 9 days ago. 5 knee surgeries in 4 years and 5 months, all on the same right knee. Arthroscopy, Total Knee Replacement, Arthroscopy, Total knee Revision (take out original knee replacement then put in a new one), then another Arthroscopy 9 days ago. So I am flat on my back once again in recovery with no exercise but limited walking around my house. My Garmin Vivosmart tells me I am not moving enough but it does not know my current situation. So I synced it with MyFitness Pal on the 13th of April and I've been true to the food app everyday. Staying just at or under my 1200 calorie a day limit. I'll get there, back to my 125 again and eventually exercising again too. My mantra is "Never give up, always keep trying, never settle!"0
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DedRepublic wrote: »So many of us know what we want to do. But how many of us know WHY? Start with WHY, so why are you here?
Because I'm trying to improve my health and that starts with my diet. This keeps me honest, having to document everything I eat.0 -
I'm here so I can enjoy my 20's being healthy, to be able to buy clothes I have never been able to wear, shorts, a bakini, I'm on the cusp of high blood pressure because of my weight its now or never and all the cardiovascular problems will come after me, its time to change I'm not on a diet, I'm one stone down 7 to go on a new way of life.0
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I am here because of my two sons 6 and 4 are eatting really unhealthy...cookies muffins donuts..so on and I feel like since I got pregnant I been in this place that I still eat for two..I was at 198...two years ago started to do boxing classes but my eatting habits were still bad so I decided to try this app and I have seen progress more now then ever because I been eatting healthier...now I am at 165 and still pushing myself to lose more weight to be where I was before my first pregnancy 140 I will get there soon that is a promise to my kids...0
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