Thick&curvy OR thin&skinny WOMEN

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  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    edited April 2015
    _Tink_ wrote: »
    So let me get this right. No one can have a preference or you're just not allowed to indicate your preference? Which of those criteria qualify as body shaming?

    There's a difference between, "I prefer ____," and "No one wants ____."

    Exactly

    I like big butts and Men like big butts is different. BTW not all men like big butts. I think I know why some don't.

    Also funny thing though is my older brother, we have entirely different taste in women.
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  • spicy618
    spicy618 Posts: 2,114 Member
    The real question is, who am I potentially having sex with again?

    Lubricated Hangers. lol
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    The real question is, who am I potentially having sex with again?

    again? You don't know?

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  • JeopardyRight
    JeopardyRight Posts: 331 Member
    Theres a difference between that and thin.
  • gothchiq
    gothchiq Posts: 4,590 Member
    Hubby likes curves, thank heavens. Even when lean, I still look thick. I've got fairly heavy muscles on a not-tiny frame. Good ol' Italian fireplug, me. lol
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
  • JeopardyRight
    JeopardyRight Posts: 331 Member
    Mever said it wasnt.
  • gothchiq
    gothchiq Posts: 4,590 Member
    oh my goodness. :open_mouth: that person is barely clinging to life.
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    edited April 2015
    JenAndSome wrote: »

    Exactly.

    I find it funny to think that there was a guy not too long ago that made a thread about how he didn't want to have sex with "a whale" and he got totally jumped on, not for his preferences, but for the derogatory use of the word to describe overweight/obese people.

    So why would it be okay to call someone dealing with underweight issues a derogatory name?

    Hint: It isn't.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Sorry... Must've missed the posts that called out individual users body types.
    Thick. Because men like curves, not stick figures.

    Even if he is joking his usage of words makes it worst.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    PikaKnight wrote: »
    JenAndSome wrote: »

    Exactly.

    I find it funny to think that there was a guy not too long ago that made a thread about how he didn't want to have sex with "a whale" and he got totally jumped on, not for his preferences, but for the derogatory use of the word to describe overweight/obese people.

    So why would it be okay to call someone dealing with underweight issues a derogatory name?

    Hint: It isn't.

    I know exactly who you are talking about. He tried to FR me thinking we were cool or something. I like to not be associate with people of that nature.
  • capnrus789
    capnrus789 Posts: 2,736 Member
    I like women. Especially the ones that let me touch the girly parts.
  • JeopardyRight
    JeopardyRight Posts: 331 Member
    gothchiq wrote: »
    oh my goodness. :open_mouth: that person is barely clinging to life.

    And someone sees it!


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  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    Mever said it wasnt.

    By calling her a "bag of hangers" you are dehumanizing her. Frankly, I'm sure there are people out there who are attracted to her so for you to say that no one wants a "bag of hangers" and then use her image as an example is wrong on multiple levels.

  • dusjujr
    dusjujr Posts: 160 Member
    thick and curvy
  • tulips_and_tea
    tulips_and_tea Posts: 5,741 Member
    I'm so confused. I'm going to go back to playing the guitar.

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    That is hilarious!
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    Theres a difference between that and thin.

    And those are still people with feelings and opinions. They may think you are disgusting for allowing yourself to gain 80 pounds more than you should weigh. I don't see how it is acceptable to say horrible things about another person's body. Would you feel comfortable with people saying things like that about you?
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    JenAndSome wrote: »
    Mever said it wasnt.

    By calling her a "bag of hangers" you are dehumanizing her. Frankly, I'm sure there are people out there who are attracted to her so for you to say that no one wants a "bag of hangers" and then use her image as an example is wrong on multiple levels.

    Not to mention you are "talking" about someone with a mental issue/disorder.
  • dannatona
    dannatona Posts: 101 Member
    lol nothing like mfp threads to liven up a boring Friday!

    I think guys like girls with skills... and confidence. Someone who really loves themselves is always the most attractive.
  • elena1025
    elena1025 Posts: 682 Member
    I think before you should care how a man thinks of your body, you should be happy with it first. If your not change it for yourself no one else. Be happy, life's to short :)
  • magerum
    magerum Posts: 12,589 Member
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  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    JenAndSome wrote: »
    Mever said it wasnt.

    By calling her a "bag of hangers" you are dehumanizing her. Frankly, I'm sure there are people out there who are attracted to her so for you to say that no one wants a "bag of hangers" and then use her image as an example is wrong on multiple levels.

    Ok. Excuse me while i carve a statue of you into the side of a mountain with my bare hands to create an alter for myself and others to worship your morality.

    Keep ethic shaming people, It reflects well on your humor and personality.

    Keep body shaming, it says a lot about your character.
  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
    JenAndSome wrote: »
    Mever said it wasnt.

    By calling her a "bag of hangers" you are dehumanizing her. Frankly, I'm sure there are people out there who are attracted to her so for you to say that no one wants a "bag of hangers" and then use her image as an example is wrong on multiple levels.

    Ok. Excuse me while i carve a statue of you into the side of a mountain with my bare hands to create an alter for myself and others to worship your morality.

    Keep ethic shaming people, It reflects well on your humor and personality.

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  • bennettinfinity
    bennettinfinity Posts: 865 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    Sorry... Must've missed the posts that called out individual users body types.
    Thick. Because men like curves, not stick figures.

    Even if he is joking his usage of words makes it worst.

    Still, that's a pretty generic statement... that poster wasn't insulting anyone in particular. If anyone internalized it as an insult, it says more about that person than the poster.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    Sorry... Must've missed the posts that called out individual users body types.
    Thick. Because men like curves, not stick figures.

    Even if he is joking his usage of words makes it worst.

    Still, that's a pretty generic statement... that poster wasn't insulting anyone in particular. If anyone internalized it as an insult, it says more about that person than the poster.

    But still shaming a body type which is what you wanted to see.
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    JenAndSome wrote: »
    Mever said it wasnt.

    By calling her a "bag of hangers" you are dehumanizing her. Frankly, I'm sure there are people out there who are attracted to her so for you to say that no one wants a "bag of hangers" and then use her image as an example is wrong on multiple levels.

    Ok. Excuse me while i carve a statue of you into the side of a mountain with my bare hands to create an alter for myself and others to worship your morality.

    Keep ethic shaming people, It reflects well on your humor and personality.

    No thank you. I'm not really the statue type. What you can do is maybe learn from your mistakes instead of trying to deflect attention away from yourself and possibly even apologize at some point for being flat out wrong.

    Not to me by the way. I couldn't care less about your apology, but that woman in the picture is still a woman.

  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    Sorry... Must've missed the posts that called out individual users body types.
    Thick. Because men like curves, not stick figures.

    Even if he is joking his usage of words makes it worst.

    Still, that's a pretty generic statement... that poster wasn't insulting anyone in particular. If anyone internalized it as an insult, it says more about that person than the poster.

    Right. So you'd be okay if someone came on here and said no one wants to have sex with a fatty?
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