Take things to the next level

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  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    cwolfman13 wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    Ive given off all the signs that I like him

    Have you said 'i like you'? boys don't often notice 'signs'

    Guys aren't typically the best at reading these "signs"...direct approaches work best.

    Saying "I like you" sounds lame and high school-ish maybe I should just go in for the kill. Especially because if I let him know I like him, he could misinterpret that for "I want a relationship" which is the opposite of what I want

    So be direct with him. You are over complicating things. Tell him exactly what you want. A no commitment ride.

    Seriously, you can use more words for clairification. If you don't want to be misinterpreted, then be clear.

    But it sounds like you just want to do the pounce thing, so do that. Good luck.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    wolverine66 wrote: »
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    cwolfman13 wrote: »
    TavistockToad wrote: »
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    Ive given off all the signs that I like him

    Have you said 'i like you'? boys don't often notice 'signs'

    Guys aren't typically the best at reading these "signs"...direct approaches work best.

    Saying "I like you" sounds lame and high school-ish maybe I should just go in for the kill. Especially because if I let him know I like him, he could misinterpret that for "I want a relationship" which is the opposite of what I want

    So be direct with him. You are over complicating things. Tell him exactly what you want. A no commitment ride.

    Seriously, you can use more words for clairification. If you don't want to be misinterpreted, then be clear.

    But it sounds like you just want to do the pounce thing, so do that. Good luck.

    Usually its harder for men to seduce women. I wonder if I have any females friends that are like this too. For someone who said they are the aggressor they do not sound that and kind of sound timid themselves.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    The pouncing thing was a joke i'm not seriously going to do that. I will talk to him
  • kinkyslinky16
    kinkyslinky16 Posts: 1,469 Member
    Yeah.. talk to him and tell him you need a good dickin... tell him you are giving him first dibbs.. done!
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    The pouncing thing was a joke i'm not seriously going to do that. I will talk to him

    It would really suck if he sucked in bed.

  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    Ive been with the same guy for the past 5 years, who almost turned me lesbian....My buddy cant be that bad lol
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    edited May 2015
    Maybe you should try this:

    Hey, I just met you (again),
    And this is crazy,
    But here's my body,
    So fvckme, maybe!
  • aaronff63
    aaronff63 Posts: 54 Member
    This whole conversation just makes me laugh. Not at you soldiergrl_101 but at these replies. :) Common thing here is most guys are idiots and need Braille, mail, smoke signals etc. to get the point. (Myself included)
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    aaronff63 wrote: »
    This whole conversation just makes me laugh. Not at you soldiergrl_101 but at these replies. :) Common thing here is most guys are idiots and need Braille, mail, smoke signals etc. to get the point. (Myself included)

    I can get the hint if the woman just starts to strip then starts to strip me. That is a good enough sign.

  • Bruceapple
    Bruceapple Posts: 2,027 Member
    We may not know, but are willing to learn.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    aaronff63 wrote: »
    This whole conversation just makes me laugh. Not at you soldiergrl_101 but at these replies. :) Common thing here is most guys are idiots and need Braille, mail, smoke signals etc. to get the point. (Myself included)

    Girls are too, most of the guys I know are very direct in their wants and expectations and most girls still have no clue

  • Markdjones83
    Markdjones83 Posts: 852 Member
    soldiergrl_101 wrote: »
    If you are interested in taking things to the next level with a long time friends how do you do it without making the situation awkward...Do you pounce on them like a dog in heat and hope they accept the advance or maybe some alcohol LOL. How would you do it?

    This:
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  • Spnneil06
    Spnneil06 Posts: 18,745 Member
    I think it depends. I've had both. Some move faster than others.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    at this snails pace id never move forward they are too shy
  • Carpedieznutz
    Carpedieznutz Posts: 1,166 Member
    Don't involve alcohol, because men are already stuck trying to be mind readers and you don't want him getting mixed signals and wondering at the end of the night if the only reason you went for it was because you were drinking. The way I would gauge it is if you are comfortable enough with each other to discuss topics that would be considered 'dangerous grounds' with a stranger or can joke openly with each other than go straight for it, no subtle signs. If you aren't that comfortable but want to be then take a slower approach and try kissing him on the cheek or something to see what his reaction will be. In all honesty, no matter what your approach is, if is isn't into you, it will become awkward so go big or go home.
  • Bennysammysofie39
    Bennysammysofie39 Posts: 199 Member
    "I'm like a dog in heat, a freak without warning..."
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