DO YOU MISS YOUR EX? BECAUSE I DO

365andstillalive wrote: »

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I felt i got out of the friends zone a bit, things where picking up, then something happened. She tried to FZ me again, I was like, "no that's not going to happen, you put me in a cage when you say that."

365andstillalive wrote: »

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Some_Watery_Tart wrote: »

Pu_239 wrote: »

Which Ex?

There has been quiet a few, but only 3 girls stand out.

1. Amorkaflika
2. Jackanorititis
3. Beef steak

I met Amorkaflika online, I went down to see her a few times i live in cali she lives in AZ. Things where good, but there was this guy like in the shadows, she told me nothing was going on with him. Eventually we "broke up" but still talked and In my mind, us breaking up meant nothing, i still saw us together. She kind of stopped talking to me, so i blocked her online trying to force her to call me. But then i started to sense the break up, i gave someone another chance. Amorkaflika found out, she called me crying and begging to come back, I never felt it was right, to dump someone to get back to your ex, everyone deserves a fair chance> i just told this girl i can't. SHe was coming to cali where i live, but she didn't stop by she went down south(where the other guy lived). I found out she saw him. It suddenly hit me a few months back, foul play must have been going on there the entire time. But do I miss her? Not really, i do search for her sometimes through fb, but never can find her.

This beautiful scottish girl jackanortititis was down in america from scotland, met her, had the best relationship ever with her for 9 months. SHe had to go back, we tried to make it work but it just didn't. I started a computer repair company to get enough money to go see her, the day we got on cam, I was going to tell her I have the money to se her. Before I even got that out, she's like "I have a date with someone." That was the end of it. It was pretty bad for me. This was 9yrs ago. But we kept in touch off and on, we started talking agian, like everyday. i still talk to her after 9yrs, she is with a guy, has 2 kids. Yet we still care for eachother, but the situation for us just isn't right. People would always say, "you 2 will end up like the story in the note book." Never seen it, but who knows what the future brings.

Beefsteak, this girl from school(this is most recent). I liked her a lot, she was my bestfriend, but she just gave me the run around. "I am not ready for a relationsihp", I felt i got out of the friends zone a bit, things where picking up, then something happened. She tried to FZ me again, I was like, "no that's not going to happen, you put me in a cage when you say that." she's like, "no you're not in a cage, I am in a bubble" We decided to go on a valentines day date, but she cancelled 2 times. Just all these excuses, last month I met this guy, and she met him at the same time. He goes to our school. I found out that they "got it on" which is pretty messed up cause that guy was my friend and he knew how i felt, and her lies and excuses... Do miss her? To some degree, but at the moment, can't stand her.

I was obviously hurt, reviewed some psychology material, It frankly said, "if you're hurt, find out what you want/need and work towards it." Made me realize i want a good girl, decent looking. To maximize my options I have to better and maximize myself, this is where I am at in the moment of my life. I turned that negative crap she did, to probably the most productive things of my life. It was a hit of reality honestly.

SO in the end... no one knows what the future will bring, such as the situation with jackanorititis and myself. I won't see beefsteak for about a year, maybe I would have improved myself to a differently level that she might interested, but I don't know if i'd even give her that chance. Jackanortistis, I think we will end up together in the end, maybe not now, maybe not 5,10, 15 or 20yrs... but in the end... i thik we will be together

holy crap i wrote a lot.

Here is the TL;DR:

Funny thing is, i was just talking to her about this right now, told her what i said. Her reply was, "i think we might end up together" It's just to bad, that a lot of people have never experienced this type of connection with someone.

It worries me that a woman who's married, with two kids is having a conversation with you about how you might end up together.

That speaks volumes right there.

But based on your original post, you may be perfect for each other.

Btw, "Beefsteak" didn't sleep with you, because she didn't like you that way. The "friend zone" is this magical place you've made up in your head because you think that you're entitled to sleep with any female friend of yours based on the fact that you're 'a nice guy' and when they don't want to, your ego can't take it. I'm not saying her behaviour was on point either (though I think the bubble schpeal was her telling you to F off), but common bro.

interesting. She like homewreckers

Oh yeah, y'know, they're my favourite people.
I think the only person I like better is an arsonist, and that's a whole 'nother type of homewrecking.