ughhhh men!!!

Ditto... I'm always put in the "Friend Zone"..... but I don't mind... being nice and trust worthy works for me...

Besides... I think i prefer to be in the "Friend Zone" because every girl I have dated must have been breed from crazy town!!!!

Friends...YES PLEASE!

Hey, I resemble that remark! It's a BIG place!

I have to say the same about MFP ladies,so sweet and caring while looking you right in the eye and saying what they think and feel.

Can`t help but to luv all them on my friends list.

whoop whoop!! Carl added me... now I can be a part of the luv :happy:

I don't date and hardly ever dated cause "dates" always seem to end that way. But once you find one, you will appreciate him (and he you) more that you ever realized you would, and it will be WORTH all the crappy "dates" you had been on to date. (And IMHO, I think it helps if they have daughters!)

one of my favorite sayings is that the one ur meant to be with is out there right now looking for u. once u stop trying to find him, is when he will magically appear. too bad ur too far away... im not nuts at all. lol. ok, imma woman, so maybe just a LIL nuts, but not from nutsville or anything. lol.

I hear that all the time too! "...when you're not looking...."

You very well may not be... It could be just me, maybe I'm the one making them psycho LOL

ok, first of all you don't know that the MFP men are real. It's easy to hide behind your PC and say certain things but I see lots of married men flirting with singles and that is not real. It's fun, but it's not real........be careful and don't be fooled.

Again, a huge overstatement, but they're really not ripe until they're at least 30.....

haha, yessssss.

We're out there :P

Yea, men do suck;)

ok, first of all you don't know that the MFP men are real. It's easy to hide behind your PC and say certain things but I see lots of married men flirting with singles and that is not real. It's fun, but it's not real........be careful and don't be fooled.

Bingo!! 100% agree with what you've shared, as with any forum, you really don't know who's on the other end, you hope ppl are real but just because it's MFP sure doesn't mean everyone is a good guy. Take a peek at PUA site and you'll see MFP listed as a hot spot to pick up desperate women with low self esteem and eager to meet men. It's unfortunate it made it to that site but someone that visited here or is a current bogus member took that info back over to PUA or it wouldn't be listed. :indifferent:

I just dumped 2 long time friends offa my friend list because all they wanted to do was meet and cheat, both have kids and that's not for me, I'm not interested in helping someone cheat on their spouse & kids. I don't consider those quality men. You'd never know the one even came on that way unless he did the same thing to you. He's one of those. "Wow, He's the nicest guy I've ever met!" I hear it all the time and it makes ya wanna vomit as it does make the good guys here for the right reasons look bad and it's not fair to the women that are here to get fit. The other one, not as hard to figure out, but I meet friends on here as friends not potential mates.

That's great some hook up but I'm not here for that reason. So the married creepers lookin to cheat and pretend to be someone else to the women here.....well, not much good to say about them & trust me they ARE here.

Some women might be interested in the creepers but I don't think most of us are.

ok, first of all you don't know that the MFP men are real. It's easy to hide behind your PC and say certain things but I see lots of married men flirting with singles and that is not real. It's fun, but it's not real........be careful and don't be fooled.

That sounds like you are saying that in real life we're all creeps and are nothing like how we are on MFP.

A lot of us are the same on the internet as we are in real life.

A lot of the guys on here get stuck in the "friend" zone in RL, others are putting up a front, and still others think they have a pool of easy fish with low self esteem (someone pointed out to me recently that MFP was listed on some PUA forum as a place to get easy hook ups)... Personally I don't even get the friend zone in RL because they all cross the street clutching their handbags with a look of fright on their faces when they see me coming.

For the record, I wouldn't do that.

WT............ :huh:

Not unless you had a sword.

A shiney samuri sword would be cool though!!!

After 15 yrs of marriage and a bad divorce, I had my fair share of meeting the type of men you are describing. I also thought all the good ones were gone.

Weds I will celebrate my 4th wedding anniversary.

Oh, and I met him on Myspace! HA HA HA

Part of the problem is our expectations. We want to believe that every guy we meet who is nice to us over the course of a 5-minute conversation is really a nice guy with honest intentions. And some of them are. But a lot of them are playing a game. The hard part is being able to distinguish between the two before you get too hung up on one of the bad ones. I'm fortunate in that I'm pretty good at reading people, and I generally know right away whether or not a guy is someone I would consider dating. The biggest clue for me is usually what they try to talk to me about. A good guy is not going to immediately try to convince you of what a good guy he is; he's going to let the conversation flow naturally, try to get to know you, and let you draw your own conclusions about what kind of guy he is. A player goes straight into "look how nice and sweet and romantic I am" mode. That is always a red flag for me.

I like men who are forward enough to talk to me if they're interested, but that initial conversation should be a simple "What's your name, what do you do for a living, let's see if we have anything in common" kind of thing. When it turns into a sales pitch, that's what tells me he probably doesn't care at all who I am and just wants to see if he can get me in bed.