Do u like getting flirted with?

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  • 365andstillalive
    365andstillalive Posts: 663 Member
    airwicca wrote: »
    I want to run away when someone flirts with me.LOL.I feel really on the spot and Im a bit shy when I first meet people.I get flirted with a lot.May be Im just fun to tease? on the flip side, when I do talk to people Im really open and friendly and its misconstrued a lot as flirting when Im just being friendly.I like direct guys.Games arent my style.

    It's probably that open, friendliness that's getting you flirted with haha.

    If I'm out in public, at a bar with friends etc I'm never the one that gets flirted with because I'm more introverted in how I act.

    Put me at work where I run face-to-face fundraising teams and interact with all sorts of people in the most open, friendly put-on personality you can imagine... Well, lets just say there's a reason I own a fake engagement ring AND wedding band.

    engagement and wedding rings probably wouldn't stop a lot of guys.... not saying its right tho..

    I know, it's just been snowballing. I started with just the engagement ring, and then men started really creepily saying "Oh, so you're not off the market yet." The wedding band I'm having relatively more success with.

    I agree though, creeps will be creeps.
  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
    I've had a guy ask me to be his 3rd baby momma once? I had to decline rightfully so
  • musclegood_fatbad
    musclegood_fatbad Posts: 9,809 Member
    I've had a guy ask me to be his 3rd baby momma once? I had to decline rightfully so

    That guy must be flirting on a whole new level.

  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
    I've had a guy ask me to be his 3rd baby momma once? I had to decline rightfully so

    That guy must be flirting on a whole new level.

    He was in his late 30s as well...
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  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
    I've had a guy ask me to be his 3rd baby momma once? I had to decline rightfully so

    That guy must be flirting on a whole new level.

    He was in his late 30s as well...

    Is that a bad thing?

    I'm 28 I don't have a problem with guys in their late 30s just guys in their late 30s that ask me to be their 3rd baby momma lol
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  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
    I've had a guy ask me to be his 3rd baby momma once? I had to decline rightfully so

    That guy must be flirting on a whole new level.

    He was in his late 30s as well...

    Is that a bad thing?

    I'm 28 I don't have a problem with guys in their late 30s just guys in their late 30s that ask me to be their 3rd baby momma lol

    Nice recovery. :)
    I'm guessing you're in your late 30s? Lol
  • T1DCarnivoreRunner
    T1DCarnivoreRunner Posts: 11,502 Member
    airwicca wrote: »
    I want to run away when someone flirts with me.LOL.I feel really on the spot and Im a bit shy when I first meet people.I get flirted with a lot.May be Im just fun to tease? on the flip side, when I do talk to people Im really open and friendly and its misconstrued a lot as flirting when Im just being friendly.I like direct guys.Games arent my style.

    It's probably that open, friendliness that's getting you flirted with haha.

    If I'm out in public, at a bar with friends etc I'm never the one that gets flirted with because I'm more introverted in how I act.

    Put me at work where I run face-to-face fundraising teams and interact with all sorts of people in the most open, friendly put-on personality you can imagine... Well, lets just say there's a reason I own a fake engagement ring AND wedding band.

    I would love to be face-to-face with your friendly put-on personality. :open_mouth:

    Seriously, I don't think I would know the difference between an engagement ring or a wedding ring. I just figure if there is a ring on that finger, she is in a committed relationship. If that's been the case for long, she is probably disappointed and I might be able to use that to my benefit. :wink:
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  • Cindy4FunFit
    Cindy4FunFit Posts: 2,732 Member
    nomad5326 wrote: »
    Sure, I'd think we all do to a point. Most of us suck at it or think we do anyway.

    Ummm, hey.
  • buffer221
    buffer221 Posts: 4,751 Member
    Its all about confidence and the first few sentences shared
  • JSurita2
    JSurita2 Posts: 1,304 Member
    buffer221 wrote: »
    Its all about confidence and the first few sentences shared

    Agreed....and the next few sentences.
  • buffer221
    buffer221 Posts: 4,751 Member
    JSurita2 wrote: »
    buffer221 wrote: »
    Its all about confidence and the first few sentences shared

    Agreed....and the next few sentences.

    And the words used or held back :)
  • berndanddana
    berndanddana Posts: 114 Member
    I tend to stay lost in my own little world. Plus, I do have a super great husband so, there really is nothing that anyone else can offer in that department.
  • TheCounselorx
    TheCounselorx Posts: 1,182 Member
    and how drunk the recipient is?
  • berndanddana
    berndanddana Posts: 114 Member
    I've had a guy ask me to be his 3rd baby momma once? I had to decline rightfully so

    That's super creepy. I don't know if I'd laugh in his face or run off and hide.
  • Mythril
    Mythril Posts: 146 Member
    I seem to only get hit on by really old men. I really like the attention when someone younger flirts with me (even though it almost never happens) and I tend to believe that I'm being made fun of and not flirted with. But I will blush like a school girl when someone flirts with me, even though I'm happily married and not interested.
  • Cinders_L
    Cinders_L Posts: 96 Member
    Doesn't everyone like a little flirting?
  • berndanddana
    berndanddana Posts: 114 Member
    Cinders_L wrote: »
    Doesn't everyone like a little flirting?

    I guess you're right. Outwardly, it's like...not interested. But INSIDE...it's like, I still got it!!
  • TheCounselorx
    TheCounselorx Posts: 1,182 Member
    Cinders_L wrote: »
    Doesn't everyone like a little flirting?

    hey... how you doin???.... ;)
  • buffer221
    buffer221 Posts: 4,751 Member
    Its that feeling that you are something beyond your contained life
  • Cinders_L
    Cinders_L Posts: 96 Member
    Cinders_L wrote: »
    Doesn't everyone like a little flirting?

    hey... how you doin???.... ;) [/quote

    Lol
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    edited June 2015
    I think there's a whole bunch of people on here making out they are oblivious or don't know how to flirt.....well im calling you on it..

    Liar liar pants on fire...

    And to the maker of this thread cudos.....
    What a novel way to find out whose up for a flirt...very clever :p
  • ronitigre
    ronitigre Posts: 16 Member
    Honestly no because i always feel like there's no way a person would genuinely be interested in me physically so it must be a joke or something
  • shoppingmaniac86
    shoppingmaniac86 Posts: 2,067 Member
    ronitigre wrote: »
    Honestly no because i always feel like there's no way a person would genuinely be interested in me physically so it must be a joke or something

    That's a horrible thing to say about yourself. Self confidence is everything. If you believe you are sexy and beautiful people will believe it too. It all starts from the inside! Trust me I didn't love myself either and it was hard I've just come to embrace myself and shun all the naysayers and people will be drawn to your beauty!
  • berndanddana
    berndanddana Posts: 114 Member
    ronitigre wrote: »
    Honestly no because i always feel like there's no way a person would genuinely be interested in me physically so it must be a joke or something

    That's a horrible thing to say about yourself. Self confidence is everything. If you believe you are sexy and beautiful people will believe it too. It all starts from the inside! Trust me I didn't love myself either and it was hard I've just come to embrace myself and shun all the naysayers and people will be drawn to your beauty!

    Amen
  • rdouma73
    rdouma73 Posts: 2,064 Member
    Flirting is good :)
  • VickiLee45
    VickiLee45 Posts: 451 Member
    yes, flirting is good. makes you feel like someone thinks you are attractive.
  • rdouma73
    rdouma73 Posts: 2,064 Member
    So...Come here often? ;)