Do u like getting flirted with?
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Gotta love being flirted with, confidence boosting right there0
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Flirting is a crafted skill, not mastered by many. Done wrong it borders on creepdom. Women love sincerity, it's as sexy as hell!!!0
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Not many men can talk a woman in to bed lol0
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Im still fat so it doesnt happen to me much. Like the idea though
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Noogsofthenorth wrote: »Flirting is a crafted skill, not mastered by many. Done wrong it borders on creepdom. Women love sincerity, it's as sexy as hell!!!
This....totally.
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I'm not sure it has ever happened, so I don't know. I like the idea of being flirted with, though.
As far as the discussion in heterosexual situations about whether the man or the woman is the pursuer, and the success rate and such... there was a singles group on another site where the question was asked about how long it has been since we've had sex. I was not surprised that most of the men were, like me, listing times in years. Here's what didn't make sense: Most women, even those who were of equivalent attractiveness (based on their photos), were answering in weeks and occasionally in months. This has to mean that there are a small number of men who are having sex with a large number of women on a non-exclusive basis. What does it take to become one of those men?!0 -
I have NO idea if someone is flirting with me. I never know until I'm gone and people tell me they were flirting. Ooops...too late now.0
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midwesterner85 wrote: »I'm not sure it has ever happened, so I don't know. I like the idea of being flirted with, though.
As far as the discussion in heterosexual situations about whether the man or the woman is the pursuer, and the success rate and such... there was a singles group on another site where the question was asked about how long it has been since we've had sex. I was not surprised that most of the men were, like me, listing times in years. Here's what didn't make sense: Most women, even those who were of equivalent attractiveness (based on their photos), were answering in weeks and occasionally in months. This has to mean that there are a small number of men who are having sex with a large number of women on a non-exclusive basis. What does it take to become one of those men?!
Confidence (but not cockiness).0 -
I agree confidence but not cocky0
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yeah, I have no problem with that.0
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katnroyal87 wrote: »I agree confidence but not cocky
Totally agree with this. Confidence is very attractive. That said, you can be attractive as hell, but if you're an arrogant prick, then it totally negates your hotness.0 -
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I've been told that I get flirted with without even knowing it. I guess I am the opposite of the guy that thinks, "Oh, she's talking to me! She must like me!"0
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techgal128 wrote: »
Ditto! I have no clue unless it is shameless, over the top flirting with the cheesy lines0 -
Flirting is a yes.0
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Everyone loves a flirt0
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belleamore1234 wrote: »Everyone loves a flirt
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Depends on the person and the intension0
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365andstillalive wrote: »Yes! What I don't understand - why do men flirt and then not follow through with asking for a date. A gentleman, friend flirted hot & heavy for an extended period of time then didn't ask me out. We are both single, age compatible and have similar interests. When he didn't ask, I shifted gears and decided not to waste my time. He is still a good friend, but he will stay in the friend zone. My position, step up or step off.
Not to pick on you, but this is something that drives me a little nutty. Why the heck didn't YOU just ask him out if you were interested? He likely could have felt the same... Just sayin'.
Different generation. I believe in some old fashioned dating customs.... If a man wants a date, he calls in advance, plans the evening, opens doors etc. I value my time and energy. If he wants me to pay attention then he will make the effort.
Would you rather date a man or treats you like one of the guys (always available, no planning, doesn't open the car door) or a man who treats you like a lady? Respect and integrity are always appropriate.0 -
Used to0
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No, we just hang out on the forums so we can laugh at everyone else.
Rate the person above you?
Favorite feature of the person above you?
Would you ____________the person above you?
LOL, you get the picture!0 -
I have no idea of the flirting rules and cant be arsed to google them.
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slideaway1 wrote: »I have no idea of the flirting rules and cant be arsed to google them.
I'm sure you can figure them out0 -
TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »I have no idea of the flirting rules and cant be arsed to google them.
I'm sure you can figure them out
Are you flirting with me? 0 -
I don't know what this "flirting" thing means, and would like to try it out.... can someone (female) send me a PM to show me how its done please..... *snigger*0
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365andstillalive wrote: »Yes! What I don't understand - why do men flirt and then not follow through with asking for a date. A gentleman, friend flirted hot & heavy for an extended period of time then didn't ask me out. We are both single, age compatible and have similar interests. When he didn't ask, I shifted gears and decided not to waste my time. He is still a good friend, but he will stay in the friend zone. My position, step up or step off.
Not to pick on you, but this is something that drives me a little nutty. Why the heck didn't YOU just ask him out if you were interested? He likely could have felt the same... Just sayin'.
Different generation. I believe in some old fashioned dating customs.... If a man wants a date, he calls in advance, plans the evening, opens doors etc. I value my time and energy. If he wants me to pay attention then he will make the effort.
Would you rather date a man or treats you like one of the guys (always available, no planning, doesn't open the car door) or a man who treats you like a lady? Respect and integrity are always appropriate.
I think where we disagree is that I think you can have all those things out of a relationship: mutual respect, etc. I don't think that you expressing interest and physically saying the words "would you like to go on a date?" undermine the level of respect you'd receive.
Just because I made the first move, doesn't mean a man going to treat me "like one of the guys". It does mean that I value my own time and energy; if I've put in weeks flirting with someone (which I wouldn't do without a date anyway) I'd rather follow through than go "eh, time to move on. He's not following the schedule I've set in my head and haven't bothered to discuss with him".
We just have different dating philosophies. I hope that you can find a good, straight forward gent like you're looking for
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slideaway1 wrote: »TigerLilly98a wrote: »slideaway1 wrote: »I have no idea of the flirting rules and cant be arsed to google them.
I'm sure you can figure them out
Are you flirting with me?
Depends, would you like me to be? LOL0 -
Flirting is fun but can be mistaken too. When I was single I look back and realize several times I was flirted with and didn't know it since I was oblivious. Now I'm married so not allowed. 0
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Hell no! Flirting is disgusting and is the devil!! 0
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